Perplexed about the five year visa

[Judges]

Straight out of Webster's Dictionary:

1whore
noun \ˈhȯr, ˈhu̇r\
Definition of WHORE
1
: a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman
2
: a male who engages in sexual acts for money


I didn't make the definition and frankly don't know if you are just trolling or if you are not a native speaker, but I'll stay out of this thread from now on, so don't bother replying.

Good decision on your part "OldBuck."  While your at it, go back and delete your idiotic response as one member already eluded to.  With you, "Garbage in, and Garbage out."  Now go back to your sand box and wait for Arnold to kick sand in your face and britches.   

[Judges]

His name is Muzh (муж) short for male/man or more specifically for "husband." Given that his wife of many years undoubtedly considers him to be good in each of those titles, I'd politely ask that even if you don't like his advice, at least honour his experience. When it comes to successfully courting a "post Soviet" woman, there are many members here who could be of assistance but as the old saying goes, "you attract more bees with honey."

So Hzum brings out the big guns now; his wife.  What a coward.  "Mommy, a man on the forum is scolding me for making an idiotic and out of place comment."  "Don't worry Mzum, Mommy is here to protect you from this big bad world."   

You are a Russian woman; why would you want to support a male chavuenist pig husband who makes fun of and calls a Russian woman, the topic of this thread, a lesbian?  You dear lady, have been brain washed by a pig who likes to control women.  The old cliche, "Birds of a feather, flock togeher" bodes well for you two. 

[mendeleyev]

I've spoken about my own wife in a previous post, yet because I mention Muzh, you stretch to think that I am:

- a woman.

- related to Muzh.


Neither is true, my friend. My wife is getting a big chuckle at your mistake and I'm sure that when Muzh reads this his wife will find it just as humorous.


PS...I'm looking forward to your link about the study of post-Soviet women.

[Judges]

Judges I'm not trying to make fun of you however I need your assistance.  It would appear that the title is still available so unless I did something wrong in the search, neither Google or Amazon have ranked/listed that book or online publication as of yet.

For what its worth, I get to study post Soviet Union women every day. I have a wife, many extended relatives, am blessed with lots of friends, and post Soviet co-workers. My life's work in journalism is focused on Russia, Ukraine and the various CIS countries. I'd love to take a glance at that study, or book, or whatever it is.  Do you have a link?

Your lead in with your first sentence says it all... "For what it's worth."  I'll tell you, your comment is not "worth" a hill of beans.  You're one of the smart allecks who has nothing but garbage coming out of your pie hole.   

Who said anything about a book?  Google the phrase. 

You think just because you are married to a Russian woman; knowing her relatives, and knowing her friends is telltale of the actual circumstances women live under in these countries or any country for that matter?  Are you sure you're a journalist?     

[LiveFromUkraine]

[Judges]

I've spoken about my own wife in a previous post, yet because I mention Muzh, you stretch to think that I am:

- a woman.

- related to Muzh.


Neither is true, my friend. My wife is getting a big chuckle at your mistake and I'm sure that when Muzh reads this his wife will find it just as humorous.


PS...I'm looking forward to your link about the study of post-Soviet women.

Oh, so with you we have a child playing in his sand box.  You post comments for other members; very interesting.  What an idiot to admit this child's play. 

[Judges]

LOL!  Best comment yet! 

[Brillynt]

Oh, so with you we have a child playing in his sand box.  You post comments for other members; very interesting.  What an idiot to admit this child's play.

POT KETTLE BLACK.

Wow, a new member calling our most respected member an idiot.   

I see a paranoid idiot, that could not have traveled to 40 countries. All you have done is call everyone that responded to this thread an idiot. So that just leaves the  internet troll. Time to stop feeding the troll. 

Just my opinion based on all of your posts.

[Brillynt]

Are we sure this guy is not a late April fools joke?

[Anotherkiwi]

Are we sure this guy is not a late April fools joke?

I fear that he may be the reincarnation of Bee Farmer! 

[Mod3]

Judges: one friendly warning. Stop the name calling, including 'funny' versions.

[pitbull]

Are we sure this guy is not a late April fools joke?

I vote - troll 

[Vaughn]

......as one member already eluded to.

Admittedly, I sometimes cringe when someone who claims to have superior knowledge of a certain topic misspells words fairly often - but when that person inserts a word like "eluded" when "alluded" was clearly implied - I lose faith in the seriousness of such a poster. In short, his credibility "eludes" me.

Her English is better than most Americans.   

Yep.
 

[Muzh]

There you go....making friends left and right

 You do realize they are trying to help you.

To quote him, he's an idiot of the highest form of the word.

I guess we have another 'wiener' in our hands. Complete with anger issues.

Where do these 'people' crawl from?

Edit: Actually, prime candidate for watched member.

[mies]

Gents,
Do you think she paid the official off with money or sex?

Given that visa is issued by the U.S. consulate, by the American foreign service employees, do you imply by your question that American foreign service employees (and U.S. citizens, who passed serious background check and probably some kind of clearance too) working in foreign countries can be bribed with money or sex and issue 5-year visa to a person who otherwise isn't qualified for this visa?

[mies]

I suggest you study what women and female children had to to up until Ukraine became an independent country in 1991.  Wives, grown women, and female children were forced to sell their bodies to earn money for their families. 

you are severely misinformed. Someone has been lying to you all along!

