Hi, my name is Natasha :)

[Brasscasing]

Dear participants of the forum! I'm curious hear your comments to these vdeo:
http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaqeg80Z00cuqxSbfSzaSbw/videos

You seem a bit preoccupied with scamming, Natali. Is there a reason for this?

Brass

[Natali_Tsymbalyuk]

You seem a bit preoccupied with scamming, Natali. Is there a reason for this?

Brass

Hmm .. Be curious is bad or strange to you?

[Brasscasing]

Hmm .. Be curious is bad or strange to you?

Not at all. Remember why you joined though. You seek a husband, yes? If it's gotten to the point where you've started looking for and posting scam vids, you're in danger of losing your way (this happens to men as well).

Be aware and vigilant as it pertains to your own search but don't focus on it to the exclusion of everything else. It's counter productive.

If you've become worried about the particular agency you've joined then change your agency. I note some members here have recommended other agencies to you already. Might be the way to go, da?

Brass

[Photo Guy]

Welcome Natasha!
Your introduction reminds me of the time I met my gal in Kyiv. She asked me about my fears and possible suspicions. I mentioned how there are stories of UW who meet 'rich' Western men, and then try to get things from them, like nice clothing, etc. Then she smiled and showed me the hole in her otherwise nice sweater... 

[BillyB]

Dear participants of the forum! I'm curious hear your comments to these vdeo:
http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaqeg80Z00cuqxSbfSzaSbw/videos

Natasha, I don't have time to watch all those videos but from a glimpse, it seems to talk about the problems of the agency you're at. Problems at that agency has been talked about at this forum many times over many years.

Ah, but they are told. Read the edit: Sorry, that should read Website Participation Attestation, Para 1, Line 9.

Very few people read the fine print when signing up at a dating/marriage site. A lot of ladies are surprise to find their photos and profile at other sites after signing up at Zolushka.

[AC]

Not at all. Remember why you joined though. You seek a husband, yes? If it's gotten to the point where you've started looking for and posting scam vids, you're in danger of losing your way (this happens to men as well).

Be aware and vigilant as it pertains to your own search but don't focus on it to the exclusion of everything else. It's counter productive.

If you've become worried about the particular agency you've joined then change your agency. I note some members here have recommended other agencies to you already. Might be the way to go, da?

Brass

I would say strange and counter productive as well.  Those vids do not inspire a man to be on that agency.  Time to jump ship to a better agency, if I were Natalia.

Sometimes the things we worry about too much are the things which happen.  Focus more energy on positive life results, get more positive life results.

[Ed S.]

Hi Natali! First of all, I'd like to apologize on behalf of all men for what you've encountered so far, there's definitely a lot of perverts out there! Unfortunately, these kinds of things draws some rather shifty people on both ends, and I agree with everyone else that the agency is absolutely not what you want to deal with. Personally, I've just got a membership at Elena's Models and I can tell that they're the real thing. I'm sure there's others out there as well, but EM has a very good reputation and I just went with them.

I doubt you'll find as many creeps there, they monitor things fairly well. Of course I can't personally vouch for all the guys on the site, but there are at least some younger guys that have real intentions and aren't just daydreaming. I'm one of them!

[lordtiberius]

Lol


Natalie,

I told you.  We are all weird.  Be careful what you wish for.

[AC]

Lol


Natalie,

I told you.  We are all weird.  Be careful what you wish for.

Speak for yourself.  Ed looks very normal to me.  At least he doesn't post a photo of Jesus Christ as himself.   

[lordtiberius]

You are weird.  You don't defend Jesus Christ.  So FU.

[jone]

I have read this thread carefully and while the OP complains about the various agencies, my opinion is that she is complaining with crocodile tears.  In putting forth her complaints she has managed to display all of the various locations that she has secreted her name and profile. 

While I do believe she is a real person, I also see that she has proceeded and listed herself on the wild side of FSU online dating, joining sites that do, among other things, voyeur dating for guys to look at naked women.

If she really is sincere she would take her profiles all down and join a dating site that allowed her to meet a man and proceed to the next steps in dating.  But I don't think that is her purpose here.

I am not going to post the sites that she has been found on.  First they were shared with me from other members of the forum and it is their story to tell (nothing clandestine, just discovery) and second, I am, quite honestly, tired of giving this gal a forum to advance her wares.

As you all remember, she stated early on that she has very set ideas of how old a man in her life should be.  But the sites she has frequented are for establishing relations with older men.  That, to me, rings false.

To Natasha, I say:  Get your life together.  Boe gave you some good advice.  If you really are an auto electrician and not an online woman who gets money from men, then purge yourself from these sites.  Focus only on the goal at hand, of getting a Canadian sponsor to find work overseas (as in North America) and improve your life and your future prospects.  As for dating in your own age range, I can tell you, based on what I've read, I would not consider you wife material without a commitment to remake your life excluding the type of websites I have seen.

