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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #50 on: June 03, 2016, 02:16:50 PM »
Thanks BillyB, the website that I am using for communicate with women is Elenasmodels.com.tc

Been using EM myself, it's ok, they do remove profiles of suspect girls, about half of the thirty or so I was messaging, I was not the one that reported them, lol. I stopped messaging them along the way. Look at my thread about girl inaffectionate who I went to see, in the experienced section I think, a bit of an eye opener to the more subtle scams that I think are rife across the Ukraine. So weigh up what the girl may be after as you go, you want one that is there genuinely for committed relationship.
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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #51 on: June 03, 2016, 10:57:57 PM »
Yes Trenchcoat, I am looking for a serious relationship, no timepass, I am using Elenasmodels from quite a long time now and I found the site quite appropriate for finding the right partner.

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #52 on: June 09, 2016, 12:27:56 AM »
What do you guys think about Elena's models? Has anyone find his mate there on the website, please share your experience.

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #53 on: June 09, 2016, 01:59:23 PM »
What do you guys think about Elena's models? Has anyone find his mate there on the website, please share your experience.

When I last checked it out - it was a shadow of it's former self..Sept '14

It's time has passed ... Plenty of other sites with more active members, now
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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #54 on: June 09, 2016, 02:12:32 PM »
When I last checked it out - it was a shadow of it's former self..Sept '14

It's time has passed ... Plenty of other sites with more active members, now

I've had the same observation. It used to be a terrific place to meet lots of nice fsuw, but in recent years not so much.

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #55 on: June 10, 2016, 05:31:51 AM »
The other thing now is the changed format.  It was actually far easier to navigate BEFORE they updated the website a few years ago.  Now, every click seems to produce a new window, and there are no timestamps in some areas to indicate when, for example, someone looked at your profile.

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #56 on: June 10, 2016, 05:52:35 AM »
Do people remember the reaction of people after you tell them about your FSUW search? The faces your friends pull, naysayers. After the positive stories come out, other hopefuls jump on ship, and start accepting the idea. Roosh opened the door for a lot of MRA's, and sex tourists, slowly it is becoming saturated. You are not seeing so much a drop in women, maybe yes after the soviet union collapse there were more women, things were really tough, people were hungry, but the main change in the last 10 years has been more men are going there. Before all you need was to bring a visa to the table,now you need a lot more. You are seeing younger guys, good looking folk wanted more for their money, it is slowly going to get even worse, especially if ukraine joins the EU.

Not all of us Brits have terrible teeth, right Msmoby?

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #57 on: June 10, 2016, 07:25:20 AM »
More tosh from someone who prob wasn't alive or out of nappies when the wall came down...

I mean.. are you SERIOUSLY suggesting you could pitch up...wave a western passport and 'pull'?)

Just more ignorance....

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #58 on: June 10, 2016, 09:06:14 AM »
What do you guys think about Elena's models? Has anyone find his mate there on the website, please share your experience.

Despite several guys on here finding their wives on Elena's Models . . . I never thought it was worth crap.

Biggest drawback (going back more than 5 years ago when I would look) . . . there were relatively few women who passed though my screening . . . in any one city.

Sure there were a lot of gals there . . . but they were scattered everywhere.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #59 on: June 10, 2016, 09:11:42 AM »
Despite several guys on here finding their wives on Elena's Models . . . I never thought it was worth crap.

Biggest drawback (going back more than 5 years ago when I would look) . . . there were relatively few women who passed though my screening . . . in any one city.

Sure there were a lot of gals there . . . but they were scattered everywhere.

I used EM as well, they've always had far more men using the site than women.
I did meet a 6' tall green eyed girl in Voronezh before I found Angel Eyes. They
screwed up the site format and are a shell of their former self.

You can find far more girls at Mamba.ru and 99% of them aren't part of the agency
shake down industry.


FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #60 on: June 10, 2016, 09:23:52 AM »
Despite several guys on here finding their wives on Elena's Models . . . I never thought it was worth crap.

Agreed

I only paid to join, twice... for a month, each time ... A lot of ladies - who were looking in 2003 where still there in 2006 and 2013 ... and hadn't aged - using the same photos ..This kinda made it clear than EM's much fabled 'checks' were just paying lip service.
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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #61 on: June 10, 2016, 09:27:57 AM »
They screwed up the site format and are a shell of their former self.

Sounds kind of like the 'new Coke' fiasco of the 1980s.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #62 on: June 10, 2016, 09:31:49 AM »
Sounds kind of like the 'new Coke' fiasco of the 1980s.

Excellent comparison
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #63 on: June 10, 2016, 09:35:12 AM »

I mean.. are you SERIOUSLY suggesting you could pitch up...wave a western passport and 'pull'?)

Just more ignorance....

Back in the days with the soviet union collapsing, it was easy. And from what i have experienced, i could go land, and get hitched up within  a day no problem. But if you feel like the women still have the same options, and financial situation as they did with the fall of the soviet union, and the only difference is that EM moved around a few buttons then  :P Nobody has given a plausible reason why EM and other dating sites are offering less now, than they did a few years back.
« Last Edit: June 10, 2016, 09:39:09 AM by dragonkid »
Not all of us Brits have terrible teeth, right Msmoby?

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #64 on: June 11, 2016, 01:15:43 AM »
Back in the days with the soviet union collapsing, it was easy.

I 'see', you experience this a vision - when you were still  a 'twinkling star in the sky' ?

You still confuse pulling with a success in maintaining the relationship ..


EM started in 2000 - NINE years after the break up of the USSR ....


