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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #75 on: May 04, 2012, 08:28:53 AM »
I would really appreciate if someone can suggest some kind of jaw supporting headgear. It seems my jaw is keep dropping every time I read this forum

Nah, this is very typical of the old geezers in this country.
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #76 on: May 04, 2012, 08:34:09 AM »
She also has the right to complain about the stuff she doesn't like.  Something about Freedom of Speech and all that.

Notice how it applies to some but not to others?
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #77 on: May 04, 2012, 08:35:37 AM »
Equality is bullshit!

Please, dont forget to tell that on all of your 1st dates. I am sure girls will appreciate to know it in advance.

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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #78 on: May 04, 2012, 08:36:02 AM »
Yeah, that's what you'll be saying to your future wife at every disagreement!
Here is free advice for you: obviously your strategy is to buy a young wife from a "3rd world country" with your blue passport and then expect eternal gratefulness and an additional income for that. It doesn't work this way! If you don't base marriage on real feelings and treat her as equal, maximum you'll get 2 years out of her. You are clearly heading to being a train wreck at the ripe old age of over 70!
Actually you should be probably posted at Antidate, I would personally hate to see my "FSUW sister" step into  "that"  8)

LMAO
 
I just read this. Eeriely similar to what I wrote.  8)
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #79 on: May 04, 2012, 08:37:47 AM »

I guess someone discovered the candy in the candy store. Mmm, big mistake.
 
Doug, let's accept the fact that you are an old man. The older men get, the crabbier and more mysoginist they get because the world is changing along with the women's attitudes and change is bad.
 
With that said, you'll be one of those 751 day guys in front of a judge. Mark my words. These women may talk with an accent but you are deluding yourself if you are assuming the they think with an accent.


Going by his recent rants and his 19 year age minimum, another Indle King in the making perhaps? Really, someone point anti-date over here please.

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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #80 on: May 04, 2012, 08:38:06 AM »
Please, dont forget to tell that on all of your 1st dates. I am sure girls will appreciate to know it in advance.
good advice for a dating strategy to avoid problems later on!
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #81 on: May 04, 2012, 08:38:59 AM »
Maybe  :offtopic:
Third World
First World
Seriously, is there such a thing as Second World ?  This is a term I use when my American friends want to know about Russia. I am not talking about Moscow. What are examples.

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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #82 on: May 04, 2012, 08:42:21 AM »
I disagree, equality is not BS.  You cannot have a long term happy marriage if you do not view each other as equals.

    The ultimate truth in this whole interesting forum!


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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #83 on: May 04, 2012, 08:50:13 AM »
Doug, if you don't mind a question, but what exactly do you believe is American culture?  It is kind of a blanket statement so maybe you can clarify a little as to what you mean and what type of stuff your partner will need to accept in order to have a relationship with you.

When I think of American culture some things come to mind like overeating at buffets, putting everything on credit, purchasing houses they can't afford.  haha 
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #84 on: May 04, 2012, 08:55:09 AM »
Here you go Eduard is this the kind of letter you are hopping for? Just courisos as to what you think is a good introductory letter.


    Hello Eduard’s friend

   I too look for a loving relationship where we treat each other with kindness and compassion. I have been many things during my very interesting lifetime. I have been a musician, composer, student of philosophy, cook, maid, housekeeper, friend, confidant, and just a plain average guy. I feel in life the best years are always in front of us as long as we maintain and open mind and heart, and keep our spirit’s childlike wonder ever present. I have owned my own website design and hosting business as well. I think the best things in life are things we share with family and friends. If I sound like someone you would like to get to know better get in touch Happyandstable (aka just an average man).


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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #85 on: May 04, 2012, 09:06:10 AM »
Here you go Eduard is this the kind of letter you are hopping for? Just courisos as to what you think is a good introductory letter.


