if a woman wants to come and meet a man?

[alex330]

I personally avoided women who would place on the internet seductive photos of themselves in scanty attire.  Most women are this way even though an agency will ask for bikini photos.  As you get to know the reserved women through correspondence, they may send more revealing photos but these are playful shots at the beach. 

On sites like Anastasia the photographer will usually suggest a certain type of shoot. The agency pays for and sets up the photo shoot. The women agree as he is the professional and she wants a nice set of photos.

[IamMaiC]

IamMaiC,

Do not concern yourself if Alina is on multiple agency sites.  Such is very common for the hot, hot, hot women because agencies steal and buy profiles from each other.  The two of you do not have an exclusive relationship, so she should be free to meet men. 


Regarding the fake chats, Alina wants to be an actress, and she was simply acting a part of being seductive and expressing interest in strangers.  I imagine the women are coached if not given a script. 

Is it wrong for Alina to express false interest in ignorant men for the purpose of earning money?   Yes it is wrong, but not a crime. There are many UW who would never do such because it is deceitful, and there are many UW who would consider such as acceptable because all one is doing is helping men fantasize about women half their age.    The women's actions take a little money (yes, the amount is little even though Treadmill says otherwise) from men and help feed the family, buy tattoos, or whatever. 

I suggest you ignore this and not ask Alina any questions about it.  Instead, judge her on how she behaves with you, what she says to you, etc.  Nevertheless, file away in the back of your mind that Alina is not a straight arrow. 

I do not know about the photos of Alina on the agency site.   I personally avoided women who would place on the internet seductive photos of themselves in scanty attire.  Most women are this way even though an agency will ask for bikini photos.  As you get to know the reserved women through correspondence, they may send more revealing photos but these are playful shots at the beach. 

I wish you the best.

thanks,  and it's ok.   I thought I was going to get bent out of shape about this.  but in the end she is not even my girlfriend.   sure,  I want it.  who wouldn't?    I don't know what to believe anymore,  on one side.  I have a ukraine woman I know at facebook and she tells me everyone is a scammer at the pay-for-letter sites,  just today,  I have made a profile at a free site.  sent messages to a few ladies,  and one answer.  but it seems she is not good at letter writing.  and it will be difficult. 

I joined russian brides,  a few years ago.  but didn't like it.  some could not speak english but could write a book of a letter?  something not right...but then I get answers here that men have had success at sites such as the one mentioned.    so it's hard to know what to believe....just my opinion..

[BillyB]

My memory is not perfect from conversations I had 18 months ago.    Was I chatting with Harry Boris or her? Who knows, maybe I was chatting with Harry Boris. I do know I had her on webcam at least once, possibly twice, and it "seemed" to be her on the webcam

If you were a witness in court, you wouldn't be able to get the lady you're accusing convicted. Many of your words I highlighted in bold show you have doubt about what actually happened and by who. Sure the real Alina may have showed up for video chat but did she say anything on video chat to deceive you?


I've read men on the forum who have married women or had girlfriends that are or were working girls for agencies and their relationships were fine. Some of these girls initially do it for the job and later quit because they learned the job takes advantage of people.

just today,  I have made a profile at a free site.

I thought you and Alina were on the fast track to getting together? Just as you found her on some websites, you can be found too. If you liked what you seen when you were together and like what you're hearing when you're apart, build on it.

[IamMaiC]

BillyB,   I am writing her.  and recently skype a few times.  yeah.   if I wasn't curious about these sites.  I would have not found her.  and I can delete the free site account easily.   I don't see a problem with gaining experience.    I like her,  yes.  still have alot to work on....we had one "date"   dinner.  and her friend irina was with us.  so hopefully when I go in may,  it will be me and her alone..this is just beginning...

