Re: What is A MOB'r, Round II

[Jumper]

Good idea, man. Because, seriously, I really tried to make sense with what you just posted, but...

ok, I'll try to  clarify it .
The stereotype that you profess is  long overdue  being stated here..
was quite well established long before you got on a plane to Moscow.
You know that perhaps better than anyone here.

Your seeming  need to reinforce it so often lately , makes  most anyone wonder whats compelling you to do so.

Most people with that strong of view point,  would state it and be done,
so what gives Matt? Just tired of sugar coating it you say?
What, so you want *cough* them , to look in the mirror and see they fit the stereotype?

Yeap, many MOBers are social misfits. got it.
shocking I tell you!

What's seems over due is someone asking you directly,
what a fine upstanding MOBer like yourself , telling other somehow less noble  MOBer's,
that they are silly pathetic  MOBer's  , really accomplishes.

Because Matt, the silly MOB tier level thing is just damn funny.

[GQBlues]

sheesh AJ, you really are starting to validate my suspicion about you. What is it exactly? One too many crashes or too much painkiller?

Your first post (Reply # 197) was a response to my post Reply #195, that had nothing whatsoever to do with MOBers' in the manner you are pointing out, or either me insisting to bring it up. Read it again.

I then asked you to decipher your rambling post because I couldn't figure out the density of its content.

Then you tried to decipher your encrypted dabble to say *I keep bringing up* an obvious fact that the MOB is as old as the pyramid.

If you weren't in a constipated state dragging along that silly dulled axe, you would have easily noticed you created a scenario based solely in YOUR head. You have instead tried to deliver your stupid message despite the absence of what you say I brought up just to give relevance and venue to grind your silly dulled axe.

Nothing on the post you quoted to start your silly rant had nothing whatsoever to do with me bringing up an old fact that the MOB is mostly comprised of old farts, fat men, loners and losers, which, while you seem to agree with but doesn't have the balls to say it, you instead tell ME somehow I'm in denial.


So let me help a bruddah out.

Do YOU or do you NOT agree...the large majority of the men involved in the MOB ( which is what, 20 years running with you?), are in fact OLD FARTS,  FAT MEN, LOSERS and/or LONERS? OR, a combination of any or all of these fine American traits.

That's a *yes* or *no* question and it isn't even a trick question so you can't be too dense and cryptic about your answer.

Am I in denial to believe I am not an MOBer? I don't need to deny anything. I am neither an *old fart*, *obese*, a *loser* nor a *loner* - and more specifically - a SOCIAL misfit/reject.

Or as YOUR favorite Dean of the School of Smooth always to referred to as *second rate muthas*

Expanding on the notion, Daveman once asked me to define what MY definition of an MOBer is. I responded. There is a thread with that list. Read it. Then a whole lot of men started huffing and puffing...LOL! You want another *funny*? There you have it!

This is now what, your second catalog wife? Is this really your beef AJ? Your illustrious self had given you complete reliance and lifetime subscription to MOB yearly? What was your first impulse when you found out your wife wanted a divorce? Surf the MOB catalog?

After failing the first time, you found yourself back in line for another go at this thing? And you *think* somehow I'm in denial? LOL. Down boy! You want *funny*, there you got it, baby! 

Do I have a catalog wife? Hell yeah. Didn't I already TOLD you that fact as stated, not only on fora like this one but in front of the camera which you have alluded to? Now, which part of this is NOT registering with you?. So read the thread I referenced above what MY definition of an MOBer is - AGAIN - in your un-medicated state and maybe it'll make better sense. Unclog the mind.

Dude....if you simply want to grind up your dulled axe then say so and do so, but not under the influence so you don't have to type your thoughts on a separate sheet of virtual paper and then have to cut and paste. It's annoying.

Leave the meds alone. It is really starting to clutter the brain, man. I know you're trying but just consider this a public service for now. But YOU ain't it. Sorry.

[lordtiberius]

wow that convinced me

Why don't we ban this loser?

[Gator]

Oh, such display of soupy emotional sensitivities...I am touched.

Yes you are, touched in the head.      
 
Your post is as incomprehensible as blather from a demented man.  I express my opinions to missAmeno about your posting personality, and you respond with a reference to a KKK psychotic.   
 
To top the KKK reference, you add the words of the racism song Southern Man from the 70s.  And I thought you would be one of those Hip Hop fans with a baseball cap worn backwards.
 
Neither reference applies to me, not even faintly.   Are you saying that you are the KKK Henry Hays?   Please explain the connection because it eludes me.   


GQ, you really need to get a grip.  OK Boethius, you now have the talking pillow. 

