Hello all, new to this

[AC]

LOL, no.  I was spurring the shit out of him.  I won that rodeo

Isn't 8 seconds the record?  I guess the difference between winning and losing a rodeo is mere hundredths of a second.

[TheBullRDR]

No.  How it works is you have to stay on for 8 seconds.  If you do then you get a score.  The score is from 1-100 points given by 2 judges.  Each judge scores the cowboy on his ride from 1-25 and the bull on how well he bucked from 1-25.   If you don't stay on for 8 you get a no score and go home empty handed.

[Gator]

Gator, I dare to suppose RW knows exactly what's wrong with a man.  He must be either hardened skirt chaser or a complete killjoy, first option is preferable. 

True, and the second option become evident quickly.  So if he is a confirmed bachelor (or very particular as admitted by BullRDR), your following statement is very important for our hero:

Though deep in her soul she wants to believe the man was waiting for her all these years 

Belvis, you are a romantic.   

So a man tells her those words and behaves as if she is his angel.  If it develops that she is indeed the one for marriage, the words are true.   

[Gator]

No.  How it works is you have to stay on for 8 seconds.  If you do then you get a score.  The score is from 1-100 points given by 2 judges.  Each judge scores the cowboy on his ride from 1-25 and the bull on how well he bucked from 1-25.   If you don't stay on for 8 you get a no score and go home empty handed.

Reminds me of the old joke of playing "rodeo" with your girlfriend.  The game goes as follows.  The two of you are enjoying sex in the doggy style position.   While behind her, you whisper in her ear, "From here, you look just like your sister."  You then try to stay on for 8 seconds. 

[TheBullRDR]

Reminds me of the old joke of playing "rodeo" with your girlfriend.  The game goes as follows.  The two of you are enjoying sex in the doggy style position.   While behind her, you whisper in her ear, "From here, you look just like your sister."  You then try to stay on for 8 seconds. 

 

I've heard hat one before, but it's still funny

[Gator]

How on earth will I know about sex after three days?  I could be wrong here, but I was under the impression that the "moral values" were a bit stricter with the RW than here, and any type of sex was out of the question until sometime down the road.

Did your Russian friend tell you this?  Or is this something you inferred from reading agency hype about RW having traditional values?

You should do what you feel is right for you, yet I believe your attitude needs some reexamination.  Just because a woman has sex with you quickly does not mean she has sex with every man quickly.  RW are selective, and if she likes you, you will know it rather soon. 


I dated FSUW mainly in their 30s and 40s.  All had a wholesome attitude about sex.  They enjoyed it, and they wanted to feel sexy.  Besides,  the Russian OB-GYN will advise their patients to have lots of natural sex.   

Keep in mind that  romance between a visiting Western man and a RW is on a compressed schedule as his trip is usually short in duration.  If you want a wild woman in the bedroom, you should not waste time in finding out.

Regarding your concern about having sex too soon, I do not believe that sex interferes with the development of a relationship.  It begs the question of whether a man can look past the wild sex with a young beautiful woman and be able to assess whether they are indeed compatible with good chemistry (thinking with the big head vs. little head).  That is something to be concerned about, and that is why you should spend much time with a RW with several meetings before deciding about marriage.

There are a couple of good trip reports in the RWD archives of men meeting and marrying a virgin.  It happens.  I also know one Moscow woman who broke off her relationship with a LDS American because he refused to have sex. 

[TheBullRDR]

Thanks Gator,
   I know the compressed time is an issue, I was just speaking from what I know about women here, as I've never dated a RW.  And generally speaking, any woman you get into bed on date number one is not one you're going to end up taking home to meet Mom.  RW may be different in their views on this stuff, hence the question.

I appreciate the info.  Very helpful, indeed.

To answer your question, no, my friend didn't tell me that.  I guess it was an idea that formed during the last two weeks of researching this stuff.  I can't point to any one specific thing that made me think this way, just was an overall feeling I suppose, gleaned from reading everything I could get my hands on. 

[ML]

  And generally speaking, any woman you get into bed on date number one is not one you're going to end up taking home to meet Mom. 

Don't bet the farm on this.  We are in the year 2014 . . . not 1954.

[Gator]

To answer your question, no, my friend didn't tell me that.  I guess it was an idea that formed during the last two weeks of researching this stuff.  I can't point to any one specific thing that made me think this way, just was an overall feeling I suppose, gleaned from reading everything I could get my hands on.

Most of the agency hype is unadulterated bullshit, piles and piles.

[I/O]

TBR: Russia and surrounds is a virgin hunters graveyard.

[cc3]

I know the compressed time is an issue, I was just speaking from what I know about women here, as I've never dated a RW. 

BR, let's get our terms and acronyms straight. This is not a forum devoted to relationships with only "RW's". Here we deal with the entire spectrum of FSUW's, former soviet union women. Since the FSU had 15 republics, you can see that we are interested in people from all of them, which, among others, could include NATO/EU members Estonia, Latvia, and Lithuania, and the current war opponent to the Russians...the Ukrainians. For all practical purposes, we mainly discuss relationships that occur with Russians and Ukrainians, those two nations being the most populous of the 15 republics. With the present adversarial situation developing with Russia, relationship activity with those women may soon be waning as fast as the Russian ruble is falling. Furthermore restricting your search to only FSUW may be too limiting. There are very attractive and worthwhile women in all of the eastern European nations. With the rapid devolution of Russia into a one-man ruled autocratic dictatorship, extremely hostile to the US, it may be best to avoid that country for the time being, until it awakens from its fascistic, imperialistic fantasies.

[AC]

TBR: Russia and surrounds is a virgin hunters graveyard.

In other words they like to f^&*.  Puritanical attitudes are an American problem.  Leave such BS behind, far behind.  In fact you say you stayed with a woman for 3 years even though the sex was bad because you didn't want to give up on the relationship?  Sorry but that is just dumb.  Leave that kind of inability to make a good decision behind as well, IMO.

[AC]

Don't bet the farm on this.  We are in the year 2014 . . . not 1954.

 

[TheBullRDR]

All good advice.  Thank you.  I guess I have to try and view things through a different prisim than I am used to.  Try and leave my cultural mindset at the door and view things for what they really are.  That will be difficult, as we all view our surroundings based on our own frame of reference. 

CC3
  Yo are right.  I should have said FSUW instead of RW.  Sorry, I'm still learning as I go. 

On a lighter note, I uploaded a couple of my bull riding pictures onto EM, and you guys were right, my mail box has suddenly come to life.

[I/O]

On a lighter note, I uploaded a couple of my bull riding pictures onto EM, and you guys were right, my mail box has suddenly come to life.

Understand, most RW's will be expecting you to go more than 8 seconds....

[TheBullRDR]

 

Understand, most RW's will be expecting you to go more than 8 seconds....

Well if their as big a a bull, that's all the longer I'll hang on.  But as for the rest, I'll go as long as they can stand.

[I/O]

I'll go as long as they can stand.

Bla bla - can you back up immediately, you don't get 2 hours between rounds.....

[TheBullRDR]

Who ever said I need to "back up".  Not sure how we ended up talking about this but lets just say I'm worlds away from what some refer to as a "minute man" and leave it at that.