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A Virgin Bed?
« on: June 04, 2015, 11:32:07 AM »
Hello to all, I posted this question here for a Russian Woman to answer, but anyone can comment.  Is it expected if you bring your FSUW to the States to buy a new bed?  I vaguely remember T.T. Bill mentioning that when he brought his wife and daughter here.  I understand the idea and if necessary I'll definitely do it.


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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #1 on: June 04, 2015, 11:47:00 AM »
Unnecessary, unless your mattress needs to be replaced.
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #2 on: June 04, 2015, 01:02:41 PM »
More importantly . . .  check all existing sheets, pillow cases, etc., to search for strands of hair.  Pubic hair seems to cause the most concern for some reason.

Some of us have multiple sets for each bed and different sets for winter, summer, etc.

Also have to look in the crevices in sofas, recliners, etc.  And don't forget all the combs and hair brushes.

It can be a big job.

Be sure to put in fresh batteries also; or better yet, repack in original boxes to present as gift.  Check dates on condoms.

Have good explanations ready why you have half empty containers of Kotex, Tampax, lubricants, etc.

Replace those spare tooth brushes . . . unless they can pass for new.
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #3 on: June 04, 2015, 01:08:43 PM »
Not much of a housekeeper, are you ML?  8)
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #4 on: June 04, 2015, 01:11:24 PM »
I didn't replace the bed, we did buy a new mattress, but it was due.
Also a new vacuum as mine was not up to par :)

I also 2nd, before the first visit, i did a complete sweep of the house.
( no I don't mean with broom)
Every drawer, closet and nook and cranny.
I did not want to have to explain anything.
Only found one pair of panties, for the life of me,
not sure where they came from:(

I did clean, 4 days straight then hired cleaners, I have come to realize its a waste of time, She looked around and said tomorrow I will clean :clue bat:
Make it clean and tidy and forget it, FSUW have different cleaning standards.
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #5 on: June 04, 2015, 01:27:10 PM »
I had to replace my bed two weeks after my wife came here.
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #6 on: June 04, 2015, 01:38:15 PM »
I had to replace my bed two weeks after my wife came here.

Braggart  :D

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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #7 on: June 04, 2015, 01:48:09 PM »
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #8 on: June 04, 2015, 02:28:07 PM »
He didn't say he broke the bed.


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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #9 on: June 04, 2015, 03:09:10 PM »
I had to replace my bed two weeks after my wife came here.

Now, now, you shouldn't have tied the ropes to the bed post!!! :P ( I hope it wasn't chains)

BTW- Could have just replaced the bedframe!!!  :cheesy:  They do come in metal now!!!
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #10 on: June 04, 2015, 04:38:56 PM »
Is it expected if you bring your FSUW to the States to buy a new bed?



My wife asked me if other women slept on the bed. I told her the truth. She didn't ask me to change the bed or mattress. I think she'd be more disappointed if I couldn't get any woman to sleep on my bed. My bed and mattress cost $3000 and fortunately I didn't have to get rid of it for pennies on the dollar. I think every woman is different on this issue. I can understand some women not liking the thought of making love on the same bed you've been banging other women. If sleeping on the same bed as other women ruins your woman's romantic mood, it's best to get rid of it. Hopefully driving in the same car and sleeping in the same house with previous women doesn't become an issue. :o
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #11 on: June 04, 2015, 04:39:33 PM »
Gentlemen, please.
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #12 on: June 04, 2015, 08:56:14 PM »
Gentlemen, please.

Muzh--BB is here-so what level of decorum did you expect!
SLAVA UKRAYINI  ! HEROYAM SLAVA!!!!
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #13 on: June 04, 2015, 08:57:48 PM »
Now, now, you shouldn't have tied the ropes to the bed post!!! :P ( I hope it wasn't chains)

BTW- Could have just replaced the bedframe!!!  :cheesy:  They do come in metal now!!!

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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #14 on: June 04, 2015, 09:09:31 PM »
Hello to all, I posted this question here for a Russian Woman to answer, but anyone can comment.  Is it expected if you bring your FSUW to the States to buy a new bed?  I vaguely remember T.T. Bill mentioning that when he brought his wife and daughter here.  I understand the idea and if necessary I'll definitely do it.


