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Offline BeenThereDoneThat

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« on: March 12, 2006, 03:47:20 AM »
Ok, from my research, this is an agency that has recieved more mixed feedback than any other agency I know. You here good stories and bad stories and everything in between. Well, I have actually used this agency in many respects, I've been to Ukraine, and I got to know some of the girls who are listed with the agency, and girls that used to be listed with the agency. Stay tuned...You will be shocked and dissapointed with what I will reveal, on the other hand, those that are experienced with FSU women and FSU dating/marriage agencies will not be so shocked. AND, just like most of the feedback I have seen, there is also some good things to say about this agency. Bottom line, they are a decent agency, with some slicksters in management getting their hands a bit too deep in the money jar.

First...As most of us know, this agency has real women. In fact 100%, in my experiences were real (I can vouch for 30 of them).

Second... they have real people (translators, guides, etc..) in a real office working for them. I know, big deal, we Americans Europeans, etc.. pay for their services and expect something for our money. Still some of the staff, acted like they were doing me a favor helping me. One translator even told me she was being nicer to me than most guys she deals with. What the?

Third... now some of the juicy stuff... Many of the top girls (in their elite list) (you know the young model types) get paid to be listed with the agency. Yup, it's true, and the girl that told me (once listed herself) said never for me never to tell...OH Well, thats why I have not named the actual name of the agency here...See if you can figure it out...I know, it's a tough one....But after spending mucho dollars with this agency to see what was there, I do not want other guys, who are like me and don't have extra thousands to throw on the campfire to get burned...In fact their number one girl (elite list) has a steady boyfriend, and is not even interested in older guys, though she states "I like 20 to 40 year old guys" in her profile. In fact she doesn't even write all her own letters.... Funny thing, I ran into her steady boyfriend in town and was introduced to him! What a con...Deceptive to say the least, though certainly nothing illegal about someone dating a guy in town and pretending to be looking for a husband abroad at the same time and while earning some side cash for doing almost nothing.... Shame shame for the poor guy that goes all the way to Ukraine for his "REAL" girl only to find that she is just playing with him..... How cruel!

Fourth.... like any agency, they have professional daters and superficial gold-diggers that don't speak any English...you know the rest...where she and the translator take you to every 5-star steak joint in town.... And where they actually think that plopping down $5000 on a trip to Ukraine is peanuts for an average American man.... You should see how some of these women waste food.... Sure we have doggie bags in the USA, but with all the starving children in this world they should be ashamed... I was apauled to see this waste of food there and no doggie bags..... And they laughed about it....And even better when they ask to see a picture of your house on the first date...Ouch.... And then in the same night ask what you think about opening a fancy boutique in town.... Funny girls.....

Fifth....I really felt great after learning that he $1700 I paid for premium hotel really only cost the agency $450. Wow, what a business venture.... Of course that was on my first trip, when I was just playing it safe..... Now I get Top of The Line for $50 - $60 a nite, and NO not for an apartment, but for 3 to 4 star hotels, and $100 - $150 a night for 5 star suites that are DECKED out....

Sixth...Another sad one...I learned that most (not all) of the girls listed with the agency don't even care for older guys (older than 5 years age difference). Yup, they all are twenty something and they say looking for 25 - 50 year olds....What a BIG lie!True, I have seen numerous cases where 40 to 50 year old guys hook up with 18 to 25 year olds.....But look at the Statistics....How many actually marry, amd are truly happy and are not a scam? Very few, but yes it does happen of course...... And sorry to be crule, but if you don't mind marrying someone who is NOT very attractive, you can probably find an 18 year old if you are 50. But does this really make sense or is it just more craziness and fantasy on the part of the man that has dillusional thinking?

Seventh.....What can you say of an agency that requires it's women to respond to all emails from men, whether they like the man or not? Well, that's what this agency does.... How nice, you send an email, and you are guaranteed a response every time!!! Now who ever said that you can't buy love? HA! AND.... the women even get juicy with you, at least until they have you hooked, and know you are coming to visit them, and buy one of the agency's Price-Bloated Hotel packages.... Smart business you say? I say deceptive marketing at the very least on most of the above points!

Eighth...Now some positive and good news.....I actually met some nice, decently attractive, compassionate women, etc etc... in Ukraine...BUT they weren't from the agency..... OH WELL.... More later..... Happy Hunting.....

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« Reply #1 on: March 12, 2006, 06:45:44 AM »
So what agency are you talking about?
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« Reply #2 on: March 12, 2006, 10:24:12 AM »
Bruce,  I am sure Conman Connections is wordplay for Confidential Connections,  postings in the scamarama section about them.  Buyer beware.
"Never argue with a fool,  onlookers may not be able to tell the difference".  Mark Twain

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« Reply #3 on: March 12, 2006, 04:22:33 PM »
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Another sad one...I learned that most (not all) of the girls listed with the agency don't even care for older guys (older than 5 years age difference). Yup, they all are twenty something and they say looking for 25 - 50 year olds....What a BIG lie!True, I have seen numerous cases where 40 to 50 year old guys hook up with 18 to 25 year olds.....But look at the Statistics....How many actually marry, amd are truly happy and are not a scam? Very few, but yes it does happen of course...... And sorry to be crule, but if you don't mind marrying someone who is NOT very attractive, you can probably find an 18 year old if you are 50. But does this really make sense or is it just more craziness and fantasy on the part of the man that has dillusional thinking?
That's going to take the wind out of a lot of sails. 

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« Reply #4 on: March 12, 2006, 11:00:30 PM »
Confidential Connections has been discussed at length on this and other  forums. What else really needs to be written about them? OK, perhaps  yet another fresh reminder to avoid them but aside from that...???

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