Asia? Latin America? or the FSU?

[treadmilldude]

2TallBill, question for you since I know you are very knowledgeable about Asian girls. I am negotiable on most things in terms of a woman I would like to meet and fall in love with. Hair color, I could care less about. Height, does not matter at all, I have dated some very sweet short girls, some very sweet tall girls. Religion definitely is important to me, I will not marry a woman who is a firm atheist, or of a religion other than Christianity. My Children will be raised in the Christian Church, and that is not negotiable to me. My family will go to the Christian Church (I am Baptist, but since I know there are many Catholic Asian and FSU women out there, I (guess) I am open to that, (sort of, but not really. But sort of LOL  ) most Sundays (unless miraculously the Cowboys start playing their games early Sunday mornings Central Standard time.  )   

Ummm, let's see what else I can think of......I do strongly prefer a girl who has at least a University Bachelors Degree, education is very important to me. I have dated some dumb girls, and it is not very enjoyable attempting to have a deep, meaningful conversation with a dumb girl. In addition, I want my future Wife and I to always beat it into our Children how important education and studying is when they get home from school, and even on the weekends. And I want our Children to receive a full Academic Scholarship to Texas A&M University as I did. They are not allowed to attend any University other than Texas A&M. 

Mmmm what else, what else, what else........I have never dated a girl who is even mildly overweight in my life, and I am just not attracted to girls who are even a tiny tiny bit chubby. I have never dated a girl who is bigger than a size 2, and luckily most skinny women I have met actually love very muscular, ripped, huge guys, so it has not been difficult for me to find skinny women throughout my life. I know I always always see overweight women with overweight men, so I know overweight women are not attracted to men like me. Works out great for me, I can have the skinny women (size 00, size 0, size 2 - no bigger than a size 2) and the overweight women can have what they like, the overweight guys.

I know that certain Asian nationalities seem to have women that are, on average, pretty slender and thin - exactly my type (again no bigger than a size 2). Whereas other Asian nationalities seem to have women that, on average, are just as overweight as the average Caucasian US woman. Can you please relate to me which Asian Nationalities you might recommend to me to pursue, given all of my tastes I have mentioned (not just appearance, but the other traits I mentioned as well), if I did ever have a change of heart about finding a Belarussian woman to fall in love with and marry, and instead wanted to pursue an Asian woman either here in my own back yard (Texas), or possibly getting on a plane and flying to her own country.

Thank you Bill. You Da' Man! You Da' Main Man!!

[2tallbill]

The last photos of the Asian  (the 1st posting) - I wouldn't be surprised if she is an 'he' !!!

I would be surprised if Ladyboys frequented a marriage agency without
announcing their situation. However this girl would come closer to looking
Ladyboyish (I almost said "fits the bill" but then chose a different selection
of words. 



http://www.loveme.com/mp/asian-women.htm

[jone]

2TallBill, question for you since I know you are very knowledgeable about Asian girls. I am negotiable on most things in terms of a woman I would like to meet and fall in love with. Hair color, I could care less about. Height, does not matter at all, I have dated some very sweet short girls, some very sweet tall girls. Religion definitely is important to me, I will not marry a woman who is a firm atheist, or of a religion other than Christianity. My Children will be raised in the Christian Church, and that is not negotiable to me. My family will go to the Christian Church (I am Baptist, but since I know there are many Catholic Asian and FSU women out there, I (guess) I am open to that, (sort of, but not really. But sort of LOL  ) most Sundays (unless miraculously the Cowboys start playing their games early Sunday mornings Central Standard time.  )   

Ummm, let's see what else I can think of......I do strongly prefer a girl who has at least a University Bachelors Degree, education is very important to me. I have dated some dumb girls, and it is not very enjoyable attempting to have a deep, meaningful conversation with a dumb girl. In addition, I want my future Wife and I to always beat it into our Children how important education and studying is when they get home from school, and even on the weekends. And I want our Children to receive a full Academic Scholarship to Texas A&M University as I did. They are not allowed to attend any University other than Texas A&M. 

Mmmm what else, what else, what else........I have never dated a girl who is even mildly overweight in my life, and I am just not attracted to girls who are even a tiny tiny bit chubby. I have never dated a girl who is bigger than a size 2, and luckily most skinny women I have met actually love very muscular, ripped, huge guys, so it has not been difficult for me to find skinny women throughout my life. I know I always always see overweight women with overweight men, so I know overweight women are not attracted to men like me. Works out great for me, I can have the skinny women (size 00, size 0, size 2 - no bigger than a size 2) and the overweight women can have what they like, the overweight guys.

