Where to find an American fiancee?

[Katerina07]

Hello ya'll I am not an american looking for a russian, Im quite the opposite.
Can anyone suggest any websites where can I look for an american to date? ive seen lots of posts here including websites to find a russian woman, but are there any to find an american man? 
Im 22 y.o., and looking for 20-30 y.o. guy. Im also very picky, so there has to be a choice 
I have an account on pof.com, but guys on there are not very happy with the fact that im Russian

Any advice, guys?))

[Shadow]

Hi Katerina,

Actually if you read which sites the men recommend, you should know where to register yourself to find them. Being picky is a good thing, you are young enough to have some time.

Now the question is, why are you looking to find foreign men, and why specific Americans ? This is curiosity, just as I would ask a man why he would limit himself to one country.

[calmissile]

Welcome to the forum.  You might have stumbled on the right place considering that most members are western men looking for a russian or ukrainiane wife.  check your inbox for messages.  I suspect you will be receiving some interest here.

Good luck on your hunting.  There are a lot of single guys here.

 

[Katerina07]

Hi Katerina,

Actually if you read which sites the men recommend, you should know where to register yourself to find them.

Would you mind reminding me any? 

Now the question is, why are you looking to find foreign men, and why specific Americans ? This is curiosity, just as I would ask a man why he would limit himself to one country.

Ive been to America for 3 summers while I was a student - fall in love with the country but was too busy with work to actually look for someone to date. Since im about to graduate, i feel like its time to create a family, and I would like to have that family in the country I like. 

[Hammer2722]

Welcome to the forum.  You might have stumbled on the right place considering that most members are western men looking for a russian or ukrainiane wife.  check your inbox for messages.  I suspect you will be receiving some interest here.

Good luck on your hunting.  There are a lot of single guys here.

 

There are but I imagine not many in the age range she is looking for.
Welcome Katerina! As Shadow suggested, the most highly recommended sights here will be you best chance at finding an AM. Good luck!!!

[Larry1]

I have an account on pof.com, but guys on there are not very happy with the fact that im Russian

My guess is you might eventually find someone on POF.  But have you considered putting your profile on a site that focuses on RW and WM, like Elena's Models or LuckyLovers?   To the guys there your being Russian is a plus not a minus.

Freepersonals might also work.

Welcome to the forum. 

[Katerina07]

Welcome to the forum.  You might have stumbled on the right place considering that most members are western men looking for a russian or ukrainiane wife.  check your inbox for messages.  I suspect you will be receiving some interest here.

Good luck on your hunting.  There are a lot of single guys here.

 

Haha thanks for your heads up! 
Ive just registered on here so my inbox is empty at the moment but if you say there are lots of guys on here - will see what happends 

[Katerina07]

My guess is you might eventually find someone on POF.  But have you considered putting your profile on a site that focuses on RW and WM, like Elena's Models or LuckyLovers?   To the guys there your being Russian is a plus not a minus.

Freepersonals might also work.

Welcome to the forum.

Ive read some reviews about elenas models that guys dont really text much on there. You think I should give it a shot anyway?

As for the other two, thanks, I'll check them out!

[Muzh]

Ive read some reviews about elenas models that guys dont really text much on there. You think I should give it a shot anyway?

As for the other two, thanks, I'll check them out!

Before you do any of that, please read what to expect. At 22 you should not be looking for a 30 yo guy, too old for you.

Good luck

[Shadow]

Would you mind reminding me any? 


Ive been to America for 3 summers while I was a student - fall in love with the country but was too busy with work to actually look for someone to date. Since im about to graduate, i feel like its time to create a family, and I would like to have that family in the country I like. 

Being out of the hunt too long, I do currently not know enough of the quality of the sites. But there is somewhere here (I am lazy today) a post by the member ML which recommends free and nearly free sites to search for women. You can check out any of them and see if there are interesting men to be found.

[GoodOlBoy]

Before you do any of that, please read what to expect. At 22 you should not be looking for a 30 yo guy, too old for you.

Good luck

Yeah, try to find someone your own age Katerina07.
No more than +5 years.
And for God's sake, stay away from the 70 yo goats.
 
GOB
 
PS...    to RWD.

[Faux Pas]

Ive read some reviews about elenas models that guys dont really text much on there. You think I should give it a shot anyway?

As for the other two, thanks, I'll check them out!

You should check out Elenas Models and also Facebook (not vk). There are a number of sites that different men here found better than others and also some that are highly recommended to stay away from if you are sincere in your search. The median age of men on this forum is probably 40-45 or higher and well beyond what you stated you seek. No doubt a few of them will contact you anyway 

Good luck in your search. We hope you stick around and enjoy the forum. Welcome to RWD!

[Larry1]

Ive read some reviews about elenas models that guys dont really text much on there. You think I should give it a shot anyway?

I think it's worth a shot.  A couple of years ago a guy I know figured out that EM had the most favorable male/female ratio of any of the big international dating sites (favorable to you, that is).  But I don't know if that has changed recently.

