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Offline Elen

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« Reply #25 on: April 16, 2006, 05:16:38 PM »
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One more males' excuse for having mistress :?
Why, you don't think that a man would find sex with another woman if it was not coming from his wife? Men are men. Sex is biological. Of course he will go else where.

Peewee
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Why do you think that the main reason for such adultery is a "wife who does not want sex" after marriage as if sex is only in males biological :D?  

Men are men and they tend to make silly excuses for their lack of morality


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« Reply #26 on: April 16, 2006, 05:33:15 PM »
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 If so you must know that guys that have been married for more than a few years actually get less sex than their brothers who are not married.  

Peewee

 BTW you must know a statistic - married guys have MORE sex than their single brothers :P 

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« Reply #27 on: April 16, 2006, 05:40:42 PM »
I was referring to the first visit...

You have to be kidding me....., yes I was married (15 years) sex was never a problem.

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« Reply #28 on: April 16, 2006, 07:17:29 PM »
[user=947]mike15[/user] wrote:
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I was referring to the first visit...

You have to be kidding me....., yes I was married (15 years) sex was never a problem.


I'll have to second Mike on that one, I was married well over 10 and that was never a problem.

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« Reply #29 on: April 16, 2006, 07:26:44 PM »
To trying to address the topic here,....

 I would say, if you have been with a lady a few days and she is still treating you like a "friend", you are in trouble.
 Best thing to do is to get it out in the open. Tell her you feel like she is not interested.
 I have had to do this and once it solved the problem and twice it didn't but at least when I moved on I did not have this lingering question of...
 Maybe she was really interested but was afraid to show it".

Now I am not even talking about sex here, I am talking about "response".
Thats more important than sex if you ask me.
(they usually go hand in hand).

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« Reply #30 on: April 16, 2006, 07:40:03 PM »
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 If so you must know that guys that have been married for more than a few years actually get less sex than their brothers who are not married.  

Peewee
 BTW you must know a statistic - married guys have MORE sex than their single brothers :P 
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It is an American joke, Elen. You would have to live here to know it. I would contest that married men have more sex than their single brothers. I think to be the other way around.



 

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« Reply #31 on: April 16, 2006, 10:02:36 PM »
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 If so you must know that guys that have been married for more than a few years actually get less sex than their brothers who are not married.  

Peewee
 BTW you must know a statistic - married guys have MORE sex than their single brothers :P 
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Elen- of course you are right. The sad part is it is not WITH THEIR OWN WIFE!

On how quickly a woman will sleep with you it is always tough to generalize BUT if there is romantic interest my experience has shown that it almost always within the first 5-6 dates. If longer than that she probably has some sort of issues with sex and most guys don't want to deal with that anyway. I can honestly say after dealing with 2 women in my past that had issues with sex I will never go through the trouble again to try and heal them. It was a lot of work and I was glad I could help but I don't really want the stress of it all ever again.
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« Reply #32 on: April 17, 2006, 12:27:50 AM »
Useless discussion Good luck for you boys to find exactly what you are looking for


( BTw how many of you are able to get sex from American women at 4th date ?  )

 
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« Reply #33 on: April 17, 2006, 03:13:26 AM »
**raises hand**

I am of the belief that women typically decide within a few minutes of meeting a man whether they will consider having sex with him or not. 

If her answer is no, there really is little a man can do to change the woman's mind.  If her answer is yes, unless the man does something to screw it up, it will likely happen within their first few meetings.

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« Reply #34 on: April 17, 2006, 03:25:47 AM »
I agree with you Conner but I think we should also keep in mind that there are different dynamics here for the most part.   Most Amerian women just think about if they want to have sex, date, or maybe have a boyfriend.   With the FSU women they have an agenda that goes beyond the short term.

I would say that most guys think about the same way with American women they do in their quest for an FSU women.  If they haven't had it in 5 days and that is what they are after they drop the gal unless it happens to be the bosses daughter or she is so hot they want her bad enough to waste more time on her.

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« Reply #35 on: April 17, 2006, 04:00:16 AM »
Within a few minutes woman can decide only that she could not have sex with such male at any circumstances.

