Why NOT marry an Eastern European woman?

[corcimarnadejda]

Why NOT marry an Eastern European woman?
If you are nursing the idea of getting married to a woman from any of the Russian states, get ready for a strange and new eye opening experience. From the very beginning it is destined not to be an easy ride. Starting from the differences in mentality, the language barrier, the usual age gap between the two of you, and finishing with the intimidating immigration process in the former soviet countries, this project of yours may become one of your worst nightmares. Building a strong and happy relationship with a “Russian girl” seems to be the greatest affair of your personal life, yet this commonly encountered illusion among Western men, when applied in real life, proves to remain what it really is: just an illusion.

To find out all the truth about Russian brides visit www.corcimarnadejda.com

[Simoni]

This is offensive.  Please remove.


Simoni

[Muzh]

Not so fast.
 
Let's hear what she has to say.

[SMS60]

Offensive? Get real Chip

I see lots of truths in what was posted.

[tfcrew]

If you are nursing the idea of getting married 

'Nursing'?
Never heard that one before.

  'the differences in mentality'

Isn't that everywhere really?
The links on that site are not working it seems.

[Faux Pas]

Simoni


What is it you find offensive, the artwork from the link or the post? corcimarnadejda seems to voicing an opinion. I'll wait for further response from them before acting. It kind of looks like a bot but apparently has registered as a commercial member.

[Muzh]

No way to get into the site. She is from Moldova.

[SANDRO43]

'Nursing'? Never heard that one before.

As in nursing a drink, i.e. considering an idea slowly and carefully.

The links on that site are not working it seems.

It's a 1-page site, so far .

[Maxx2]

She's cute.

[SFandEE]

Why NOT marry an Eastern European woman?

To find out all the truth about Russian brides visit www.corcimarnadejda.com

I think you are able to contribute more on this subject than a dead link.  (The site is not set up for commerce yet, so this is just marketing with no production).  I understand you have commercial interests, but do you have more to contribute than your interest in making money off of this subject?


Please do expand your contribution to our community.  Your insights are welcome.  I am interested in the subject today.  Seems like you have a lot to say on this subject, at least a book's worth.  How universal do you think "NOT marrying an EE woman should be?"  There are millions of EE women in the West are they not desirable mates as well.  Is it genetics?  Is it socialization?  Is it politics?  Seriously expand your contribution.  Don't let this end with a dead link please!!!!

[tfcrew]

Why NOT marry an Eastern European woman?

Doesn't the implication of the title indicate  a positive suggestion.
as in...sure, why not?

This is  re-enforced  by the indication [a commercial poster] that European ladies    must be deemed a desirable quest.
However......................................
 A 'commonly encountered illusion among western men' sounds like another fancy pants way of saying loser.
Not a very compelling invitation to their city.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mnbc40aXzLA[/youtube]

[Faux Pas]

An FSUW, her FSUW friend, and I were enjoying a nice dinner together in SF.  They began teasing about WM wanting an FSUW they said something like " there is something wrong with FSUW, we tear men up, it is how we are made".  Made an impression on me.

Sounds like more of a case of you hanging out with some bad women 

[Gator]

This is offensive.  Please remove.


Simoni

It would be offensive coming from a man.  Coming from a woman, it is her depiction of the illusion/fantasy she thinks many men harbor.   
 
If a man is looking for a compliant sex slave, housekeeper and cook in the FSU, he will fail because their cooking is insipid.    
 
I don't know if this little preview will lead to feminist preachings or commercial services.

[acctBill]

Probably some type of advertising stunt, the term 'corcimarnadejda' is on a number of forums saying the same thing as on RWD.

[GQBlues]

Yeah, Nadya is likely suffering from premature ejaculation as it appears she spammed a lot of dating boards BEFORE she got her site up and running. I do hope she gets it running so we can find out if she does have something to add with her initial post(s), heheh...
 
At least she's kind enough to register as a commercial member.

[BoozeBaron]

She only posted that one time (best I can see) and is word for word, from her website, peddling her book of the same title...

Excerpt "about her" for those that say you can't see the link:

About me:

Winning the  title of Miss Moldova  at a very young age (I was 15 at the time) opened the whole World to me.  Shortly after the event my ordinary life in the Eastern Europe changed  drastically; I started traveling intensely and during the past 11 years lived  in several countries like: USA,  United Kingdom, Russia, Poland,  Romania, Italy, China, etc. These wonderful  experiences gave me the opportunity to deeply understand and compare with  honest criticism the lifestyles between those countries and my native country.  The target to my observations was people’s mentality – the key to all the good  and the bad.In this  book you will find all the answers to your questions about Russian brides  reflected from every little angle. You don’t need to go there in order to learn  your lesson, this book will simply do it for you.

[Handycam72]

From what I see, it appears that she is not against the concept of Eastern European Women (EEW) marrying a WM. But has concluded that there are alot of WM who delude themselves by believing the hype and believe that EEW are submissive, and will be there slave.

