Here's a challenge for you new guys!

[PeeWee]

People here seem extremely judgmental about someone they do not know. Many have already proclaimed her to be a bitch that is "more trouble than she is worth". I do not know her either, and maybe she is everything you guys are implying, but maybe she isn’t. Are we going to be negative and assume the worst or are we positive and give the benefit of the doubt? Or maybe just leave her alone given that she is not here to defend herself!

Perhaps the one value that this thread offers is that it demonstrates how we, as humans, do tend to judge the book by its cover. For those that do find a lady via the MOB Internet process the weeding process occurs with just the bias that we now see noted here. All that is offered to us is a photo of a woman and a few words about her. From that we are to draw a conclusion to either email to her or not. These thoughts that we now see here are just the thoughts that go unsaid hundreds of times each and every day as men all over the world make their decisions to contact or to not contact any of the likeness that they veiw displayed in the online catalogs. If some does choose to contact her she will use the same process and bias in deciding to respond in kind.

Peewee

[Jet]

This has generated some interesting dialogue 

My personal take is that she's trying in a cute way to warn you that she is "high maintenence" and likes to be spoiled. To be honest I was more intrigued by the words than the pictures. And although I don't usually care for blondes, I did think she was quite attractive.

Bruno,
By jumping to conclusions and pointing fingers at me for not including every possible shred of information, you show that although you can read English (and maybe Russian), you still don't always grasp context and nuance. In the simplest of deductive observation, we know she posted on FLIRT.ua, trust me dude, she ain't lookin' for a penpal, and she's most probably not in the market for a husband either. One of the great advantages of dating locally, is that you have the opportunity to start out making friends, and take all the time you want to let it develop into something more serious.

As to jb's question:
It would actually suprise me to find out she took the "mule train" to the US. There is a massive russian population in the North Miami Beach area, and most did not get here via K visas. There are actually pockets up and down Collins Ave (A1A) where you hear more Russian than Spanish spoken in the shops and on the street. Most are here via migration through Isreal or on extended HB-1s and these very often display wealth synonomous with the "New Russians" back home. They generally live in the penthouses along the beach from Sunny Isles to South Beach. So my guess is she's a rich brat looking for kicks.

For all the lively discussion, Bruno is the only one who I sent the link to the original profile - nobody else even asked 

In conclusion, I find it hilarious that nobody wanted to know why I was cruising a dating site while the wife was out of town  I assure you, it was strictly business!  :angel:

[BillyB]

In conclusion, I find it hilarious that nobody wanted to know why I was cruising a dating site while the wife was out of town  I assure you, it was strictly business!  :angel:

Oh I thought of it! I was thinking I would need a few hundred dollars to keep my mouth shut. You're a great guy Jet but this is strictly business.

[PeeWee]

This has generated some interesting dialogue 



In conclusion, I find it hilarious that nobody wanted to know why I was cruising a dating site while the wife was out of town  I assure you, it was strictly business!  :angel:

Monkey business?

Peewee

[PeeWee]

Hey! I visited flirt.ua. I did not find the profiles of the women but I did find a lawyer and some information on domain names. Since I have a large portfolio of domain names, ones that I own, I found that interesting. Now I need to go back there and see if I can find the profiles.

Peewee

[Bruno]

Bruno,
By jumping to conclusions and pointing fingers at me for not including every possible shred of information, you show that although you can read English (and maybe Russian), you still don't always grasp context and nuance. In the simplest of deductive observation, we know she posted on FLIRT.ua, trust me dude, she ain't lookin' for a penpal, and she's most probably not in the market for a husband either. One of the great advantages of dating locally, is that you have the opportunity to start out making friends, and take all the time you want to let it develop into something more serious.
...
For all the lively discussion, Bruno is the only one who I sent the link to the original profile - nobody else even asked 

Not specially pointing fingers at you but more at people who directly make conclusion without know the reality... And it is my wish to know more who have lead me to ask you the URL... that you have give me... I only believe what i see, these long year in the dating process and business have make me very suspicious... suspicious about thing who seem to much good to be true and suspicious to these who say danger based on almost nothing.

About flirt.com.ua , i see it like meetic ... you find from everything : women who search friend or lovers or husband... some similar site have a few hooker too! When women or men fill the form of so site, they need to select the type of relation desired... and in these case, she have not choice the option marriage...

[Bruno]

Hey! I visited flirt.ua. I did not find the profiles of the women but I did find a lawyer and some information on domain names. Since I have a large portfolio of domain names, ones that I own, I found that interesting. Now I need to go back there and see if I can find the profiles.

Peewee

Since the link send by Jet was via PM, i cannot post it there... but i can give you a other link not given to me by Jet... same women, same advert :

http://www.lover.in.ua/anketa.phtml?oid=73293757

[wiz]

I am not sure why some here are trying to downplay her looks so much; she IS an attractive woman, it is a fact, accept it. If you disagree you are either blind or a liar.

Seriously; this is not debatable or a matter or “personal taste” or “my type” – she is, as a matter of fact, an attractive person. You can try to coddle your ego by saying her face is too square or she is too blonde (wtf?), but you just show your own insecurities because you know she is out of your league and you need to tell yourself that you would reject her to feel better about yourselves.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder!

Statements like those in the first paragraph of your post is a lot of rubbish.

You then go on the second paragraph telling us that if we do not agree with your view and taste that we are showing our own insecurities. Bullshit!

[BradSTL]

My personal take is that she's trying in a cute way to warn you that she is "high maintenence" and likes to be spoiled. . . So my guess is she's a rich brat looking for kicks.

Exactly!   Spot on, jet.  She's just looking to shake up her social life a little, and tried to be clever in her profile.

In conclusion, I find it hilarious that nobody wanted to know why I was cruising a dating site while the wife was out of town  I assure you, it was strictly business!  :angel:

Was afraid to ask, y'know?     And, at this point, your lovely calls home HOW FREQUENTLY? 

[Turboguy]

Ok, Jet,  I will bite.  Why were you cruising a singles site while your wife was gone and why is it "strictly business"   I have a feeling something new is in the wind.  I am sure we would all like to hear about it.

As far as the gal in question.  I think most men would find her attractive perhaps beautiful in a way.  I think every one has their ideas of beauty and she in not the type that I would go looking for but I do think her looks would not turn off most men.

As far as if she was trying to be cute or if it was a warning or a round about way of stating her needs, I think we will never know.  I can see some benefit to an exercise in trying to figure out her psyche but in reality whoever has the right or wrong guess, it can not be more than a guess so there are no right or wrong answers.

[beattledog]

Who cares if she speaks English?  Her body does the speaking for her.

beattledog