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[msmobyone]

generally the women ['mature in DK's world is 35  ] can't find a partner at their age in fsu,

 

More posting daft .... I know plenty of FSU lasses in their mid 30's and above that are single - their choice - perhaps they have a child and can 'pull' without a problem... they are just more fussy and wise.

so i see why you lot prefer more mature women.

 

You really aren't that good at reading folk ... To you, I'm more than mature ..

I've consistently stuck to seeking a long-term partner close to my age. My choice ...  I seek a women who has a similar bio-rhythm 

As usual, you make things more complicated than they are in reality.

Thanks, DK you constantly remind me of the overconfidence of youth ..



 

[dragonkid]

I've consistently stuck to seeking a long-term partner close to my age. My choice ...  I seek a women who has a similar bio-rhythm 

or that you came out of 2 divorces,with no successful marriages, and realise you can't handle a lot of stuff, hence looking for women with the same worth as yourself. Your second wife leaving you must of been a huge wake up call, to be cautious. 

More posting daft .... I know plenty of FSU lasses in their mid 30's and above that are single - their choice - perhaps they have a child and can 'pull' without a problem... they are just more fussy and wise.

Not only me who says this by the way, others on the board share the same opinion, obviously it is a generalization, and a few break away from this. But really now, it is pretty common knowledge to know.

 

[JayH]

. They know exactly what to say and how to behave to make the man feel good, and defenseless. I have no need for my hand to be licked, or be stroked and told how special i am. An example of this is this couple



My senses are screaming when i am watching this, her eyes, facial expression, way she touches the guy, it seems very off to me. It would work great if the guy is a newbie and is very gullible.

I had lots of women that did this with me, delete their profile straight after talking to me, telling me how special i am etc. how much they want me, sure they had no problems with me living in fsu with them. It still didn't make their words genuine. Go in blindly , get killed.

DK--   you keep offering up your OPINIONS--and they keep looking like crap--but  it can be hard to illustrate exactly how.
In the case above--your vid link--more info is available-
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"- In fact - Gala has lived in Florida for a while and had a boyfriend with a house on the beach and a Ferrari, but felt like "a bird in a gold cage", just another possession.  So she left all of that and returned to her home in this small town in Ukraine.  Her husband, Jeremy, is a real estate agent and they live in a condo in Vancouver, BC.  She may never ride in a Ferrari again, but they're happy."

You keep attempting to make a case that there is only one "correct" way to live ones life. Grow up and stop being so judgmental of any and everyone else.

[dragonkid]

DK--   you keep offering up your OPINIONS--and they keep looking like crap--but  it can be hard to illustrate exactly how.
In the case above--your vid link--more info is available-
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"- In fact - Gala has lived in Florida for a while and had a boyfriend with a house on the beach and a Ferrari, but felt like "a bird in a gold cage", just another possession.  So she left all of that and returned to her home in this small town in Ukraine.  Her husband, Jeremy, is a real estate agent and they live in a condo in Vancouver, BC.  She may never ride in a Ferrari again, but they're happy."

You keep attempting to make a case that there is only one "correct" way to live ones life. Grow up and stop being so judgmental of any and everyone else.

You actually believe this woman found a rich guy, and left him because she felt like a bird trapped in a gilded cage?




She just found a guy that had more sense than money.

[Trenchcoat]

I wouldn't say Trenchcoat is not serious or even shallow. What turns each man on may be different. There are certain things men need to see from a woman to get it up. If he can't get a hard on from a woman with breasts smaller than C cups, then he's not doing her or himself any favors getting in a relationship with her.

I did not mean that large breasts would be a prerequisite for going with a girl. I would quite happily go with a girl without, I just meant it as a favourable/positive thing on my list. The list is not in priority order. To be honest when I'm looking at girls photos now I make sure I focus on the face particularly the eyes to see if I get it on. I even go so far as to cover up her breasts if she has them hanging out as many of them do. This is so not to be distracted from purpose of seeing if there might be any possible chemistry/natural attraction there which is important to me. Reasonably large breasts I do like on a woman as it more better puts the woman in the frame of mind that her purpose is for reproduction I think.

[2tallbill]

Ideal things perfect girl must have:

TC,

It's your list, don't let anybody tell you that you've gotta go with their list or their
values and you don't need to defend your list of what makes up the optimal girl for
anybody here.

