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So guys, I spent most of of 2011 in Russia along with the first part of this year.

Russian girls seem to not have very much loyalty. I was in Russia most of this past year and girls were cheating on their husbands and boyfriends with me left and right, even girls who I would never expect it from...  My girlfriends always treated me as if I was their husband and they both were very loyal to me after we created a relationship, probably because I was a decent looking American boy. I met both of these girls in a hospital. Both told me "no, I'm single" and then later I found out both had boyfriends at home. I have many many stories when I hooked up with random girls too.

Also, I think it's a huge misconception that all Russian girls want America or out of Russia. There are many that do, but most of the girls I talked to only know Russia and love it and have no desire to relocate. I think the time of most of the girls wanting the heck out of there is long gone. I had 2 very serious relationships while I was there and both girls asked me to move to Russia for them.

another misconception is all Russian girls want your money. When I left to America the last girlfriend I was with was going through really difficult times financially. Many times she bought me food, put money on my phone, I even asked her to buy a present for my roommate and when I tried to pay her, she refused. I also bought her things too but when I left I told her I was going to give her 10k rubles, for me, that money is nothing but I knew it would help her a lot. She refused and wouldn't take it, we actually quarreled over it. When I got home, I sent the money through PayPal to my friend and told him to give it to her and if she wouldn't accept it to tell her either she keeps it or he keeps it.

If any of you guys have the opportunity to go to Russia, I would deff go.. These girls fall in love so fast and you will probably instantly make a connection. You will also be a celebrity, which at first is flattering but eventually becomes very annoying. At the night clubs it's usually a circle of girls around you and everyone asking for pictures, or girls offering to buy you drinks.  I remember one night I went out with 2 girls I shared a flat with. I needed the bathroom and when I was washing my hands, some random girl came up hugged me and told me in Russian I was beautiful. I said thanks in English and they were in awe. I chatted with them for a few minutes then another girl passed and just stared at me, I told her she had pretty eyes then me and the 2 girls went to sit. I only chatted for a few minutes because the girls I was with started giving me thumbs down. I went back to my table and literally sat down for one second and was taking a shot with my roommates and the  pretty eyed girl from the bathroom was bringing me  a shot. She ended up pulling me back to my table and buying us like 7 or shots. The spetsnaz raided the night club to check passports, so with the music off and lights on, all eyes were on me because I was the American guy. This girl would not get off me, everyone was watching and she was sucking on my neck and kissing on my ear. I was too drunk to really care but I still kinda cared. Anyway, so yeah if you have the chance, go to Russia and you will have a blast.

If you guys have an questions, let me know. As I said I spent a year there and connected with tons of girls...

There's a Russian website called vkontakte.com. It's pretty much the Russian Facebook. I met girls off there too so you might try there to make some connections.
« Last Edit: April 17, 2012, 12:13:51 AM by AmericanBoy »

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Oh yeah, russian girls are super jealous, they love when foreign boys talk broken Russian, they're super sexual and [ sorry if this is too much] but they love butt action.

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So guys, I spent most of of 2011 in Russia along with the first part of this year.
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Photos or it didn't happen.

Oh, and yeah, how old are you and these "awed" girls again...? Teens and Tweens at a guess.  ;)


Ah, I see now from an earlier post that you are 27 or so and at least one of these girlfriends of yours was 17. Yeah, well, I think there was only one other member here interested in 17 year olds and, apparently, he has one already.  :P
« Last Edit: April 17, 2012, 12:21:21 AM by Ade »

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If these are your fondest memories of over a year in Russia - well that's pretty sad, sorry. Surely you did more than chase skirt?

BTW you really think that was the Spetsnaz raiding the nightclub or you been playing too much COD?

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I'll see if I can dig up some photos, most are not on this computer. 

Is it sad?  Most of you are here in search for a Russian bride. I'm just trying to give you some insight on my experience with Russian girls in general. I was actually there for other reasons and had no intentions on girls, girls just happened.


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I'll see if I can dig up some photos, most are not on this computer. 

Is it sad?  Most of you are here in search for a Russian bride. I'm just trying to give you some insight on my experience with Russian girls teens in general. I was actually there for other reasons and had no intentions on girls, girls just happened.


There fixed that for you.

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You guys crack me up. There was only one girl that was young, she was 17 when I met her and turned 18 2 weeks later. I was with her for 6 months. Most of the girls were in their 20's but the ages ranged from 18-39

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You guys crack me up. There was only one girl that was young, she was 17 when I met her and turned 18 2 weeks later. I was with her for 6 months. Most of the girls were in their 20's but the ages ranged from 18-39


So 39 year old women were in "awe" of a 27 year old American? Now that's hard to believe.