[GQBlues]

wow that convinced me

Why don't we ban this loser?

Bok Choy-

You are a poster boy of what I term as an MOBer.

Instead of spending the time to get yourself fit, you'd instead proudly admit to being fat. What the heck is the matter with you?

You are about to bring a woman into your life and world and you're gabbling up *double-stack* Oreos? Then you get your panties tied up in a wad because people tell you you're freaking FAT? Dude, YOU ARE!

You don't want to be called that, then do something about getting yourself fit. Exercise, work-out, get on a diet plan. Make yourself something YOUR woman will be happy and proud of when SHE GETS here to live in your world. Do not for a minute believe she agreed to share a life with you because you have a fascination and ambition to be OBESE.

Instead of spending time in these fora, work on yourself, ferchrissakes! Don't blame the people describing what you are for being what YOU are. No one ever forced you to gabble up the amount of food you take in. You're doing that to yourself...

If you're depressed for not having any friends, and thus eat your way to your life's misery, then get yourself clinically straightened out first before bringing an unsuspecting woman into your miserable world.

[GQBlues]

Yes you are, touched in the head.      
 
Your post is as incomprehensible as blather from a demented man.  I express my opinions to missAmeno about your posting personality, and you respond with a reference to a KKK psychotic.   
 
To top the KKK reference, you add the words of the racism song Southern Man from the 70s.  And I thought you would be one of those Hip Hop fans with a baseball cap worn backwards.
 
Neither reference applies to me, not even faintly.   Are you saying that you are the KKK Henry Hays?   Please explain the connection because it eludes me.   


GQ, you really need to get a grip.  OK Boethius, you now have the talking pillow. 

Like I already stated...At least Henry Francis Hays was NEVER a HYPOCRITE and a PUSSYWHIP...

[Gator]

Like I already stated...At least Henry Francis Hays was NEVER a HYPOCRITE and a PUSSYWHIP...

So I was correct, you did not have an explanation, and this is your typical blather. 

[Gator]

...the large majority of the men involved in the MOB ( which is what, 20 years running with you?), are in fact OLD FARTS,  FAT MEN, LOSERS and/or LONERS? OR, a combination of any or all of these fine American traits.

Your observations differ from the findings of the recent Goodwife-RWD survey of cross-cultural marriages.

http://www.goodwife.com/survey_report.pdf
 
Age and income levels were measured and reported.  I use income as a surrogate for loser.   
 
The survey did not measure obesity.  My observations of perhaps 100 husbands of RW suggest that their median weight seems lower than the median weight of all AM.  Quite possibly the devotion of the RW wife to healthy food and exercise is keeping them thinner than those married to coach potato AW. 
 
Nor did the survey measure social misfit.   GQ, you sound like someone who belittled if not bullied brainy kids, goody two-shoes, and handicapped kids in high school.   I always thought such bullies were the true social misfits, not the uncool kids.  Also, the class leaders (confident, real cool kids) never made fun of others.   Belittling others was something done by kids with nothing to be proud of, so they belittled others to give themselves some fleeting sense of false superiority.

In summary, your posting style suggests you are the social reject.

[lordtiberius]

What is bok choy?  is that dog bc we dont eat dog on my island.

fat as I am, I am still fit enough to back up my words with action

can u say the same?


mods, time to ban a user

[BillyB]

Your seeming  need to reinforce it so often lately , makes  most anyone wonder whats compelling you to do so.

Most people with that strong of view point,  would state it and be done,
so what gives Matt?

There are a couple of ways to make oneself look good and be on the top. Do good or put others down.


GQ, you told us your position on this years ago. Do you feel a need to repeat it so often because you think everyone is too stupid to remember or you like to continue to portray yourself as being on top?

Do YOU or do you NOT agree...the large majority of the men involved in the MOB ( which is what, 20 years running with you?), are in fact OLD FARTS,  FAT MEN, LOSERS and/or LONERS? OR, a combination of any or all of these fine American traits.

That's a *yes* or *no* question and it isn't even a trick question so you can't be too dense and cryptic about your answer.

With what evidence do we have to go by to give a valid yes or no answer? For the RW who marry these men, what does it say about them? Desperate, losers, insincere...? What kind of ladies would associate with those kind of men?

Am I in denial to believe I am not an MOBer? I don't need to deny anything. I am neither an *old fart*, *obese*, a *loser* nor a *loner* - and more specifically - a SOCIAL misfit/reject.

As much as you been bickering in your last few thousand posts, I'd label you an MOBer easy by your own definition. I and most RW can tolerate a conversation with a lonely old fat fart over a guy who runs his mouth about others all the time. That kind of talk isn't quality and certainly not intelligent.


