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Offline steveboy

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Cash for marriage?
« on: July 24, 2013, 12:59:26 AM »
Has anyone had the experience of meeting a Russian/Ukrainian women who offered a fair amount of cash for a marriage? I have on three occasions. Just wondering about this :D

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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #1 on: July 24, 2013, 01:08:54 AM »
Personaly no. But the immigration process is here to sort this type of marriage. Get married, but after ?
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« Reply #2 on: July 24, 2013, 01:21:16 AM »
I met several one a very high class hooker in Moscow I was been speaking to her for a long time on some site great personality and a real nice girl. She told me exactly why she wanted to do this and offered 15,000 Euros. Problem was at the time I was living in the UK a rural part of the UK , I don't think she would of looked in place in my village of 1000 people with silicon breasts and a $10,000 mink coat:) even though it would of just been a short period the villagers already thought I was crazy with my escapades to Russia.
Another time I met a girl from Sochi from a very wealthy family she invited me to Paris :D She was staying at one of the best hotels in the city with the crew of fashiontv.ru had a great career just wanted to be free to travel Europe without all the visa complications. She even had the lawyer ready to make the agreement up. Decided to knock that one on the head I didn't fancy being her lapdog! We went shopping one day and she spent well over 6,000 Euros I was the one carrying all the bags. She also suggested after we marry (which would just be for 3 years) I would attend several spas with her father which would help remove some of my wrinkles!! I didn't fancy being a Russian poodle so after a fun weekend called it a day with her ;)

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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #3 on: July 24, 2013, 07:30:43 AM »
All the time.

The tradition is called "Ransom for the bride" and a fair percentage still participate. Relatives "kidnap" the bride on the day of the wedding and the groom pays a ransom which is eventually given to the bride to help her start a household.
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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #4 on: July 24, 2013, 10:40:26 AM »
I met several one a very high class hooker in Moscow I was been speaking to her for a long time on some site great personality and a real nice girl. She told me exactly why she wanted to do this and offered 15,000 Euros. Problem was at the time I was living in the UK a rural part of the UK , I don't think she would of looked in place in my village of 1000 people with silicon breasts and a $10,000 mink coat:) even though it would of just been a short period the villagers already thought I was crazy with my escapades to Russia.



I am sure she did not mean to live with you as well Stefan.
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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #5 on: July 24, 2013, 12:10:39 PM »
Has anyone had the experience of meeting a Russian/Ukrainian women who offered a fair amount of cash for a marriage?
Yes

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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #6 on: July 24, 2013, 08:38:15 PM »
Has anyone had the experience of meeting a Russian/Ukrainian women who offered a fair amount of cash for a marriage?

No; but several have offered to pay me to go away.
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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #7 on: July 25, 2013, 04:49:06 AM »
No; but several have offered to pay me to go away.

Now, there's a surprise!  :ROFL:
 
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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #8 on: July 31, 2013, 03:49:39 AM »

I am sure she did not mean to live with you as well Stefan.

It would of been a contract I would live with her at the weekends only , well her exact words were " My body is yours on the weekend" for three years, but I don't need all that shit!

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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #9 on: August 05, 2013, 07:53:00 AM »
Having seen how much these girls charge by the hour, i would have taken that deal!


I'd have gone for ten grand up front, 25 percent of her fees for 3 years and unlimited sex on the weekends.


Oh and an expensed mercedes s class. I would happy to drive her about to her appointments.


Any woman who pays you for sex is fine by me!




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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #10 on: August 05, 2013, 09:21:57 AM »
Any woman who pays you for sex is fine by me!

Well, when I get paid . . . I will let you know.  I don't know how this can be fine for you; but if so then . . .
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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #11 on: August 05, 2013, 10:36:09 AM »
Well, when I get paid . . . I will let you know.  I don't know how this can be fine for you; but if so then . . .

ML, you should check out the little Square (http://squareup.com/) doo-hickeys that attach to your iPhone or Android smartphone and let you take credit card payments on the spot, might help you with collections.
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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #12 on: August 05, 2013, 12:05:03 PM »
ML, you should check out the little Square (http://squareup.com/) doo-hickeys that attach to your iPhone or Android smartphone and let you take credit card payments on the spot, might help you with collections.

Thanks; good cash flow management requires getting money into my account as soon as possible, and delaying outgoes as long as possible.
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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #13 on: August 05, 2013, 12:12:37 PM »
A gal from Belarus that I know made it into Los Angeles and paid a guy at her gym $20,000 to marry her and go through immigration with her.  She was on a temporary visa and making money on her back at the time.  I offered to do it in exchange for services rendered, but she thought that was too personal.  Incidentally, I did become close to, and dated her sister. 

I believe this gal did pay him - half up front - and half when she got the Green Card.

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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #14 on: August 05, 2013, 12:47:35 PM »
Has anyone had the experience of meeting a Russian/Ukrainian women who offered a fair amount of cash for a marriage? I have on three occasions. Just wondering about this :D

It happened to me once with a Ukrainian woman and once with a woman from another country.

Each time I was taken aback by surprise.

In the case of the Ukrainian woman, we had just gone on one dinner date. A little while after we chatted on Skype and then came the surprise 'offer'.

I remember what happened quite well.
She wrote me and asked me to take my time to consider her offer before making a decision.

I wrote her back a couple of weeks later and asked her some questions. She answered them and I replied that I could not do it, giving her the reasons. At the top of the list was that it was illegal.

She fired back an e-mail fuming at me, asking why I had wasted her time for the last month. (She was thinking I would bite).

I reminded her about what she said in her request (that I take my time).  :)

I haven't heard from her since. This was a few years ago.
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Re: Cash for marriage?
« Reply #15 on: August 05, 2013, 01:04:42 PM »
A gal from Belarus that I know made it into Los Angeles and paid a guy at her gym $20,000 to marry her and go through immigration with her.  She was on a temporary visa and making money on her back at the time.  I offered to do it in exchange for services rendered, but she thought that was too personal.  Incidentally, I did become close to, and dated her sister. 

I believe this gal did pay him - half up front - and half when she got the Green Card.

LOL.

Interesting.  It was too personal for her to "marry" you and have sex with you, but she was fine for having sex with lots of other guys in order to get money to pay you to "marry" her.   The effect of doing the latter meant she was having sex with lots and lots of different guys.

But in answer to the original question, I know a FSUW who had been looking to find an AM for more than eight years.  She had been repeatedly disappointed in the guys she met online.  I think if she lived here she could have her pick of husbands.  She's extremely attractive, sexy, smart, speaks fluent English, and has tremendous charisma.  She asked me if I knew someone who would be willing to marry her for a lump sum payment.  She knew at the time that I didn't have a girlfriend, so presumably she was asking me in an indirect way.

 

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