An Article that was written by Nadejda says the following:

Why NOT marry an Eastern European woman?
If you are nursing the idea of getting married to a woman from any of the  Russian states, get ready for a strange and new eye opening experience. From the  very beginning it is destined not to be an easy ride. Starting from the  differences in mentality, the language barrier, the usual age gap between the  two of you, and finishing with the intimidating immigration process in the  former soviet countries, this project of yours may become one of your worst  nightmares. Building a strong and happy relationship with a "Russian girl" seems  to be the greatest affair of your personal life, yet this commonly encountered  illusion among Western men, when applied in real life, proves to remain what it  really is: just an illusion.
To find out all the truth about Russian brides visit  www.corcimarnadejda.com
"Western World is a funny world.
It is to me at least – an Eastern European girl – who was literally propelled  into this authentic world, through marriage to a Westerner.
Now, everything that happened in my life, before that eye opening experience,  seems like an extended version of the army training. Why so? Because when you  are born and raised in a third world country, particularly in a former Soviet  Union state, and you are ripped out of your home town and put into a Western  environment, you start to really realize how much stronger, wiser and meaner we  are comparing to the ‘'modern'' people. The arising question would be whether  this is a good thing or a bad thing in terms of survival? - I am not the one to  judge, yet one thing is certain: Eastern European women WILL NEVER FEEL LIKE A  PART OF THE WESTERN WORLD, even after decades of living in it.
Perhaps this book is designed mostly for the Western male readers, which is  good, as this was my intention from the very beginning. As I am writing this  down, I can see you guys thinking to yourself right now: ‘'How can she possibly  say that? She is taken out of the gutter and put into a decent house, fed good  food, dressed good quality clothes and given the best medical treatment in the  world. She was given everything she would have never had with a Russian man, and  yet she is so ungrateful!''. I love it when Western men think that way; I can  instantly read it in their eyes that to them the Russian woman acts differently  compared to how a Western woman would react in a banal situation; because it is  always the same pattern, repeating itself over and over again, from couple to  couple.
Obviously there is much more to it than just moving countries. There IS AN  ADDAPTATION PROCESS out there, that none of the partners can predict nor prevent – it is as normal as the necessity to take probiotics after a lengthy antibiotic  course, yet nobody ever bothers with it. What Western men don't understand, when ‘'taking a Russian bride out of the gutter'', is that she is actually a human  being, and not a dog or a cat that could move planets without any problems, if  you only show it a big bone. I would personally compare this adaptation process  to a recovery after a general narcosis for a minor operation – slow, painful and  graduate, accompanied with the constant remainder of the doubt whether you have  done the right thing. You know that there is no going back after an operation,  but you still keep doubting whether you might have been better off without it,  or in less pain at the very least.
In this book, I will try to cover all the major discrepancies between the  mentality of Eastern European women and Western men, as well as, explain in  great detail the reason why these problems occur and how they can be avoided,  simply by acknowledging them at first, and then engaging patience and  understanding into solving them. Please understand that your marriage can be  saved, if only you can bring yourself to understand that there is an enormous  gap between the mind of a Russian bride and a Western groom. Furthermore, I will  refer with the term ‘'Russian woman'' or ‘'Russian bride'' to the women from all  the former Russian Soviet Union States (so called Eastern European), as we all  have been brought up in the same way – the ‘'communist way''; and a ‘'Western  man'' would be anyone outside those premises."

Taken from here: http://www.articlesbase.com/marriage-articles/why-not-marry-an-eastern-european-woman-4863866.html#axzz1PpNiC8Hm

There is no price listed for this book, guess it must be free 


 

[Rubicon]

She wants to sell her book, but she's too inept to have paypal or other payment method set up.  And there is no price for her book.  Oh Well!!

[GQBlues]

I will still give her my kudos for at least recognizing herself as a commercial member and is only making an honest effort to generate an income. Likely her first attempt at doing so, so getting fine tuned at this will soon follow I'm sure. After all, FSUWs are sharp enough to adapt to new things.
 
As far as shipment is concerned, she can always download free Primo PDF software and if the material is in any type of office format, she can convert it on PDF and thus enable her to send them via emails. It's green and it's right...
 
Lastly, I agree with the premise of her point based on what I've read so far, FWIW.

[SANDRO43]

I will still give her my kudos for at least recognizing herself as a commercial member

IINM, she did not register as that initially, it must have been some Mod's remedial action after seeing her post/website .

[Faux Pas]

IINM, she did not register as that initially, it must have been some Mod's remedial action after seeing her post/website .

Actually, I think she did or it was changed right after she posted. But, she has never returned to respond so it's pretty much moot at this point

[JohnDearGreen]

"In any case, as soon as you send an order to me via email containing your order details I will send the number of my account to you in a reply letter. Then, when the money gets through, I will acknowledge you and will send the book to you the same day giving you a receipt.Please be sure about the security of your book and money. I am a writer, not a modern business lady."

Nadejda:
You need to update your web site.  It appears you have now become a modern business lady.   A simple google search shows various links for you as a real estate sales person: http://www.worldoftrade.com/mem_home/5786901120/exela-produse-srl.htm
You have the same phone number as the real estate agency.


