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[Bob461965]

I'm 46 and just getting started with finding a women from Russia.  Any suggestions and am I too old to start this process?

Thanks in advance for any help.

[Mila]

Hi! Nice to see you To my mind, it is never too late to find your love, care and understanding and a person you want to share your life with. The most important is your motivation and desire to do that and your understanding of the whole process and consequences... As it is not an easy thing to do and it takes time and money and patience and persistence...

Most of my clients are of your age and even older and some have very good luck and some are not, some got married and have happy families, some are still looking, as it is very personal and depends on many reasons. If you have reasonable requirements regarding your future lady, then all should be fine

Good luck!!!

[Bob461965]

Thanks for the reply Mila.  So you can introduce me to some women you know or maybe you don't provide that service?

[Gator]

I'm 46 and just getting started with finding a women from Russia. 

Bob!   

Any suggestions and am I too old to start this process?

My suggestion is to read, read, read, starting with the 10 Commandments (look upper left).  You need to define the qualities, values and other aspects of the woman who would be ideal for you.  Then you need to decide how you would like to be introduced:  via agencies, dating sites, tours, or personal introductions.

Are you too old?  I may have a necktie older than you.  That question is only relative to the age of the women you seek.  And many men here have married very young RW (including me, and we divorced in just one year even though I dated her for 6 years before marriage).

You can tell us more about yourself and your ideal woman, and many people will offer suggestions, varying from the absurd to the sublime.

[Mila]

Yes, I can introduce you to some women I know personally, why not? I can also help you with all you may need, so if you have questions or you need my advice, you are always welcome. You can email me directly, if you wish. I would be glad to help.

[I/O]

am I too old to start this process?

No.

Any suggestions

Be realistic and take a trip which is not (all) about meeting women first up. The knowledge you'll accumulate will far outweigh anything offered on forums (not that I'm discounting what's available here BTW).

[Bob461965]

I've been doing a lot of lurking/reading the last few months so I've heard the good and the bad.

As far as more about myself I have a stable job with good pay and benefits.  I know this processs isn't cheap so I'm ready for the trip bills to start coming.  I don't fall in love with a voice or photo so I know it's a long process and so are the visa waits.

I can only say I will know the girl when I meet her.  Basically someone who is compatible, same likes/dislikes, similar goals, and just the same things everyone else is looking for in a spouse.

[SFandEE]

I would suggest that by starting this process it will also likely open you up to quality women that are already in your world (know to you or not).

I think it is great to sincerely try to be attractive to someone else.  The men who do not seem to endure this well pursue this more as an acquisition.

Good luck.  Have you tried meeting FSUW women local to your community on freepersonals.ru or mamba.ru?

[tfcrew]

I can only say I will know the girl when I meet her.  

Dittos that and the other posters' comments.
 
Karl

[GoodOlBoy]

I've been doing a lot of lurking/reading the last few months so I've heard the good and the bad.

Have you checked out the RWD 10 Commandments?

If not, you might want to:

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?pid=2

As Rod Blagojevich would say: "Their f*cking gold!" :evil:


GOB


PS...Welcome to the forum Bob .

[Sia]

Hi! let me give a little advice. To start ponder for yourself why you would want to be with the Russian or Ukraine Lady.Why you chose a woman from this country with different mentally.Wich qualities she need to have have?Are you ready for that- between you will be the difference in mentality and way of thinking? Are you ready for a personal meeting? Are you ready to paper dealing with visas for the future Lady? What image do you have in your head? All our thoughts are real))) would have the desire and belief. if all of my questions you have answers, you are welcome in the magical world of choices and possibilities! Let there be given unto you according to your faith! And your age is fine! No need to from complexes! if there I wish to introduce his girlfriend, it is similar to the age of the typical sweet and beautiful Russian woman.
Good luck!

[Gator]

I can only say I will know the girl when I meet her.

Sounds rather impulsive.  I don't know if this works given some barriers expected with a different culture, language and perhaps age.

IMO love takes time for which there is no substitute.

I do trust my first impression if it says "she is not for me."  OTOH, if my first impression were "super positive," I would proceed, but with some caution.

[Jack]

I can only say I will know the girl when I meet her. 

Sounds rather impulsive.  I don't know if this works given some barriers expected with a different culture, language and perhaps age.

Bob,  Gator is trying to tell you in a mild, sweet mannered way something I probably am not.

ONLY men who have some experience can say "When they meet her, they will know" unless it is one of those men who just plain get lucky.  And sometimes luck does happen, just I don't want to base my success, or that of clients, on luck.

It is one of the hardest things trying to get across and for new guys to fully understand, but men who have met Russian ladies, who have experience with Russian ladies, their comes a point in time when they can say when they met her, they will know it is her.   For ANY man who has never met a Russian/Ukraine woman to say when he met's her he will know it is her is something I would disagree with. 

[Bob461965]

I think you have misunderstood me.  Go back and read what I wrote which is, "I don't fall in love with a voice or photo so I know it's a long process and so are the visa waits".  To me this means once I get to meet her and know her, then I will know I have met the right one.  I hope that clears up everything.

[BC]

I think what Gator and Jack are saying is that 'the one' is pot luck.

IMHO it's more about how far you want to stretch your values and ideals.

Get your pencil and make a list of 'her' requirements, then post it here for comment, or at the very least stick by it without compromise.

All puppies are lovable.

[Dave13]

Welcome Bob, No your not too old, when I started this journey I was 45, it's all about what you want! I've been married to my beautiful wife (Anna) now for almost seven years and were both very happy. Just read and ask some question, your going to get lots of advice that's going be all over the place,   but in the end its all up to you!

Best of Luck

Dave