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Offline UhaveEmale

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Newbie from Baltimore, Maryland
« on: December 11, 2011, 08:40:27 PM »
Hello and greetings all.  After being scammed out of hundreds of dollars on Dream-Marriage, I did a search and found this forum.  Needed some real conversation for a change.  Thanks.

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Re: Newbie from Baltimore, Maryland
« Reply #1 on: December 11, 2011, 08:52:55 PM »
Welcome UhaveEmale to RWD. You are not the first and likely not the last. Look around and jump in where you are so inclined

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Re: Newbie from Baltimore, Maryland
« Reply #2 on: December 11, 2011, 09:11:36 PM »
Hi  UHaveEmale

Avoid all agencies and any websites that require pay per contacting each woman and/or pay per each letter.

Instead go here:

http://singles.ru/
http://www.luckylovers.net/
http://www.rbrides.com/
http://www.ukrainedate.com/
http://www.allsinglerussiangirls.com/
http://freepersonals.ru/
http://bride.ru/
http://fdating.com
http://www.1vipdating.com/
http://freeukrainianwomen.com/
http://okfreedating.net/
http://luckylifepartner.com/

The below are in Russian language.
 
 http://www.edarling.ru/
 http://vmireznakomstv.ru/
 http://www.your-ideal.com/
 http://www.24open.ru/
 http://loveplanet.ru/
 http://www.maybe.ru/
 http://znakomstva-sitelove.ru/

Go to the above free and monthly cost ($19-30) dating websites.  Make up a nice profile of yourself.  Use the search engines to find about 800 - 1,000 women who are in the age range you want and have the education, height, weight, language, children, drinking, smoking, etc., parameters that you desire and are in a single target geographical area.

Do this screening first rather than look at pictures first.  After you have done the screening; then look at the pictures.

When you are two months away from your trip departure time, then start sending out your first message.

Send a generic but well written introductory message to all with each individual name typed at the top.

Of those  who reply, filter out all who make you worry in any way or give you concerns.

Send second generic but well written letter to all with their individual names typed at the top.  Modify it a bit to answer any questions that an individual woman may have asked.  Yes, this takes a lot of time.

Repeat these procedures over about 6-8 weekly emails and you will have narrowed down your list to 15-30 gals.  You can continue to use a generic letter for each successive mailing, but be sure to modify it a bit to answer specific questions any gal may have asked and to ask specific questions of your own related to the family, interests, jobs, etc., of each individual woman.  Yes, this takes a lot of time, but each week you will be cutting your list down. 

Finalize your trip plans and start scheduling the women into time slots.

If you follow the above procedure, you will not have the need to ask us questions about scammers, etc., as you will have filtered out all scammers.  And if any of the women you are writing to give you any sheeeeet or cause you any concern at all, or ask for money for ANYTHING you simply drop them off your lists and continue on.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

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Re: Newbie from Baltimore, Maryland
« Reply #3 on: December 12, 2011, 06:56:00 AM »
I would think that any list of recommended agencies should also include Elena's Models which is were I met my wife and probably the site I hear most often when people talk about where they met their wife.

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Re: Newbie from Baltimore, Maryland
« Reply #4 on: December 12, 2011, 07:05:29 AM »
 :welcome:  Emale and let's hear your story.
To argue with a man who has renounced the use and authority of reason, and whose philosophy consists in holding humanity in contempt, is like administering medicine to the dead. Thomas Paine - The American Crisis 1776-1783

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Re: Newbie from Baltimore, Maryland
« Reply #5 on: December 12, 2011, 07:11:57 AM »
Got to give a positive for the freepersonals.ru   I used the site and found my current girlfriend.  The site is 100% free, can't pay for anything on the site and most of the girls on there are serious about dating someone from overseas.

Read the advice on this site and keep an eye out for the red flags, that way you will be able to avoid wasting time and/or money on scammers.

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Re: Newbie from Baltimore, Maryland
« Reply #6 on: December 16, 2011, 08:06:51 PM »
 :welcome: to the forum!
 
Like some other have said I would say general avoid the agency site. The are only a couple that sound at least resaonable. I would stick to the free sites. I found my girlfriend on the freepersonals.ru and have spoken to quite a few others who have also found their wives or girlfriend on this site.
 
-K
 

 

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