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Offline captainmwill

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Need help getting started
« on: October 22, 2011, 10:35:48 AM »
Hi all, I'm new to the forum.  I'm an attractive, successful 34 year old guy looking to get started meeting some legit, attractive women in the Ukraine.  I've tried a few websites but frankly can't tell what's legit and what isn't.  I thought I was communicating with a legit woman but then found out it was a scam.  I'd like to get acquainted with a few before I make a trip over there.  Can anyone help put me in touch with a REAL agency or website?  It's pretty disappointing to start communicating with someone and developing interest, only to find out she isn't for real.

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Re: Need help getting started
« Reply #1 on: October 22, 2011, 10:39:44 AM »
Stay away from any website where you have to pay by the letter. 
 
Sites I would stay away from
 
Anastasia
Global Ladies
AFA
Dream Marriage
Any site affilated with the above
 
Site I would most highly recommend
 
Elena's Models. 

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Re: Need help getting started
« Reply #2 on: October 22, 2011, 10:42:17 AM »
If you don't need any agency services I posted some non agencies sites in the link below. Some are free of charge so the only scamming you'll get is on an individual level and as long as you don't send money, you can't get scammed.
 
 http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=14037.msg280029#msg280029
Fund the audits, spread the word and educate people, write your politicians and other elected officials. Stay active in the fight to save our country. Over 220 generals and admirals say we are in a fight for our survival like no other time since 1776.

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Re: Need help getting started
« Reply #3 on: October 22, 2011, 10:44:57 AM »
I tried UkraineDate.com which seemed similar to a match.com type of thing, but the ones I ended up communicating with turned out to be fakes / scams.  Thanks for the quick replies and the info

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Re: Need help getting started
« Reply #4 on: October 22, 2011, 11:42:00 AM »
This is not agency of any type. But i met my UW on freepersonals.ru.
 
My biggest advice would be to read and read more. There is a lot of information here and some of it you probably apply for you.

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Re: Need help getting started
« Reply #5 on: October 22, 2011, 11:44:39 AM »
It is wise not to invest too much emotions until you meet face to face.
Plan ahead meaning that you know when you will be able to travel.

You have already experience to know a scam from a sincere woman, use that wisely. Remember that in order to meet women, they will expect you to make the first step, and if you are relatively young and good looking even sincere women will have a reservation as to why you can not find a local woman.
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Re: Need help getting started
« Reply #6 on: October 22, 2011, 12:20:36 PM »
Stay away from any website where you have to pay by the letter. 
 
Sites I would stay away from
 
Anastasia
Global Ladies
AFA
Dream Marriage
Any site affilated with the above
 
Site I would most highly recommend
 
Elena's Models.


What TG said.


Also, find and take to heart the RWD 10 Commandments.


You need to work up your game by developing radar that spots the scammers and fakes quickly to avoid losing your money and wasting your time.


Don't hesitate to ask for help.


Best of Luck!
Pick and choose carefully among the advice offered and consider the source carefully. PM, Skype or email if you care to chat or discuss

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Re: Need help getting started
« Reply #7 on: October 22, 2011, 02:09:23 PM »
Captain: I've said it many times but they never listen (sigh). Pehaps you will? Get your butt on a plane, go visit for a couple of weeks (several cities) with no particular plan in mind other than observing the scene and touristy type things. Come home and read the websites again, you'll spot the fakes in a heartbeat.

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Re: Need help getting started
« Reply #8 on: October 22, 2011, 03:32:34 PM »
Hi all, I'm new to the forum.  I'm an attractive, successful 34 year old guy looking to get started meeting some legit, attractive women in the Ukraine.  I've tried a few websites but frankly can't tell what's legit and what isn't.  I thought I was communicating with a legit woman but then found out it was a scam.  I'd like to get acquainted with a few before I make a trip over there.  Can anyone help put me in touch with a REAL agency or website?  It's pretty disappointing to start communicating with someone and developing interest, only to find out she isn't for real.

Consider Russia.

BTW, there is no "the" before Ukraine.

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Re: Need help getting started
« Reply #9 on: October 25, 2011, 08:32:01 AM »
Here are the top sites with regard to number of women registered in most major cities.

http://fdating.com
http://www.luckylovers.net/
http://www.rbrides.com/
http://www.ukrainedate.com/
http://www.allsinglerussiangirls.com/
http://freepersonals.ru/
http://singles.ru/
http://bride.ru/

I have never encountered a scammer on any of these sites, but I do not contact the teeny boppers and hot twenty somethings, and delete any contacts that such  send to me.

Elenas models is recommended often, but that site has relatively few women of any particular age range in any given city, and it is relatively pricy compared to those first listed.  With so many men directed there, I would think the relatively few women there become quite jaded and picky with all the attention being received.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

 

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