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Help with Nikolaev
« on: November 29, 2014, 02:59:40 AM »
Hey guys,

I've been chatting with a wonderful girl from Nikolaev for a while, just wondering if anybody has any contacts or tips for Nikolaev? Any interpreters in the city, or could recommend somewhere that provides decent English lessons?

Cheers!

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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #1 on: November 29, 2014, 03:58:31 AM »
 :welcome:
I can help you with Nikolaev--I  have several people there that can help in every respect.
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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #2 on: November 29, 2014, 09:11:00 AM »
Tommy K, you look very well versed in English.  Perhaps you are looking for English lessons for the woman you are chatting with?

Rule #1:

Don't spend any money on a woman until you meet her and can ascertain her sincerity in person.

Rule #2:

Get on Skype and see her absent a trip there.

While Jay knows Mykolaiv more recently, I spent the summer there, not last summer, but the summer before.  While I met lots of people (and had a great time) most of the women there are online to make money, in one way or another.

Scamming is a major industry there.   Beware!
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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #3 on: November 29, 2014, 10:58:17 AM »
Tommy K, you look very well versed in English.  Perhaps you are looking for English lessons for the woman you are chatting with?

Rule #1:

Don't spend any money on a woman until you meet her and can ascertain her sincerity in person.

Rule #2:

Get on Skype and see her absent a trip there.

While Jay knows Mykolaiv more recently, I spent the summer there, not last summer, but the summer before.  While I met lots of people (and had a great time) most of the women there are online to make money, in one way or another.

Scamming is a major industry there.   Beware!

Not sure how accurate it is but I heard/read that Nikolaev has the highest number of agencies of any city in Ukraine..... ( may be based on pop size)
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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #4 on: November 29, 2014, 02:24:28 PM »
I would echo what Jone told you,

If you have met her, and provided that you flag pole took some action with her sweet authorization, you can perhaps start to think about english courses. But as it seems to be that you are only chating it is time to save your money, you will need it in the future, believe me when you  meet the one.
If a woman is really interested in you she willl learn ANY language just to find the way to communicate with you.
So the decent thing to do is not put money in her pocket but put your ass in a plane.
And if you think that a terp would "secure" the transaction  it is very possible that they will share the money, depending of the morale of the terp.
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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #5 on: November 29, 2015, 05:57:45 PM »
Not sure how accurate it is but I heard/read that Nikolaev has the highest number of agencies of any city in Ukraine..... ( may be based on pop size)

I do not know about you, but I see Nikolaev has more beautiful girls - based on the outside I mean

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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #6 on: November 29, 2015, 06:20:07 PM »
I do not know about you, but I see Nikolaev has more beautiful girls - based on the outside I mean

Interesting observation.   Have you been there?

I'm not arguing because many Ukrainian cities are overloaded with beauties.   So are many Russian cities.

Cities are magnets for the village girls.  They want to go there to find their man.  Prospects are better than. In the village.

A couple of pointers for the Newbies:

1.  All gals have cell phones.  Many have more than one as there are multiple networks that cost a lot to talk to each other.

2.  Most gals have at least an elementary knowledge of English.  Even if they say they don't.

3.  Gals that are serious will make time for you.  Even to the point of missing work.   If they are not available for consecutive days, find another gal.

4.  If the gal works with an agency there is a better than 50% chance she makes money from the agency.   An agency's goal is to get paid.

Hope this helps.
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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #7 on: November 29, 2015, 06:54:57 PM »
Hey guys,

I've been chatting with a wonderful girl from Nikolaev for a while, just wondering if anybody has any contacts or tips for Nikolaev? Any interpreters in the city, or could recommend somewhere that provides decent English lessons?

Cheers!


One lady I dated in the States said she was amazed at the amount of men sending money to her friends in the 90's for education, living expenses and gifts. She and her friends thought those men were stupid since they didn't visit the ladies first. Don't be one of those men.
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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #8 on: November 29, 2015, 07:04:13 PM »
Not sure how accurate it is but I heard/read that Nikolaev has the highest number of agencies of any city in Ukraine..... ( may be based on pop size)

Might be correct. Niko is known as the city of brides and has always been a hotbed for the industry.

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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #9 on: November 29, 2015, 11:40:17 PM »
Lets get something straight-there are beautiful girls everywhere in Ukraine-in every city

What is relevant--is that some cities are easier to be in for visitors.

