Dragonkid's Theories of Life

[Gator]

I am deleting this post.   I deleted a prior post that was in the "Kid or No Kid" thread.  First time I have ever done that in my 13,000 RWD posts. 


I wish I never had attempted to reach Dragginkid, never as in the first day he arrived at RWD. 

I don't want my marriage on the RWD debating stage, so I will cease communicating with DK and delete my post. Having made my own mistakes in romancing RW, there is no guarantee that my opinion would have been helpful.    Most of us married men here have made many mistakes, and we learned from them.  It best for Dragonkid to do the same.  He doesn't need RWD to do that. 



 

[dragonkid]

I never said otherwise.   

Implied it, finally you got the balls to admit it, you are not so unique as you think you are. If i can admit there is something to gain in a fsu dating me, so can a guy who is physically washed up.

When writing at RWD, I suggest you broaden your thinking  beyond a single factor.  Few things in life are black and white. 

Try to date women who have a good job.   I found a real diamond, a Russian flower.

You are just a guy that can't admit the truth, you said we should look at a person income. Why? Because your fsu wife had a little bit of money in russia, meaning she is far more genuine than any other woman? Please, i meet guys like you always, people who think they can feed themselves bs and others. You stated one factor, but when i bring up the fact that your wife wasn't young, she had two kids, one an adult, the other a teen, you go all defensive, saying it is not all black and white.

BTW, please show me the link where I called you a mule.  You have had only relationship and she does not want anything to do with you.  That makes you something other than a mule.

Nice try, the reality is i told my gf at the time, i never wanted to get married, she still introduced me to her parents. She had limited english, still banged her,was her first, and i tried to get rid of her several times. Only once at the end did i try and get back with her, it worked, but she was angry, we got in an argument, and it ended pretty badly.

[dragonkid]

Your plan is a good one.   Making a plan is easy; executing a plan is another matter.  In my 20s, I had a well thought out plan to drive from UK to Burma in a Range Rover.  Did not get far.   In my travels I met a Brit who crossed the Sahara from north to south.   And a few Ozzies in their caravans driving all over the place.  You too can realize your dream.

The plan is there, just the timing might be a little off, but it will happen, everything is coming together pretty nicely, just takes longer than expected. I want to spend  a few months studying the language, and enroll in a computing course after, and see what happens after that. My mistake it putting a time deadline on things, rather than just having a plan and going with it, accepting that bumps do happen, rather than beat myself up at not meeting a milestone at a deadline.

[2tallbill]

I will keep it short and simple Stupid (fixed by 2tallbill).

2) me and Trench are not looking for women twice our age who have two kids, so your "russian flower", wouldn't be somebody we would want. So save the whole speech about you hope we can have what you have, because dear god, i don't want a woman twice my age with kids the same age as me.

dragonkid, I am going to bring up a fact of life that may be difficult for you to understand.
You may need to read this several times to understand it. You are a young guy now but
if you don't die from something first you will get older (and hopefully wiser).

As you get older any woman you might happen to marry will get older at the same
time.   

If you live long enough to be Gators age ANY woman that you marry today will be
far older than Gators wife.

Let's review,
Let's say you get married in 2017 to the young woman of your dreams.
Both you and the woman you marry will both get older each and every year.
Let's further say that you manage to keep both yourself and your spouse alive
until you are Gators age. The woman you would be married to would be far older
than Gators wife is today. Did you follow all of this?

If you are too stupid to understand what Gator says in a post, you should simply
ask him. He is very patient most of the time and will very likely explain it to you
or one of the other members of the forum can explain it to you.

The question is how is it possible that you get the intent of other peoples posts
so wrong, so often?

[LiveFromUkraine]

Nice try, the reality is i told my gf at the time, i never wanted to get married, she still introduced me to her parents. She had limited english, still banged her,was her first, and i tried to get rid of her several times. Only once at the end did i try and get back with her, it worked, but she was angry, we got in an argument, and it ended pretty badly.

