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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #25 on: September 18, 2012, 05:06:22 AM »
:welcome:  Aditya!
 
 
Sorry, but someone was either being kind to the naive young guy or talking through a hole in their whatsit.  There have been plenty of posts here, including some from our female members, which state quite strongly that the majority of Russian women won't have anything to do with men who aren't "white."
 
Of course there are exceptions, but you will have to be very confident in yourself that anyone you intend to visit is happy with your skin colour.  As has also been pointed out, you may experience more trouble with Russisn (or Ukrainian) men, as witnessed by the group of Indian students who were beaten up at a football match in Ukraine just before Euro 2012.  Don't expect any help from the police if you get into trouble.
 
Apart from that - good luck!

Thank you for those, i probably will take care  ;)
P.S : I Have read articles yea, where i read about russian womens seeking for guys outside their country, I dont meant to annoy anyone, also i got to hear this from a friend of mine (russian) - Russian mens are rude and most of thems don't want families etc ? Is that simply a rumor or that actually happens ?
So i probably would like to hear more about it from some acknowledged people here.

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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #26 on: September 18, 2012, 05:41:37 AM »
Thank you for those, i probably will take care  ;)
P.S : I Have read articles yea, where i read about russian womens seeking for guys outside their country, I dont meant to annoy anyone, also i got to hear this from a friend of mine (russian) - Russian mens are rude and most of thems don't want families etc ? Is that simply a rumor or that actually happens ?
So i probably would like to hear more about it from some acknowledged people here.


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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #27 on: September 18, 2012, 06:06:01 AM »
May be that's his Swedish heritage because he looks he is Indian/Pakistani/Sri Lankan.

I'm curious if Russian would use the word nigr with people from the African continent only or with every one with very dark skin like Indian or Pakistani.
I'd say the word is meant to refer to people of African race only.
For someone like our OP Russians may probably use the word 'Indian', regardless of his place of birth of residence, which may also be Sweden.
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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #28 on: September 18, 2012, 08:45:16 AM »
I'd say the word is meant to refer to people of African race only.
For someone like our OP Russians may probably use the word 'Indian', regardless of his place of birth of residence, which may also be Sweden.

Thanks Lily, just curious. I would have asked my wife but right now she has her face inmersed into the practice guide for her license exam and would probably ignore my question.
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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #29 on: September 18, 2012, 03:09:29 PM »
i was told, most russian womens dont care about color, they look for a decent guy, a guy who possibly could fill up their expectations
Yeah, well that's bullsch!t when it's all boiled down. The RW's you see on forums like this are probably a bit more open minded than the representative average. There's exceptions but for the most part you're at the back end of the preference line.
 
I think you'll have a credability issue with the Swedish claim - Russians, particularly Siberians, have Nordic / Scandinavian blood also and they'll be expecting what they know, blond hair and blue eyes so to say.
 
 

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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #30 on: September 18, 2012, 03:33:39 PM »
I'd say the word is meant to refer to people of African race only.

Yes, for sub-Saharan Africa.   If I enter "negro" into an electronic translator, it answers with негр (or "nigr"). 
 
The use of the term is not derogatory.  It is akin to our referring to Chinese as Asians.  However, the Russian pronounciation is very similar to "nigger," perhaps the worst ethnic slur in America.  I guess the Russians derived the word from the French nègre (help me Sandro) as Russian uses many French words.   
 
It is shocking to hear one of these sweet RW speak the word.  I took the Cossack woman to a black-operated restaurant selling barbecued pork ribs.  She loved them, and a month later when discussing where to dine she said, "I want some negr food!!! 
 

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For someone like our OP Russians may probably use the word 'Indian', regardless of his place of birth of residence, which may also be Sweden.

India has a diverse mixed population with hundreds if not thousands of ethnic groups. 
« Last Edit: September 18, 2012, 03:36:11 PM by Gator »

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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #31 on: September 18, 2012, 04:36:14 PM »
I guess the Russians derived the word from the French nègre (help me Sandro) as Russian uses many French words.
Possibly, but in turn French nègre and Spanish negro derive from the Latin for the colour black, i.e. niger (same as the African river and country).

An anecdote from my grammar school days: our teacher of Letters (whose responsibilities were teaching us Italian, Latin, History & Geography) one day called me out during the Latin hour for an oral quiz, and said:
"Translate: Cane, Nero"
Now that in Italian means 'black dog', so I confidently replied: "Canis niger". 
It turned out that what she had uttered was Latin and meant: "Sing, Oh Nero" (the notorious Roman Emperor with delusions about his musical abilities). 

I had been tricked because one cannot much hear commas and capitalised initials in speech ;). That's why I still remember what niger means in Latin, after almost 60 years :D.

P.S.: the Greek for black, dark is μαύρος (máuros), which gave us Moor, Moro, Mauritania, etc.
« Last Edit: September 18, 2012, 05:13:33 PM by SANDRO43 »
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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #32 on: September 19, 2012, 02:58:00 AM »
In other words, i wish to know how do we acquire temporary ( 3 year ) citizenship in RF, in order to apply for Permanent Citizenship?
« Last Edit: September 19, 2012, 04:48:46 AM by Aditya »

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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #33 on: September 19, 2012, 06:37:50 AM »
In other words, i wish to know how do we acquire temporary ( 3 year ) citizenship in RF, in order to apply for Permanent Citizenship?


