Why some of us don't want a FSU man anymore.

[Aloe]

Why some of us don't want a FSU man anymore. I am on this russian forum, and there a conversation started about the game men and women play, where nobody says what they really want when they meet. So i posted that i'd rather they immediately and directly told me what it is exactly they want, and as an example i gave my story about a russian guy who asked me on a date, and we had a drink and a many hours long very nice conversation, and in the end, it was already late, and he insisted on car sex, and i didn't do it, so he just left me stranded on the opposite side of town in the middle of the night, not even having the courtesy to drive me to the metro, he just left. My end sentence was about some ppl not having any conscience. Guess what, the replies i got from RM were, i am the one without conscience, and i should have put out, and that i am "dynamo" - that's a russian word for a girl who 'scams' and doesn't put out Lol. Even got pictures and poems in swear words about bitches that don't put out and now you deserve it and go and sit there like a fool. Just such a bright reminder for me, why so many of FSU men are so unsuitable (not all).


Such a bizarre reaction from seemingly 'adult' men. Weird right.

[Misha]

Such a bizarre reaction from seemingly 'adult' men. Weird right.

But, but, but young Russian men are supposed to be so much more generous than WM, willing to spend their last kopeck without thinking twice about it

[Shadow]

A smart girl would tell him to drive her home first before refusing.

[Aloe]

A smart girl would tell him to drive her home first before refusing.

hahaha I have a lot to learn

[Misha]

A smart girl would tell him to drive her home first before refusing.

Perhaps he had learned his lesson and thus insisted before driving the woman back home 

[Faux Pas]

I feel compelled to confess, back in my teen years I pulled the ole "Put out or get out" stunt quite a few times and it worked more than it didn't 

[Aloe]

I feel compelled to confess, back in my teen years I pulled the ole "Put out or get out" stunt quite a few times and it worked more than it didn't 

Why do you feel compelled to ruin my romanticized image of WM morals?

[Faux Pas]

Why do you feel compelled to ruin my romanticized image of WM morals?

Sorry Aloe  . It was a common occurrence back in the 70's for horny pubescent teens. Probably much farther back than that. It was expected even. With that said, that doesn't mean it was right or that I am proud of it, in fact it was a cruel thing to do even when the girl had the full expectation. It's not so much of a WM/RM thing as much as a "boys will be boys" thing

[GoodOlBoy]

Why some of us don't want a FSU man anymore.

Aloe, I could literally line up bus loads of RW here in Sunny Isles Beach who are so unhappy with RM (both here in the GoodOl' USA and the FSU).
 
I have learned that RM never change their stripes, no matter where they live.
 
You see, it's not the "harsh"  environment in the FSU making the RM behave so badly... No,no,no it is the man!
 
It's strange though, when you start listening to all of the FSUW's horror stories (like yours) over and over and over again, they all seem to run together.

And the stories ending..... is always the same.   

GOB

[BC]

Aloe, I could literally line up bus loads of RW here in Sunny Isles Beach who are so unhappy with RM (both here in the GoodOl' USA and the FSU).
 
I have learned that RM never change their stripes, no matter where they live.
 

WM don't either, therefore the biggest mistake is ignoring the 7th commandment "Always be yourself. Show the ladies the real you. Be truthful. Use current photos."

At least with RM it's going to be pretty much a WYSIWYG vs 'WIBDN3  (What Is Behind Door Number 3).

[Gator]

I feel compelled to confess, back in my teen years I pulled the ole "Put out or get out" stunt quite a few times and it worked more than it didn't 

That is not something I would ever admit to if I had tried it.  For sure I felt like it,  but got rid of the thought before verbalizing it. 
 
However, FP, I will asume that you were with that category of woman who must act as if they were forced to do it even though they wanted to from the beginning.    "No, no, no, no, no, no, no, ............ oh God, more, don't stop, don't stop, more, more."

[ML]

i didn't do it, so he just left me stranded on the opposite side of town in the middle of the night,

Man and woman go on date.  Later, he drives to deserted road far out of town.
As they are progressing toward sex, she says:

I didn't tell you before, but I am a prostitute, so you must pay me $50.
Man pays and does his duty.

Then he tells woman he is actually a taxi driver, and she must pay him $50 if she wants a ride back into town.

[Faux Pas]

That is not something I would ever admit to if I had tried it.  For sure I felt like it,  but got rid of the thought before verbalizing it. 
 