You're changing your story now.  She got tired of your crap and wouldn't get back together with you.  You posted this already. 


http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=20936.msg433327#msg433327

[dragonkid]

You're changing your story now.  She got tired of your crap and wouldn't get back together with you.  You posted this already. 


http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=20936.msg433327#msg433327

ask guys in chat, i sent them a message of something i said to her which was the final straw. Nice try, i know you are having problems with journey 

[LiveFromUkraine]

ask guys in chat, i sent them a message of something i said to her which was the final straw. Nice try, i know you are having problems with journey 

Nice try, but you got caught lying.  I'm not on any journey besides the the journey of life dudette.

[dragonkid]

Nice try, but you got caught lying.  I'm not on any journey besides the the journey of life dudette.

Once again a doubter has fallen

[mhr7]

 

Well they might of been wild, but for them you must of really sucked in bed, as you told us all that western women only want marriage after 35 years old like your first wife.

must've, short for 'must have' 

[LiveFromUkraine]

Once again a doubter has fallen

I posted a link to you saying she wouldn't get back together with you.  Either you are lying or you tried to get back together after you posted that post. 


That would be like, what, 7 times now that you broke up and got back together with her?  If that is true, you're a bigger asshole than I even had you pegged for. 


Which is it?  You like to string women along to fuel your ego or did you lie?

[dragonkid]

I posted a link to you saying she wouldn't get back together with you.  Either you are lying, or you tried to get back together after you posted that post. 


That would be like, what, 7 times now that you broke up and got back together with her?  If that is true, you're a bigger asshole than I even had you pegged for. 


Which is it?  You like to string women along to fuel your ego or did you lie?

I think you don't understand, you want to listen to whatever you think happened. Truth we didn't talk for around 4 weeks i think. I got back in contact with her, she said she will give me another go, but she was angry, her ego took a beating. After that i knew it was dead, and called it quits, she wasn't going to forget and move on.

[LiveFromUkraine]

I think you don't understand, you want to listen to whatever you think happened. Truth we didn't talk for around 4 weeks i think. I got back in contact with her, she said she will give me another go, but she was angry, her ego took a beating. After that i knew it was dead, and called it quits, she wasn't going to forget and move on.

Nice try again, I read what you wrote.  Everyone can read it as well.  You crossed her shit threshold and she wouldn't get back together with you.  It's all in that link. 

[dragonkid]

Nice try again, I read what you wrote.  Everyone can read it as well.  You crossed her shit threshold and she wouldn't get back together with you.  It's all in that link.

Does it say she wouldn't get back together with me? Are you sure you can read? It says threshold, threshold meaning can't move on and forget. Nice try. I think it is cute, you guys find a little hole and are trying your best to make it as big as possible.

[LiveFromUkraine]

Does it say she wouldn't get back together with me? Are you sure you can read? It says threshold, threshold meaning can't move on and forget. Nice try.

Yes, anything else you want to lie about?

[dragonkid]

Yes, anything else you want to lie about?

No it doesn't, try and find specifically where it says she didn't take me back.

[LiveFromUkraine]

No it doesn't, try and find specifically where it says she didn't take me back.

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=20617.msg426487#msg426487

She wants nothing to do with me anymore we can't settle our differences, yesterday we talked and we agreed it won't work out, now i can leave that relationship alone and focus on others. I need to keep an open mind with dating new women, at the moment i don't trust anyone. I keep thinking most women in Russia/Ukraine are liars, i have ran into married women, girls with foreign guys, i even know a girl who had a bf who was selling his flat in Ukraine so he could move to Czech with her, whilst she was sending me nudes and telling me how much she wants me.

[dragonkid]

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=20617.msg426487#msg426487

Read it again, we both agreed, we were both in contact, and it wasn't working out. I knew she couldn't get over it, and after i said something savage to her, that was the last straw. We did talk again, she said i would need to come out to see her. You lot are trying to making this really big, truth is i was a dick, and did a lot of stuff, i won't go into too much detail. In all honesty i am surprised i lasted that long. In comparison with other guys on here who take their women out to expensive dates, hire interps, shower them with gifts, with average women, and still fall flat on their face.