There are certainly different kinds of men on this forum. Some men come here to start fights, even while at work on the bosses dime or with a wife and family sitting in the next room starving for attention. Other men come here for some tips to find the best path in this endeavor and improve themselves which in turn benefits the lady that comes into their life. Other men come here to help others succeed. Even if those men are old, fat and ugly, their heart is in the right place.


Where's your heart GQ? What is your objective here? If my wife caught me wasting lots of time instigating fights by putting the majority of people down on a internet forum, she'd divorce me. Out of all the choices a guy can make, you and a few others decide to piss people off and waste time at work and home but truth is you actually enjoy what you're doing so it makes it ok if the boss is paying for it and the family gets neglected. Quality men do those things? I don't think so.

[fathertime]

Nothing on the post you quoted to start your silly rant had nothing whatsoever to do with me bringing up an old fact that the MOB is mostly comprised of old farts, fat men, loners and losers, which, while you seem to agree with but doesn't have the balls to say it, you instead tell ME somehow I'm in denial.

 

Am I in denial to believe I am not an MOBer? I don't need to deny anything. I am neither an *old fart*, *obese*, a *loser* nor a *loner* - and more specifically - a SOCIAL misfit/reject.

 

It is hard to figure out who said what about 'losers' and 'social misfits/rejects' BUT:


I generally disagree with the concept that men that have decided to go overseas for a wife are ‘losers’, although some might be judged that way.  Where I can agree is that a disproportionate % of men are non-conformists that don’t want to be limited by what is put in front of them.
   
Personally I am pleased that I have chosen to do things my own way and that I looked a little bit beyond the mainstream.   If I were to venture a guess, I’d say that many in the mainstream look at me as if I’m a little wacky, but that is fine…those same people trust me enough to permit their own children to have sleepovers with mine in my home, trust enough to take their kids out on day trips or even overnight trips sometimes, etc etc….I think it is overblown to be a part of the mainstream and I think a certain part of most people can relate to somebody who marches to their own little beat. 


You know what I’m saying?  Sometimes the critiques are a little harsh.  A little (or lot) of variance from the norm is a good thing!  If I were completely normal and average I'd probably be a little disappointed and it just wouldn't be who I am. 


Fathertime! 

[lordtiberius]

I would  like to say that   this uiser in queation is atypical of filipino culture.  We have a reputation for being a warm and hard working people.  But dont let that fool you.  It is this kind of man that backed Marcos during the dictatorahip, yhis kind of man yhat occupies our houae of repreaentativea %n selling out his own peopleand   this kind of man who turns coward in the face face of violent confrontation.

Hermaphaditism is accepted in our culture.

Just remember that there are good eggs amongst us.  Men who fought in Bataan, men like Magsaysay who fought Commies and men who are atill men who love God and family.

Sorry gents, I hope I am never like that man

[missAmeno]

GQ, sorry ... but    lack of logic in your posts is too tempting to not have a go at.

So ...

I don't need to deny anything. I am neither an *old fart*, *obese*, a *loser* nor a *loner* - and more specifically - a SOCIAL misfit/reject.

Didn't you consider that you are neither of those things based solely on your opinion and your personal understanding of who qualifies for such labels? From stand point of someone else you actually well may qualify for one of even few of those labels.

 

[GQBlues]

New title..WOW!

What is a typical MOBer II: Here's the chorus line checklist:


Old Fart: Gator (anyone disgree?)
Loser/Loner: BillyB (anyone disagree?)
Fat Man: LordTiberiius (anyone disagree?)
Old Fart: Fathertime (anyone disagree?)


Gezz, guys!

AJ wanted 'funny', there you have it.

[GQBlues]

GQ, sorry ... but    lack of logic in your posts is too tempting to not have a go at.

So ...

Didn't you consider that you are neither of those things based solely on your opinion and your personal understanding of who qualifies for such labels? From stand point of someone else you actually well may qualify for one of even few of those labels.

It matters very little to me what vindictive state you're in but allow me to remind you, you're the one who related to Diana's article. That ain't my environment, it was yours and it was your own admission. You don't like that fact...can't help you there...

Do you honestly believe under that condition whatever you *think* means an iota to me?

[lordtiberius]

disagree

time to ban! 

do it.  do it

[lordtiberius]

It matters very little to me what vindictive state you're in but allow me to remind you, you're the one who related to Diana's article. That ain't my environment, it was yours and it was your own admission. You don't like that fact...can't help you there...