Also, I apologize for my unreasonable prompt response. I forgot it was April 1st.
It looks like, just for the sheer fun of it, some medical workers "forgot" to distribute the pills today in their institution.

[Muzh]

Pardon me for saying this, but you are either severely misinformed or mentally disadvantaged or perhaps banned from Google. I cannot quite figure which one of those.

No Mies, he is just an idiot of the highest form of the word.

[BillyB]

I do know her father is a former KGB high ranking officer.  The plot thickens.

Paranoia will destroya.


I work with dirt for a living but I've dated a couple of doctors and like your lady, a university professor in Ukraine on a tourist visa to America. Intelligent, strict, serious, career minded women need romance too. In the first french kiss you have with the lady, her tongue will tell you how hungry she is for romance.


You need not to worry. You are not going to be in the news, on your knees with a black eye, bad breath, uncombed hair, and gun to your head denouncing America and asking for the release of imprisoned Russian spies around the world. But just in case I'm wrong, take with you a self addressed, postage paid body bag so the Ukrainian authorities will know where to mail you back home.

[Muzh]

Paranoia will destroya.


I work with dirt for a living but I've dated a couple of doctors
 
 

I just find that so hard to believe
 
 

In the first french kiss you have with the lady, her tongue will tell you how hungry she is for romance.

Yep. So, so hard to believe. Now, if you were talking about the dirt you work with...

[mies]

Intelligent, strict, serious, career minded women need romance too.

I'll share the anecdote from Russian-Ukrainian reality which supports this statement. I've heard similar stories at least twice from two completely different and unrelated sources. A strict, serious, successful in her professional career, highly educated woman of roughly 40 or slightly more, is single for some time and then suddenly she has a romance with a blue-collar worker: an electrician, or a hands-on construction guy. When all her friends come to greet her (while gossiping behind her back), she apologetically responds: "Yes, I know how low I sank. But I need romance too, and unfortunately I couldn't find any man of my level."

This, Billy, might give you a perspective of how really the career minded women in FSU view romance with men who work "with dirt." The income of the man isn't very relevant in this case: he may be making more than a woman, but chances are she'd feel "unfortunately, that's my last resort cause I couldn't get anyone better" and will be ashamed by this romantic involvement. 

[mies]

I concur. My In-Laws have the same thing (neither have PhDs but do have a sexy son-in-law). They started with single entry, then 2-years multiple and just now received their 5-year multiples. Granted, unlike Muzh's, they're Russian but seeing his MIL have the same thing...it's hardly impossible or even near it.

True, my mom received 5-year, multiple entry visa on her very first application for American visa. She's been visiting me every year since.

[mies]

Because you didn't get to that level without party approval, and party participation, which in Ukraine, usually meant doing party errands that included informing on others and making their lives miserable.  It says something about who the person "is".

I can neither fully agree nor fully disagree with this statement.
I was blessed with the most wonderful professors, who had (some of them deceased in the past years)/have the highest moral standards, never made lives of their colleagues miserable, and have never been particularly active in Communist party matters.
But having a father in KGB may change things drastically, and also will likely make much smoother and easier the path to PhD to a young and aspiring student.

[BillyB]

I'll share the anecdote from Russian-Ukrainian reality which supports this statement. I've heard similar stories at least twice from two completely different and unrelated sources. A strict, serious, successful in her professional career, highly educated woman of roughly 40 or slightly more, is single for some time and then suddenly she has a romance with a blue-collar worker: an electrician, or a hands-on construction guy. When all her friends come to greet her (while gossiping behind her back), she apologetically responds: "Yes, I know how low I sank. But I need romance too, and unfortunately I couldn't find any man of my level" and will be ashamed by this romantic involvement.

There are professional women would like to get their boat rocked in bed by a hard bodied construction worker on a regular basis or at least one time in their life. Associating with the weak skin and bones or fat office worker gets old.  I agree with you that some of those women wouldn't be proud to tell their friends about their fling, others would be proud, and certainly many of those women would not marry a construction guy but I doubt any woman I dated would call my job low level. On dates, I first tell ladies I'm a project manager and superintendent of a construction company and later they'll understand I own the company. If I pursued those professional ladies hard enough, they'd marry me. They didn't break up with me. I broke up with them.

[Muzh]

I swear I hear unicorns and fairies coming from this thread.

[mies]

There are professional women would like to get their boat rocked in bed by a hard bodied construction worker on a regular basis or at least one time in their life. Associating with the weak skin and bones or fat office worker gets old.  I agree with you that some of those women wouldn't be proud to tell their friends about their fling, others would be proud, and certainly many of those women would not marry a construction guy but I doubt any woman I dated would call my job low level. On dates, I first tell ladies I'm a project manager and superintendent of a construction company and later they'll understand I own the company. If I pursued those professional ladies hard enough, they'd marry me. They didn't break up with me. I broke up with them.

You would be surprised how many hard and otherwise resilient & active bodies can be found in the offices nowadays 
Then after a boat tour one may have a fascinating and educating discussion on multiple interesting topics and be on the same wavelength.

I thought you are already married to a mature 19-20yo adult. Why would you need to pursue professional middle-aged women and get them willing to marry you?
(And on a side note, why didn't you chose someone without an advanced degree for your partner?)