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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #200 on: January 06, 2019, 09:38:01 AM »
Whos the player now?

I think we can safely assume James is making full use of the facilities before hitting the escape button.

Look, JG

One can only guess why you are offering constant  'constructive criticism' given your inabilities to communicate with FSU W you know ( very well )  ...

Give it a rest .. there's a good chap

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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #201 on: January 06, 2019, 09:41:05 AM »
Because it seems like a good way to spend the week

Does she know you have no intention of bringing her to the U.K.?

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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #202 on: January 06, 2019, 09:44:00 AM »
Look, JG

One can only guess why you are offering constant  'constructive criticism' given our inabilities to communicate with FSU W you know ...
Eh? What language is this?
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I thought you were ignoring me but here you are...again.
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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #203 on: January 06, 2019, 09:45:06 AM »
Of course I'm not going to be her visa mule.  Shows the importance of a visit to her home turf

???

I thought you were in bliss at her home turf.  Until snooping chat log on the unlocked phone, which could have happened in Cyprus or where-ever you vacationed.

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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #204 on: January 06, 2019, 09:52:20 AM »
Boethius  you like your snap judgements.  I prefer to think things through.  As you suspected g f reaction was I quote what shall I tell him if we are married I will tell him and not contact him again.  Versus original story I had a long relationship that ended summer 2018.

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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #205 on: January 06, 2019, 10:06:40 AM »
What is there to think through? 

1. She is being supported, financially, by another man.
2. She sought another relationship while still continuing to be financially supported by that man. Presumably, in her heart filled communications with him, she hasnt told him about you.
3. When she learns you discovered her ruse, she uses alternate excuses until one that lands with you works.
4. You stay on, despite proclaiming you have no intention of marrying her, something I suspect you havent told her.

I dont have a penis (though I do have very liberal access to one), and therefore, think clearly with one head. But I am not known for snap judgments.

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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #206 on: January 06, 2019, 10:11:39 AM »
Boethius  you like your snap judgements.  I prefer to think things through.  As you suspected g f reaction was I quote what shall I tell him if we are married I will tell him and not contact him again.  Versus original story I had a long relationship that ended summer 2018.

James,

I find Boethius is annoyingly analytical and normally correct...

The reason you are getting such 'trolling comments' from certain members is that you ain't doing yourself any favours with statements that clearly conflict with your actions ((

I appreciate you didn't have all the data - but if you think things through - you may have fallen for this gal - hard - only for her situation to not have been all you thought it was ..

Mate, having sex with a beautiful lady that you'll never see again leaves most folks sadder than ever ...  it will 'DO your head in' ..well it would mine )))

IF she's going to come to the UK you'll have to feel it's to be with you as the main motive - not to use you to jump a hurdle

You clearly go 'boom in the sack'  so try to work through the trust issues .. Who cares what others think? 

From what you posted before this lady had you doing back-flips and you wanted the world to know ... nothing wrong with that

Apart form certain members on here - dating is the easy part ..... sharing time together in day to day life .... THAT's the hard part   

You've just got to decide if you trust her

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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #207 on: January 06, 2019, 10:23:26 AM »
What is there to think through? 

1. She is being supported, financially, by another man.
2. She sought another relationship while still continuing to be financially supported by that man. Presumably, in her heart filled communications with him, she hasnt told him about you.
3. When she learns you discovered her ruse, she uses alternate excuses until one that lands with you works.
4. You stay on, despite proclaiming you have no intention of marrying her, something I suspect you havent told her.

I dont have a penis (though I do have very liberal access to one), and therefore, think clearly with one head. But I am not known for snap judgments.

This post was composed without the aid of google.


Couldn't have put it any better, and I do (arguably) have a penis.

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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #208 on: January 06, 2019, 10:29:44 AM »
James,

I find Boethius is annoyingly analytical and normally correct...

The reason you are getting such 'trolling comments' from certain members is that you ain't doing yourself any favours with statements that clearly conflict with your actions ((


Most people are trying to give him constructive advice and not 'trolling' anyone, whether or not you agree with the perspective of others or not. He's a big boy and he can live his life as he pleases. Personally I wouldn't stay in this situation but this has quickly turned into a car crash of James' own doing, lacking in respect for both himself and his other half for different reasons.


I don't mind your comments in other threads but other board members might say that people in glass houses...

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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #209 on: January 06, 2019, 10:40:41 AM »

Most people are trying to give him constructive advice and not 'trolling' anyone, whether or not you agree with the perspective of others or not. He's a big boy and he can live his life as he pleases. Personally I wouldn't stay in this situation but this has quickly turned into a car crash of James' own doing, lacking in respect for both himself and his other half for different reasons.


I don't mind your comments in other threads but other board members might say that people in glass houses...

Did you feel my post was 'aimed' at you ? ;)


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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #210 on: January 06, 2019, 10:45:23 AM »
Did you feel my post was 'aimed' at you ? ;)


Possibly, probably, couldn't care either way. The argument remains the same, irrespective of whether you feel some have been hard on him because he's getting his leg over.

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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #211 on: January 06, 2019, 10:49:48 AM »

Most people are trying to give him constructive advice and not 'trolling' anyone, whether or not you agree with the perspective of others or not. He's a big boy and he can live his life as he pleases. Personally I wouldn't stay in this situation but this has quickly turned into a car crash of James' own doing, lacking in respect for both himself and his other half for different reasons.


I don't mind your comments in other threads but other board members might say that people in glass houses...
Lyndontom, the member you are responding to, you may well know is well known across various fora for his trolling. Every thread you can think of is littered with his argumentative junk. He has been banned, moderated, banned again, is still on moderation at another place.
Yet he still thinks hes Da Man.
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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #212 on: January 06, 2019, 10:56:26 AM »
. . . he's getting his leg over.

What's this 'leg over?'
If both his legs are over, quite a difficult position.

How about leg(s) under and leg(s) between ?
Winston Churchill.  The best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter.

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Re: Ever had a chance to look through her unlocked phone
« Reply #213 on: January 06, 2019, 12:02:24 PM »
Cyprus egypt first time in ukraine I was put through the entire karma sutra 3 times a day .  This time cobwebs are collecting.  On a brighter note g f cooked a 12 dish feast today .  Gf and son have gone to collect granny and off to church.  I was told not to come because church will be too crowded.

 

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