Hello

[Carson007]

I just signed up and hope to learn and share a lot with you all.  I just got out of a long term relationship early last year and have been serial dating to no luck with women here in the US.  Problem is I think American girls are the hottest yet I don't think it's realistic to get exactly what I'm wanting and now looking to explore international dating-- I just jumped on eharmony last week and it's been matching me with older gals and some not so attractive ones.  Seems like the older I get the higher my standards become.  I'm a healthy and fit 36 yo professional that looks 22-25 yo and so I prefer to date younger.  Anyhow, Greetings and cheers !

[Turboguy]

Welcome to the forum Carson.  There is a lot of good information here that will help you.   I have a feeling that after a few trips to the FSU you won't think of American women as the hottest.  You are at a good age to have a great selection of attractive women.  Good luck and don't be afraid to ask questions. 

[Faux Pas]

Welcome to RWD Carson!

Trust me brah, no matter what your hoping to date, how fit and trim you are, regardless of your vegan and goat cheese diet, you look your 36 years. Own it and wear it proudly. 

American women are pretty hot but this is a Russian women discussion board. I assume you have an interest in women from the East?

[LAman]

Welcome to RWD Carson!

Trust me brah, no matter what your hoping to date, how fit and trim you are, regardless of your vegan and goat cheese diet, you look your 36 years. Own it and wear it proudly. 

American women are pretty hot but this is a Russian women discussion board. I assume you have an interest in women from the East?

Oooooooooh reeeeeeeeally....... okay, I guess a few thing-es'  do trickle in.......

BTW, FP...I love your/the first part!!!! Although I do look much younger than anyone can guess and some even say I act like a teenager!!!

[ML]

I'm a healthy and fit 36 yo professional that looks 22-25 yo and so I prefer to date younger.

You are like a breath of fresh air . . . because no one else here has ever said that about themselves.

Nice to have someone different for a change.

[Carson007]

Welcome to the forum Carson.  There is a lot of good information here that will help you.   I have a feeling that after a few trips to the FSU you won't think of American women as the hottest.  You are at a good age to have a great selection of attractive women.  Good luck and don't be afraid to ask questions.

I hope you're right about changing my viewpoints on american women.  I just love the fact that an american woman can relate to me better because of our background and an American accent is cute.  I'm also Asian American so that's probably another reason why I favor the women here because even if I date a white girl or a latina here, they are still exotic and different to me.   What do you think the target age range should be for finding success?  What's the youngest I can realistically go with and have a high chance of a real relationship success leading to marriage in the Ukraine and similar countries?

[Carson007]

Welcome to RWD Carson!

Trust me brah, no matter what your hoping to date, how fit and trim you are, regardless of your vegan and goat cheese diet, you look your 36 years. Own it and wear it proudly. 

American women are pretty hot but this is a Russian women discussion board. I assume you have an interest in women from the East?

Thanks "brah" but I actually don't look 36.  Sorry to bust your bubble but i'm Asian and we generally age very well.  I'm interested in caucasian women and latin women that are marriage minded.  But my dating preferences are for taller women and generally fair skin complexion so that's why I'm researching the FSU women.  Every hot american girl that I have dated thus far has had way too much baggage like previous kids, or sexual hangups due to being molested, or just not marriage minded. 

[Carson007]

You are like a breath of fresh air . . . because no one else here has ever said that about themselves.

Nice to have someone different for a change.

Love the sarcasm.  But just being as honest as possible to get the most honest advice to match.  Thanks. 

[LAman]

I hope you're right about changing my viewpoints on american women.  I just love the fact that an american woman can relate to me better because of our background and an American accent is cute.  I'm also Asian American so that's probably another reason why I favor the women here because even if I date a white girl or a latina here, they are still exotic and different to me.   What do you think the target age range should be for finding success?  What's the youngest I can realistically go with and have a high chance of a real relationship success leading to marriage in the Ukraine and similar countries?

Out of curiosity, what exactly is an 'American accent' sound like????

[Faux Pas]

Thanks "brah" but I actually don't look 36.  Sorry to bust your bubble but i'm Asian and we generally age very well.  I'm interested in caucasian women and latin women that are marriage minded.  But my dating preferences are for taller women and generally fair skin complexion so that's why I'm researching the FSU women.  Every hot american girl that I have dated thus far has had way too much baggage like previous kids, or sexual hangups due to being molested, or just not marriage minded.