[jone]

IamAC, we had several long conversations on Anastasiadate, first one being about 18 months ago, the 4th and final one being maybe 13-14 months ago. My memory is not perfect from 1 1/2 years ago. I do not remember everything we talked about, in fact I don't really remember anything we talked about 1 1/2 years ago. I do know that at the time, some of the things she told me seemed highly impossible, and right at that time I found out about VK for the very first time. I did not even know about VK until maybe 12 months ago. So I was brand new to VK about 12 months ago, I looked her up, found her, and found out she had lied to me about many many things. So the next time I logged into Anastasia, I think she tried to contact me on webcam almost immediately as soon as I logged in. I told her I checked her out on VK, she is a piece of shit liar, and I told her good riddance. She tried to message me several more times apologizing for lying, saying that she really liked me very much and that she was sorry for lying, but naturally I ignored her messages wanting to chat with me. THE END of Alina.

Look at her pictures on Anastasiadate. Look at how provocatively she is dressed. Do you really want your future Wife, the Mother of your future Children, to be showing herself off 99% naked, in lingerie, to strange horny men on Anastasiadate? I personally would not. 

Do you honestly think that after you meet her, if things actually do go well, that if you ask her to remove her profile from Anastasiadate, remove her half-naked pictures, and thus remove the ability for herself to make many hundreds of dollars every month on Anastasiadate, that she will oblige your requests? Hmmmmmmmm

TMD,

I hate to be the one to burst your bubble.  But probably the only time you were actually 'Talking' to this gal, Alina, you more likely were talking to her back-up.  Harry Boris.  You see , after a profile is a month or two old, the agency takes responsibility for all conversations.  There is a previous history dialogue that pops up.  Then any employee of the agency can begin talking.  It just adds to the narrative.  The only time that the girl is there is when she is on PPC (pay per chat).  Sometimes that is just a two or three minute loop, too.  Her image may be looping, but you're still communicating with Harry.

I don't want to go into all of the agency intracies, but a good operative will run 6 to 8 conversations, simultaneously.

[treadmilldude]

IamMaiC, if you have already had one dinner date with her, and it went well, then I assume she told you she'd like to see you again. If she'd like a second date with you, then that means she likes you and thinks you are a gentleman!! She thinks you are a Good Man! She likes you man!! Who cares what I think, I am just some dumb country bumpkin from Texas, just a goofy hick from Texas. You should completely ignore what transpired between she and I. Alina was not honest with me - at all - but that does not matter. What matters is if she is honest with you. What happened between Alina and I 18 months ago is irrelevant. I wish Alina no ill will, I never did. I wish her only happiness. It appears she likes you and you like her, so forget about me and contact her, skype with her, whatsapp with her, catch up with her and see how she is doing, see what she is up to. Ask her how her Mom and Dad are doing, times right now are terrible for pensioners like her Mom and Dad who have had their monthly pensions cut back even further. Life is terribly hard right now in Ukraine, it is brutal. She might be even more receptive to meeting someone like you and falling in love with you now than she was 18 months ago when the Ukrainian economy was not on the verge of total collapse and the IMF bailout loan was much a greater possibility.

I do not want the entire board angry with me, thinking I am a jerk, for possibly preventing you from being with a woman who likes you, wants to see you again, and potentially might fall in love with you. I am here to find a wonderful woman to marry and have Children with (and I think there is a great chance I have already found her in Grodno, Belarus. I am pretty crazy about a girl there. Several times per day, I think about Anastasia in Grodno. I think about her a LOT. I daydream about Anastasia a lot. Her smile, the sparkle in her eyes, the dimples in her chin when she grins at me, her lips (she has really pretty lips), how she likes to tie that beautiful long black hair up in a little bun because she knows how cute I think her hair is tied up in a bun.....every time I daydream about her smile, it makes me smile and makes me happy. Makes me want to get the hell off the treadmill, out of Texas and get on a plane and go see her as soon as I can.) and to make some lifelong friends along the way. That is it, no other reasons. The reason for my presence here on RWD is not to make enemies, it is to make friends.