 And from what i have experienced, i could go land, and get hitched up within  a day no problem.

With one of your '10's', no doubt ...  ?   :D

 
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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #65 on: June 13, 2016, 03:27:12 AM »
You still confuse pulling with a success in maintaining the relationship ..




Just commented that many women are eager to marry, we both know marrying someone doesn't mean they truly like the person. You know that better than anyone else, with your 2 failed marriages experience, and still not married. You will get there one day, i hope.


EM started in 2000 - NINE years after the break up of the USSR ....




also read my quote again, i said the marriages that have succeeded has given hope to new people entering the search, hence increasing the picking for women, recent media attention has had the same effect. But lets listen to your theory, that buttons moving about has ruined the fsu search

I 'see', you experience this a vision - when you were still  a 'twinkling star in the sky' ?

People have said that the search many years ago was much easier, not really hard to understand, maybe for you it is. There were plenty of eager women in bad financial situations and not a lot of men willing to take the risk. Some have said all you needed was to bring a passport to the table, and now you need to offer a lot more.


With one of your '10's', no doubt ...  ?   :D

You are the only one that made a thread, and comments on several other thread boasting your new woman has been hit on by VP's, blah blah blah, anyone who didn't see her would think you were dating someone.... you know, actually let me not say, i will leave you to your  dream world.
« Last Edit: June 13, 2016, 03:32:14 AM by dragonkid »
Not all of us Brits have terrible teeth, right Msmoby?

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #66 on: June 13, 2016, 09:45:49 AM »

Just commented that many women are eager to marry, we both know marrying someone doesn't mean they truly like the person.

No - you posted daft about how things were in the fsu and concerning EM who started nearly a decade later..

'We' know nothing of the sort - I have no doubt that my feelings for both wives were reciprocated. 

You know that better than anyone else, with your 2 failed marriages experience, and still not married. You will get there one day, i hope.

You already had the courtesy of the correct status of my marital affairs - yet repeat 'bollox' It won't deflect from your daft assertion re dating FSUW 25 years ago  - before you were born / out of nappies and can know nought about, either.





People have said that the search many years ago was much easier, not really hard to understand, maybe for you it is. There were plenty of eager women in bad financial situations and not a lot of men willing to take the risk. Some have said all you needed was to bring a passport to the table, and now you need to offer a lot more.

People have said there was no holocaust ... it doesn't make it correct ...This 'people' was going to what were former Soviet satellites during the era you refer to...

You are the only one that made a thread, and comments on several other thread boasting your new woman has been hit on by VP's, blah blah blah, anyone who didn't see her would think you were dating someone.... you know, actually let me not say, i will leave you to your  dream world.

Laddie, I have no idea why  you 'want' to discuss the 'veracity' of my regaling a strange guy using social media to try to hit on my 'missus'  on this thread ... [ it was on one thread ] unless to deflect from your daftness ?

Only you might think it was 'boasting'...


The thread provided useful info - from Jone - on how to restrict access to showing friends and the number of 'friend requests' has fallen 100 fold...

From my perspective your 'contributions' are mostly embarrassing and / or entertaining demonstrations of  youthful 'confidence'...
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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #67 on: June 13, 2016, 11:22:58 AM »

The thread provided useful info - from Jone - on how to restrict access to showing friends and the number of 'friend requests' has fallen 100 fold...


Yeh, as if the woman you are dating would get 100's of guys adding her. Was putin, and abramovich on the list also? Wishful thinking.

I can see why guys like yourself have such a hard time holding down a marriage. I lurked on a few forums, never have i seen so much dick waving among members.I am not talking just about me vs others, constant bickering, fighting over pointless things with each other.

I am young, i realise that i am sometimes a dick, but some of you are in your late years, and still act like trolls. Living in a delusion, no wonder people's marriages fail or have failed in the past on here. Even with money, where a woman is eager to jump abroad, or look for a partner who can offer stability, they can't cope with guys like that. Sums up your whole life, repeated mistakes, and looks like it won't change, unless you change, which looks like it hasn't.
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Not all of us Brits have terrible teeth, right Msmoby?

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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #68 on: June 13, 2016, 04:58:39 PM »
Yeh, as if the woman you are dating would get 100's of guys adding her. Was putin, and abramovich on the list also? Wishful thinking.

 :D

You confuse your tendency to exaggerate / 'gild the lilly' with posters who simply state fact ..

I can see why guys like yourself have such a hard time holding down a marriage.

 :D



I am young, i realise that i am sometimes a dick, but some of you are in your late years, and still act like trolls. Living in a delusion, no wonder people's marriages fail or have failed in the past on here.

The first part of your first sentence was the accurate part of the paragraph. Responding to your daftness is feeding the troll




Even with money, where a woman is eager to jump abroad, or look for a partner who can offer stability, they can't cope with guys like that. Sums up your whole life, repeated mistakes, and looks like it won't change, unless you change, which looks like it hasn't.

So, you ASSume FSUW are only looking for green cards, now? :D For example, my Russian wife could have chosen much a much better off suitor ..








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Re: How to Approach Professionals for Dating
« Reply #69 on: June 14, 2016, 02:45:14 AM »
The other thing now is the changed format.  It was actually far easier to navigate BEFORE they updated the website a few years ago.  Now, every click seems to produce a new window, and there are no timestamps in some areas to indicate when, for example, someone looked at your profile.
I recently joined the website and encountered some navigation related problems, same as you were mentioned here, but can you tell what other problems I am going to face while using Elena Models? I think its good to stay informed in advance so that I can use the website more efficiently, please help!!

 

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