Use this forum to remake your life.  There are plenty of well meaning people here who have resources and will guide you in directions you have not been able to contemplate.  But, in doing so, you must purge your activities that have been on display and alluded to on this forum.

[AC]

Now I'm dying to know, what is the name of some of these other web sites?   


PS
Jone, rather then judging Natalia, you should ask yourself what would you do if you were a female stuck in Odessa, Ukraine with very bleak economic prospects, and little way to feed your family?  (I am not saying anything about what Natalia is doing, because I don't know.  I'm just speaking in general terms)

[jone]

AC,
 
The purpose of my post was to have her turn away from these.   I agree totally with you, having lived in Mykolaiv.  The prospects for suitable employment are bleak.  Let's take a young lady who has the capability of making a life for herself in the West and give her support and advice on how to do so, maybe even active support. 

But how many psychiatrists does it take to change a lightbulb:  Answer:  1, but the lightbulb has to want to change.

[AC]

AC,
 
The purpose of my post was to have her turn away from these.   I agree totally with you, having lived in Mykolaiv.  The prospects for suitable employment are bleak.  Let's take a young lady who has the capability of making a life for herself in the West and give her support and advice on how to do so, maybe even active support. 

But how many psychiatrists does it take to change a lightbulb:  Answer:  1, but the lightbulb has to want to change.

Well, maybe she doesn't need to "change".  She's just fine the way she is.  Maybe she just needs to evolve. 

[BillyB]

the lightbulb has to want to change.

When willing to make changes, if any person has a problem pulling down their profile and needs help, this forum will pressure the company to make it happen.

[pokerintherear]

Hi Natali! First of all, I'd like to apologize on behalf of all men for what you've encountered so far, there's definitely a lot of perverts out there! Unfortunately, these kinds of things draws some rather shifty people on both ends, and I agree with everyone else that the agency is absolutely not what you want to deal with. Personally, I've just got a membership at Elena's Models and I can tell that they're the real thing. I'm sure there's others out there as well, but EM has a very good reputation and I just went with them.

I doubt you'll find as many creeps there, they monitor things fairly well. Of course I can't personally vouch for all the guys on the site, but there are at least some younger guys that have real intentions and aren't just daydreaming. I'm one of them!

White Night to the rescue. I O Silver!!

[Boethius]

White Night to the rescue. I O Silver!!

If wanting to meet an attractive woman is the sign of a white knight, then pretty much every man in the world is a white knight.

[pokerintherear]

If wanting to meet an attractive woman is the sign of a white knight, then pretty much every man in the world is a white knight.

Of course you don't see the point. The White Night is apologizing for the men of the forum. He is such a nice guy. What woman would not want to date him? The deep down cause is he wants to be liked at all cost. At expense of other men.

[Boethius]

No, he wasn't referring to the forum at all.  He notes there are many creeps online.  That is true, and it not restricted to the "MOB industry".  He then states that he has registered at EM, and there are fewer "creeps" there, and then notes his experience at EM.  Hardly "white knight" material.

[jone]

White Night to the rescue. I O Silver!!

Unless you were attempting humor, I believe the saying is:  Hi Ho Silver, Away!

[AC]

No, he wasn't referring to the forum at all.  He notes there are many creeps online.  That is true, and it not restricted to the "MOB industry".  He then states that he has registered at EM, and there are fewer "creeps" there, and then notes his experience at EM.  Hardly "white knight" material.

I think this is correct.  He was not referring to the men on this forum, but the men she encountered at the website she is registered at.  "pokerintherear" I suggest you go back and read the start of this thread.

[lordtiberius]

Nat, I told you we are all weird.  Some of these apes are down right creeps.  I hope you find a nice man - rich or poor, native born or alien, I wish you love.  These guys have none - most of them.

[jone]

LT,

You do not speak for all of us, as you are want to do.   When you claim we are all weird, you are, quite honestly, very wrong and you really owe an apology to this forum.

I happen to know quite a few of the guys and some of the ladies on this forum and they are upstanding individuals, both in society and on this forum. 

Your attempt at hyperbole discredits you.  Personally, in the future, I would hope that you would leave me out of any of your frequent blanket statements.

[ML]

LT,

You do not speak for all of us, as you are want to do.   When you claim we are all weird, you are, quite honestly, very wrong and you really owe an apology to this forum.

Ha . . . you claim non-weirdness while dressed in a pirate's uniform.

I am sitting here typing while wearing a Catholic school girls uniform . . . but I'm not going to post a pic of such.

[Hammer2722]

Ha . . . you claim non-weirdness while dressed in a pirate's uniform.

I am sitting here typing while wearing a Catholic school girls uniform . . . but I'm not going to post a pic of such.

Already seen it!