Just cant figure it out

[Aditya]

Hello once again.!
This question might be a bit eccentric, but if any of you have any ideas where (european countries) womens are seeking for asian mens.
When i say "Asian" i dont mean Chinese, korean or Japanese
I am Swedish guy, being born in One of the asian countries i have citizenship here.
But i dont really am into the girls here, they dont socialize well and most of them are too much traditional and of old thoughts, in other words these are not the kind of girls i am looking for
So i just wanted to know

Where (country) can i find most europen girls seeking mens from around asia. ( i am probably ready to travel over there)
I actually dont have any idea about it.

Regards

[ML]

First, be sure you don't call yourself an 'Asian man' in your emails, your phone talking or your profiles on dating website.

Indicate you are a 'European man' who happens to be living in an Asian country.

I am not saying there is anything wrong with being Asian, or that some gals might not like it; but just be sure to set the record straight up front, so you don't screw up the gals' search criteria.

[Manny]

Where (country) can i find most europen girls seeking mens from around asia. ( i am probably ready to travel over there)

Turkey.

[BillyB]

This question might be a bit eccentric, but if any of you have any ideas where (european countries) womens are seeking for asian mens.

Why seek women only from European countries? There are plenty of Russian women living practically next door to you in India. Uzbekistan, Kazahkstan, and most other "Stans" in Asia belonging to the FSU have Slavic women living there. I don't think most of them are dreaming about living in India but it's worth a try.

[Aditya]

Why seek women only from European countries? There are plenty of Russian women living practically next door to you in India. Uzbekistan, Kazahkstan, and most other "Stans" in Asia belonging to the FSU have Slavic women living there. I don't think most of them are dreaming about living in India but it's worth a try.

Actually i dont think we can find russian womens here in india ? Never heard about it, or else most of them are into prostitution. (This i've heard about- Google)

P.S : i dont have plans to stay here in india for long ( Probably these are my last years 2-3 more)

[I/O]

Aditya: Are you black or white?

[Aditya]

I Am white.
I've attached a pic aswell.

[Shadow]

I Am white.
I've attached a pic aswell.

With all due respect, but there is not a single Russian woman that would consider the person in that picture white.

[BC]

With all due respect, but there is not a single Russian woman that would consider the person in that picture white.

The lighting of course is not that great.

It might be interesting to know your age Aditya.  You do seem quite young looking.

[Aditya]

With all due respect, but there is not a single Russian woman that would consider the person in that picture white.

Its pretty much sunny here, i guess sunburnt, another thing lights inside those cars were not good enough nor the camera.

And
BC : I am 18, About finding a girl ( i am not in hurry to rush into it or something, but still i 'd like to know more)

[Shadow]

Its pretty much sunny here, i guess sunburnt, another thing lights inside those cars were not good enough nor the camera.

And
BC : I am 18, About finding a girl ( i am not in hurry to rush into it or something, but still i 'd like to know more)

As I said, it is not meant as disrespect. Just know that for many RW someone 'black' is already a complexion that comes from Turkey which would be described as 'Caucasian' in the true sense of the word.
So even without sun tan, your hair, eyes and general look will classify you 'Black' in the Russian world, where being 'black' is very different from being 'negro'.

[BC]

BC : I am 18, About finding a girl ( i am not in hurry to rush into it or something, but still i 'd like to know more)

Thanks.

Listen... you're a great looking young man.

If I catch the 'tone' of your initial post you feel that the local girls are not interested or somehow biased?

Are you currently dating?  If your difficulty starts there it will be little different anywhere else on the planet.  There is hope though.. and it is called growing up.. we've all been there.  The basic mistake is not asking..  See a girl you like? ask her out regardless of what the outcome you think will be.  That's the whole trick.....

Around here they call it a 'numbers game'....  If you ask 10 girls out, you'll gain experience and maybe a decent date.  If you ask none.. well you'll get nowhere.  Don't let the fear of refusal stop you... that's the greatest mistake of all.  Just remember that your peers, white, green, yellow, orange or whatever are pretty much at the same developmental stage..  It may take a bit of time, but once you start asking girls out the word will get around.. and you may end up being 'different' in a positive way and different light.

Grow cojones... that's what it's all about and at your age it's quite ok.

[Aditya]

As I said, it is not meant as disrespect. Just know that for many RW someone 'black' is already a complexion that comes from Turkey which would be described as 'Caucasian' in the true sense of the word.
So even without sun tan, your hair, eyes and general look will classify you 'Black' in the Russian world, where being 'black' is very different from being 'negro'.

Could i assume that in other words, Russians dont like "Black" People. ?

BC: Thats for all those facts, i will be keeping them in mind.