Do you honestly believe under that condition whatever you *think* means an iota to me?

o hell yes


ban this guy

[BillyB]

I generally disagree with the concept that men that have decided to go overseas for a wife are ‘losers’, although some might be judged that way.

When it come to relationships, if a man finds a quality woman, he will be judged a winner by sensible people. If a man finds trailer trash, even if he finds it in America, he will be labeled a loser.


I have no problem with men and women finding the best possible mate anywhere in the world. Those actions are more associated with winners who go the extra step for one of the more important things in life, than those who'd settle for less.

Loser/Loner: BillyB (anyone disagree?)

That's a new one. In the past I've been called fat, balding, pedophile, and a criminal on this forum by some of your buddies. Based off the kind of women I attract, more and more guys are now going to want to be called "losers".

[lordtiberius]

its quiet here maybe the mods dis the right thing and told the non-loser to take a time out

[fathertime]

Old Fart: Fathertime (anyone disagree?)

 

I was 36 years old when I got an interest in women from overseas…Is that an old fart?  I’m currently 45 and married for quite a while now, is that an old fart?   Your opinions are not making much sense at this point and they usually do as I often agree with the logic you make.  Not every counter point is an attack on your person; although you are attempting to personalize it which if you take a breath and relax you will realize is a mistake (at least in my case). 


Fathertime! 

[Daveman]

Take a deep breath, relax, kick down a cold one on this gloriously beautiful holiday weekend.


Just for the record:

Do YOU or do you NOT agree...the large majority of the men involved in the MOB ( which is what, 20 years running with you?), are in fact OLD FARTS,  FAT MEN, LOSERS and/or LONERS? OR, a combination of any or all of these fine American traits.

Can't answer concerning the large majority, but I can answer for myself..


OLD FART = certainly so. Just turned 50 this year, and definitely would qualify in the eyes of some
FAT MAN = absolutely.  Could lose a few pounds.
LOSER = no doubt in my mind that some would label me so.
LONER = 100% accurate.  I have golf buddies, socialize easily, etc, but generally DO prefer my own company and being engaged in activities where I am alone during most of my free time.  I've had to adapt a little since the arrival of the Space Invader^TM


So there ya have it. I fit the MoB criteria without apologies, but luckily I'm nothing like YOU guys... 

[Jumper]

Matt,
You accuse me of rambling or being on medications?  Dear Lord man,read your own reply.LOL


I pointed out the obvious axe you've been grinding quite awhile.
Lets not play deflection games on  who here is carrying an axe.
  Now you'll rant ,shake, rattle,roll,insult,  whatever you want to do.
I've respected ,and agreed ,with a lot of your posts over the years,
but your posting style when confronted is well noted.
  Hey maybe you should point  out the various  *tiers* of MOB as superior/inferior ? LOL
While doing so ,if you don't come off the polished LA professional , that just happens to be married to a Russian ,
then that's on your presentation here ,not me.

  I've asked you about this new hobby of yours, perhaps two or three times, over a years time,
hardly surprising given the multiple tiffs you get into from it.

And lets at least be forthright , you don't actually want to try and understand whatever  shortcomings or personal demons I may , or may not have,  Matt, you just wanted to take a few free potshots because I dared annoy you about your new chosen hobby. So take as many shots as you'd like , don't set that bar too high now!!

[ML]

ban this guy

Why do you keep repeating this nonsense?

Hardly anyone gets banned; and certainly not for just spouting off opinions.

Probably have to give very graphic details of bending a guy over a barrel for banishment.

Or maybe for posting pics of your Johnson; but perhaps not even  then, if it were harmlessly small.

[Jumper]

So there ya have it. I fit the MoB criteria without apologies, but luckily I'm nothing like YOU guys... 

That was my whole point.
Thanks Dave.

[missAmeno]

It matters very little to me what vindictive state you're in but allow me to remind you, you're the one who related to Diana's article. That ain't my environment, it was yours and it was your own admission. You don't like that fact...can't help you there...

Do you honestly believe under that condition whatever you *think* means an iota to me?

Again lack of logic, comprehension issues and attempt to claim something as a fact about me which I never said.
Please, show where did I say 'it was my environment'. 
(If you decide to carry on discussion of this subject, please, spare mods and reply in relevant thread).


Going back to logic ... by your above rant is obvious you assumed that because I have seen certain type of guys they are/was part of my environment and that is somehow diminishes me as a human being ... and now if to apply same logic to yourself ... by your own words most MOBers are losers and rejects and as you are for a fact (not just assumption) is a MOBer by yourself that diminishes you as a human being.
Did I get you correctly? 



By the way I am not in vindictive state; simply killing boredom