I would love to see you on the board 12-18 months from now, engaged to Alina or even married to Alina. Her life would undoubtedly be much better if she marries you, moves to the US, and leaves Anastasiadate!! I would be very happy, ecstatic to learn Alina has married you and is no longer on Anastasiadate!! (I hate that fucking website!!) Losing roughly $75 sucks. But I'd rather lose the $75 and have Alina, who is I think 25, be happy for the rest of her life, married, and the mother of a couple beautiful, healthy Children here in the US. My heart is not made of stone, IamMai, I have a kind heart. I have love and kindness in my heart, including for Alina. I have love in my heart for Alina. If she can be happy with you and have a wonderful life with you, than that is what I want for Alina.

In the next couple of days, if the line of communication with her is still open, you should try and reconnect with her.

[JayH]

 Her life would undoubtedly be much better if she marries you, moves to the US, and leaves Anastasiadate!! I would be very happy, ecstatic to learn Alina has married you and is no longer on Anastasiadate!! (I hate that fucking website!!) Losing roughly $75 sucks. But I'd rather lose the $75 and have Alina, who is I think 25, be happy for the rest of her life, married, and the mother of a couple beautiful, healthy Children here in the US. My heart is not made of stone, IamMai, I have a kind heart. I have love and kindness in my heart, including for Alina. I have love in my heart for Alina. If she can be happy with you and have a wonderful life with you, than that is what I want for Alina.

In the next couple of days, if the line of communication with her is still open, you should try and reconnect with her.

Dude-it cost you $75 to get this smart? Ask for a refund !

[BillyB]

IamMaiC, if you have already had one dinner date with her, and it went well, then I assume she told you she'd like to see you again.

treadmilldude, before making assumptions and accusations, at least read the whole thread first. Alina has been recommended to IamMaiC from a neighbor of his and she came and visited him first.

Life is terribly hard right now in Ukraine, it is brutal. She might be even more receptive to meeting someone like you and falling in love with you now than she was 18 months ago when the Ukrainian economy was not on the verge of total collapse and the IMF bailout loan was much a greater possibility.

Alina travels around the world and throughout America for her job. I doubt she's starving and desperate.

I do not want the entire board angry with me, thinking I am a jerk, for possibly preventing you from being with a woman who likes you, wants to see you again, and potentially might fall in love with you.

It's okay to help your fellow man but you have the burden of proof. I believe that whoever wrote from Alina's profile lied to you but you keep saying it's Alina when AnastasiaDate has a reputation for using employees to write letters and chat on women's behalf.

I am here to find a wonderful woman to marry and have Children with (and I think there is a great chance I have already found her in Grodno, Belarus. I am pretty crazy about a girl there. Several times per day, I think about Anastasia in Grodno. I think about her a LOT. I daydream about Anastasia a lot. Her smile, the sparkle in her eyes, the dimples in her chin when she grins at me, her lips (she has really pretty lips), how she likes to tie that beautiful long black hair up in a little bun because she knows how cute I think her hair is tied up in a bun.....every time I daydream about her smile, it makes me smile and makes me happy.

Fantasizing like that is going to get you in trouble. Go meet her as a friend first. Use your eyes and head to evaluate if she's a quality woman. Be prepared to walk away if things aren't right.

Anastasiadate!! (I hate that fucking website!!) Losing roughly $75 sucks.

Spending $75 at ADate communicating with a variety of women means you haven't communicated enough to evaluate any woman there properly even if by luck the women are writing their own letters. You got lucky losing only $75. Some men have said they lost tens of thousands using their services.

[LAman]

Interesting reading. Since I have an account on Anastasiadate, I found Alina's profile. She has 52 pics and 17 which are private, many scantily clothed/provocative, much like a stripper would wear prior to her act of undressing. She has a total of 9 videos( never seen that many before, ever). I doubt anyone here would be interested in a girl like this. Makes you wonder who Alina is really is ???? Just sayin....