Here's my take on it; you find what you look for. Look for Teenage, and Tweenage party girls in nightclubs that flock to your side in "awe" and that's exactly what you'll find; immature girls out for a good time. Sleep with girls with boyfriends and you'll find yourself a cheater. It's not rocket science. What isn't clever, is to tar all, or even the majority, as such.

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Ade, I'm really having a hard time understanding your position and/or point. I met many girls from all over Russia, inside and outside of the night club. Girls that were married with kids blah blah blah and I can say it held almost none of them back. I wasn't in search of anything and if anything I tried to avoid girls.  Also, I didn't go there for a few weeks at a time. I actually had the chance to get to know people on a personal level.

The 39 year old would get drunk and come into my room and I'd tell her go to bed. She was a super hot milf too, not the early babuska lady. She was married for 19 years and according to her, only had sex with her husband. Started off with just flirting but eventually she would get in her panties trying to climb into my bed, telling me how her husband loves it that she gets so wet and she hasn't had sex in 2 months, the longest its ever been. All the while I'm telling her to go to bed because she has to get up early.

Me and another mid 30's lady had just finished talking about her life and family and she began to try and kiss me. I told her not allowed and pointed to her ring finger. She kept trying and tried to put my hand up her dress. I puled it back and she asked me who I came to that flat for. I understood her question but said I didn't understand because I didn't want to be rude. 

I actually think that age group of 30's-40's is the worst because that was the era when girls were trying to flock to America so many of them still love Americans.

Whats your longest stay in Russia? and what cities did you go to? I met people from all over and I was the first American most met. Both guys and girls had a huge interest in me because of where I was from.

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Ade, I'm really having a hard time understanding your position and/or point. I met many girls from all over Russia, inside and outside of the night club. Girls that were married with kids blah blah blah and I can say it held almost none of them back. I wasn't in search of anything and if anything I tried to avoid girls.  Also, I didn't go there for a few weeks at a time. I actually had the chance to get to know people on a personal level.

The 39 year old would get drunk and come into my room and I'd tell her go to bed. She was a super hot milf too, not the early babuska lady. She was married for 19 years and according to her, only had sex with her husband. Started off with just flirting but eventually she would get in her panties trying to climb into my bed, telling me how her husband loves it that she gets so wet and she hasn't had sex in 2 months, the longest its ever been. All the while I'm telling her to go to bed because she has to get up early.

Me and another mid 30's lady had just finished talking about her life and family and she began to try and kiss me. I told her not allowed and pointed to her ring finger. She kept trying and tried to put my hand up her dress. I puled it back and she asked me who I came to that flat for. I understood her question but said I didn't understand because I didn't want to be rude. 

I actually think that age group of 30's-40's is the worst because that was the era when girls were trying to flock to America so many of them still love Americans.

Whats your longest stay in Russia? and what cities did you go to? I met people from all over and I was the first American most met. Both guys and girls had a huge interest in me because of where I was from.


I'm not saying there aren't women that behave that way, as there are in most countries. I'm just saying that your average RW won't be acting that way and to characterize them all like that, which your first post certainly seemed to be doing is, at best, inaccurate.


Why did you get the attention you did? Perhaps you're just a real hunk. Or perhaps a novelty? I know that, without a doubt, some of the women you describe were far from classy. Few men want to marry women like that. Screw around with, yes, perhaps, but not marry.


I tend to go in periods of 1 week. Been through Moscow, SpB and Arkhangelsk. No villages though so my Britishness has never given me rock star status like yours.

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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #10 on: April 17, 2012, 02:25:49 AM »
Women in clubs are usually there to hunt men. And foreign men are more interesting, as it is less likely their regular boyfriend or husban will meet them.
Do not worry about the guys, while the women are in clubs they are in the other club chasing other women.

It seems a pretty accurate description of the young generation that hangs around in clubs.

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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #11 on: April 17, 2012, 02:33:29 AM »
I consider that every experience is interesting even when it not the usual trips aiming by a lot of members here.
So i am reading you with attention.
Continue.
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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #12 on: April 17, 2012, 05:25:12 AM »
You guys crack me up. There was only one girl that was young, she was 17 when I met her and turned 18 2 weeks later. I was with her for 6 months. Most of the girls were in their 20's but the ages ranged from 18-39

39 and you are 27!  Congratulations for your survival skills.  You became ensnared by a real COUGAR and survived to tell your tale.   
 
