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Why do so many men seeking FSUW always think these women are "More traditional" "Like to raise the family" "Have family values" ?

Its all B***** really !! Maybe twenty years ago, but as the new generation grow up, who are more interested in a career and making money and don't want to sit at home all day. How will the next lot of FSUW wife hunters manage? It will defeat the object bringing back a women to your own country, only for her to want to get straight into some career and if she's smart and fluent in several languages , she may even land up earning more than you.

Its going to defeat the object for many guys??

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #1 on: November 13, 2013, 12:19:34 PM »
That's why they look for those who cannot speak the language.  ;D
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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #2 on: November 13, 2013, 12:20:49 PM »
That's why they look for those who cannot speak the language.  ;D

You hit it on the nail there!!! :)

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #3 on: November 13, 2013, 12:38:50 PM »
So if I am a 120kg guy with a body odour problem and unable to find someone in my own country to cook, clean and Iron and be a general dogsbody "Traditional wife" I need to search in the villages for a women who doesn't speak English 8)

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #4 on: November 13, 2013, 12:58:14 PM »
The way I view it. I might as well go for broke. I live in a city where the women are ugly, and the ones that might be acceptable are usually criminals or with bad criminal histories. I make a living hiking mountains and I simply am not exposed to attractive, family valued women, etc etc etc. The fact is, for some like me, we don't really have options. I've just finished dating 4 AW's, and they are flunked my standards test. Between massive tattoos (unattractive) overweight, uneducated, lazy, dumb, and no family values, or simply having waaaay too many children for me to have to deal with, they're simply... a bunch of losers. Oh, and one of the biggest killers here is that they think they're extremely special and want to be treated like Donald Trump's girlfriend. Don't measure up to their expectations, and there's another 10 losers waiting in line to suck-up to them. So, if I make great money, can treat my woman as she deserves, am faithful, want children, and yes I think I'm a great guy, I think its a good trade for a FSUW :)
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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #5 on: November 13, 2013, 01:05:04 PM »
You don't happen to be living in Birmingham UK do you?? lol

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #6 on: November 13, 2013, 01:09:44 PM »
The way I view it. I might as well go for broke. I live in a city where the women are ugly, and the ones that might be acceptable are usually criminals or with bad criminal histories.


Geez, where the hell is that? 


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I've just finished dating 4 AW's,


That must have been some expensive dinner tabs...  but that's smart for the lay factor.. at least one of them should be in the mood at any given time.. the only problem is that women around each other tend to "synchronize", which would make Beelzebubette the Visage of Venus for a few days a month...


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and they are flunked my standards test. Between massive tattoos (unattractive) overweight, uneducated, lazy, dumb, and no family values, or simply having waaaay too many children for me to have to deal with, they're simply... a bunch of losers. Oh, and one of the biggest killers here is that they think they're extremely special and want to be treated like Donald Trump's girlfriend. Don't measure up to their expectations, and there's another 10 losers waiting in line to suck-up to them. So, if I make great money, can treat my woman as she deserves, am faithful, want children, and yes I think I'm a great guy, I think its a good trade for a FSUW :)


Move down south.. lots of fine and normal ladies here... plus plenty of hiking trails.. 


When you speak with FSUW... you might want to condense that last paragraph into something along the lines of "haven't found my other half"...
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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #7 on: November 13, 2013, 01:12:33 PM »
The way I view it. I might as well go for broke. I live in a city where the women are ugly, and the ones that might be acceptable are usually criminals or with bad criminal histories. I make a living hiking mountains and I simply am not exposed to attractive, family valued women, etc etc etc. The fact is, for some like me, we don't really have options. I've just finished dating 4 AW's, and they are flunked my standards test. Between massive tattoos (unattractive) overweight, uneducated, lazy, dumb, and no family values, or simply having waaaay too many children for me to have to deal with, they're simply... a bunch of losers. Oh, and one of the biggest killers here is that they think they're extremely special and want to be treated like Donald Trump's girlfriend. Don't measure up to their expectations, and there's another 10 losers waiting in line to suck-up to them. So, if I make great money, can treat my woman as she deserves, am faithful, want children, and yes I think I'm a great guy, I think its a good trade for a FSUW :)

And what makes you think that bringing Snow White to this squalor is going to make her happy? Ever thought about that?
 
Or are you planning on keeping her incomunicado?
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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #8 on: November 13, 2013, 01:23:34 PM »
Why do so many men seeking FSUW always think these women are "More traditional" "Like to raise the family" "Have family values" ?

Its all B***** really !! Maybe twenty years ago, but as the new generation grow up, who are more interested in a career and making money and don't want to sit at home all day. How will the next lot of FSUW wife hunters manage? It will defeat the object bringing back a women to your own country, only for her to want to get straight into some career and if she's smart and fluent in several languages , she may even land up earning more than you.

Its going to defeat the object for many guys??

