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Offline lakecreek

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Could this friend have a crush on me
« on: March 18, 2012, 11:31:16 PM »
I had a Russian woman approach me and from there we became friends. While in the early stage of us meeting, there seem to be possible signs she maybe looking for more. Like one incident we were riding the train while sitting next to me and talking she had legs crossed, playing with her hair and making direct eye contact.

The other moment was I was with my friend and she came up to me we started talking. But I never seen her so nervous before clutching her hands. She was asking me if I could come to this field trip and asked me about 3 times. She really wanted me to come with her.

The last time we hung out what my luck it rained and she forgot her umbrella so we shared mines. Something about walking close together in the rain under the same umbrella change the setting a little bit. Then when we said bye to each other I gave her a hug and she slipped in kiss on the cheek. She went and rub her face on my cheek and then went for a soft kiss. I did not expect it.

My friend says she like me and I say no she does not but then sometimes I think she do. However, I don't think she does. Now the question you guys are wondering about is what I think of her. If it turns out that she does have something for me, then I wouldn't mind giving her a chance to see where this could head.

It would be a different flavor of dating since I dated Asian women and that I'm Asian American myself.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #1 on: March 19, 2012, 12:11:51 AM »
Well, I think you should take your time and give it another year or so. Maybe a decade. Just to make sure.
 
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #2 on: March 19, 2012, 04:31:20 AM »
Well, I think you should take your time and give it another year or so. Maybe a decade. Just to make sure.
 
That would be my advice.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #3 on: March 19, 2012, 05:51:17 AM »
Well, I think you should take your time and give it another year or so. Maybe a decade. Just to make sure.
 
That would be my advice.
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #4 on: March 19, 2012, 06:57:23 AM »
Are you attracted to her?

Are you committed to someone else?

Is the attraction something you want to follow up on?

The answers to these questions are more valuable in determining your course of action than well-intentioned advice, jokes and sarcastic quips from a forum of FSUW veterans.
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #5 on: March 19, 2012, 10:38:41 AM »
Er... WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU WAITING FOR?!?!?

Just want to make sure you heard me.

It is simple, if she just want to be only friends, she'll let you know.

Please don't tell me you have this fragile ego.
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #6 on: March 19, 2012, 10:52:56 AM »
Jeeez, now I know why Jack and Eduard are in business.  :rolleyes:
 
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #7 on: March 19, 2012, 10:53:19 AM »
Actually Lake, these women are a lot more complicated that it first appears.

What/who she really wants is me.

She is hoping that by snuggling up to you, you will post here and somehow make contact with me.

OK, the first step has been achieved.

Now pay careful attention to her as to the next move she wants you to make.
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #8 on: March 19, 2012, 10:54:40 AM »
 :ROFL:
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #9 on: March 19, 2012, 11:01:53 AM »
Like one incident we were riding the train while sitting next to me and talking she had legs crossed, playing with her hair and making direct eye contact.


Next time ask her to sit across from you . . . and uncross her legs.

Report here what you see.
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #10 on: March 19, 2012, 11:12:56 AM »
Lakecreek, she obviously likes you.
Proceed accordingly.
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #11 on: March 19, 2012, 11:54:42 AM »
Voyeurism and vicarious life experiences......sigh.

Oh, be sure the report has pictures for proper analysis.
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #12 on: March 19, 2012, 04:31:55 PM »
Actually Lake, these women are a lot more complicated that it first appears.

What/who she really wants is me.

She is hoping that by snuggling up to you, you will post here and somehow make contact with me.

OK, the first step has been achieved.

Now pay careful attention to her as to the next move she wants you to make.

Hahahaha.... You wished. I wouldn't let my friend meet you.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #13 on: March 19, 2012, 04:33:42 PM »
Next time ask her to sit across from you . . . and uncross her legs.

Report here what you see.

That is being to me what I see is perverted. I would not look at my friend body parts.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #14 on: March 19, 2012, 05:11:58 PM »
That is being to me what I see is perverted. I would not look at my friend body parts.

Are you older than 14?  Get over the squeamishness ... if she uncrosses her legs, she WANTS you to look.  Be her friend, and look!
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #15 on: March 19, 2012, 10:15:21 PM »
Are you older than 14?  Get over the squeamishness ... if she uncrosses her legs, she WANTS you to look.  Be her friend, and look!

I'm 25 years old of course. Well I'm a virgin so I guess that would be a new scene for me to view.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #16 on: March 19, 2012, 10:21:01 PM »
I'm 25 years old of course. Well I'm a virgin so I guess that would be a new scene for me to view.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #17 on: March 19, 2012, 10:52:56 PM »
I know that... lol. Learned it from biology class. But I would never look down there. I guess I don't have that nature in me. She would have to make all the moves because I sure won't, as I have no idea what I'm doing.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #18 on: March 20, 2012, 04:10:30 AM »
 
There wasn't anything to talk about - the full man does not understand the wants of the hungry  ::)
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #19 on: March 20, 2012, 04:15:27 AM »
Well I'm a virgin so I guess that would be a new scene for me to view.

Let GOB help you out Lakecreek.
Pay close attention to scene 3:05.  >:D 

 

 
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #20 on: March 20, 2012, 05:37:20 AM »
I'm 25 years old of course. Well I'm a virgin so I guess that would be a new scene for me to view.

She might have picked up on that and found you intriguing..

Be good prey.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #21 on: March 20, 2012, 05:51:06 AM »
I'm 25 years old of course. Well I'm a virgin...
Take the opportunity to rid yourself of that unhealthy condition ;D.
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #22 on: March 20, 2012, 04:48:13 PM »

Let GOB help you out Lakecreek.
Pay close attention to scene 3:05.  >:D 

 


I seen that movie before. I was rolling when she did that. Looks nice hahahaha.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #23 on: March 20, 2012, 04:56:42 PM »

There wasn't anything to talk about - the full man does not understand the wants of the hungry  ::)
And what exactly do you do when you are 'hungry'? :P
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #24 on: March 20, 2012, 05:07:33 PM »
I believe I already know what this guy eats when he is hungry.

 

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