[Gator]

I am here to find a wonderful woman to marry and have Children with (and I think there is a great chance I have already found her in Grodno, Belarus. I am pretty crazy about a girl there. Several times per day, I think about Anastasia in Grodno. I think about her a LOT. I daydream about Anastasia a lot. Her smile, the sparkle in her eyes, the dimples in her chin when she grins at me, her lips (she has really pretty lips), how she likes to tie that beautiful long black hair up in a little bun because she knows how cute I think her hair is tied up in a bun.....every time I daydream about her smile, it makes me smile and makes me happy.

Treadmill, slow down!  You do not have a relationship until you meet a woman and spend quality time with her.  If you get ahead of yourself and build your expectations too high, different negative outcomes could result when you eventually meet.  Many a man has felt his optimism crash within minutes of the initial meeting.  Such disappointment is not as bad as becoming so captivated you ignore red flags about long term compatibility.  Even if she is as good as in your dreams, your enthusiasm could push her too fast and make her feel uncomfortable or think you silly. 

Moderate your enthusiasm for now, but do get on a plane. 

[IamMaiC]

Treadmill, slow down!  You do not have a relationship until you meet a woman and spend quality time with her.  If you get ahead of yourself and build your expectations too high, different negative outcomes could result when you eventually meet.  Many a man has felt his optimism crash within minutes of the initial meeting.  Such disappointment is not as bad as becoming so captivated you ignore red flags about long term compatibility.  Even if she is as good as in your dreams, your enthusiasm could push her too fast and make her feel uncomfortable or think you silly. 

Moderate your enthusiasm for now, but do get on a plane.

I agree,  and I was about to give my piece of advice to him...I'm not angry at him.  but he is putting cart before the horse  and that will end in a very bad experience...he keeps talking about 75 dollars in chat. in the US, their are online dating websites.  free and pay sites.  even meeting a woman there.  we will still never know the truth.   I spent a total of 2 and 1/2 days with alina.  and I spent more than that.   

I still consider myself lucky meeting alina.  joining the pay by letter site that I recently did.  may not be a good idea.  especially with alina on it also.  so I will close that account as soon as possible....I was just curious   and many beautiful women on them,  but take away the photoshop  and nice clothes.  then what is the woman about...?? 

treadmill,  just a piece of advice.  stay in the present.   yeah,  I have the same thoughts.  it would be nice to marry alina....but I am still in the infancy of this...still have a long way to go...when I go in may,  I will find out how she really is,  will she be withdrawn?   she seem pretty outgoing when I was with her.    will problems arise?  unknown.   is she being honest?  that's the big question....but what she has told me,  being an actress and DJ.  that seems true..

[Munshidasmanohar]

If mans having money, everything possible. You buying your woman nice fancy clothes, shoe, phone. Going nice place. Russian ladies liking this much.

 

[jone]

I don't think Treadmilldude has talked to Alina once.  On A-Date or anywhere else.  I think he's talked to Harry Boris. 

As for the multi videos and scantily clad pics, that is common for a front line Chat Girl profile.  Doesn't mean that she is currently operating the profile.  Just that she consented to have her pictures taken in these settings.  Having dated a woman who did a similar profile, I can tell you that whoever created the profile told her exactly what to wear, how to look and what poses were required.  The woman I dated laughed about the profile, but, in all other ways was a conservative, Ukrainain lady.

I don't believe that Alina is making money from A-Date.  But rather the photoshoot is something she did to get the photos.

[LAman]

I don't think Treadmilldude has talked to Alina once.  On A-Date or anywhere else.  I think he's talked to Harry Boris. 

As for the multi videos and scantily clad pics, that is common for a front line Chat Girl profile.  Doesn't mean that she is currently operating the profile.  Just that she consented to have her pictures taken in these settings.  Having dated a woman who did a similar profile, I can tell you that whoever created the profile told her exactly what to wear, how to look and what poses were required.  The woman I dated laughed about the profile, but, in all other ways was a conservative, Ukrainain lady.