Some guys love red heads, others can't stand them. Put together your no go list too,
and don't share it with the peanut gallery here. Spend the time putting it together so
that you know what your goals are.

Always look for the standout girl. The girl that stands out ahead of the others in your
mind. What 2tallbill or others considers a standout girl is irrelevant because you are
the one looking to marry your version of a standout girl and not him/them.

[2tallbill]

The rest of your list is reasonable

Gator, next thing you know you'll be belittling* my barefooted, midget nun porn collection.
  

My 25 year old son will put ketchup on a perfectly cooked steak right off the grill. I
would never do that. Some guys love short girls, some guys like long legs.  Some
guys like big butts (they can not lie), some guys like girls with freckles and others
don't.

I say, go seek out the girl of your dreams. If you go weak in the knees over a green
eyed girls then by all means write letters to green eyed girl.

Udachi!

*pun intended

[treadmilldude]

That may be so, when I started of this search again about 6 months ago, I thought that I would have to accept a single mother. However, before long it became apparent that there were plenty of single women without a child. In the UK as no doubt in the US this would be a harder find and often a reason for it. Essentially I've just always liked the idea of a genetic bond with the child and I guess it makes sense to give a RW a chance to have one than one that already has. I'm not keen on paying for someone else's sex life and cleaning up after them, but that said of course some single mothers it can work with very well relationship wise. I can see why some men might prefer them, their need for a husband/father for child, need to rely on a man, potential seriousness to commit to a relationship, economic reasons. On the other hand if a guy gets the wrong single mother he may just be used (as a mule), used economically then dropped, used to help bring up child then dropped. If a woman has more than one child then having a child of your own may become burdensome depending on circumstance. It all depends on loyalty and trust and I think I would be too uneasy about trusting a single mother, plus of course there is the extra economic burden of the child from the get go - its a serious business taking on someone else's child.

I do not like this comment one bit. It is not a fair comment by you Trenchcoat. 99.9% of the time I agree with your comments and think you are very reasonable in your assertions. I guess this is one of those very rare instances I just do not agree with you. But it's cool, it is not possible to agree with someone 100% of the time.

I have a couple extremely close female friends who are divorced from pretty rotten men, and they each have multiple children. My female friends are both wonderful women, the divorce was not their fault. They just happened to marry a couple of rotten men. I can say their children are awesome!! I love their children, I love spending time with their children and playing with them. If either of them were skinny/slender girls, I would have no problem dating and/or marrying either woman. Alas, both are a little on the heavy side, so we are just very good friends, no romantic interest there.

Anyways, I want each woman to find a good man the next time they get married. Whichever lucky man marries them and adopts their children as their own, this is not going to be a case where the new Husband and Father is "paying for someone else's sex life and cleaning up after them". Not at all. Their new Husbands will be getting a top-of-the-line Wife and some very sweet, loving Children.

I know you are a good man Trenchcoat, please do not take anything personally. I am just making an observation about your comment that I thought was very unfair and indicated a lack of understanding about the nuances of divorce with children involved.

[Trenchcoat]

That's ok treadmill dude, it's fine with me. I know for some it works out. I know of a couple that got together who each had a child so for them perfect solution (a UK couple though). I think it ties into the other thread on here about Ukrainian wife where I brought up how to handle her post marriage. I think some women child or not need a guy where others are out to use a guy and sometimes it is not always easy to tell.Some guys will see it as the woman has a need to rely upon you others such as myself am wary as its another potential hazard that seems a big risk to take. I probably did put it a bit bluntly there though.

[2tallbill]

Anyways, I want each woman to find a good man the next time they get married. Whichever lucky man marries them and adopts their children as their own, this is not going to be a case where the new Husband and Father is "paying for someone else's sex life and cleaning up after them".

It's never as simple as that. I've raised the kids of other men. I know a guy who had
over 20 adoptions and countless foster kids. Some kids are Angels and some aren't.
I was sitting ten feet away when one of his adopted kids was killed while committing
an armed house burglary. He looked like a truck hit him. I had a cousin who adopted several kids who had fetal alcohol syndrome. She went through hell at times, but glad
she did.

