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Re: Should I even bother with agencies/sites if I am fluent in Russian?
« Reply #75 on: October 11, 2016, 10:01:22 AM »
AW are NOT feminine, not traditional, mostly disgusting fat, career-obsessed and very selfish.

Some AW are all those things however, when you get to my age almost none of them
are still single. Those who are all those things are usually very happily married to very
happy men. 

I went to the FSU because I could easily find a slim, beautiful FSUW who could easily find
Spain on a map and didn't think that kangaroos came from Austria. Back when I was
still single I did date a former two sport college scholarship athlete (basketball and
volleyball) who was many of those things but when she started displaying her passive
aggressive personality she got kicked to the curb. 

I wanted an excellent girl. I wasn't going to settle for a so-so girl. In my opinion they
were available in abundance in the FSU and just as importantly they were interested
in me.


FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Should I even bother with agencies/sites if I am fluent in Russian?
« Reply #76 on: October 11, 2016, 04:32:51 PM »
I went to the FSU because I could easily find a slim, beautiful FSUW who could easily find
Spain on a map and didn't think that kangaroos came from Austria.

What are you talking about?  Of COURSE Kangaroos come from Austria!

http://www.zoovienna.at/media/uploads/dokumente/lageplanfolder_web_032015_e.pdf

Look near the bottom right-hand corner of the last page if you don't believe me.

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Re: Should I even bother with agencies/sites if I am fluent in Russian?
« Reply #77 on: October 11, 2016, 05:31:57 PM »
didn't think that kangaroos came from Austria.

Actually kangaroos did originate in Austria.
But, they grew tired of the winters.
So they walked across the continents, down through Thailand, Malaysia and Indonesia, and then swam across to Australia.
This is in basic 8th grade classes.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

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Re: Should I even bother with agencies/sites if I am fluent in Russian?
« Reply #78 on: October 11, 2016, 05:44:52 PM »
Actually kangaroos did originate in Austria.
But, they grew tired of the winters.
So they walked across the continents, down through Thailand, Malaysia and Indonesia, and then swam across to Australia.
This is in basic 8th grade classes.

Wrong!  They didn't need to swim, because there was land all the way.  After they arrived they thought this was their promised land, so they got the wombats to dig out enough earth between themselves and Asia to stop anyone following.  :devil:

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Re: Should I even bother with agencies/sites if I am fluent in Russian?
« Reply #79 on: October 12, 2016, 01:46:51 PM »
Wrong!  They didn't need to swim, because there was land all the way.  After they arrived they thought this was their promised land, so they got the wombats to dig out enough earth between themselves and Asia to stop anyone following.  :devil:

OK, thanks for the correction.  Our teachers didn't know about that land bridge when I went to school.
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Re: Should I even bother with agencies/sites if I am fluent in Russian?
« Reply #80 on: October 13, 2016, 03:21:56 AM »
This really isn't for you.

It takes a lot of trips back and forth to meet the gals, and keep contact going.

That is one reason why many of the guys here are older, probably have 4 weeks or more of vacation each year, run their own businesses, are somewhat wealthy, are retired, etc.

I know the guys you are referring to on here who are wealthy, they found women half their age. Lets take one of the guys i know on here as an example, met a cute girl, half his age, he is physically undesirable, he isn't a older guy which is chiseled etc. That is fine, he always told me how this girl he met loved him to bits. Now what he never told me was he got this girl pregnant, and claimed to be the biological father, this is where it gets interesting,  the same guy slaughtered another user a few years back for divorcing his fsu wife, and pursuing the search again whilst the man's kids were around 10, saying that man should wait till his kids were in college. Now lets go back to the girl half his age, he was set to get married, bam he dropped her, and a few months later is using questionable sites to find a new woman, i have a feeling his previous woman he met was through questionable channels . Either this man is a hypocrite, or a liar, or something shocking happened (biological). Another man on here has a wife who told him she would go to the west to be a house wife, 6 months after arriving she changes her plans, and now wants to pursue a career, and by his own words they are having problems in the bedroom. I came across stories where women by their own words stick with their partners till they get educated, and they just walk out, letting their husbands pay the bill. Another i have no clue, he has lied so much that i can't keep up with him, all i know he has lost contact with his kids from his previous marriage. What do all three men have in common? They all think each others relationships are "great", and people should strive to find something similar.

I know guys who literally, have nothing, young guys, one is a personal friend, i go out with, good looking guy, young, he went to Philippines and met a woman, both are very much in love. I was shocked when i found out what happened. I have a close female friend in russia, her bf hasn't got a good job,no deposit on a house, nothing to his name, he is 28, she told me she will sell her flat in russia and pursue her studies in holland,pay half the rent for the apartment and has confidence that she will be able to add financial value to his life. I know another couple , same as the above, actually all the young guys that are good looking found genuine love, whilst the physically undesirable ones, found cheaper sugar babes than the ones they would in the west. this is not directed at all users on this forum, i think money is very important, do i believe the people i know will have a long lasting relationship? Maybe,but they will have a lot of problems, but they have something that the above people don't, that is partners that actually want to be with them.