Sasha pointed out above that Nikolaev has the reputation as agency hotbed area--thus more profiles and photos are generated  and that may equal wha the gato was asking.

btw   Kherson also lays claim to the City of Brides  title-- and it also has  noticeably good looking population !  :)
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Слава Украине! Слава героям слава!Слава Україні! Слава героям!
 translated as: Glory to Ukraine! Glory to the heroes!!!  is a Ukrainian greeting slogan being used now all over Ukraine to signify support for a free independent Ukraine

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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #10 on: November 30, 2015, 01:20:58 AM »
Interesting observation.   Have you been there?



No, but based on what I looked at search - thousands of women.   Nikolaev, Lugansk.

I find the Odessa women are the worst when comes to being faithful.

I've only been to Kiev & Odessa but I was with my ex-girlfriend from Uzbekistan for these vacations

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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #11 on: November 30, 2015, 01:26:36 AM »

4.  If the gal works with an agency there is a better than 50% chance she makes money from the agency.   An agency's goal is to get paid.

Hope this helps.

50% chance, and find other gal if she forgets your birthday!   I did even though they knew a week before lol.  Obviously they were one of the 50% who make money!  If it is so, they make poor business by losing customers for forgetting their birthdays   8)



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Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #12 on: November 30, 2015, 01:39:43 AM »
Hey guys,

I've been chatting with a wonderful girl from Nikolaev for a while, just wondering if anybody has any contacts or tips for Nikolaev? Any interpreters in the city, or could recommend somewhere that provides decent English lessons?

Cheers!

Welcome to the forum!

I don't have any contacts in Nikolaev, I do know Stirlitz who is a guide/translater in
nearby Odessa. It looks like Jay can get you fixed up.

I would recommend taking Jones advice.

If you haven't met her in person yet, my advice is to be cautiously optimistic. Contact
her on Skype and talk to her on the phone. About Skype, you can use Google translate to
talk somewhat and if you think you need it you can get Eduard or somebody recommended
by others to help you with a three way call.

I recommend you make your own arrangements with both your apartment and translator
rather than using agency services. Oftentimes agencies have their own agendas that don't
have the same goals as you do.

A serious girl will want to talk to you on both the phone and see your mug on Skype.
I always said I wanted them to see me on Skype so that they can decide for themselves
if I look better than a shaved monkey or not, or I'll say, "I don't want you to run away
screaming when I arrive at the airport. If they think you look ok on a fisheyed skype
lens then they are sure to like you when they see you in person."


Lastly, don't say anything to indicate that you think she might be a scammer. (I'm
not suggesting that she is) It's just that will make nearly 100% of serious girls dump
you.


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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #13 on: November 30, 2015, 03:37:07 AM »
Beeell

Do you know that you were responding to an inquiry from a year ago?
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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #14 on: November 30, 2015, 03:53:33 AM »
Beeell

Do you know that you were responding to an inquiry from a year ago?



It depends what year you are in   !! Nth Dak  --is it 2014 yet?
SLAVA UKRAYINI  ! HEROYAM SLAVA!!!!
Слава Украине! Слава героям слава!Слава Україні! Слава героям!
 translated as: Glory to Ukraine! Glory to the heroes!!!  is a Ukrainian greeting slogan being used now all over Ukraine to signify support for a free independent Ukraine

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Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #15 on: November 30, 2015, 06:13:35 AM »
Beeell

Do you know that you were responding to an inquiry from a year ago?

No, I didn't. It just showed up when I pressed the unread posts for last visit button.
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #16 on: November 30, 2015, 08:23:00 AM »
GatoMoon,

I tell you from experience that there is no way in Hell that your FSU woman would forget your birthday.  When you experience the love from an FSU woman that we all know, then you will have no doubt, ever, about her remembering your birthday.

As Beeellll says:

Udachi.
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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #17 on: November 30, 2015, 12:38:44 PM »
He gave her all his money and is still locked in apartment since New years eve  :P
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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #18 on: November 30, 2015, 02:58:24 PM »
It depends what year you are in   !! Nth Dak  --is it 2014 yet?

Do you know you can't buy alcohol in Norf Dekody on Thanksgiving day? or
after 6:00 pm on Christmas eve or all day Christmas? or before noon on Sundays?
You can buy it only in separate liquor stores and you can't bring your children in
with you even if they are breast feeding.

So if you come to North Dakota turn back the Calender 30 years and don't forget
your hat and gloves
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Help with Nikolaev
« Reply #19 on: November 30, 2015, 04:12:41 PM »
Beeell

Do you know that you were responding to an inquiry from a year ago?

I doubt it makes any difference to Bill.....his 'opinion' is for what its worth!!! ;)
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