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For what it is worth, my wife is from Colombia.  She specifically asked me to replace the bed before she came, as it was the same bed I had during my prior marriage.  Seemed reasonable to me, so of course I did it.  Like most things, it probably varies from woman to woman. 


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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #15 on: June 05, 2015, 07:57:52 AM »
I bought several new sets of sheets. The bed was not a problem. Daughter likes a very hard bed, so we cut a sheet of plywood and put it on top of the mattress for her. She just covered the plywood with the mattress pad and sheet and was good to go.

Wife did find X's Russian cell phone in a drawer, popped some kind of chip out of it and put it in her Ukrainian cell phone and played out some recorded messages. The content was very interesting to say the least!

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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #16 on: June 05, 2015, 08:24:30 AM »
I bought several new sets of sheets. The bed was not a problem. Daughter likes a very hard bed, so we cut a sheet of plywood and put it on top of the mattress for her. She just covered the plywood with the mattress pad and sheet and was good to go.

Wife did find X's Russian cell phone in a drawer, popped some kind of chip out of it and put it in her Ukrainian cell phone and played out some recorded messages. The content was very interesting to say the least!


I guess we have something similar. My wife likes it very hard also.
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« Reply #17 on: June 05, 2015, 10:22:30 AM »
I bought several new sets of sheets. The bed was not a problem. Daughter likes a very hard bed, so we cut a sheet of plywood and put it on top of the mattress for her. She just covered the plywood with the mattress pad and sheet and was good to go.

Way back in the olden days when I was a growing boy. I would have growth spurts.
During a three month period of time I grew 5 inches (12.7 cm) and my shoe size went
from size 9 to 13. Needless to say it was a painful experience and during that time we
stuck a sheet of 3/4" plywood between my mattress and box springs to make my mattress
firmer.

Wife did find X's Russian cell phone in a drawer, popped some kind of chip out of it and put it in her Ukrainian cell phone and played out some recorded messages. The content was very interesting to say the least!

I've spent many hours making sure that something like that didn't happen but of course
I missed a thing or two. I've deleted some friends on FB and blocked another. Smiley girl
wanted to see a photo of my ex. I couldn't find one but eventually was able to find one on
my sisters FB page when she got married.

Udachi!


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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #18 on: June 05, 2015, 04:04:28 PM »
It's not a daft question and one that I've been asked by FSU W

I've replaced my bed for my former wife  - who ws concerned I may have shared the bed with other women.

My current partner couldn't care less and I am probably not the first to have slept in her bed...

Conclusion ..  there is no 'right' answer.


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Re: Back when the dinosaurs roamed the Earth
« Reply #19 on: June 05, 2015, 08:06:15 PM »
During a three month period of time I grew 5 inches (12.7 cm) and my shoe size went
from size 9 to 13. Needless to say it was a painful experience and during that time we
stuck a sheet of 3/4" plywood between my mattress and box springs to make my mattress
firmer.

I don't understand how a firmer mattress helped with your 'getting longer' situation.
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Re: Back when the dinosaurs roamed the Earth
« Reply #20 on: June 06, 2015, 10:06:22 AM »
I don't understand how a firmer mattress helped with your 'getting longer' situation.

My back was constantly hurting and the firmer mattress gave it some relief,
who knows maybe it was the placebo effect but it seemed to help.
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There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #21 on: June 06, 2015, 03:29:31 PM »

I guess we have something similar. My wife likes it very hard also.


I wasn't going to initially because it's too easy, but it's my thread so what the hell.

I'm sure EVERYONE'S wife likes it very hard!! 😝. Ok, I'm done


Thanks for the feedback everyone, I think just be on the safe side I'll get a new bed right before she arrives.  I'd like to go from a King to a California King anyways.

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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #22 on: June 06, 2015, 06:56:31 PM »
I'd like to go from a King to a California King anyways.

I thought everything was bigger in Texas, not California!  :D

What the hell is a California King, anyway?

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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #23 on: June 06, 2015, 07:30:21 PM »
What the hell is a California King, anyway?

It is a little bit longer than a regular king size, but a little bit narrower also.

Actually a pain in the a$$ because more difficult to find fitted sheets; especially if you move away from California, as I did with a California King.
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Re: A Virgin Bed?
« Reply #24 on: June 06, 2015, 07:46:58 PM »
I have had a California King for the past five years and love it, being a tall man, myself.  And, of  course, living in California, I have never had trouble finding sheets or comforters.
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