What is your best price on the apartment?
http://www.alibaba.com/product-free/107121249/IASI_LUXURY_APARTMENT_SALE_.html

[Simoni]

Simoni


What is it you find offensive, the artwork from the link or the post? corcimarnadejda seems to voicing an opinion. I'll wait for further response from them before acting. It kind of looks like a bot but apparently has registered as a commercial member.

The artwork.  Did you look at it?


That is as far as I got.

[Daveman]

From what I see, it appears that she is not against the concept of Eastern European Women (EEW) marrying a WM. But has concluded that there are alot of WM who delude themselves by believing the hype and believe that EEW are submissive, and will be there slave.

That is my impression as well.

An Article that was written by Nadejda says the following:

Why NOT marry an Eastern European woman?
If you are nursing the idea of getting married to a woman from any of the  Russian states, get ready for a strange and new eye opening experience. From the  very beginning it is destined not to be an easy ride. Starting from the  differences in mentality, the language barrier, the usual age gap between the  two of you, and finishing with the intimidating immigration process in the  former soviet countries, this project of yours may become one of your worst  nightmares. Building a strong and happy relationship with a "Russian girl" seems  to be the greatest affair of your personal life, yet this commonly encountered  illusion among Western men, when applied in real life, proves to remain what it  really is: just an illusion.

Nothing with which to agree there. 

To find out all the truth about Russian brides visit  www.corcimarnadejda.com
"Western World is a funny world.
It is to me at least – an Eastern European girl – who was literally propelled  into this authentic world, through marriage to a Westerner.
Now, everything that happened in my life, before that eye opening experience,  seems like an extended version of the army training. Why so? Because when you  are born and raised in a third world country, particularly in a former Soviet  Union state, and you are ripped out of your home town and put into a Western  environment, you start to really realize how much stronger, wiser and meaner we  are comparing to the ‘'modern'' people. The arising question would be whether  this is a good thing or a bad thing in terms of survival? - I am not the one to  judge, yet one thing is certain: Eastern European women WILL NEVER FEEL LIKE A  PART OF THE WESTERN WORLD, even after decades of living in it.
Perhaps this book is designed mostly for the Western male readers, which is  good, as this was my intention from the very beginning. As I am writing this  down, I can see you guys thinking to yourself right now: ‘'How can she possibly  say that? She is taken out of the gutter and put into a decent house, fed good  food, dressed good quality clothes and given the best medical treatment in the  world. She was given everything she would have never had with a Russian man, and  yet she is so ungrateful!''.

And how many times have we heard that scenario detailed in the pages of this forum?

I love it when Western men think that way; I can  instantly read it in their eyes that to them the Russian woman acts differently  compared to how a Western woman would react in a banal situation; because it is  always the same pattern, repeating itself over and over again, from couple to  couple.
Obviously there is much more to it than just moving countries. There IS AN  ADDAPTATION PROCESS out there, that none of the partners can predict nor prevent – it is as normal as the necessity to take probiotics after a lengthy antibiotic  course, yet nobody ever bothers with it. What Western men don't understand, when ‘'taking a Russian bride out of the gutter'', is that she is actually a human  being, and not a dog or a cat that could move planets without any problems, if  you only show it a big bone. I would personally compare this adaptation process  to a recovery after a general narcosis for a minor operation – slow, painful and  graduate, accompanied with the constant remainder of the doubt whether you have  done the right thing. You know that there is no going back after an operation,  but you still keep doubting whether you might have been better off without it,  or in less pain at the very least.

Anyone disagree with this? I don't

In this book, I will try to cover all the major discrepancies between the  mentality of Eastern European women and Western men, as well as, explain in  great detail the reason why these problems occur and how they can be avoided,  simply by acknowledging them at first, and then engaging patience and  understanding into solving them. Please understand that your marriage can be  saved, if only you can bring yourself to understand that there is an enormous  gap between the mind of a Russian bride and a Western groom. Furthermore, I will  refer with the term ‘'Russian woman'' or ‘'Russian bride'' to the women from all  the former Russian Soviet Union States (so called Eastern European), as we all  have been brought up in the same way – the ‘'communist way''; and a ‘'Western  man'' would be anyone outside those premises."

Taken from here: http://www.articlesbase.com/marriage-articles/why-not-marry-an-eastern-european-woman-4863866.html#axzz1PpNiC8Hm

There is no price listed for this book, guess it must be free 

>> bring yourself to understand that there is an enormous  gap between the mind of a Russian bride and a Western groom<<

IMO, one who does not truly recognize the importance of this statement will have a rough ride and will probably ultimately crash and burn.  This is something that has been stated by many with experience in this.  Some claim that "women are women everywhere", and that is true from the perspective of how they react to certain stimuli, however, in other ways they are very different.  The mentality is different. Period.

So, I do understand that this is a commercial venture and an advertisement for a book.  But, from what I have read so far in the minimal text provided, her assertions seem to coincide completely with what I have observed myself and have verified by personal experience.

[Muzh]

I wonder if this book should compete with Stuart"s Russian Bride Guide. It'd be better if they complement each other. Understand that my comments are based on what has been posted here. I'd love to read the book.