I know that certain Asian nationalities seem to have women that are, on average, pretty slender and thin - exactly my type (again no bigger than a size 2). Whereas other Asian nationalities seem to have women that, on average, are just as overweight as the average Caucasian US woman. Can you please relate to me which Asian Nationalities you might recommend to me to pursue, given all of my tastes I have mentioned (not just appearance, but the other traits I mentioned as well), if I did ever have a change of heart about finding a Belarussian woman to fall in love with and marry, and instead wanted to pursue an Asian woman either here in my own back yard (Texas), or possibly getting on a plane and flying to her own country.

Thank you Bill. You Da' Man! You Da' Main Man!!

Once again, you have proved that you are a neophyte when it comes to FSU women.  Most FSU women are Orthodox.  As in Russian Orthodox.  There are significant differences between your Baptist beliefs and the beliefs held by most of these women.  If you want to figure out if you will be able to mesh with such a woman, go to an Orthodox church one of these days and see what you discover.  I would be interested to hear your report.

[2tallbill]

2TallBill, question for you since I know you are very knowledgeable about Asian girls.

That's certainly debatable. I could pass myself off as fairly knowledgeable about
FSUW (for an American) or American women (as a man), but Asian women? I've
been around them for sure, my brother married one but I'm not an expert for sure.

Religion definitely is important to me, I will not marry a woman who is a firm atheist, or of a religion other than Christianity. My Children will be raised in the Christian Church, and that is not negotiable to me. My family will go to the Christian Church (I am Baptist, but since I know there are many Catholic Asian and FSU women out there, I (guess) I am open to that, (sort of, but not really. But sort of LOL  ) most Sundays (unless miraculously the Cowboys start playing their games early Sunday mornings Central Standard time.  )   

The Cowboys probably aren't going to start playing early morning we won't worry
about that. The amount of practicing Baptist women outside the USA are a pretty
small group to find a wife from. I think you need to explain your position up front
and then revisit it several times to find a girl who will buy into your position.

Another piece of advice is to find a Baptist church group that does missionary work
in the FSU. Go visit them, do some volunteer work and see what girls that they have
available.

Orthodox is closer to Catholicism than anything else, but they are quite a bit
different than Baptists. If you've been to a Catholic wedding mass you will get
the idea, but they are even quite a bit different than Catholics (that's me).

Ummm, let's see what else I can think of......I do strongly prefer a girl who has at least a University Bachelors Degree, education is very important to me. I have dated some dumb girls, and it is not very enjoyable attempting to have a deep, meaningful conversation with a dumb girl. In addition, I want my future Wife and I to always beat it into our Children how important education and studying is when they get home from school, and even on the weekends. And I want our Children to receive a full Academic Scholarship to Texas A&M University as I did. They are not allowed to attend any University other than Texas A&M. 

You've obviously never raised a boy before. They will do the opposite of what you tell
them when they are 18 years old and could go off to LSU or the even the Long Horns,
I'm not sure which would be worse. Your best bet there is to get them addicted to
Texas A&M when they are boys and still impressionable. Girls tend to fight with their
mothers more in their teenage years.

Mmmm what else, what else, what else........I have never dated a girl who is even mildly overweight in my life, and I am just not attracted to girls who are even a tiny tiny bit chubby. I have never dated a girl who is bigger than a size 2, and luckily most skinny women I have met actually love very muscular, ripped, huge guys, so it has not been difficult for me to find skinny women throughout my life. I know I always always see overweight women with overweight men, so I know overweight women are not attracted to men like me. Works out great for me, I can have the skinny women (size 00, size 0, size 2 - no bigger than a size 2) and the overweight women can have what they like, the overweight guys.

I know that certain Asian nationalities seem to have women that are, on average, pretty slender and thin - exactly my type (again no bigger than a size 2). Whereas other Asian nationalities seem to have women that, on average, are just as overweight as the average Caucasian US woman. Can you please relate to me which Asian Nationalities you might recommend to me to pursue, given all of my tastes I have mentioned (not just appearance, but the other traits I mentioned as well), if I did ever have a change of heart about finding a Belarussian woman to fall in love with and marry, and instead wanted to pursue an Asian woman either here in my own back yard (Texas), or possibly getting on a plane and flying to her own country.

Thank you Bill. You Da' Man! You Da' Main Man!!

If in doubt look at the girls mother and grandmother (on both sides) and you
will probably be safe.

[treadmilldude]

Once again Jone, you have proven your are a very rude person. You are very rude, and I can promise you you would not speak to my face in this tone, in this manner in person. You talk a lot of shit behind your keyboard. You are a very tough guy........behind your computer screen. Would you be as tough, standing 3 feet directly in front of me? No, I don't think so.