I don't believe that Alina is making money from A-Date.  But rather the photoshoot is something she did to get the photos.

Jone , may I ask you WHY a girl would do this. Alina is practically naked, although no tattoos anywhere. What serious minded lady would do this? What is she getting out of it....publicity?? If I had the time I would get on the video chat and can quickly find out if it is Alina or not, it is very obvious if it is a loop and if girl is speaking to multiple guys.

[Gator]

Jone , may I ask you WHY a girl would do this. Alina is practically naked, although no tattoos anywhere. What serious minded lady would do this?

An uninhibited, independent woman, proud of her body.  When dating European women decades ago, I was amazed by how easily they would do public nudity. 

My experiences suggest FSUW on average are more conservative with regard to public nudity.  So Alina is doing something most FSUW would shun. 

What is she getting out of it....publicity??

Yes, some publicity if she dreams of being discovered by the film industry, etc.   Also, free photos as Jone mentioned.

Some people like attention.  And surely she is getting some money or otherwise she would not take the time to go to the agency's office to chat with weird, horny men. 

[jone]

Some people like attention.  And surely she is getting some money or otherwise she would not take the time to go to the agency's office to chat with weird, horny men.

Nobody has established that this is her talking.  Simply some neophyte who has no idea of how the system works.

[alex330]

I don't believe that Alina is making money from A-Date. 

I asked my wife her thoughts on Alina. Several possibilities she mentioned.

She said that some girls will rev share with agencies or interpreters. So if Alina is a popular DJ many guys will want to chat with her. If the terp makes $200 one night she cuts Alina in on it. Sometimes guys give $300 bunches of roses. That money is pocketed. Contests for who has the most chat minutes give away cars. Sell it off and split the profit.

Agencies lure women in with nice photo shoots or even vacations. Could have just been a favor for her friend that owns the agency or is a terp.

[IamMaiC]

An uninhibited, independent woman, proud of her body.  When dating European women decades ago, I was amazed by how easily they would do public nudity. 

My experiences suggest FSUW on average are more conservative with regard to public nudity.  So Alina is doing something most FSUW would shun. 



Yes, some publicity if she dreams of being discovered by the film industry, etc.   Also, free photos as Jone mentioned.

Some people like attention.  And surely she is getting some money or otherwise she would not take the time to go to the agency's office to chat with weird, horny men.

just to let you know,  I skyped with alina sometime last week....and going what treadmill sent me,  she was supposed to be online at anastasiadate....but when I spoke to her.  she had no computer near her...just sayin..

[alex330]

As for the multi videos and scantily clad pics, that is common for a front line Chat Girl profile.  Doesn't mean that she is currently operating the profile.  Just that she consented to have her pictures taken in these settings.  Having dated a woman who did a similar profile, I can tell you that whoever created the profile told her exactly what to wear, how to look and what poses were required.  The woman I dated laughed about the profile, but, in all other ways was a conservative, Ukrainain lady.

Exactly how it works. My wife would setup photo shoots with the girls. Round up a bunch of girls, pay the professional photographer and head down to the rocky area on the Black Sea you see in many of the photos. That's the nude beach in Odessa btw. A member on this forum named Larry is well known on that particular beach.

The girls all know and don't care.

[treadmilldude]

I think Anastasiadate is a disgrace. Their entire business model is built around deception. The objective is to deceive the male customer at every possible turn, never let the customer know if he is dealing in fact or fiction, reality or fantasy. And in the end, by using feeder agencies to do their dirty work, they always can fall back on plausible deniability.

I do not understand why the US Government does not prosecute and permanently shut down the PPL sites, especially Anastasiadate. Perhaps the US does not have the required jurisdiction to prosecute?