[Turboguy]

I have seen some black guys have success in looking for a RW but I do think it is more of a challenge for them.  There are so few blacks in Russia that people are not used to seeing them and I think it reacts differently in different people.  Some are afraid of the unknown, some get interested and curious and find a black exotic but most are not eager to have a black husband. 

[BC]

I have seen some black guys have success in looking for a RW but I do think it is more of a challenge for them.  There are so few blacks in Russia that people are not used to seeing them and I think it reacts differently in different people.  Some are afraid of the unknown, some get interested and curious and find a black exotic but most are not eager to have a black husband.

TG,

Aditya is not black IMHO.  He looks a lot like an Asian kid my parents fostered for a while. He does have a prominent nose though and that's a plus.  I have a big nose too... lol.  If he can keep it clean and work on himself, studies etc - towards a productive life he'll be just fine.

Aditya may well find a marriage partner in 10 years or so or at least I hope he does.  International / FSU dating though may be a bit premature.  At his age it's more about dating.. and dating is doomed to fail at some point or other - that's quite normal ups and downs of the latter stages of adolescence. There are PLENTY good looking young women his age that would be interested in a date or two... maybe more.

Aditya,

the last thing you need to be doing is look for a wife in some far off place thinking it will somehow be easier than at home.  I can unequivocally say that is not the case.

[ML]

I am Swedish guy . . .

Oh, really!!

[ML]

There are PLENTY good looking young women his age that would be interested in a date or two... maybe more.

Yes, check out some of those Bollywood dancers!!

[Turboguy]

 

Could i assume that in other words, Russians dont like "Black" People. ?

TG,

Aditya is not black IMHO.  He looks a lot like an Asian kid my parents fostered for a while.
Aditya,

Yes, I posted because of his question about black people.   I can't say he looks quite like I would typically picture a swedish guy either.  Regardless I think many women would find him attractive from a looks standpoint and I think he will do quite well with women.   I do think his age may be a problem, in part because many women would not expect someone his age to be ready to settle down in a marriage, in part because his pool will be more limited than it will be in a few years since most of the women who would be interested are the 18 and 19 year olds and they too may not be ready to settle down.
 
 

[Shadow]

Could i assume that in other words, Russians dont like "Black" People. ?

BC: Thats for all those facts, i will be keeping them in mind.

There are Russians who look like you. If you look for a society where racial differences are sugar coated, Russia is not for you. If you can take people telling to your face that you are the single nice guy they met from your ethnic background, you will not have problems (except going out in the middle of Moscow at night...).

I can see many women liking your appearance, no doubt there. Its the men you might have to worry about...

[Muzh]

Aditya is not black IMHO.  He looks a lot like an Asian kid my parents fostered for a while. He does have a prominent nose though and that's a plus. 

May be that's his Swedish heritage because he looks he is Indian/Pakistani/Sri Lankan.

I'm curious if Russian would use the word nigr with people from the African continent only or with every one with very dark skin like Indian or Pakistani.

[Aditya]

Oh, really!!

I Get to hear this a lot.
Surprised faces when i tell them i am swedish.

Yes, check out some of those Bollywood dancers!!

I Literally planned a trip to find it out, they just vanish somewhere i can't find, or else i am not searching at the right place.

[I/O]

most are not eager to have a black husband.

Agreed.
 
Aditya: In Russia, you aren't white and most won't believe you're from Sweden.

[Shadow]

May be that's his Swedish heritage because he looks he is Indian/Pakistani/Sri Lankan.

I'm curious if Russian would use the word nigr with people from the African continent only or with every one with very dark skin like Indian or Pakistani.

No they would not.
Bollywood is pretty well known and popular in Russia.

[Aditya]

Agreed.
 
Aditya: In Russia, you aren't white and most won't believe you're from Sweden.

No offence but,

Well basically i was told, most russian womens dont care about color, they look for a decent guy, a guy who possibly could fill up their expectations

[Anotherkiwi]

   Aditya!
 
 

No offence but,

Well basically i was told, most russian womens dont care about color, they look for a decent guy, a guy who possibly could fill up their expectations

Sorry, but someone was either being kind to the naive young guy or talking through a hole in their whatsit.  There have been plenty of posts here, including some from our female members, which state quite strongly that the majority of Russian women won't have anything to do with men who aren't "white."
 
Of course there are exceptions, but you will have to be very confident in yourself that anyone you intend to visit is happy with your skin colour.  As has also been pointed out, you may experience more trouble with Russisn (or Ukrainian) men, as witnessed by the group of Indian students who were beaten up at a football match in Ukraine just before Euro 2012.  Don't expect any help from the police if you get into trouble.
 
Apart from that - good luck!