wich site should i pick?

[darthmarc]

Hi everyone this is my 1 post  would like to greet everyone and also to ask any advice to join a dating russian women site. any ideas?

i have seen many of them, but the only thing they do is asking money for almost everything, many other have scammers, other ones have models being paid to make u waste money in the chat/cam.
im sure may know what im talking about, so i really need a good site with REAL women and the most important part, the contact number!!!!!

Many sites don allow women to contact man directly just to make you a captive payer, so u must pay for the chat, for the contact, for the cam, for the call, and guess what? the woman is a paid model.

well guys let me tell u a site that make u that type of things to user is anastacia date so my advice is NEVER join that one.

Back to my main question i would like u guys to recommend me a good site that u pay what you get that means 1 membership= unlimited full contact access (address, mail. wecha,whatsapp. and facebook)

any advice?

thanks a lot guys and good hunting for everyone

[BillyB]

Back to my main question i would like u guys to recommend me a good site that u pay what you get that means 1 membership= unlimited full contact access (address, mail. wecha,whatsapp. and facebook)

Welcome to the forum darthmarc. In the link below, there are links of recommended sites. Check out the ones that best suit your needs.


http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=14615.0

any advice?

I'm not the spelling police here and not perfect myself but you need to sharpen your grammar skills. Your "i" needs to be "I". Your "u" needs to be "you". First letter in the first word of a sentence needs to be capitalized. Spelling errors need to corrected. I understand the trend is getting things written as fast as possible with the invention of texting but the ladies you will be writing to will judge your intelligence based on not only what you write but how you write. They are going to factor in your grammar skills when judging if you're a quality man or not. Some of the ladies you communicate with use translators to translate a word or everything you write and they won't be able to understand if you misspell words. You will be attempting to communicate with the future most important woman in your life. You can show her some respect by making what you write pleasant to read.

well guys let me tell u a site that make u that type of things to user is anastacia date so my advice is NEVER join that one.

We know that site very well. Too bad you didn't find us earlier. We could've saved you a lot of money.

[darthmarc]

thanks a lot for the advice but about the spelling, i always write in a hurry and i dont think a woman would not choose me for my grammar, never happened to me. Women care about money and papers and then pictures, if you have that then u are ok if you dont then better do something to get them. And as my experience also tells me that women usually have worst grammar than me, specially russian ones.

I appreciate again the tips, and by the way thanks god i didn t waste a  dime using anastacia lol

[Lily]

thanks a lot for the advice but about the spelling, i always write in a hurry and i dont think a woman would not choose me for my grammar, never happened to me. Women care about money and papers and then pictures, if you have that then u are ok if you dont then better do something to get them. And as my experience also tells me that women usually have worst grammar than me, specially russian ones.

I appreciate again the tips, and by the way thanks god i didn t waste a  dime using anastacia lol

Russian women may have a worse grammar in their emails because English is not their first language.

When you write your emails to a prospect, the first thing that they see about you is the language that you use. They note the words that you use, they see how rich or poor is your vocabulary, they look at the expressiveness of your posts. At this stage, your written language could be your best ambassador or your worst representative.

[BillyB]

i dont think a woman would not choose me for my grammar, never happened to me.

How do you know? They won't tell you this. Many ladies who do not respond to your initial letter or message may have decided right then and there you aren't for them and you may assume they just aren't interested in your photo which may not be the reason they didn't respond. Lily stepped in to say it does matter and I've written to enough ladies to know it's true too. At this forum I rarely use spell check. Sometimes It'll take me hours to write a post since I step away from the computer occasionally and finish the post later which lead to more errors. I'm good at math and science but language is my weak point. I make errors on this forum but when I write the ladies, I do a better job than I do here. You don't have to work hard to impress us but do it for the ladies. It does help if you try to make improvements in every post and study how others write.

Women care about money and papers and then pictures, if you have that then u are ok if you dont then better do something to get them.

If you think women care about money papers(green card?) and a man's looks, you may end up settling for one of those women since you think that's the nature of women. You and a lady may view a relationship as a business deal which isn't healthy. You are simply her money bank and she is your sperm bank. There are women that care about love and your biggest sex organ, the brain. They dream of having a happy family with a decent guy. A guy doesn't have to have the fattest wallet or movie star looks. Change how you view women's needs and start attracting the family oriented girls.

And as my experience also tells me that women usually have worst grammar than me, specially russian ones.

Lily made a good point that English is not their first language and even if the ladies aren't performing at the level we do, we need to set examples for them to improve, not join in at their level.

[darthmarc]

Well you are all assuming english is my main language and is not. You are not the center of the world guys, there are other countries and other people who also use this website that don t speak english as their main language.
In my case i paid my english lessons as i could and, i try my best to write, and i know  will never write as good as  natives do.
So please next time you make that type of comments just have in mind not everyone in this site  is english native and not everyone has the possibility to pay english lessons.
So if your want to give the example just try next time to ask at least where is the person from before making that type of assumptions
Thanks again for the information And remember USA CANADA AND ENGLAND are not the only countries in the world, and english is not the main language en every country.

[BillyB]

Well you are all assuming english is my main language and is not.

I figured you were born in another country based on how you put words together, not based on spelling errors but it didn't factor in my answer to you. I was born in another country too. Nothing wrong with improving especially when it helps you attract more women. People come here to find where and how to attract women and they will get answers. Most of us here do want to help others succeed, not ridicule them. You don't have to like the advice on improving grammar but it may double the amount of women that write back to you.