By the way guys, I am actually not putting the cart before the horse. I am not planning on asking a woman to marry me until at least my 2nd trip to Belarus. The first trip will be a "get to know" and "feeling out" trip. Then I will return and communicate through skype and whatsapp for a couple months. Then I will return after about 3 months, and if all signs are good and everything indicates marriage is the right thing to do at that point, then I will pull the trigger and propose to the girl on my 2nd trip to Belarus. But if I need to hold off and wait a little longer, I am willing to wait a little longer and propose on the 3rd trip. I only want to get married once in my life. And I have too many good male and female friends who have been through nasty, terrible divorces. I know all about nasty divorces, and I want no part of that. 

I guess if it seems I am getting a little too excited about Anastasia (the girl in Belarus, not the marriage agency!!  ), maybe I am guilty of getting a little too excited about her. I realize there are no guarantees, when we meet there might be no Chemistry and so we will not be a good match. If that happens, I do have some excellent backup plans right now.....Olya is 31, lives in Minsk, and has a beautiful 4 year-old little boy that I am in love with, I am just in love with her little boy and I know it would be love at first sight with me with her little Son if I do meet Olya in Minsk, he is so adorable!!  I have chatted with Olya several times on Skype, we like each other very very much, and she is well aware I am crazy about her little boy and if we meet in Minsk, have great Chemistry, fall in love, I would legally adopt her Son as my own Son. This makes her VERY happy and she says this is what she dreams about. She wants a good life for her Son, and like any caring Mother, she wants a Loving, Wonderful Dad to always be there for her Son. Olya is a Princess, an Angel. She is the 4th girl from Belarus I met on Mamba, and like all the other girls from Belarus I have met on Mamba with Children, Olya is just an Angel, a Princess, a Good Human Being, and God knows she deserves to be happy in life, God knows she deserves to meet a Good Man like me, a good man like Guppy Captain (Ironically, I think Guppy would really like Olya, she is very thin, tall, has about 50-60 bikini pictures on her VK profile - good Lord she does not look 31, she has the body of an 18 year-old cheerleader. Actually, there are many 18 year-old cheerleaders who only WISH they had a body like Olya.  )  Very cute in the face, just a very attractive woman who is a good Mom and I have no doubt will make a great Wife.

[alex330]

Their entire business model is built around deception. The objective is to deceive the male customer at every possible turn, never let the customer know if he is dealing in fact or fiction, reality or fantasy. And in the end, by using feeder agencies to do their dirty work, they always can fall back on plausible deniability.

Correct. Much like any other online dating site though. Yahoo personals and Match.com were busted by the feds. Mate1 busted for it's "ambassador" program. Even Ashley Madison had all fake women's profiles. There is no money in love unfortunately.

I do not understand why the US Government does not prosecute and permanently shut down the PPL sites, especially Anastasiadate. Perhaps the US does not have the required jurisdiction to prosecute?

They are setup as two different corporations with some of the offices in Moscow so difficult to pursue. Then they have the affiliate feeder agencies setup like you mention. They just sever ties with that agency and keep the affiliate checks (bonus!) only to have the agencies signup under a new name.

There was a guy that Anastasia sued at one point. He had something on them and they had to drop the lawsuit.

[treadmilldude]

Plus, there are other really great girls in Minsk and Gomel, Belarus, I have skyped with multiple times. There are starting to become so many fantastic girls in Belarus that I am starting to feel almost overwhelmed. I do not think I can handle a WMVM trip, it is just too many girls to try and juggle and find time to spend with while I am in Belarus. However, I am not a believer in WOVO. That is nuts to put all your eggs in one basket, and if it does not work out with the one girl you have flown halfway across the world to see, then you are screwed. No, WOVO is not a good plan IMO. But I am a big believer in WSVS (Write Several Visit Several). I consider Several to be at least 3 but no more than 5. So visit between 3 and 5.