 To dicide that she wants to have sex with a male dends on something else - for some( and for too many women in this business) it's pure calulation, for some it's a feeling that she proved for herself it's "her" male. But to make such conclusion to 4th date there should be eigther a big luck ( how lucky were you before in your life?)  or a male should be a "prince of charm" All other variants demands more time ( well if woman of course didn't use to have sex with each male she thought it could be possible "in princple")

It's up for you to belive what case is yours ( just an advice - take a look at a mirrow before you would give an answer for yourself :P)

 

 

 
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« Reply #36 on: April 17, 2006, 07:25:45 AM »
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Useless discussion Good luck for you boys to find exactly what you are looking for


( BTw how many of you are able to get sex from American women at 4th date ?  )

 


Elen, there is a popular radio talk show host here in the US who has milllions of dalily listeners. He advocates that if a man does not have sex with a woman by third date he should end relationship and find another woman. Many of his audience believe it and his audience is growing by the years. ( for those of you living in the US I am speaking of Tom Likus)

 

I am not saying this is right nor am I offering his logic as proof of things as they are. I am but informing you of what men are taught. A woman's thought process is different, as you have explained it. Men should understand how women view and and not how men view the topic of when to have sex. Otherwise these men will not have it at all. Or at least not have sex with the one woman they hope to marry.

Peewee

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« Reply #37 on: April 17, 2006, 07:32:26 AM »
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Useless discussion Good luck for you boys to find exactly what you are looking for


( BTw how many of you are able to get sex from American women at 4th date ?  )

 
Elen, there is a popular radio talk show host here in the US who has milllions of dalily listeners. He advocates that if a man does not have sex with a woman by third date he should end relationship and find another woman. Many of his audience believe it and his audience is growing by the years. ( for those of you living in the US I am speaking of Tom Likus)

Peewee
[/quote] Well if you follow such advices then I don't wonder why you are spealking such many about American wives cheating on you in marriage :D

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« Reply #38 on: April 17, 2006, 08:35:02 AM »
Quote from: Elen
Useless discussion Good luck for you boys to find exactly what you are looking for


( BTw how many of you are able to get sex from American women at 4th date ?  )

 
Elen, there is a popular radio talk show host here in the US who has milllions of dalily listeners. He advocates that if a man does not have sex with a woman by third date he should end relationship and find another woman. Many of his audience believe it and his audience is growing by the years. ( for those of you living in the US I am speaking of Tom Likus)

Peewee
[/quote] Well if you follow such advices then I don't wonder why you are spealking such many about American wives cheating on you in marriage :D[/quote]
It has nothing to do with married people. He speaks only to non married men.

Peewee

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« Reply #39 on: April 17, 2006, 10:24:55 AM »
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  I am not saying that a gal who holds out for 5 days still won't hop in the sack with the mailman or next door neighbor but the odds are a little bit better. 

Turbo, no the odds are not better.  How a woman acts with a particular guy tells absolutely nothing about the way that she will act with another man or other men.

A gal can hold out with you for a month and still be hopping in the sack with every other guy she knows or doesn't know.

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« Reply #40 on: April 17, 2006, 10:35:19 AM »
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It has nothing to do with married people. He speaks only to non married men.

 Peewee

 I got that . And I was about those who you marry to after having sex with at 3d date

 

 

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« Reply #41 on: April 17, 2006, 10:46:42 AM »
People, in general, rarely can understand the actions of others who are unlike themselves.  Many, many examples could be given with regard to many variables.

e.g. Most USA people are repulsed by French types who eat horsemeat, Orientals who eat dog meat, etc.  But to those people, it is perfectly normal and they, in turn, are repulsed by things that USA people eat.

Same applies to the issue of sex.  Most, but not all, women have much lower sex drives than most men.  Women rarely understand the urges that men have.  And men are mystified or at least disappointed in the lack of urges that women have.

And likewise, low sexed men cannot understand the urges that high sexed men have.

Discussing actions of those with strong urges or lack of urges is like trying to explain to a non-dog eating lover that it is a pretty good idea.