I have said over and over again on this very forum that I am a newbie, that I defer to the vets here that have much more knowledge than I do, as well as have many trips to the FSU under their belts, as opposed to myself that has zero trips. I have stated repeatedly the reason for my presence here is to learn and expand my knowledge base. For me, Knowledge is power. In the future, do not reply to my posts and I will not reply to your posts. You have no respect at all for me Jone, that is very obvious.

[treadmilldude]

That's certainly debatable. I could pass myself off as fairly knowledgeable about
FSUW (for an American) or American women (as a man), but Asian women? I've
been around them for sure, my brother married one but I'm not an expert for sure.

The Cowboys probably aren't going to start playing early morning we won't worry
about that. The amount of practicing Baptist women outside the USA are a pretty
small group to find a wife from. I think you need to explain your position up front
and then revisit it several times to find a girl who will buy into your position.

Another piece of advice is to find a Baptist church group that does missionary work
in the FSU. Go visit them, do some volunteer work and see what girls that they have
available.

Orthodox is closer to Catholicism than anything else, but they are quite a bit
different than Baptists. If you've been to a Catholic wedding mass you will get
the idea, but they are even quite a bit different than Catholics (that's me).

You've obviously never raised a boy before. They will do the opposite of what you tell
them when they are 18 years old and could go off to LSU or the even the Long Horns,
I'm not sure which would be worse. Your best bet there is to get them addicted to
Texas A&M when they are boys and still impressionable. Girls tend to fight with their
mothers more in their teenage years.

If in doubt look at the girls mother and grandmother (on both sides) and you
will probably be safe.

Hence my comment that I realize many FSU women are either Orthodox or full-blown Catholics, and I am thus open to Catholicism...sort of....maybe. 

[2tallbill]

Hence my comment that I realize many FSU women are either Orthodox or full-blown Catholics, and I am thus open to Catholicism...sort of....maybe. 

I did recommend finding a missionary group. They love lining up single young
Baptist men with single young Baptist women. They've already done the heavy
lifting by getting various FSUW girls to join them.

[Muzh]

Once again Jone, you have proven your are a rude person. You are very rude, and I can promise you you would  to my face in this tone, in this manner in person. You talk a lot of shit behind your keyboard. You are a very tough guy........behind your computer screen. Would you be as tough, standing 3 feet directly in front of me? No, I don't think so.

I have said over and over again on this very forum that I am a newbie, that I defer to the vets here that have much more knowledge than I do, as well as have many trips to the FSU under their belts, as opposed to myself that has zero trips. I have stated repeatedly the reason for my presence here is to learn and expand my knowledge base. For me, Knowledge is power. In the future, do not reply to my posts and I will not reply to your posts. You have no respect at all for me Jone, that is very obvious.

Whoa there, padner.


Jone might have been terse but not rude.


He just stated a fact.


You better grow some rawhide in them bones. 


Best you can do is to read, grit your teeth and take the pearls that apply to you. PERIOD.


Get a trip under your belt, then come back and share your experiences.


Then you can use your glove to slap the face and issue an invitation for a rendezvous at noon for a shoot out. 

[jone]

Once again Jone, you have proven your are a very rude person. You are very rude, and I can promise you you would not speak to my face in this tone, in this manner in person. You talk a lot of shit behind your keyboard. You are a very tough guy........behind your computer screen. Would you be as tough, standing 3 feet directly in front of me? No, I don't think so.

I have said over and over again on this very forum that I am a newbie, that I defer to the vets here that have much more knowledge than I do, as well as have many trips to the FSU under their belts, as opposed to myself that has zero trips. I have stated repeatedly the reason for my presence here is to learn and expand my knowledge base. For me, Knowledge is power. In the future, do not reply to my posts and I will not reply to your posts. You have no respect at all for me Jone, that is very obvious.

There have been plenty of people that have challenged me in real life.  Not too many were happy they did.  But I am not the keyboard Romeo.  You are.  And you haven't got a clue.  Just a bunch of talk, talk on here not having made a trip.  As for your insulting language, have at it.  If your Christian faith allows you to swear at people.  Hmm.  Better go home and pray a while and ask for forgiveness.

Now, as for your postulating about your knowledge of your Christian faith and the way these women think about their faith, I can guarantee that you are not even on the same planet that most of them are on.  And this is from experience, not from hypotheticals.    Anyone who has sat through the liturgy of an Orthodox service will tell you that it is not like anything you have experienced.