I am starting to feel swamped, however, because every time I log into mamba, my profile is getting so popular (I guess because I go into great depth about my plans to travel to Belarus and spend 23 days in Belarus in search of the woman I will spend the rest of my life with and have Children with / I go into great detail about myself, what I like to do, my education, my hopes and aspirations for the future / I have some pretty good pictures on my Mamba profile, including several pictures of me taken in my gym without my shirt on / with a tank-top on) with women from Belarus, that I have already added 7 new girls to my VK friends' list - 6 from Belarus and 1 from Krivoy Rog - since I joined Mamba less than a month ago.

My conscience tells me to try my best to win Anastasia in Grodno's heart, do everything I can to win her heart. But the reality of the matter is, Anastasia is not the only wonderful, amazingly fantastic and loving woman in Belarus whom I could be happy with and be a Husband to. There are other really wonderful women in Belarus that like me, that I like in return, and maybe before I jump all over Anastasia and do everything I can to win her heart.....maybe the wisest course of action is to give all of these other girls from Belarus on Mamba a chance as well - Skype with these other girls and get to know them extremely well too. Through this correspondence, perhaps I might find I am quite a bit more compatible with some of the other girls from Belarus than Anastasia?? I dunno. I don't understand women very well, women have always been a mystery to me. The female mind is a puzzle I have never come close to solving....and I doubt I ever will.

[treadmilldude]

I just logged onto Mamba, and I had messages from (5) different girls from Belarus who are interested in me, and me in them. 4 of the 5 were online right now, even though it is almost midnight in Belarus.  This is not good at all, it has me worried, it is almost like they are waiting for me, wanting to see when I am going to log into mamba, in a way stalking me (yeah I know it is not "really" possible, usually, for a woman to stalk a man although yes technically it can be done in certain circumstances). I panicked, I felt like a player, I felt like I was cheating on all 5 girls by corresponding with more than one girl. Yet I have never met any of them, they are 6,000 miles from me, and it's not really fair for any of them to expect me to be loyal to only them when we have not even met yet.

I really do not like that 4 of them were logged in when almost ZERO girls from Belarus were currently logged into Mamba that late at night - almost midnight. I foresee there might be some big headaches on my trip. Maybe I need Guppy to come with me, so he can date a lot of the girls if I do not have time to meet all of them. Guppy, where are you when I need you? 

[jone]

I just logged onto Mamba, and I had messages from (5) different girls from Belarus who are interested in me, and me in them. 4 of the 5 were online right now, even though it is almost midnight in Belarus.  This is not good at all, it has me worried, it is almost like they are waiting for me, wanting to see when I am going to log into mamba, in a way stalking me (yeah I know it is not "really" possible, usually, for a woman to stalk a man although yes technically it can be done in certain circumstances). I panicked, I felt like a player, I felt like I was cheating on all 5 girls by corresponding with more than one girl. Yet I have never met any of them, they are 6,000 miles from me, and it's not really fair for any of them to expect me to be loyal to only them when we have not even met yet.

I really do not like that 4 of them were logged in when almost ZERO girls from Belarus were currently logged into Mamba that late at night - almost midnight. I foresee there might be some big headaches on my trip. Maybe I need Guppy to come with me, so he can date a lot of the girls if I do not have time to meet all of them. Guppy, where are you when I need you? 

Have you ever watched the movie Avatar?  When the woman first finds the hero in the woods she tells him that the death of the animals is all his fault.  It didn't have to happen.  She told him he was like a baby.  Well, kiddo, that is you.

1.  While Mamba may not be a PPV, it has it's share of scammers.  They are on at all hours of the day.

2.  Women are on late at night because that's when the men from the US are on.

3.  The number of men that an average to good looking women gets hit on by these sites is over 200 men a week.

4.  Are you sure you're not Bee Farmer in disguise?

[Anotherkiwi]

4.  Are you sure you're not Bee Farmer in disguise?

Ouch!  Can't be - he's far more likely to be ML having a laugh.