[darthmarc]

You were born in another country but u live in the us right? so you practice every day english. I dont have that possibility.

Anyway thanks for the advice i already checked some of the websites, they are cool

[ML]

And remember USA CANADA AND ENGLAND are not the only countries in the world, and english is not the main language en every country.

But they are the most important countries in the world, and English is the main language of every civilized country.

[darthmarc]

well then we are nor civilized sorry im sure u support  Donald  Trump camping

[BillyB]

You were born in another country but u live in the us right?

I live in America but some minorities will still make excuses for not advancing in life. Don't make excuses.

so you practice every day english. I dont have that possibility.

Not anymore. You have the possibility to practice English everyday with us.

Anyway thanks for the advice i already checked some of the websites, they are cool

Hope one of them works out for you. Good luck.

[ML]

im sure u support  Donald  Trump camping

Not if he tries to camp in my back yard.

[Larry1]

well then we are nor civilized sorry im sure u support  Donald  Trump camping

I would not have guessed The Donald camps, but if he does I imagine he would camp in a luxurious trailer such as this one:

[Muzh]

Well you are all assuming english is my main language and is not. You are not the center of the world guys, there are other countries and other people who also use this website that don t speak english as their main language.
In my case i paid my english lessons as i could and, i try my best to write, and i know  will never write as good as  natives do.
So please next time you make that type of comments just have in mind not everyone in this site  is english native and not everyone has the possibility to pay english lessons.
So if your want to give the example just try next time to ask at least where is the person from before making that type of assumptions
Thanks again for the information And remember USA CANADA AND ENGLAND are not the only countries in the world, and english is not the main language en every country.

It seems to me you came here to ask for advice and you'll take the advice as long as it is what you want to hear.


Good luck dude. You are definitely going to need it.

[Hammer2722]

Darthmarc, if you are going to get defensive over advice that is being given to you, then this endeavor is certainly not for you. FSW will not hesitate to criticize you. They can be very direct and blunt. Learn to grow a thick skin now.

[ML]

Darthmarc, if you are going to get defensive over advice that is being given to you, then this endeavor is certainly not for you. FSW will not hesitate to criticize you. They can be very direct and blunt. Learn to grow a thick skin now.

Or alternatively, seek out those gals who are not so direct and blunt.

I found several of that category.

I would not put up with a direct and blunt FSUW or FSUM, which behavior in western terms is RUDE.

People are rude when they continue to get away with it.

Don't put up with it for a moment.

[TagUrIt898]

thanks a lot for the advice but about the spelling, i always write in a hurry and i dont think a woman would not choose me for my grammar, never happened to me. Women care about money and papers and then pictures, if you have that then u are ok if you dont then better do something to get them. And as my experience also tells me that women usually have worst grammar than me, specially russian ones.

You come here asking for advice and when you get it, you respond in a defensive way.  Yes you're grammar is important, you're  getting advised/information from an actual FSUW.  Lily if anything has always been straightforward and honest with her replies. If you can't handle the criticism of a Russian Forum, there is NO WAY you will be ready to court an FSUW.

If you want a professional dater who will use you for your status and a green card then, by all means please continue with your "money, papers and pictures" logic.  Your experience?  Have you dated an FSUW before?  It's sounds to me like you haven't or else you wouldn't be here asking how to find them.  You need to change you're entire perspective if you hope to have any success at this venture.  FSUW are not like other women in the world, which is why most of us are here.  Educate yourself and do some research before you go off trying to court one.

I personally don't think you're ready or even worthy of dating a quality FSUW at this point. You should grow up, learn more ask questions and speak less.

I wish could say goodluck, but I have a feeling this isn't the right venture for you.

Tag

Yes my words are harsh, but it's the truth and you needed to hear it.

[Anotherkiwi]

...Yes you're grammar is important,

...

You need to change you're entire perspective if you hope to have any success at this venture.

C'mon, Tag - get with the programme! 

I personally don't think you're ready or even worthy of dating a quality FSUW at this point. You should grow up, learn more ask questions and speak less.

I wish could say goodluck, but I have a feeling this isn't the right venture for you.

Tag

Yes my words are harsh, but it's the truth and you needed to hear it.

Agreed.  If I had run away after my first maulings from GQBlues and Faux Pas I would have missed so much entertainment over the years!

[Boethius]

well then we are nor civilized sorry im sure u support  Donald  Trump camping

Darthmar, ML was just joking.

[TagUrIt898]

C'mon, Tag - get with the programme! 

Touché Kiwi!  Typing from my phone is a royal pain in the arse sometimes!  Arghhh damn you autocorrect!!😝 I can assure I know the differences between your and you're. Also there, their and they're.  Darth isn't concerned with spelling, so he probably wouldn't haven't even noticed.  You get a gold star Kiwi for being the grammar Police!! 😜

Tag

[Boethius]

I will disagree, in that I don't think language will be an issue provided darthmarc can express himself.  Having read plenty of the comment sections in Russian and Ukrainian newspapers, I can assure all that the level of grammar and spelling is atrocious.  My better half has given up reading them at all, partly because he has stated that the hiring is done based on "bought diplomas", and he is disgusted when he sees grammatical mistakes a 6 year old wouldn't make.  He often comments on the "low level" of Russian online.


I do think being in Argentina will be a bit of a negative, though.