[LiveFromUkraine]

Read it again, we both agreed, we were both in contact, and it wasn't working out. I knew she couldn't get over it, and after i said something savage to her, that was the last straw. We did talk again, she said i would need to come out to see her. You lot are trying to making this really big, truth is i was a dick, and did a lot of stuff, i won't go into too much detail. In all honesty i am surprised i lasted that long. In comparison with other guys on here who take their women out to expensive dates, hire interps, shower them with gifts, with average women, and still fall flat on their face.

DK, reading "She wants nothing to do with me anymore we can't settle our differences" over and over again won't change the fact that she didn't want anything to do with you anymore.  I'm not sure why you think it means something different because you agreed with her.  She still doesn't want anything to do with you regardless whether you agree or disagree. 

You are obsessed with what other people are doing.  You have had no more luck in attaining a lifelong marriage as those other guys.   

Your time is better spent on fixing yourself so when you do get married you won't screw it up. 

[dragonkid]

maybe you don't understand, and i understand the math don't worry. Maths is something i am good at, like you are good at sales, and asking women when their red days are. I just pointed out his wife is not a young girl who lacks a good paying job, whatever that even means in FSU. Those young girls can get older guys not a problem, they can date a girl their age or a guy 2x,3x their age, whatever they want. For me i stopped looking at looks, what a girls income is, her family background, i simply talk to a girl and see what i feel.

I done this recently, it has been really good, i loved it, and found someone that matches me perfectly. She isn't the usual girl i would go for physically speaking, the old me would of been much more picky, but like i told her, all of her imperfections are what i like about her, physical ones that she moans about, her baby attitude, the way she needs to be told what to do. It is more than just me making her laugh, i actually enjoy talking to her because for a very long time, somebody actually makes me laugh rather than me just being the charmer. I will give you guys thanks for breaking that small hurdle, really it was beothius that made me realise that. once i just let go of all the meaningless factors, and focused on someone that i would enjoy spending time with, everything pointed to her, not the one with the biggest boob to hip ratio, facial features, just someone i liked talking to. Doesn't mean we need to get married, i can see how it goes, and have fun. One thing i think a lot of guys like myself struggled with, is that mentality that you need someone that looks like x.

[Boethius]

Good one! 

Seriously, how many young people are this defensive and so narrowly focused? 

My post was not meant as an insult to you, just that you see life differently because of your age.  I know I see life differently than I did when I was 25.

I don't find dragonkid any more defensive than most of the men posting here.  I'm not even certain he is more narrowly focused than a lot of the men posting here.  Maybe it's a male thing.

[Noch1]

O wrote many moons ago about DK
A few even said he will come around.
NOT.
He needs to grow up, still thinks he knows everything,
Gods gift to everyone and everything 

[Boethius]

And that is different from 99% of the posters here, exactly how?


I don't think his posts indicate he knows everything.  I do think his journey is different from that of most posters here.

[Gator]

My post was not meant as an insult to you, just that you see life differently because of your age.  I know I see life differently than I did when I was 25.

Your grandfather comment was not an insult.   It could be the truth, chronologically speaking as well spilt seed.   I took it in a lighthearted manner as evident in my followup post (assuming you  can locate the post I deleted).

I  don't find dragonkid any more defensive than most of the men posting here.  I'm not even certain he is more narrowly focused than a lot of the men posting here.  Maybe it's a male thing.

I don't want to explain my opinion.  I just don't want to be part of this.  Let's leave it at that.  Everybody else can have the last word.  I don't care. 

[Boethius]

OK.  Happy you didn't take it as an insult, as that was not my intention.

[dragonkid]

And that is different from 99% of the posters here, exactly how?


I don't think his posts indicate he knows everything.  I do think his journey is different from that of most posters here.

How so?