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« Reply #42 on: April 17, 2006, 08:06:28 PM »
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It has nothing to do with married people. He speaks only to non married men.

 Peewee
 I got that . And I was about those who you marry to after having sex with at 3d date

 

 
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Well, the idea is not to marry them but rather to have sex with them. That's all. It seems to me that if you plan on marrying a woman then you should be able to invest more time in her than to limit your decision on whether to or whether not to marry her based on how quick she has sex with you. Could you go 10 dates? 20 dates? What difference does it make? If she is the one why not abstain until after marriage? Some people have done that.

 

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« Reply #43 on: May 06, 2006, 02:55:41 AM »
I agree that there is not set mark for this. If you have chemistry and  if she is attracted to you then you will know it. Some are more  aggressive and some are more reserved in this.

Ken


I dont think you have much experience with women. Of course there is a set mark!

 Sent me multiple PM's. Now banned.

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« Reply #44 on: May 06, 2006, 04:18:23 AM »
I don't think you have much experience with women. Of course there is a set mark!

timdTroll,

 I am amazed and impressed by your psychic insightfullness. You pegged me good. I'm actually living in a giant plastic bubble and married to a blow up doll. I have actually never met a woman in real life.
 Your ability to post such in-depth and deeply penetrating analysis of all things pertaining to FSUW has prompted me to ask Dan to give you the RWD board and to make you the defacto God of all FSUW land.

All Hail The Mighty Troll!
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« Reply #45 on: May 06, 2006, 04:39:42 AM »
Time to really test the ignore feature for a good reason.. That's probably the only redeeming feature of your posts.


Thanks n bye bye Tim7!

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« Reply #46 on: May 06, 2006, 10:40:16 AM »
Elena was reading this topic and said that anyone who posts like Trollboy does probably doesn't have the ability to get it up let alone find a woman. She also said that it sounds like Trollboy couldn't even make it work with a plastic woman.  :D :D :D

Poor little Trollboy. Sucks to be you doesn't it...

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BC,

 I forgot about the "ignore" feature. Think I'll join you in that one.
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« Reply #47 on: May 06, 2006, 10:53:06 AM »
Elena was reading this topic and said that anyone who posts like Trollboy does probably doesn't have the ability to get it up let alone find a woman. She also said that it sounds like Trollboy couldn't even make it work with a plastic woman.  :D :D :D

Poor little Trollboy. Sucks to be you doesn't it...

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BC,

 I forgot about the "ignore" feature. Think I'll join you in that one.

Time to really test the ignore feature for a good reason.. That's probably the only redeeming feature of your posts.


Thanks n bye bye Tim7!

Guys,

I've placed Tim on Level 2 of the Visual Warning system. Any of his posts will now require approval of a Moderator prior to release to the board. Next level, in case you are interested, is Mute -- and the final level is Banned (permanently). Each level, except for Banned, has a prescribed duration - so it is possible for members to redeem themselves and come off the warning system with all privileges intact.

Sooo... in this case, no need to exercise the Ignore feature - the squelching is already in place.

- Dan

Added: Tim7 apparently did not want to redeem himself. In fact, judging from the three highly-vulgar PMs he sent me, his vocabulary probably does not include the word "redeem" - consisting almost exclusively of four-letter words with a tiny bit of invective thrown in. He also bypassed the third level of warning and graduated directly into BANNED status.
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« Reply #48 on: May 06, 2006, 10:59:11 AM »
Wow Dan, that's an interesting feature..

Bet 'moderator review' is not at the top of the priority list either.. sorta like 'standby' status - after dinner, washing the car and mowing the lawn.. LOL

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« Reply #49 on: May 06, 2006, 11:00:57 AM »

Soloman... What is your priority... SEX or the women?   Are you looking to make a "BEST FRIEND", for life or a good lay?

If a long time relationship is your goal... STOP and think what you really want and need....

Do you expect to just spend all your time making SEX?

I recommend, that you will need to spend at least 90% of your time interacting an many other levels and if that isn't possable.... forget it. You will be miserable!

Mamma D (married 57 years to the same man!)
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 So we will know them by their limping.

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