Basically, if she doesn't have a place to stay you will be paying and most likely a separate room as you will be a stranger otherwise if she doesn't have the money as most won't she will likely not come.
I never had a problem with them not coming over, they always do, if they have a friend, they won't come over, they'll tell me that they will crash at the friends or family. People that do come over, say they can trust me not to take advantage of them
I don't see the benefit of losing potentially good girls to speed up the process,
Which is why i only message 10 or less women a week. The ones that are above my league.
I need to limit it to one city or I'll end up with the one girl again and I prefer not to go down that path again at this stage.
One girl mucked you around, try and just let it go. You are 6ft i believe, in your early 30's, and have a great heart, you got a lot that the majority of people doing the fsu search don't.
I would prefer to go over and interview some girls as part of a short holiday along with seeing if there are any girls around that take my fancy and vice versa.
It is not you, and not my style even. I had lots of contacts when i went to Russia, especially Moscow where i was staying. In your head it sounds great, meet tons of beautiful women, measure them against each other, take your pick, but it is a lot harder than you think. 2 days before i left to go to Moscow, i was on the phone pouring my heart out to a friend of mine in Russia because i felt like shit for mucking around these women, scheduling them around. i thought to myself, how would i like it if someone did that to me? Why do you think i haven't decided to go live in Russia? I even cancelled my plans and instead i am going to Spain and Germany, i sort of gave up with fsu search. i could bang hot women easily there, enjoy my life, but once you actually do it, it feels a lot different. Treating these women in that way, really gets to you, i have tried all my life to be the cold hearted guy, and it does work, when you talk to someone, and rehearse it in your head. But in reality it won't, and it won't with you. Embrace your good heart, don't lose faith, go with what MsB said, focus on one woman at a time. If you go down the other path you are just going to lose a part of you that makes you very unique and special.