[treadmilldude]

Bill, I do not consider myself to be extremely religious. I mean I read my Bible, I am a believer, I pray as often as possible, I go to Sunday School and Worship on Sundays. But I do not even hang out really with people in my Sunday School Group. I have my own circle of friends that really does not include people in my Sunday School Group.

As far as Missionary Work, that is really not me. I think what they are doing is wonderful and I have enormous respect for those people, but that is really not for me.

I think maybe I overstated the importance of organized religion in a woman I am hoping to fall in love with. As long as she is a believer, accepts Christ as her Lord and Savior, and is willing to go with me and our Children to Church on Sundays, that is actually good enough for me.

[fathertime]

There have been plenty of people that have challenged me in real life.  Not too many were happy they did.  But I am not the keyboard Romeo.  You are.  And you haven't got a clue.  Just a bunch of talk, talk on here not having made a trip.  As for your insulting language, have at it.  If your Christian faith allows you to swear at people.  Hmm.

Sensitive or not, you are goading the man.  Seems to me that he has a bit of personality, and is trying to gain information... harmless enough. Right? 


Fathertime! 

[2tallbill]

Bill, I do not consider myself to be extremely religious. I mean I read my Bible, I am a believer, I pray as often as possible, I go to Sunday School and Worship on Sundays. But I do not even hang out really with people in my Sunday School Group. I have my own circle of friends that really does not include people in my Sunday School Group.

As far as Missionary Work, that is really not me. I think what they are doing is wonderful and I have enormous respect for those people, but that is really not for me.

I think maybe I overstated the importance of organized religion in a woman I am hoping to fall in love with. As long as she is a believer, accepts Christ as her Lord and Savior, and is willing to go with me and our Children to Church on Sundays, that is actually good enough for me.

I didn't suggest that you hit on the missionary girls or that you do missionary work.
I will try to be more clear. You ask around and find a Baptist Mission that does work
in the FSU. You visit that area and pop in on Sunday and put a hundred bucks on the
collection plate.

THEN You hit on the girls that they convince to attend church or the tent revival
or whatever they go going in the FSU. That way you are meeting with FSU girls
who might have a predilection to going to a Baptist church on Sundays.

Getting a girl from being a twice a year Orthodox to going to a Baptist service every
Sunday would be challenge in my opinion. Getting an every Sunday Orthodox girl to
go to a Baptist service every Sunday would be impossible.

Just my two kopecks,

Bill

[jone]

Sensitive or not, you are goading the man.  Seems to me that he has a bit of personality, and is trying to gain information... harmless enough. Right? 


Fathertime!

Agreed.  Harmless enough.  But we don't write here just to respond to one individual.  We write here to respond to the individual and the collective readership.    The post that I made was not that offensive and asked him to do his homework.  He chose to take offense at it, which is his right.   But the true perspective that I was targeting was that there, as Bill wrote above, is a great difference between the Eastern Orthodox Christian Faith and that of the Baptists, Evangelicals and Menonites.

And it is your opinion that I was goading the man.  But that would be your opinion.  Perhaps now you would wish to revise it?  NOT.

[GuppyCaptain]

Tread, take my opinion fwiw. Decades upon decades of communism in the FSU (which encouraged atheism) have left the general populace "not very religious". You have a great many people that are "seasonal Orthodox". They attend service a couple times a year on the religious holidays, but they aren't "practicing" every week.

From my observations in America and in the FSU/EE, Baptists in the U.S. tend to be FAR more religious than the average FSUW. I'm not telling you to change your beliefs or the degree of your belief, but I am trying to tell you that if you go into this pursuit as "HURRRAAAAAHHHH" as your posts come across, most FSUW are going to freak out.

You are entitled to your beliefs and convictions and no one is asking you to change them. Just know that they may project differently to a woman from another culture than women that you've dated locally.

[fathertime]

Agreed.  Harmless enough.  But we don't write here just to respond to one individual.  We write here to respond to the individual and the collective readership.    The post that I made was not that offensive and asked him to do his homework.  He chose to take offense at it, which is his right.   But the true perspective that I was targeting was that there, as Bill wrote above, is a great difference between the Eastern Orthodox Christian Faith and that of the Baptists, Evangelicals and Menonites.

And it is your opinion that I was goading the man.  But that would be your opinion.  Perhaps now you would wish to revise it?  NOT.

Most can tell goading from non-goading, and his reaction tells you how he felt about it..   What was said could have been said much differently if you wanted to....the goading was intentional and you know it. Your followup post was also intentionally offensive, rather than recognizing the 'misunderstanding', you attempted to further goad, which goes directly to what your intentions are...and that isn't to 'educate the greater audience' insomuch as knock Treadmilldude down a few pegs for some reason.   