    Hello Eduard’s friend

   I too look for a loving relationship where we treat each other with kindness and compassion. I have been many things during my very interesting lifetime. I have been a musician, composer, student of philosophy, cook, maid, housekeeper, friend, confidant, and just a plain average guy. I feel in life the best years are always in front of us as long as we maintain and open mind and heart, and keep our spirit’s childlike wonder ever present. I have owned my own website design and hosting business as well. I think the best things in life are things we share with family and friends. If I sound like someone you would like to get to know better get in touch Happyandstable (aka just an average man).


anything is better than: "So you wanna come to America? I am a US citizen so can bring you here!"
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #86 on: May 04, 2012, 09:09:38 AM »

 
Doug, let's accept the fact that you are an old man. The older men get, the crabbier and more mysoginist they get because the world is changing along with the women's attitudes and change is bad.
 

Where is your smiley, spring chicken?  ;)
 
I took exception at first then recognized it does not apply to me because I look younger than my age and I do things I shouldn't attempt at my age.   :D   (we need a tongue in cheek smiley)
 
Seriously, there are old men and then there are miserable old men.   You describe the latter.  I play golf with a couple of them.  One spouts such nonsense as "If women did not have that treasure between their legs there would be a bounty on their heads."   :o  He also complained once at the bar that we have no camaraderie.  A happy and even older man replied quickly,  "We do, after you leave!"  All but one of us had a big laugh.
 

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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #87 on: May 04, 2012, 09:12:26 AM »
I was relieved when I saw the OP was Eduard, there seem to be a lot of disenchanted WM with FSUW posting on here lately.  At the same time these threads just seem to become debates with no time limit or resolution.  I don't think I've ever seen an antagonist go on RWD and post, "you know what the collective wisdom of this group has enlightened me and I no longer see things the way I stated earlier."


I have heard from people that on forums such as RWD they like to play a provocative, mix-it-up role.  Perhaps that is happening, perhaps there really are people who read "hey I am big and fat American, want to be an American?" as an intro line and call it an appropriate filter.


The voices I tend to relate to on RWD are the ones that can at least occasionally say this is a difficult undertaking, that requires a lot of introspection, money, time and effort to do right and it can be worth it or it might end up just helping you become a better person.
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #88 on: May 04, 2012, 09:13:41 AM »
The quotes are from MoscowNews, WallStreetDaily, and WorldCrunch.  Are those also antiPutin organizations?

Careful, disturb the fantasy too much and they lose control.
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #89 on: May 04, 2012, 09:18:23 AM »
then got distructed by other posts.
Since you're still writing, you must now look something like this :D:

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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #90 on: May 04, 2012, 09:24:40 AM »
Since you're still writing, you must now look something like this :D :

LOL, Sandro!  :P
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #91 on: May 04, 2012, 09:24:52 AM »


The voices I tend to relate to on RWD are the ones that can at least occasionally say this is a difficult undertaking, that requires a lot of introspection, money, time and effort to do right and it can be worth it or it might end up just helping you become a better person.

Marriage to an AW should be the same. 

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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #92 on: May 04, 2012, 09:25:39 AM »
Maybe  :offtopic:
Third World
First World
Seriously, is there such a thing as Second World ?  This is a term I use when my American friends want to know about Russia. I am not talking about Moscow. What are examples.

I always called it the 2.5 world......
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #93 on: May 04, 2012, 09:38:11 AM »

So we'll see if there are going to be major changes. The scholars are hinting at a gradual decrease of Putin's vertical and he will have only six years to decrease this power vertical. If nothing is done soon, keep an eye open for serious unrest.

Muzh,

 Aldous Huxley, William Seward Burroughs and  Charles Pierre Baudelaire are now prohibited authors in Russia among another authors in "black list" you can not find their books in the Russian book stores.

about "vertical" http://www.thenation.com/blog/167647/free-pussy-riot

http://chtodelat.wordpress.com/2012/04/21/victoria-lomasko-from-the-tagansky-district-court-pussy-riot-hearing/

There is one trait among absolute proputins: for a free "piece of sausage" they are ready forget about their rights and freedoms, their ignorance in even basics economics and politics  doesn't let them understand there is really nothing free.  They can not understand where money to feed all the state employees, that includes not only bureaucrats, but also the Army, law enforcement agencies, education system, healthcare system plus all the unskilled laborers working in that systems, all of them whose salary, privilege and benefits depends on the State budget, come from.

