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[Jumper]

Is it the place called Alushta?
I went to its official website and checked the photos of the beaches.
They seem to be overcrowded.
http://alushta.eu/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/5403288.jpg
http://alushta.eu/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/3389796.jpg

Can you explain why Russians prefer Turkish beaches?

 
I've been to Crimea, Yalta and Alushta ,etc..
 
some beaches are crowded , others not.
 
Just like anywhere else Vincenzo?
 
 Not every florida beach is crowded ,but some are?
 
Beaches near Cancun Mex,  tend to be crowded at certain times of the year..
but in riviara maya just south, a very popular resort area,
is hardly ever actually crowded.
 
 
As far as why Russian or Ukranian *might* prefer Turkish resorts.. i think that's been answered?
 
Many have already been to Crimea, it is a popular destination after all, and it isn't *expensive* from being *empty* or unpopular..lol 
So something new is more interesting?
 
Yes Turkey ,Cyprus or Egypt are all popular as well, as its fairly inexpensive overall.. and exotic!
 as they are  other countries ,language and culture.
 
Perhaps interesting to poll the local populace at beautiful sharm el shiek , and see if they'd prefer a vacation to sharm,
 or to Crimea..
 
For what its worth , I enjoy both places ,as they each have something different to offer
(great diving at sharm, great natural beauty and food-shaslik at crimea )

[Vincenzo]

People likes nice white sandy beaches Vincenzo, they also like to travel to different countries too, explore new cultures.
 
I will be in Crimea in a few weeks. You have any tips for me Vincenzo on what I should expect there?

What do you expect?
In a few weeks, the season in Crimea will be over. Crimea will be dead.

If you're visiting a special lady, you'll enjoy cheap rents, etc.

I work in a coastal city. Now, there are many half-naked girls riding beach cruisers and sunbathing.
In a month, the beaches will be almost empty. The weather will still be very good.

[ML]

A woman cannot go to a foreign country without being a sex tourist?  Do they go to an agency in Istanbul and pick Turkish men out of a catalog?

It has been stated on this forum that the FSU women more and more look at us as being sex tourists just because.

So perhaps turn-about is fair.

[Vincenzo]

A woman cannot go to a foreign country without being a sex tourist?  Do they go to an agency in Istanbul and pick Turkish men out of a catalog?

Turkey is the Female sex tourism capital of the world.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1016275/Sun-sex-stupidity-Rise-divorced-women-indulging-sex-tourism.html

The handsome young waiter's eyes followed Sarah as she walked across the restaurant, and she felt her heart beating faster as he leaned over to place a napkin in her lap.
 
"At 54, I was unused to the attention of young men, especially a handsome one in his 20s," she says.

"Our eyes connected as I told myself not to be silly - he couldn't possibly be interested in me. But I was wrong."
 
Attractive, slim and smartly dressed, she has been divorced from her lawyer husband for 15 years, and had resigned herself to a series of uninspiring dates with overweight, balding men of her own age at home in Chester.
 But here, on holiday with a girlfriend in the Turkish resort of Dalaman, was the promise of something very different.
"Imagine what it was like for me, a fifty-something women who felt abandoned, unloved and on the shelf, thinking no man would ever find me attractive again. Here was a beautiful young man with the most incredible, fit body, begging me to go to bed with him. "He would look into my eyes and cry, saying: 'I want to grow old with you, and I want to take care of you for the rest of my life.'
"When I left him at the airport he was in tears, making me promise to write every day and come back soon.
 
"As soon as I got home I phoned him. He mentioned that he needed some new shoes, and could I send a small amount of cash? Still besotted and with the memory of so much happiness, I sent him money.

So, it's more likely that a 40-year-old lonely and abandoned Russian woman will go to Turkey than to Crimea.

[Muzh]

I don't understand the argument of crowded beaches vs. not crowded beaches. Being born in a tropical island and lived there for (the younger) half of my life I can tell you I dreaded NON crowded beaches. No body there that would be interesting most of the time. Now, when it was crowded, yehaa, babes galore. You had your pick.
 
Now, if you are looking for a desolated place to do the hanky panky, better go to your hotel. You don't know what it is when the sand gets there.

[Jumper]

just because

Perhaps mostly from reality? at least from their perspective?
 
 
 
I don't enjoy  being pre-judged anymore than anyone else,
 
but I  accept the fact that in my visits to  Ukraine, I've seen far more european,asian, or western businessmen on a play day holiday ,than those seriously looking for a soulmate.
 
 Additionally many honestly looking, often having either a bit of social ineptitude, an odd set of standards or illusions of great superiority, or a feeling of some right to act differently than they would in the same social scene at home.
 
Yes I've seen some real decent men looking.
they seemed  the exceptions to the norm,
so i can easily see most FSU womens stereotyping most anyone stepping off the plane.
 They tend to be extreemly sensitive and cautious of this ,because frankly , they probably should be and many years of observation have likely taught them to be.
 
So no, the man traveling generally won't be given the benefit of the doubt in most cases ,and will need time to earn it.
Any slight mistep will be taken as total affirmation of her initial negative thoughts on his character
 
Not all FSU women have that mindset, but many have been conditioned to have? and IMHO, that dint happen by the majority of men (local or foriegn) being forthright and honest.
Just how it is.
 
 
 
 

[BC]

You don't know what it is when the sand gets there.

Or the sand fleas.... gawd it's awful.

[Gator]

You don't know what it is when the sand gets there.

I can appreciate that it would cut like a new file.  Instead, a quickie in the water is nice, the same as whales do it.

[Muzh]

I can appreciate that it would cut like a new file.  Instead, a quickie in the water is nice, the same as whales do it.

Make sure you are no where near the turf. Been there.