No problem brah. My bubble is intact as I don't have a dog in your hunt. I'ma gonna do you another solid tho and let you in on a secret. You look like a 36 year old Asian minimum. Okay, maybe you're one of the really lucky young looking Asians and only look 35.

If you want to date 20 year olds, then you want to date 20 years olds but you sound quite ridiculous attempting to justify it to yourself and convincing yourself that you look 25 to do so. Keep it real brah

 

[SANDRO43]

Out of curiosity, what exactly is an 'American accent' sound like????

An example :

Most North American speech is rhotic, because in the 17th century, when English was brought to the Americas, most English in England was rhotic. Rhoticity has been further supported by the influences of Hiberno-English, West Country English and Scottish English. In most varieties of North American English, the sound corresponding to the letter r is a postalveolar approximant [ɹ̠] or retroflex approximant [ɻ] rather than a trill or tap (as often heard, for example, in the English accents of Scotland or India). A unique "bunched tongue" variant of the approximant r sound is also associated with the United States, and seems particularly noticeable in the Midwest and South.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_English

[ML]

Sandro:  "In most varieties of North American English, the sound corresponding to the letter r is a postalveolar approximant [ɹ̠] or retroflex approximant [ɻ] . . ."

Thanks for clearing that up Sandro.  Previously I had always been confused about the postalveolar and retroflex.

[Turboguy]

Humm that is interesting.  When I had my last checkup with the doctor I am pretty sure he said my postalveolar was enlarged and my retroflex was inflamed but I would never have expected that to affect the way one speaks.   I learn new things every day.

[Carson007]

Out of curiosity, what exactly is an 'American accent' sound like????

It sounds like "home" basically not a foreign accent like an asian/Latin/or Russian accent.  It sounds familiar!  Haha

[Carson007]

No problem brah. My bubble is intact as I don't have a dog in your hunt. I'ma gonna do you another solid tho and let you in on a secret. You look like a 36 year old Asian minimum. Okay, maybe you're one of the really lucky young looking Asians and only look 35.

If you want to date 20 year olds, then you want to date 20 years olds but you sound quite ridiculous attempting to justify it to yourself and convincing yourself that you look 25 to do so. Keep it real brah

 

Realistically you don't know what I look like and it shouldn't matter to you but haters gon hate lol

I own my 36 years of life experience and my 25 year old looks

[SANDRO43]

 

Sandro:  "In most varieties of North American English, the sound corresponding to the letter r is a postalveolar approximant [ɹ̠] or retroflex approximant [ɻ] . . ."Thanks for clearing that up Sandro.  Previously I had always been confused about the postalveolar and retroflex.

Let me clear that up . The place of articulation is one of the most significant aspects of  phonetics: when we utter a consonantal sound, this involves the movement of our tongue to some area before the sound is actually emitted:

Places of articulation (passive & active):
1. Exo-labial, 2. Endo-labial, 3. Dental, 4. Alveolar, 5. Post-alveolar, 6. Pre-palatal, 7. Palatal, 8. Velar, 9. Uvular, 10. Pharyngeal, 11. Glottal, 12. Epiglottal, 13. Radical, 14. Postero-dorsal, 15. Antero-dorsal, 16. Laminal, 17. Apical, 18. Sub-apical. Where there is ambiguity, additional terms have been invented, so subapical–palatal is more commonly called "retroflex"

.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Place_of_articulation

R can be pronounced in many ways: IINM, in the US is rather similar to the Irish R, while English R is more velar. The trilled R can be heard in Scottish, Italian, Spanish and Greek. The Dutch R is similar to the Brazilian R, and the "French R" is actually a Germanic R .

Try saying ROARING slowly, and feel where your tongue is positioned while doing it.

[BC]

.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Place_of_articulation

Would 'I would love articulating stimulating your Pharyngeal region' be a pickup line nowadays?

[ML]

Thanks Sandro.

But is this the proper forum to be discussing tongues and labia?

[BC]

Thanks Sandro.

But is this the proper forum to be discussing tongues and labia?

It seems to be consistent with the quest.

[Gator]

Welcome Carson!