However, FP, I will asume that you were with that category of woman who must act as if they were forced to do it even though they wanted to from the beginning.    "No, no, no, no, no, no, no, ............ oh God, more, don't stop, don't stop, more, more."

 

Yeah that pretty much sums it up. I realize there is nothing in that confession that will leave me in a positive light but, it is, what it is. I don't run from the truth even at my own expense. There was a different mindset in rural Georgia 35 years ago and I had a lot of growing up to do. I never left a girl to walk even thought the threat was real 

[I/O]

LOL, yeppers, the Russian boys take no prisoners..................

[I/O]

Such a bizarre reaction from seemingly 'adult' men. Weird right.

Aloe: Two things in this world have no conscience - an empty wallet and a rising prick.

[Gator]

Aloe: Two things in this world have no conscience - an empty wallet and a rising prick.

Actually, three things.  You forgot a "wet vagina."   Pardon me ladies, but some members of your gender are as bad as any man.

[Muzh]

Actually, three things.  You forgot a "wet vagina."   Pardon me ladies, but some members of your gender are as bad as any man.

Oh, so you go by the axiom that if you were a woman, you'd be the world biggest whore?

Me thinks you are way off by at least a few thousand leagues.

[Jersey Guy]

Aloe: Two things in this world have no conscience - an empty wallet and a rising prick.

There is a biological reason for that. A man was born with two heads, but only enough blood to operate one at a time.

[Eduard]

Why some of us don't want a FSU man anymore.


I have to admitt that I've never wanted a FSU man or an American man. Always wanted a woman. Is that so wrong??? 

[ML]

Why some of us don't want a FSU man anymore.


I have to admitt that I've never wanted a FSU man or an American man. Always wanted a woman. Is that so wrong??? 

Yes, it's called prejudice.

[Gator]

Oh, so you go by the axiom that if you were a woman, you'd be the world biggest whore?

Nope, I would not charge for it but some people might call me a slut.    World's biggest?  Nope again; I rarely went crazy in the head about sex.

Me thinks you are way off by at least a few thousand leagues.

And all women are the same?   So you are saying that all sexually aroused woman think straight and clearly?   And would never do anything such as have sex in daylight in a public park?   Perhaps you led a sheltered life.  Or was it too many Catholic girls and not enough intelligent Jewish girls? 
 
My comment originated with an AW friend, who incidentally enjoyed sex and if horny would hop into bed with an appealing stranger without much hesitation.  She described it as an "itch."  Her naturalistic honesty was refreshing.
 

[Aloe]

That guy's behavior on the date was not the point!! The point was the reaction i got from RM on the forum!!

[mies]

why so many of FSU men are so unsuitable (not all)

You just met a jerk. In that case you are lucky you weren't raped. And judging by statistics, date rapes aren't rare in USA and other western countries as well.

Whenever I went out, I always made sure I had enough money for taxi, or if I didn't have money for taxi - that I can get home by public transportation, and some minimal precautions are taken (can tell more about it in private). It does not prevent from someone driving me against my will somewhere, but at least I know that at any moment I can turn and leave.

As for "That guy's behavior on the date was not the point!! The point was the reaction i got from RM on the forum!! "
Do you see any different reaction on this forum? From a good WM. We don't have any bad or mean members here. And still, what advice do they give to each other? If she didn't give you sex, and you already paid for her dinner - run from her, cancel the future dates. Now imagine you meet a bad WM...

[BillyB]

Question for the FSU ladies. Do you or do you know if it's normal for a girl to introduce her date to the parents? A lot of FSU boys think the way they think simply because they believe it's the norm and there aren't any consequences.
 
When women date guys and keep it a secret from parents, guys tend to think things are kept secret for a reason. They also begin to believe nobody cares about the girl and there's no authority to answer to.
 
If I had a daughter, she would have to bring all dates to the house so I can talk about some rules and show him my gun collection. Strong parents are a deterence to date rape and a woman treated like a piece of meat.

[Muzh]

Question for the FSU ladies. Do you or do you know if it's normal for a girl to introduce her date to the parents? A lot of FSU boys think the way they think simply because they believe it's the norm and there aren't any consequences.
 
When women date guys and keep it a secret from parents, guys tend to think things are kept secret for a reason. They also begin to believe nobody cares about the girl and there's no authority to answer to.
 
If I had a daughter, she would have to bring all dates to the house so I can talk about some rules and show him my gun collection. Strong parents are a deterence to date rape and a woman treated like a piece of meat.

I think you should be the last person to talk about this.

Ever heard do as I say, not as I do? That's what you just did.