Reddit thread - all about FSUWs from a 10 year expat

[Slumba]

Curious what you think of this post:

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3ggs16/220090s_guide_to_russian_girls_pt_1/

The part that jumped out at me:

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Women here also have an expectation of men being strong (both emotionally and physically). Which means, sorry lads—many of you won’t make the cut. You complain about your feelings too much.

Your neckbeard is too thick, or your moobs are too saggy. For the most part, the young EE guys make their American counterparts look like a whiney, emo Pillsbury Doughboy. Girls here don’t want that.

But there is still hope.

You see, the Slavic mentality is quite barbaric and as such, many men see women as a means for sex at best, and completely unnecessary at worst, and at all other times: just kind of a nuisance. Women here are extraordinarily tired of this, so even though you may not be able to bench as much as her Alpha ex, that doesn’t mean she’s alpha widowed. Cheating is widespread to the point of being expected from men and as a result, divorce is rampant.

Remember how I said women aren’t financially desperate here anymore? That’s true, but they are desperate for good, faithful men who will take care of their families and not cheat on them.

Conclusion:

The good girls out here are thirsty for good men who care. EE girls are beautiful, feminine, and consider raising a good family and keeping a good house as something to be proud of, that said you must still remember that AWALT. They are used to hard, strong men so being physically and emotionally strong is a must.

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[ML]

Just another overly generalized write-up that could be true or not true for any particular woman, whether she be from FSU or elsewhere.

FSU women don't care if the man cries . . . as long as he doesn't cry more than they do !!

[Miquel Westano]

Great article.  I don't know if he is right or wrong, but he makes a lot of good points that seem to make sense.  He brings up the one thing I read over and over, which is so many guys think they are rescuing women thus in effect doing them a big favor.  That seems like the first step in a disastrous relationship.  I hope part two comes out soon. 

[BillyB]

For the most part, the young EE guys make their American counterparts look like a whiney, emo Pillsbury Doughboy. Girls here don’t want that.

There are some advantages an American man has over the average EE man but being too emotional isn't one of them. Some of you may remember reading my monster thread and I wrote it in a way that upset some American men but didn't upset FSU women. It showed who controls their emotions better. I've never been one to say if a guy can't handle what's said on this forum, they can't handle women over there but it may be true for some.

[alex330]

Women here also have an expectation of men being strong (both emotionally and physically). Which means, sorry lads—many of you won’t make the cut. You complain about your feelings too much.

Your neckbeard is too thick, or your moobs are too saggy. For the most part, the young EE guys make their American counterparts look like a whiney, emo Pillsbury Doughboy. Girls here don’t want that.

Remember how I said women aren’t financially desperate here anymore? That’s true, but they are desperate for good, faithful men who will take care of their families and not cheat on them.

Conclusion:

The good girls out here are thirsty for good men who care. EE girls are beautiful, feminine, and consider raising a good family and keeping a good house as something to be proud of, that said you must still remember that AWALT. They are used to hard, strong men so being physically and emotionally strong is a must.

Agree somewhat, but I have heard from many FSUW that most EE men are mamma's boys and spoiled in many regards. We tend to be more independent here in the US. I am sure it varies by individual. We are very diverse as a nation.

[Lily]

Conclusion:

The good girls out here are thirsty for good men who care. EE girls are beautiful, feminine, and consider raising a good family and keeping a good house as something to be proud of, that said you must still remember that AWALT. They are used to hard, strong men so being physically and emotionally strong is a must.

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To a larger extent, this would be close to being truth. At the same time, there is sich thing as physical attraction. Think of a good caring man to whom the woman is not attracted at all. Would she be able to suppress her feelings and to still go with him in bed? 

The mamma boys in EE and the independent ones in the West - I think that they mean the mamma boys who grew up in the paternalistic society, and the independent ones who grew up in the land of opportunities. I think that those would be the things that were meant there.

[2tallbill]

Curious what you think of this post:

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3ggs16/220090s_guide_to_russian_girls_pt_1/

The part that jumped out at me:

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Women here also have an expectation of men being strong (both emotionally and physically). Which means, sorry lads—many of you won’t make the cut. You complain about your feelings too much.

Did the guy ever post part two of his series?

[Slumba]

Did the guy ever post part two of his series?

Not yet, no.

[Boethius]

Curious what you think of this post:

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3ggs16/220090s_guide_to_russian_girls_pt_1/

Sorry, but the guy is a typical goof who has swallowed the salve of men who can't deal with women who are their equals.

He fails to understand the Slavic male.  What he views as "alpha" behaviour is male weakness, fuelled largely by alcoholism. FSUW have learned how to exploit that weakness.  This is what is behind the machismo and cheating, which is not generally accepted as normal among normal FSU individuals.


Based on this alone, I would view anything he posts as suspect.

[Boethius]

Agree somewhat, but I have heard from many FSUW that most EE men are mamma's boys and spoiled in many regards. We tend to be more independent here in the US. I am sure it varies by individual. We are very diverse as a nation.

There are just as many FSUW as FSUM with the same spoiled attitudes.  My theory is it comes from living in very close quarters.

[alex330]

There are just as many FSUW as FSUM with the same spoiled attitudes.  My theory is it comes from living in very close quarters.

Interesting theory and one I would believe. I noticed similar situations in Latin America where several generations lived in the same house. Babushka still cooking and catering to her children and grandchildren.