Yes, Asian people do appear younger than Caucasians of the same age due to skin collagen, pigment, pores,  etc.  Plus many cover themselves when in the sun knowing that sun damages their skin.  I have found that once disrobed an Asian woman's physical body has no advantage over Caucasian women of the same age. 

You asked about what age woman to pursue. 

If you indeed look 22-25 yo, the 18-22 yo FSU dyevs will be interested in you.  One problem with them - at such a young age they are not sure of what they want (I have a 26-yo stepdaughter).   So you could be wasting your time and money to make numerous trips to date a fine young woman, and suddenly she changes her mind.  Her reason will likely be something you can not influence much less control.

The FSUW from 28-35 yo will not want a man who looks like a kid. 

So stay with women about 25-yo who have completed their education, have worked enough to know their career desires, and have been through a couple of LTRs and have a better idea of what they want in a man. 

You need to write many candidates because most FSUW are not attracted to Asian men.  Sorry to be blunt, but you need to know this.  Keep in mind there are exceptions everywhere, so keep trying.   If you have a confident, charming personality you will do fine. 

[Miquel Westano]

Thanks "brah" but I actually don't look 36.  Sorry to bust your bubble but i'm Asian and we generally age very well.  I'm interested in caucasian women and latin women that are marriage minded.  But my dating preferences are for taller women and generally fair skin complexion so that's why I'm researching the FSU women.  Every hot american girl that I have dated thus far has had way too much baggage like previous kids, or sexual hangups due to being molested, or just not marriage minded.

Welcome to the forum.  The looking younger than you are issue comes up a lot.  Maybe you do, maybe you don't?  But the bottom line is, I doubt whether you look 26 or 36 will be the ultimate factor in your happiness.

I wish you well and hope you stick around to keep us updated.

[Carson007]

Welcome Carson!

Yes, Asian people do appear younger than Caucasians of the same age due to skin collagen, pigment, pores,  etc.  Plus many cover themselves when in the sun knowing that sun damages their skin.  I have found that once disrobed an Asian woman's physical body has no advantage over Caucasian women of the same age. 

You asked about what age woman to pursue. 

If you indeed look 22-25 yo, the 18-22 yo FSU dyevs will be interested in you.  One problem with them - at such a young age they are not sure of what they want (I have a 26-yo stepdaughter).   So you could be wasting your time and money to make numerous trips to date a fine young woman, and suddenly she changes her mind.  Her reason will likely be something you can not influence much less control.

The FSUW from 28-35 yo will not want a man who looks like a kid. 

So stay with women about 25-yo who have completed their education, have worked enough to know their career desires, and have been through a couple of LTRs and have a better idea of what they want in a man. 

You need to write many candidates because most FSUW are not attracted to Asian men.  Sorry to be blunt, but you need to know this.  Keep in mind there are exceptions everywhere, so keep trying.   If you have a confident, charming personality you will do fine.

Thanks gator for the honest advice and tips! my ideal target range is 24-28.  And you're probably right to some degree about the attraction but I also think I could play that in my favor and rock my asian-ness to the max and have it as a plus Ya know like an exotic! Lol   I've been seeing lots of articles showing a high amount of Russian and chinese marriage activity lately so that looks promising.

Btw, Gator, I'm curious where your source of information is from as to why you feel the FSU women in general are not attracted to asians?

[Carson007]

Welcome to the forum.  The looking younger than you are issue comes up a lot.  Maybe you do, maybe you don't?  But the bottom line is, I doubt whether you look 26 or 36 will be the ultimate factor in your happiness.

I wish you well and hope you stick around to keep us updated.

Appreciate it sir!  I hope to learn more and more from you all.

[alex330]

I'm curious where your source of information is from as to why you feel the FSU women in general are not attracted to asians?

Most prefer lighter skinned Caucasians, but my wife and myself know many RW married to guys of all races and nationalities. Just need to look a bit more is all.

I was 36 when I found my wife who was 24.

[Faux Pas]

Realistically you don't know what I look like and it shouldn't matter to you but haters gon hate lol

I own my 36 years of life experience and my 25 year old looks

Yeah haters gonna hate but, I ain't one of them. I don't give one wit what you look like. It's no sweat off my ass either way. I'm just giving you some much needed reality, advice worth what you paid for it. You might think you look in your 20's but, the 20 year olds don't. One thing about growing older, the eyesight is the first thing to go.