So no, I see no need to revise what I said.  Why you felt the need though is up for thought. 


Fathertime!   

[jone]

Gosh, FatherTime,

I am humbled by your calling me out.  What can I do to absolve myself?  You are the most confrontational guy on the site.  So, have at it some more.  Everyone here knows you for who you are.

[fathertime]

Gosh, FatherTime,

I am humbled by your calling me out.  What can I do to absolve myself?  You are the most confrontational guy on the site.  So, have at it some more.  Everyone here knows you for who you are.

You should be humbled, better yet, you should take a look at yourself when you attempt to be critical of a member trying to glean information through open conversation. 


Fathertime!   

[ML]

1) There are people who go to a Church (or whatever you want to call the building) only on special days; and they likely do some food and socializing on these days also.  Religion has very little to do with it; it is just a habit they picked up from family, etc.  This probably describes the vast majority of FSU folks.

2) There are others who go to Church fairly regularly; but in all reality they are doing it mostly for the social aspects, and perhaps it is expected or helps with respect to their career, professional or political ambitions, etc.  Religion has very little to do with it.  This probably describes the vast majority of USA folks who do go to Church fairly regularly, and perhaps those in other countries also.

3) There are other folks in the various countries of the world who are actually religious.  A shrinking number every year.

4) There are other folks in the various countries of the world who never go to a Church (except for weddings and funerals) and who give very little thought to any religion.  A growing number of people in this category every year.

Anyone looking to find a category (3) person for a mate is facing a very large uphill battle . . . and, if they succeed, it is probably because they have surrendered on virtually all other characteristics they would like to have in a mate.

[jone]

You should be humbled, better yet, you should take a look at yourself when you attempt to be critical of a member trying to glean information through open conversation. 


Fathertime!

Something you ALWAYS do. 

As for TMD, I don't have as much patience here as some people here.  Everything I said is spot on, as the follow-up conversation will attest to.   And as to my response, you're absolutely right, after he lost it at me, I'm not gonna spoon feed it to him.  But I'm not gonna chase him down as you are want to do.   What do you see yourself as?  Just curious.

[fathertime]

Something you ALWAYS do. 

As for TMD, I don't have as much patience here as some people here.   

Who cares about your 'patience'? HE is asking questions.  You are intentionally being rude towards him, and you know it is true.   

   But I'm not gonna chase him down as you are want to do.   What do you see yourself as?  Just curious.

I'm ok with you remaining curious.


Fathertime!   

[jone]

Typically we refrain from using abusive language on here.  Perhaps since FatherTime cannot refrain himself, we could move this thread to a nice Blah, Blah, Blah again.  What happens to all of his threads.

By the way, we have an admonition on this forum about using name calling.  Something that you repeatedly offend.  The greatest insult that I gave TMD was call him a Neophyte.  Your comments to me were not so magnanimous.   Neoculturny.

[2tallbill]

FT and Jone aren't going to agree, I recommend that they agree to disagree and move on.
Further discussion about this aren't likely to resolve anything and they will likely distract
from the original thread which was about Asia, Latin America and the FSU and the girls we
might find in such locations.

Udachi!

Bill

[fathertime]

Typically we refrain from using abusive language on here.  Perhaps since FatherTime cannot refrain himself, we could move this thread to a nice Blah, Blah, Blah again.  What happens to all of his threads.

Haha, you would like to see your comments get moved to a less visible location.  Obviously Treadmilldude somehow makes you feel threatened, hence the abusive comments you made towards him.  How about letting people answer his questions, and discuss things with him, since your "low patience" is suddenly more important than his questions. 


Fathertime!   

[fathertime]

FT and Jone aren't going to agree, I recommend that they agree to disagree and move on.
Further discussion about this aren't likely to resolve anything and they will likely distract
from the original thread which was about Asia, Latin America and the FSU and the girls we
might find in such locations.

Udachi!

Bill

Sounds fair enough then...I've said what I wanted to say....If Jone can treat members with respect I will treat him with respect. 


Fathertime!   

[jone]

No, Fathertime, I presented an idea that TMD took offense to.  I called him a neophyte.  Nothing about the post was particularly offensive.  If a member is so thin skinned here that he lashes out, I will be the least of his problems.  You, on the other hand, have a reputation that travels with you through every thread.   

The number of our good members here that you've laid into with caustic remarks and condescending dialogue is legendary.  You have made a historic name for yourself. 

Now, I guarantee, because you like to argue, that you will want to have another three or four rounds, but since I have said which I came to say, you can have at me all you want.

I considered myself honored that you'd single me out.  I am in some pretty good company, Brass, Mendy, etc.