You say RW "love butt action."  Did you seek medical attention after the COUGAR pounded your bottom with her toys?   Seriously, trauma to the anus should not to be ignored.  You should have an American doctor check you.  Select a physician whose practice includes many gay patients.
 
When and where is your next sex tour? 

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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #13 on: April 17, 2012, 06:07:00 AM »

You say RW "love butt action."  Did you seek medical attention after the COUGAR pounded your bottom with her toys?   Seriously, trauma to the anus should not to be ignored.  You should have an American doctor check you.
Russian surgeons can help too. Sometimes they have to extract light bulbs after butt actions... delicate work.

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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #14 on: April 17, 2012, 08:18:25 AM »
   My girlfriends always treated me as if I was their husband and they both were very loyal to me after we created a relationship, probably because I was a decent looking American boy. 
Bullshit.
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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #15 on: April 17, 2012, 08:30:37 AM »
"The spetsnaz raided the night club to check passports"


You are certainly piling it high. The Russian special forces, the elite of the Russian military or police, would never waste their time raiding a nightclub checking passports  :rolleyes:  However, do on with your fictional account....
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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #16 on: April 17, 2012, 08:54:32 AM »
"The spetsnaz raided the night club to check passports"


You are certainly piling it high. The Russian special forces, the elite of the Russian military or police, would never waste their time raiding a nightclub checking passports  :rolleyes:  However, do on with your fictional account....
On the other hand, if they raid a club they will check passports of all who are present.  ;)
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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #17 on: April 17, 2012, 08:56:54 AM »
"The spetsnaz raided the night club to check passports"


You are certainly piling it high. The Russian special forces, the elite of the Russian military or police, would never waste their time raiding a nightclub checking passports  :rolleyes:  However, do on with your fictional account....

Misha, spetsnaz/OMON/ special forces in Russia do check IDs and do spot checks assisting to different officials/inspections.

http://mir72.ru/news/incidents/narkoborcy-i-omon-proveli-rejd-v-nochnom-klube

http://kp.by/daily/24106/332151/

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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #18 on: April 17, 2012, 09:00:47 AM »
Misha, spetsnaz/OMON/ special forces in Russia do check IDs and do spot checks assisting to different officials/inspections.

http://mir72.ru/news/incidents/narkoborcy-i-omon-proveli-rejd-v-nochnom-klube

http://kp.by/daily/24106/332151/


The OMON sure, I was in a hotel raided by the OMON many years ago and the OMON are sent out when there are protests and the like. But the OMON are not the spetsznaz.

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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #19 on: April 17, 2012, 09:03:43 AM »

The OMON sure, I was in a hotel raided by the OMON many years ago and the OMON are sent out when there are protests and the like. But the OMON are not the spetsznaz.

Misha, spetsnaz is another name for OMON (spetsialnoye naznacheniye - специальное назначение - special purpose)  :)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/OMON


not to confuse with a different spetsnaz  :)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spetsnaz


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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #20 on: April 17, 2012, 09:09:05 AM »
My girlfriends always treated me as if I was their husband and they both were very loyal to me after we created a relationship, probably because I was a decent looking American boy.

What part of the US are you from?
 
It's just that I've never heard a (straight) 27 year old American refer to himself as a 'boy' before.   :-\

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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #21 on: April 17, 2012, 09:10:31 AM »
Misha, spetsnaz is another name for OMON (spetsialnoye naznacheniye - специальное назначение - special purpose)  :)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/OMON


Yes, but in reading the two articles you cited, there is no mention of the OMON spetsnaz, just the regular OMON forces and the uniforms and insignia of the OMON in the pictures are not that of the spetsnaz OMON just the regular OMON.

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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #22 on: April 17, 2012, 09:14:20 AM »

Yes, but in reading the two articles you cited, there is no mention of the OMON spetsnaz, just the regular OMON forces and the uniforms and insignia of the OMON in the pictures are not that of the spetsnaz OMON.

Misha, spetsnaz is more a folk name for OMON and not used as official name.


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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #23 on: April 17, 2012, 09:22:14 AM »
Misha, spetsnaz is more a folk name for OMON and not used as official name.


Well, somehow, I don't believe are author is really cognizant of all the folk terminology for the various police officers of the Russian Federation, and I still say he is writing nothing but fiction  :-X

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Re: I'll give you guys some feedback based on what I experienced in russia
« Reply #24 on: April 17, 2012, 09:26:03 AM »
If Russians around him were saying "spetsnaz", that is what he would say.
 
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