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I find it amusing how RW's agency profiles are so different from what I read on their profiles on free local Russian dating sites. Lots of times they say really fun things or totally crazy things that show their personality. I will post some of the things that I find funny or interesting since I go through lots of profiles every day.


Here is one: [size=78%]Хочешь женщину -ангела, создай для неё рай...   If you want a woman who is like an angel, make sure that her life is paradise...[/size]

Кого я хочу найти:
  • Хочется любви, нежности.., и немножко сладкого...
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  • I would like to find love, tenderness... and little something sweet...
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #1 on: March 10, 2012, 03:41:15 PM »
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I don't visit any one at home and don't invite any one over! Not interested in money for sex! Slaves, oral pleasers, strap on lovers, etc. - go to hell...

LOL, you don't see ads like that on agency sites! Have a glimps at some real RW personalities! :P
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #2 on: March 10, 2012, 04:10:39 PM »
Are these the 18 year old dyevs  looking for the 60 yo geezers? Definitely sounds like one of them.
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #3 on: March 10, 2012, 06:05:25 PM »
Are these the 18 year old dyevs  looking for the 60 yo geezers? Definitely sounds like one of them.
wow, you are really off target here! Try in their early 30s, tired of all the idiots that waste their time and know what they want.
« Last Edit: March 10, 2012, 06:24:22 PM by Eduard »
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #4 on: March 10, 2012, 06:26:32 PM »
I find it amusing how RW's agency profiles are so different from what I read on their profiles on free local Russian dating sites. Lots of times they say really fun things or totally crazy things that show their personality. I will post some of the things that I find funny or interesting since I go through lots of profiles every day.


Here is one: [size=78%]Хочешь женщину -ангела, создай для неё рай...   If you want a woman who is like an angel, make sure that her life is paradise...[/size]

Кого я хочу найти:
  • Хочется любви, нежности.., и немножко сладкого...
  • Who I would like to find:
  • I would like to find love, tenderness... and little something sweet...
Eduard, I created a profile on elenasmodels back in November ( now hid it though), wrote the message the way I would talk to an American, with a little bit of humour in it, elenasmodels changed the text, made it more boring and direct.
For example:
if you write something in the requirements to the partner like :"loving hot tea and cookies is a must"!  they would change it into:"I prefer cozy family dinners with home made cookies".

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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #5 on: March 10, 2012, 06:37:15 PM »
Eduard, I created a profile on elenasmodels back in November ( now hid it though), wrote the message the way I would talk to an American, with a little bit of humour in it, elenasmodels changed the text, made it more boring and direct.
For example:
if you write something in the requirements to the partner like :"loving hot tea and cookies is a must"!  they would change it into:"I prefer cozy family dinners with home made cookies".
that's exactly my point, that the MOB agencies basically create those ads for women and there's no way to really tell what a woman's personality is from reading her profile. On the other hand you can tell a lot about a woman's personality by reading their personals on local Russian dating sites, especially if you speak Russian. Translating this stuff using an e-translator won't give you the real understandng most of the time.
Many WM think that all RW/UW are these wonderful little beautiful angels which I'm sure you know isn't the case  ;D [size=78%] [/size]
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #6 on: March 10, 2012, 09:27:56 PM »
Eduard,
 
Why would any "real man" bother to read a profile?   My advice - line them up and select the prettiest ones.  Or the ones showing the most skin. ;)
 
Seriously, I have seen profiles very similar to the examples you quoted.   And if censored by the agency, it reveals itself in the first or second telephone call. 
 
Also, I have been told by RW that almost all of the RM who contact RW on Russian dating sites are interested primarily in sex.   So a sincere RW should feel jaded. 

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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #7 on: March 10, 2012, 09:37:38 PM »

Also, I have been told by RW that almost all of the RM who contact RW on Russian dating sites are interested primarily in sex.   So a sincere RW should feel jaded.

Isn't this just a demonstration that RM continue to act as WM did before we were 'trained' not to by our culture?

Also, I remember reading on an International travel website, an AW living  in Moscow who said she appreciated the directness of the RM who told her very early  in the first meeting (or even in just a casual discussion) pretty much what they wanted to do with her.

Of course, once she was back  in USA, she would probably charge an AM with harassment, if he said the same as the RM.
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #8 on: March 10, 2012, 09:40:31 PM »
Isn't this just a demonstration that RM continue to act as WM did before we were 'trained' not to by our culture?

Yes, and we WM learned that women are people and not objects.

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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #9 on: March 10, 2012, 10:20:31 PM »
It all depends how good she is in English and how brainwashed by other "i know it all" women looking for western men.
I've spent quite a time on forums for russian women looking for foreign men, and what a pile of cr*p they are suggesting each other sometimes.. Thankfully I looked at those forums long after I even endured online dating so I just laughed and sometimes mentioned what they say is not exactly the right way but at the end of the day if it serves their goals, let them be.


Anyway my own profile said -
"If i were a song i would probably be just a single of Sash 'Mysterious times' or 'Summer storm' by Vivaldi at times (Vanessa Mae rmx) :)"
who i was looking for -
"Honest, trustful, open-minded, no womanizer!"


So it's not always as straight and forward Eduard like you say.