Screw it!  I am off to Chepstow then  :cluebat:
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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #9 on: November 13, 2013, 04:31:17 PM »
Flashback - your profile says you live in Tucson. Is so, I am there on a regular basis and I don't see it that way.

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #10 on: November 13, 2013, 05:25:56 PM »
The way I view it. I might as well go for broke. I live in a city where the women are ugly, and the ones that might be acceptable are usually criminals or with bad criminal histories.....


Ahah! You are the first dude that actually admitted being a member of this site....


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LOL. Dude. What did you expect to find there? The angel of mercy?
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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #11 on: November 14, 2013, 02:50:15 AM »
Название темы доставляет.  :D

Why you think, that FSUW like to do these things? Furthermore - enjoy this routine things? :D They do this becasue things need to be done and, if someone come up with help, they would share as much as possible with them.  :D I think, foreign women also do at least something at home.  :wallbash:

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #12 on: November 14, 2013, 02:59:53 AM »
Название темы доставляет.  :D



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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #13 on: November 14, 2013, 03:06:45 AM »



I may not be a bride agency owner, but as a passer by I would like to tell you that you are really bad in advertising your agency.  Seriously. 

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #14 on: November 14, 2013, 03:24:03 AM »
You are wrong.
I am not advertise anything. I am not agency.

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #16 on: November 14, 2013, 03:45:00 PM »
RW have been working all thorugh the Soviet era and ever since. The sit-at-home wife is almost unknown there. But the thing that sets them apart is that they feel apart from their job and career it still is their taks to be a home maker.

However I can inform you that the young generation has a severe 'princess syndrom' that makes them simply too demanding for Russian men to handle. Once they understand there are WM waiting for them to accept their money, they will not have any problem (pro)dating them.
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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #17 on: November 14, 2013, 04:00:03 PM »

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #18 on: November 14, 2013, 04:11:08 PM »
Shadow, RW are not stay-at-home moms but they are used to work AND do most of house work. It is back in Russia.
Once they are here and understand how things are in this country- then forget it :D
Only few of us will stay at home for years without our own money and job. It is very insecure. So, RW will work and they will SHARE chores with their husbands.
Trust me, RW (FSUW) can be very determined to do it. By "determined" I actually mean "really stubborn".
AW will seem to be just little angels (contrasted to RW)

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #19 on: November 14, 2013, 04:35:36 PM »

Trust me, RW (FSUW) can be very determined to do it. By "determined" I actually mean "really stubborn".



WHAT????!!
NOOOO!!!!  FSUW Stubborn?  aren't those synonyms?
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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #20 on: November 14, 2013, 04:37:14 PM »
Yes, Dave, you know better  :D

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #21 on: November 15, 2013, 07:57:32 AM »
Shadow, RW are not stay-at-home moms but they are used to work AND do most of house work. It is back in Russia.
Once they are here and understand how things are in this country- then forget it :D
Only few of us will stay at home for years without our own money and job. It is very insecure. So, RW will work and they will SHARE chores with their husbands.
Trust me, RW (FSUW) can be very determined to do it. By "determined" I actually mean "really stubborn".
AW will seem to be just little angels (contrasted to RW)


Yes correct, but many guys are stupid and think every women in Russia wants to wash up and cook every day :deadhorse: No women in their own country wants to live with a male chauvinist pig, so they decide to fly out to some Eastern european village and search for a washer up!

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #22 on: November 15, 2013, 09:56:29 PM »
I just don't understand one simple  thing - why each individuum can't just cook and then clean?  :D The stress of expectation "Oh, I need to cook and then to clean, oh, no,  better to die" is smaller than long-term anxiety about finding где-то у черта на рогах(пардоньте мой французский) some woman, who will LIKE to do this? There is no any statistics data about. I will call to my grandmother to village and ask, if there is a someone, who will enjoy this and then will report here any results.  :D I guess that this topic was created just for lulz though.

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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #23 on: November 15, 2013, 10:35:57 PM »
The simple reality is, that someone has to do it... so why NOT the woman?

I don't get it - if the guy washes the car, changes the oil, mows the lawn, cleans out the gutters in the autumn (when the leaves fall and they clog it up), is he supposed to now complain and ask the woman to climb up the ladder with him?

The reason things got segmented into "man's job" and "woman's job" is not due to chauvinism - it is due to specialization!  Steveboy, thought you were smarter than that ...

It is why a person who runs a bakery does not also run an auto mechanic's shop!  :cluebat:
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Re: Russian Cook/Cleaner/Housewife and anything else Western women don't like
« Reply #24 on: November 15, 2013, 10:59:26 PM »

WHAT????!!
NOOOO!!!!  FSUW Stubborn?  aren't those synonyms?

Funny thing about that--  a guy who has made great success of his marriage used those words in relation to a situation I face !!!lol :)
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 translated as: Glory to Ukraine! Glory to the heroes!!!  is a Ukrainian greeting slogan being used now all over Ukraine to signify support for a free independent Ukraine

 

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