On the other hand, I have two female friends who used it and were really disappointed in the results.  They wrote to a lot of guys who never even read their letters but deleted them.  And both are attractive, although not the knockouts who get a disproportionate amount of interest.  I still think it's worth a try though. If you're not having a good experience there after a month or so you can always move on to another site.

I suspect that EM doesn't have a huge number of guys in their twenties.  Typically guys get into this search only in their thirties or forties.  Before that they are dating at home. Although there are some exceptions to this general rule.

Have you thought about applying for another visa to come here?  Once here it should be tremendously easier to meet a guy of the type you prefer.

Good luck.

[Katerina07]

Have you thought about applying for another visa to come here? 

I did apply for one a month ago, but got rejected for no reason - guess i didnt prove that i have very strong ties to my country

[Boethius]

Hello Katerina,

I suggest, in addition to dating sites, that you join social media groups with topics that interest you.  Don't look for a husband, per se, but friends with interests similar to yours.  You're more likely to find someone in your age group that way.

There aren't to many men here 30 and under, just a few.  Most male posters here are likely your father's age, or even your grandfather's age.

[Kokopelli]

Would you mind reminding me any? 


Ive been to America for 3 summers while I was a student - fall in love with the country but was too busy with work to actually look for someone to date. Since im about to graduate, i feel like its time to create a family, and I would like to have that family in the country I like. 

What part of America? City? State?
There are some cultural differences between say Dallas and New York, L.A.  and Chicago etc.
What part of Russia are you from?

Besides Facebook:
http://freepersonals.ru/
http://russian-dating.com/
http://fdating.com/
Just about every country is found at fdating. I met a real sweet Brit there.

A second place may be a forum centered around a hobby. I belong to a few guitar forums as example.
You name the hobby and there is probably a forum.
I know a married couple who met on a Harley Davidson Motorcycle forum.
Think about what you are interested in.

The reason guys may not be happy you are Russian is probably the distance. It could be the scammer reputation but I am leaning towards distance and cost to travel. You didn't have any trouble finding a date when you here, right?

Possibly a work visa since you graduating soon? Check online classifieds in your field.

[Katerina07]

What part of America? City? State?
There are some cultural differences between say Dallas and New York, L.A.  and Chicago etc.
What part of Russia are you from?

Maryland.
Im from central russia.

Possibly a work visa since you graduating soon? Check online classifieds in your field.

Unfourtinately impossible. My major is linguistics and i cant find a job with that in states. the only way i can get to the states now is K1 visa

[Darth_Budda]

Hello Katerina,

I suggest, in addition to dating sites, that you join social media groups with topics that interest you.  Don't look for a husband, per se, but friends with interests similar to yours.  You're more likely to find someone in your age group that way.

There aren't to many men here 30 and under, just a few.  Most male posters here are likely your father's age, or even your grandfather's age.

You guys are not that old are you?

I imaged most of you were 45 - 60...


Hum,,,, I would say get on Facebook..   You can join decision groups and get more friends..
Than "Facebook Stalk" through their friends list... See some one you like send them a message.

I am from New York and I have friends around the country.  Most of them are ex-marines..

[Boethius]

I imaged most of you were 45 - 60...

It is not unusual for a RM in his sixties to have grandchildren in their twenties. 

[Misha]

Im 22 y.o., and looking for 20-30 y.o. guy. Im also very picky, so there has to be a choice

Realistically, I expect that the type of guy you want (aka you being "very picky") will likely be in high demand back home and will not see much of a need to fly off to Russia for a date. Most of the young men that I know who married Russian women had been teaching English in Russia and simply married a woman they met there.

[GoodOlBoy]

...ex-marines..

http://www.answers.com/topic/ex-marine
 
http://www.military.com/marine-corps-birthday/marine-birthday-no-exmarines.html
 
GOB

[Darth_Budda]

http://www.answers.com/topic/ex-marine
 
http://www.military.com/marine-corps-birthday/marine-birthday-no-exmarines.html
 
GOB

Yea, One of them is a air traffic controller. He is Taken though...

Some are now firefighters and police.

Some are missing body parts.

Some are missing their minds..

That's war... War your generation sent mine off to fight...
Does that make them bad people? I Think Not...

Can't judge a book by it's cover..

[Kokopelli]

Maryland.
Im from central russia.

Unfourtinately impossible. My major is linguistics and i cant find a job with that in states. the only way i can get to the states now is K1 visa

Maryland  only?
Largest city near you, Omsk?
To compare, New York is like Moscow.
Balitmore's population is 619,493.

Maybe this?
http://www.indeed.com/q-Russian-Linguist-jobs.html

Any U.S. companies in your area needing your skills? Russian teaching positions at some colleges?
Check for U.S. companies operating in Russia or doing business with Russia.
Did you keep in contact with the people you met in Maryland?

[GQBlues]

love.rambler.ru , love.mail.ru
 
We have a RW associate who was recently divorced, young 30s and used Mail.ru to get dates here in LA (Russian-American). Her calendar filled up within the first week and had been dating a few since.

[Chicagoguy]

I would check out LuckyLovers.
Does anyone here like Match.com ? Would this work ?