In addition, unless the father is dead he can cause huge problems for a relationship.
I know guys from the forums who married into a ready made family and the mother
had spoiled her then teenage son to the point of him being nearly worthless. It took
years to undo and the kid is a fine young man today but the stress it put on their new
marriage was very high.

Not everybody wants those types of risks. A single guy with no kids might not want
any part of all the potential problems and baggage and ex-husband.   

[dragonkid]

TMD, not everyone wants to raise somebody else's kids. Respect to the ones who do, but i am not looking for that.

Trench i found your ideal woman

http://www.instagram.com/p/BFjDRnWyElg/?taken-by=reneborisova&hl=en

[msmobyone]

or that you came out of 2 divorces,with no successful marriages, and realise you can't handle a lot of stuff, hence looking for women with the same worth as yourself. Your second wife leaving you must of been a huge wake up call, to be cautious. 

DK, I'd have wanted to leave me  - during the hell that was a 13 month long battle with an incompetent bank... who - ruined my livelihood and wifey had Policemen interviewing neighbours and at our door  - suggesting I was perpetrating a fraud - which of course, I wasn't ...

IF you  are 'reminding me' - of these divorces  - to 'dismiss' my dissing your advice/ assertions - you might be somewhat unwise..I have made loads of mistakes...You might learn from them

Now, it is noted that you didn't offer any riposte to my pointing out that you were  - once more - talking nonsense about FSUW who you might regard as more mature - say over 30 - 35 ...

At your age, I can understand your not wanting a women with kids ... but kindly don't talk about ladies about whom you cannot have had any direct experience.

Bringing up a child that was a result of another [ previous ] union becomes a more frequent reality as one dates women of a similar age - with an intention to marry. Don't  let such matters concern you.... lest you post daft[er]

re caution on marrying / re-marrying

The Russians have an expression ... you have to eat 50 tonnes of salt together, before you really know each other...

[dragonkid]

DK, I'd have wanted to leave me  - during the hell that was a 13 month long battle with an incompetent bank... who - ruined my livelihood and wifey had Policemen interviewing neighbours and at our door  - suggesting I was perpetrating a fraud - which of course, I wasn't ...

IF you  are 'reminding me' - of these divorces  - to 'dismiss' my dissing your advice/ assertions - you might be somewhat unwise..I have made loads of mistakes...You might learn from them

Now, it it notes that you didn't offer any riposte to my pointing out that you were  - once more - talking nonsense about FSUW who you might regard as more mature - say over 30 - 35 ...

At your age, I can understand your not wanting a women with kids ... but kindly don't talk about ladies about whom you cannot have had any direct experience.

Bringing up a child that was a result of another [ previous ] union becomes a more frequent reality as one dates women of a similar age - with an intention to marry. Don't  let such matters concern you.... lest you post daft[er]

re caution on marrying / re-marrying

The Russians have an expression ... you have to eat 50 tonnes of salt together, before yoU rally know each other...

 i won't rub in your divorces again, must have been tough, so i apologize for digging in. Some believe at 30+ a woman is sometimes considered too old, i do know that women find it hard in Russia at around 35+, i actually added 5 years to what someone else has told me. I showed you the video of where women are trying to learn how to attract males, their competitive advantage slips by as they age, not all, but some do.

 About the kids thing, TMD just doesn't understand that not everybody wants to look after somebodies kids. If i was lacking in options for women without kids, i would probably do it, but i am able , as well as Trench, to find women without kids. There is nothing wrong with them personality wise.

[msmobyone]

i won't rub in your divorces again, must have been tough, so i apologize for digging in.

That you would 'use' them to 'rub salt' - rather than deal with your howlers spoke volumes... 

IF you paid attention; the first was my choice and the 2nd - was - at the time - exceptional stressful external circumstances.

Some believe at 30+ a woman is sometimes considered too old, i do know that women find it hard in Russia at around 35+, i actually added 5 years to what someone else has told me. I showed you the video of where women are trying to learn how to attract males, their competitive advantage slips by as they age, not all, but some do.

Like I said, when you talk about stuff - about which you are clueless - quoting another 'expert' ... it becomes apparent.....

i am able , as well as Trench, to find women without kids. There is nothing wrong with them personality wise.

I'm sure all those 'mature' women with kids will be 'relieved' to have your validation