Yes, it is more convenience for the Russian autocratic government to have more people that depends on the State, and keep social media and especially TV under the State control, than to let private business, private education, private healthcare and so on to develop and blossom, because such blossoming will lead to people's free thinking.
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #94 on: May 04, 2012, 09:55:18 AM »
Muzh,

 Aldous Huxley, William Seward Burroughs and  Charles Pierre Baudelaire are now prohibited authors in Russia among another authors in "black list" you can not find their books in the Russian book stores.

about "vertical" http://www.thenation.com/blog/167647/free-pussy-riot

http://chtodelat.wordpress.com/2012/04/21/victoria-lomasko-from-the-tagansky-district-court-pussy-riot-hearing/

There is one trait among absolute proputins: for a free "piece of sausage" they are ready forget about their rights and freedoms, their ignorance in even basics economics and politics  doesn't let them understand there is really nothing free.  They can not understand where money to feed all the state employees, that includes not only bureaucrats, but also the Army, law enforcement agencies, education system, healthcare system plus all the unskilled laborers working in that systems, all of them whose salary, privilege and benefits depends on the State budget, come from.

Yes, it is more convenience for the Russian autocratic government to have more people that depends on the State, and keep social media and especially TV under the State control, than to let privet business, privet education, privet healthcare and so on to develop and blossom, because such blossoming will lead to people's free thinking.
I tend to agree. I will not argue with my Russian friends any longer about these things. It is not worth it. But I do TRY with my wife. Maybe eventually ?

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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #95 on: May 04, 2012, 10:26:31 AM »
You are wrong, Doll. My US citizenship didn't play any role in our relationship. In fact she would have rather stayed in Russia where she could be closer to her family and had me move there to be with her. My wife likes it here now, better than in Russia in fact, but it took a few years of living here and adjusting for her to feel this way. The fact that we live in Florida not far from the Gulf of Mexico doesn't hurt either.
Ok, I guess your case is very special.

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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #96 on: May 04, 2012, 10:31:10 AM »
There is one trait among absolute proputins: for a free "piece of sausage" they are ready forget about their rights and freedoms, their ignorance in even basics economics and politics  doesn't let them understand there is really nothing free.  They can not understand where money to feed all the state employees, that includes not only bureaucrats, but also the Army, law enforcement agencies, education system, healthcare system plus all the unskilled laborers working in that systems, all of them whose salary, privilege and benefits depends on the State budget, come from.


I agree, but it's no different from the masses of Americans who are out there for government handouts and will vote for Obama in November. Both, Obama and Putin grew up with Communist ideology ingrained in them so there's nothing surprising there.
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #97 on: May 04, 2012, 10:33:06 AM »
privet business, privet education, privet healthcare and so on...
Sandro, got a video for this?  :P  None of us are perfect spellers, I guess  ;D
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #98 on: May 04, 2012, 10:36:54 AM »
Every woman can follow a man to Paradise, but only a woman in love will follow him to Hell.

It is so true; and perhaps that is why those men who can offer only hell to their potential wives tend to seek women that show signs of irrationality. They know women whose rationality is not damaged by love will leave them as only the hell starts appearing, and they hate them for that. Poor, poor hell-givers!
 
By contrast, those men who can offer Paradise usually are not scared by women who shows signs of analyzing the  cost/benefits ratio . 
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Re: Russia is HELL! Women are desperate to get out!
« Reply #99 on: May 04, 2012, 11:00:23 AM »
Sandro, got a video for this?  :P  None of us are perfect spellers, I guess  ;D

OMG  :D   

 

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