Aditya,


http://www.redtape.ru/forum/showthread.php?t=12392


http://rusembassy.in/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=3&Itemid=195&lang=en


Two minutes search while having coffee.


I take it you speak Russian? Or perhaps you have high in demand profession that can land you a job anywhere? Or do you have an independent source of income? What are you planning to do in Russia?


Why don't you go as a tourist first, may be you will not even like Russia? 
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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #34 on: September 19, 2012, 06:50:35 AM »
I am not that fluent russian speaker, i am still in learning process.
I Plan to move to russia because where i am right now, i dont really like this country (no offence) but it doesn't suits me.
I Am not in a hurry to move to russia, Obviously i will go on a trip before to explore things there.!

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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #35 on: September 19, 2012, 07:37:49 AM »
I Am white.
I've attached a pic aswell.

You shouldn't be ashamed of the colour of your skin - Indian.  You should be 100% honesty with your profile / photo.  Russian women value honesty. 
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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #36 on: September 19, 2012, 07:40:01 AM »
I Get to hear this a lot.
Surprised faces when i tell them i am swedish.

I Literally planned a trip to find it out, they just vanish somewhere i can't find, or else i am not searching at the right place.

Will Zlatan Ibrahimovic tell them that he is Swedish?
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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #37 on: September 19, 2012, 08:09:45 AM »
lol, nothing else i can do to prove that.

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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #38 on: September 19, 2012, 08:45:02 AM »
lol, nothing else i can do to prove that.

Just tell them you look like Suresh Raina lol
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Re: Just cant figure it out
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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #40 on: September 19, 2012, 11:35:40 AM »
lol, nothing else i can do to prove that.

When you say you are Swedish, are you referring to your looks?
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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #41 on: September 20, 2012, 04:24:13 AM »
When you say you are Swedish, are you referring to your looks?

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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #42 on: September 20, 2012, 04:52:45 AM »
Hey Aditya,
Nice to have you aboard.
I think I can relate to your desire to leave your country.
When I was about your age, I had a fascination with New Zealand and the women there.
I had taken a 2 week vacation to Australia and NZ and found the girls there very very attractive.
So much so, that I was hell bent on moving there. ( Part of this desire was probably in sighted by Zena the warrior princess too :) )
But of course all this was just a fantasy in my head and I soon became interested in local women and the desire to move shifted from New Zealand to my new girlfriends underpants.

I suspect you will have similar interests very soon.
Have Fun :)

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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #43 on: September 20, 2012, 07:20:41 AM »

 
It is shocking to hear one of these sweet RW speak the word.  I took the Cossack woman to a black-operated restaurant selling barbecued pork ribs.  She loved them, and a month later when discussing where to dine she said, "I want some negr food!!! 
 
In the FSU, the word 'негр' is perfectly and absolutely normal. Russians were born and bred without all this ideas that were heavily discussed in the West. Some have never seen a real black person in their lives. They have zero idea why and what it is all about the black people.
In Russia. there is a popular fairy tale for kids ''Three Fat Men''. One episode is when a magician transforms himself in an African person. His superintendant is shocked when she suddenly sees him, and shouts out loud, ''Negr! Negr! How come a Negr is here?'' The tale was heard on vynil many times, I can remember this scream very well even now :)
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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #44 on: September 20, 2012, 08:33:32 AM »
Sorry for the  :offtopic: but the word негр still reminds me of the KVN joke.

An American looking person stood with a sign 'HELP'.
Someone passed and looked at the sign.
H
E
(turned his head upside down) г
P

And continued to walk...
No it is not a dog. Its really how I look.  ;)

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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #45 on: September 20, 2012, 08:35:22 AM »
In other words, i wish to know how do we acquire temporary ( 3 year ) citizenship in RF, in order to apply for Permanent Citizenship?
Do you have job skills that could land you a job in Russia ? Just being married does not by itself get you the permit.
No it is not a dog. Its really how I look.  ;)

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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #46 on: September 20, 2012, 01:04:00 PM »
there is a popular fairy tale for kids ''Three Fat Men''. One episode is when a magician transforms himself in an African person. His superintendant is shocked when she suddenly sees him, and shouts out loud, ''Negr! Negr! How come a Negr is here?'' The tale was heard on vynil many times, I can remember this scream very well even now :)
Lily, for your own safety don't try this in Canada!  :P
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Re: Just cant figure it out
« Reply #47 on: September 20, 2012, 08:20:47 PM »
Well basically i was told, most russian womens dont care about color, they look for a decent guy, a guy who possibly could fill up their expectations

I was told a guy can look like a monkey and easily find a RW. True if the RW looks like a monkey herself.
 
Aditya, in this thread you've told us you're Swedish and white. Do not tell this to RW you're corresponding with. Based off your photo you will sound like a liar. Just send them your photo and let them decide. No need to explain your skin color or nationality. If they think you're a handsome man that wrote a good introduction letter and you fit their criteria, they will reply. If they think you're dog ugly, no matter how good a letter you wrote, they will not reply.
Fund the audits, spread the word and educate people, write your politicians and other elected officials. Stay active in the fight to save our country. Over 220 generals and admirals say we are in a fight for our survival like no other time since 1776.

 

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