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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #10 on: March 11, 2012, 02:02:31 AM »
Eduard, I created a profile on elenasmodels back in November ( now hid it though), wrote the message the way I would talk to an American, with a little bit of humour in it, elenasmodels changed the text, made it more boring and direct.
For example:
if you write something in the requirements to the partner like :"loving hot tea and cookies is a must"!  they would change it into:"I prefer cozy family dinners with home made cookies".
Interesting information, i was not knowing about this. What a surprise ! i have always considered that freedom expression in written was a human basic. And as it is obvious that you level in english is high, there is no need for EM to correct your ad. I dislike to be controlled in what i write. But it happens more often than we think on sites.
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #11 on: March 11, 2012, 04:00:17 AM »
Eduard, I created a profile on elenasmodels back in November ( now hid it though), wrote the message the way I would talk to an American, with a little bit of humour in it, elenasmodels changed the text, made it more boring and direct.
For example:
if you write something in the requirements to the partner like :"loving hot tea and cookies is a must"!  they would change it into:"I prefer cozy family dinners with home made cookies".

Interesting - I've altered my profile on EM a couple of times and they've never rewritten or edited it.  I can see why they would edit some whose English skills are obviously very low, but there doesn't seem any reason to change yours.

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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #12 on: March 11, 2012, 05:43:51 AM »
Isn't this just a demonstration that RM continue to act as WM did before we were 'trained' not to by our culture?

 :ROFL:

Yes, and we WM learned that women are people and not objects.

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ML and Gator, do your families have roots in England?  ;D


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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #13 on: March 11, 2012, 07:53:46 AM »
It all depends how good she is in English and how brainwashed by other "i know it all" women looking for western men.
I've spent quite a time on forums for russian women looking for foreign men, and what a pile of cr*p they are suggesting each other sometimes.. Thankfully I looked at those forums long after I even endured online dating so I just laughed and sometimes mentioned what they say is not exactly the right way but at the end of the day if it serves their goals, let them be.


Anyway my own profile said -
"If i were a song i would probably be just a single of Sash 'Mysterious times' or 'Summer storm' by Vivaldi at times (Vanessa Mae rmx) :) "
who i was looking for -
"Honest, trustful, open-minded, no womanizer!"


So it's not always as straight and forward Eduard like you say.
When did I sat that it was always straight and forward? I only said that what they write on local Russian sites with no agency editing gives a much better idea of a woman's personality. When looking at agency profiles one can see how different they are written from the ones on local dating sites where women are not part of the MOB scene.
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #14 on: March 11, 2012, 09:57:26 AM »
So what is your suggestion then? :) Stop reading those profiles altogether and analyze those on local sites? This is not a rocket science, can't see why to complicate the whole meeting people online thing (also known as online dating). It's just about people talking to each other and see if they click at the end of the day.

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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #15 on: March 11, 2012, 02:40:55 PM »
So what is your suggestion then? :) Stop reading those profiles altogether and analyze those on local sites? This is not a rocket science, can't see why to complicate the whole meeting people online thing (also known as online dating). It's just about people talking to each other and see if they click at the end of the day.

Exactly.  A couple of phone calls and some serious Skype time will reveal 1000x more than what one can interpret from a few mysterious words in a profile. 
 
Another clue:  after sending her your photo and a short description of yoursef, she ignores you.  ;D

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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #16 on: March 11, 2012, 04:36:54 PM »
So what is your suggestion then? :) Stop reading those profiles altogether and analyze those on local sites? This is not a rocket science, can't see why to complicate the whole meeting people online thing (also known as online dating). It's just about people talking to each other and see if they click at the end of the day.


Exactly. All info there  by definition is bs. It is like a display in fancy fashion  store - they put there what attracts the buyers most. Phone, Skype, personal time together is your everything.
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #17 on: March 11, 2012, 05:51:57 PM »
I disagree, I think you can tell whether a woman is worth contacting or not in many cases just from reading her profile.
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #18 on: March 11, 2012, 08:15:18 PM »
I disagree, I think you can tell whether a woman is worth contacting or not in many cases just from reading her profile.



If she is stupid enough to be sincere and pure her heart out in the profile. On marriage market, like on any other market, supply must meet demand. If there is a demand for a "loving, caring, warm woman" thats whats being advertised on profiles.  I have an extremely high maintenance girlfriend in Russia. Do you think I wrote on her profile "loves designer cloths, expensive cars and 5 star hotels, please dont bother if you make less than $500K a year"? I wrote the same old crap about "loving, caring and warm". And let those who hook up with her figure it out.  :D
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #19 on: March 11, 2012, 08:48:16 PM »
I disagree,


I just knew eduard was going to disagree with Russian women about Russian women.   :ROFL:

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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #20 on: March 11, 2012, 09:19:16 PM »
As others have said Skype easily solves many of these problem. Bad traits will show up eventually as the same with good ones that you wouldn't see otherwise. It takes time to get to know someone. A few sentences doesn't do justice to anyone.

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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #21 on: March 11, 2012, 09:51:01 PM »

If she is stupid enough to be sincere and pure her heart out in the profile. On marriage market, like on any other market, supply must meet demand. If there is a demand for a "loving, caring, warm woman" thats whats being advertised on profiles.  I have an extremely high maintenance girlfriend in Russia. Do you think I wrote on her profile "loves designer cloths, expensive cars and 5 star hotels, please dont bother if you make less than $500K a year"? I wrote the same old crap about "loving, caring and warm". And let those who hook up with her figure it out.  :D
Is this your ad, Donna? :) ))



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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #22 on: March 11, 2012, 10:15:46 PM »
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #23 on: March 11, 2012, 10:46:28 PM »
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Re: RW don't say on agency sites what they say on local dating sites
« Reply #24 on: March 12, 2012, 04:48:43 AM »

I don't visit any one at home and don't invite any one over! Not interested in money for sex! Slaves, oral pleasers, strap on lovers, etc. - go to hell...

I'm always drawn into those who don't want money for sex.

 

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