[Gator]

Make sure you are no where near the turf. Been there.

Turf?  The surf is not a problem in the Caribbean (my only experience with spawning).  In Hawaii we could not even play around because the surf was so strong.   

[Jack]

And make sure you don't loose the woman's bikini bottoms, how embarrassing.

[Daveman]

And make sure you don't loose the woman's bikini bottoms, how embarrassing.

Well, if you don't "loose" them, it becomes and even greater challenge, doesn't in? 

[Vincenzo]

I don't understand the argument of crowded beaches vs. not crowded beaches.

It's crowded beaches vs overcrowded beaches.

Do you wait in line for an hour to get into a tiny overcrowded restaurant with so-so food when there are bigger and nicer restaurants around the block?

[Misha]

Turkey is the Female sex tourism capital of the world.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1016275/Sun-sex-stupidity-Rise-divorced-women-indulging-sex-tourism.html
So, it's more likely that a 40-year-old lonely and abandoned Russian woman will go to Turkey than to Crimea.

I am not quite sure the why you are drawing parallels between an arguing about British women going to Turkey and other locales for "romance" (aka sex), but the following that you did not cite could also be said of some men:

The number of older women who form long-term relationships with holiday gigolos is growing year on year. Statistically, a third of all cross-cultural "marriages" end in divorce, and Jeannette says the naivety of the women involved is unbelievable.

"Most of them are middle class and intelligent, which makes their behaviour even more baffling," she says. "These guys are after their money, pure and simple, and the ultimate goal is marriage so they can get a visa and move to the UK. The fact that they can fall for lines such as 'You are so gorgeous' is ridiculous."

[Vincenzo]

Could you prove that this statement is incorrect?
Turkey and Egypt are countries with the highest number of Russian female tourists of the group:
* older than 35
* lonely and ready for romance and sex
* know some English
* smart and hard-working, thus have money for traveling
* tired of Russian men and looking for a foreigner

They certainly travel through all Europe and don't mind having a date with a nice foreign gentleman. But Turkey is the cheapest country for traveling, relatively few go to Italy or France.

[OlgaH]

Could you prove that this statement is incorrect?
Turkey and Egypt are countries with the highest number of Russian female tourists of the group:
* older than 35
* lonely and ready for romance and sex
* know some English
* smart and hard-working, thus have money for traveling
* tired of Russian men and looking for a foreigner

They certainly travel through all Europe and don't mind having a date with a nice foreign gentleman. But Turkey is the cheapest country for traveling, relatively few go to Italy or France.

Vincenzo, would you be so kind to tell where did you get that information?

[Vincenzo]

Vincenzo, would you be so kind to tell where did you get that information?

From Russian ladies.
Russian ladies over 35 change their attitudes because Russian men don't want to marry them. So, they start to travel  to places where they can be surrounded by decent men.

[OlgaH]

From Russian ladies.
Russian ladies over 35 change their attitudes because Russian men don't want to marry them. So, they start to travel  to places where they can be surrounded by decent men.

So, they call Turkish gigolos decent men 

[CanadaMan]

Quote from: Jack on Today at 14:56:56"And make sure you don't loose the woman's bikini bottoms, how embarrassing."

Well, if you don't "loose" them, it becomes and even greater challenge, doesn't in? 

My Mom always taught me not to make fun of other people's errors unless I was absolutely certain I wasn't making any myself. 

[OlgaH]

Here is a Russian documentary "A lonely (or single) woman would like to meet"

Lilia from Moscow, a Russian woman who looks for a romance in Turkey, is a divorced mother of two adult children, she plays with Turkish gigolos like a cat with mouses.

http://rutube.ru/tracks/2149357.html?v=306dfbf81fcf0effeccabac4fc251e3d&&bmstart=1000

[brian131]

Good lord, this is a stupid thread!

I'm boycotting the flame war.

[Vincenzo]

So, they call Turkish gigolos decent men 

There are also 30 million tourists. If you exclude women and kids, there should be a couple decent guys to hang out together in Istanbul.

What's wrong about having a fling with a nice guy who is 20 years junior?
Wouldn't you like to play with this Turkish guy?

[Gator]

Wouldn't you like to play with this Turkish guy?

Vinny,
At which Gay Pride festival did you take this photo?   

[Handycam72]

What do you expect?
In a few weeks, the season in Crimea will be over. Crimea will be dead.

If you're visiting a special lady, you'll enjoy cheap rents, etc.

I work in a coastal city. Now, there are many half-naked girls riding beach cruisers and sunbathing.
In a month, the beaches will be almost empty. The weather will still be very good.

Vincenzo I asked, because I was curious if you actually  knew anything about Crimea. This trip in a few weeks will be my 3rd visit there this year, I won't say how many other visits I have made. So when I talk about Crimea, I am talking from experience. I have also been to Turkey, and comparing the two is like comparing chalk and cheese.

[OlgaH]

There are also 30 million tourists. If you exclude women and kids, there should be a couple decent guys to hang out together in Istanbul.

That is just another absurd in the same way as to say that you will have more chances to meet a single Russian or Ukraine woman in Turkey than in Russia or Ukraine  In general the decent guys don't hang out with women who are 20 years older  but of course there is an exception. 

And here is the website with black list for Turkish "decent" men set up by and for women interested in Turkish romances. 
http://kunstkamera.net/

What's wrong about having a fling with a nice guy who is 20 years junior?
Wouldn't you like to play with this Turkish guy?

To each his own. Some men like to play with 20 years junior girls, some women like to play with 20 years junior guys. Personally I have never been interested in Turkish men and more over in boys who are 20 years junior who are almost the same age as my son. Plus even perfect male bodies don't blow off my "roof" and never did even when I was 20 years younger