I just want to add, i don't think any young man should pursue this search really, unless you probably have millions. Reason being there are plenty of great western women, you can find something that matches your income, which is better than getting a slightly hotter girl in fsu compared to west. If you have a job, or online business that allows you to live abroad, then yes, probably you should do it. I know of guys on roosh who are saving for a $500K portfolio so they can live off the dividends to live in FSU, you really don't need millions, i do think $500k if you wanted to live off dividends would be the BARE minimum. But yes, you are right, money is important, but maybe guys who are physically desirable have a better chance of finding genuine love.

I don't know all the users on here, all i know is the backstory of some, and each time i dig, i feel disgusted by the mentality these women have. It is no secret that some of the fsuw marry well off physically undesirable men, and then are on women discussion forums for fsuw, talking about how to get their prenups broken, hide their secret lovers from their husbands.  I agree with your posts, that really there isn't any difference between Western women and FSUW, Western women are just more genuine, and you get to see their true side, no bs.
« Last Edit: October 13, 2016, 02:08:27 PM by DearGod »

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Re: Should I even bother with agencies/sites if I am fluent in Russian?
« Reply #81 on: October 13, 2016, 07:38:26 AM »

I don't know all the users on here, all i know is the backstory of some, and each time i dig, i feel disgusted by the mentality these women have. It is no secret that some of the fsuw marry well off physically undesirable men, and then are on women discussion forums for fsuw, talking about how to get their prenups broken, hide their secret lovers from their husbands.  I agree with your posts, that really there isn't any difference between WM and FSUW, WM are just more genuine, and you get to see their true side, no bs.

There is a lot of "broken people" that do the inter-cultural relationships. Many more are, than aren't. Where you and I fall into that is a matter of perception. Yes, we easily could be considered broken as well. It could easily be said that we ALL have something wrong with us. There is something wrong with us as no one is perfect. Who are we to judge what is good or for the benefit of others. We're not, we can't judge what is good for others. We can only provide our perception.

The old guy with the pop belly with a FSUW half his age, you don't know his story and you don't know hers even if they told you some of it. You only know what they told you and you don't know how much truth it holds. Your estimation isn't the only estimation and how far from the truth it really is, you have no way of knowing.

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Re: Should I even bother with agencies/sites if I am fluent in Russian?
« Reply #82 on: October 13, 2016, 08:13:08 PM »
As a follow up to DG's last post . . . I should remind that my comments were mostly directed to men from USA reflecting the travel distance and related costs.

My comments might only be true to a lesser extent regarding men living in Europe . . . but overall they still have a large element of truth for those gents also.
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Re: Should I even bother with agencies/sites if I am fluent in Russian?
« Reply #83 on: October 14, 2016, 01:21:37 AM »
we easily could be considered broken as well

i have flaws definitely, some i am open with the people who i date, some i told the people here. That does not mean however that i should accept someone else's flaws, i know when i broke up with my russian ex, i was talking to my father about it. He told me if you are looking for perfection you won't ever find it, you need to accept peoples flaws, i think he was right. However the flaws i found on here regarding peoples wives is not something i would be able to deal with. I have no rush to get married, when i will be in the fsu there will be no need for me to get married, i could mingle easily, but i would like to meet someone that is not only beautiful on the outside but inside also. I am not looking to get married so that i could keep my bed warm, being single and young in fsu, that is something i could do, there has to be a reason i will want a marriage that doesn't last for a few years, but for as long as i am alive, some guys on here have a limited amount of people to select, or have time constraints hence their rash decision to settle for major flaws.

That being said, many of the women are great, but the guys are not so great. Of the 3 guys i discussed above, i would consider one actually well off, the other two are just wealthy in the eyes of fsuw. One of the guys like many on here have this mentality that sex is something a woman is obliged to do. That they provide and a woman opens her legs, this is why western women are in their eyes terrible. Western women have options, whereas the fsuw they meet do not. I know women who have good lives, for fsu they are considered very good, they can pick a man, do not need to hook up with a guy twice their age to provide, they are fortunate. I remember on here there was a discussion and guys felt that lasting 3 minutes in bed was some how acceptable because they provided money,it is a piss poor mindset imho. Guys who i know personally, have the opposite mindset, they want to do everything, not just buy a woman's affection, they strive for genuine praise from a woman.



The old guy with the pop belly with a FSUW half his age, you don't know his story and you don't know hers

I just found out the true backstory, and it was what i initially thought, i guessed rightly. I won't disclose it all, but it is pretty shocking, but not something i am surprised about knowing SOME of the people i have talked to on here.


As a follow up to DG's last post . . . I should remind that my comments were mostly directed to men from USA reflecting the travel distance and related costs.

My comments might only be true to a lesser extent regarding men living in Europe . . . but overall they still have a large element of truth for those gents also.

I will be honest, i don't think the people i know will last, they will have a lot of financial problems, but if their love is genuine then who knows. But if these guys were not European, i doubt they would of been considered in the first place.
« Last Edit: October 14, 2016, 02:55:22 AM by DearGod »

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Re: Should I even bother with agencies/sites if I am fluent in Russian?
« Reply #84 on: October 14, 2016, 06:14:13 AM »
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