Kharkov Trip Report

[BorisS]

You are a young (maybe too young) and decent looking guy. I imagine she is the same age or younger? It is hard at that age for most of them to make a life changing decision. It sounds good in theory but when they are faced with the reality panic can set in. There are exceptions but at that age it is very unpredictable. You can be successful but it may be very frustrating for you as a young man. Living in New York you should be able to meet many young FSU women but that can be a minefield, too. Good Luck...PS...I have worked with Mila a while ago. I highly recommend her.

[luvmesumknicks]

Yeah she's great. She goes a long way to check in with the people she's helped and steer them to actual happiness.

I will definitely go back in the future, but as mentioned previously am focusing on starting a new job and digging my feet in there at the moment.

[Trenchcoat]

"I then took the next step to verify her identity once I had the info by sending her flowers via UFL where they take her picture and everything checked out."

Old School Approach - not one I would do these days, danger of undermining trust too great - some girls I hear can find it kind of demeaning as they know why their picture is being taken, which I can well understand. Early days for me but I'm careful to avoid anything that's too obviously heavy handed that might reduce trust which I see as important way to proceed regardless of eventual outcome.

My thoughts are she wants a future in a place like the US, however her friends/family aren't keen on seeing her go so she is torn between the two and is in some distress over it as the pressures on both sides become apparent. At her age just turning her back on at she knows and going of with a relative stranger for what she wants is no doubt uncomfortable territory for her. The stuff about her grandmother sounds to me like cover story bs, nightclub environments tend to bring on such yak I think. The photo I cannot tell who is the woman you are supposed to be with, there is not much chemistry present there, possibly it might be timing - my guess she might be more interested in getting into the US than in you. 

[dragonkid]

The photo I cannot tell who is the woman you are supposed to be with, there is not much chemistry present there, possibly it might be timing - my guess she might be more interested in getting into the US than in you.

But the sounds of it OP is not in a great place financially, so she is not with him for his money. If she wanted a visa she would hook up with a desperate 50 year old going through a mid life crisis, sending girls her age non stop pictures of his financial records. OP's girl is not all over him, but she is interested in him, news flash all the women on those sites want financial security to start a family, be it a visa or what is in your wallet.