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Age Difference
« on: August 12, 2019, 07:34:04 AM »
Greeting all,

I hope this finds you guys well. I'm back after a hiatus from this endeavor. I was just dating some women locally, nothing serious just having fun. I have been talking with a few women for a little now and we are at that point of either I need to visit or walk away. One of them is a lot younger than me. My question to the group is does anyone have experience dating someone that's 15 years younger over a long period of time? If so what were some of the challenges? I've never perused or excepted advances from a woman that was 10 younger than me in the past. I've always felt it was too much of an age difference and that we would not be compatible in the long run.

I little back story, She got a notification that I viewed her profile and she sent me a message saying hi. I let her know that I was not in her age demographic, that she posted on her page. She responded saying ohh.. you're not but I don't mind because you look very good looking. We get along very well and talk very day.  I do have some trepidation though and have raised these concerns with her. But she wants to meet and see if we have chemistry.

I'm 44 and she is 29.
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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #1 on: August 12, 2019, 08:00:34 AM »
I have dated women who are fifteen years younger than me.   After a certain period of time in a woman's life, she is very interested in having children and stability.   However,  I am curious to know what type of method you used to 'meet' this woman.   Please elaborate.
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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #2 on: August 12, 2019, 08:20:17 AM »

My question to the group is does anyone have experience dating
someone that's 15 years younger over a long period of time?

If so what were some of the challenges? I've never perused or
excepted advances from a woman that was 10 younger than me
in the past. I've always felt it was too much of an age difference
and that we would not be compatible in the long run.

But she wants to meet and see if we have chemistry.

I'm 44 and she is 29.

My advice is to get on a plane and see for yourself. There is a good
chance that she will want a child or another child.

Angel Eyes is 13 years younger than myself. We don't really have
any age difference related problems or arguments.

 

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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #3 on: August 12, 2019, 09:08:12 AM »
I have dated women who are fifteen years younger than me.   After a certain period of time in a woman's life, she is very interested in having children and stability.   However,  I am curious to know what type of method you used to 'meet' this woman.   Please elaborate.

She does want kids, which I'm fine with having. I met her through dmnotify website.

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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #4 on: August 12, 2019, 09:15:16 AM »
My advice is to get on a plane and see for yourself.

 I think this will be a smart choice. Either we will have chemistry or not, and until I get my feet on the ground it's a guessing game.

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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #5 on: August 12, 2019, 06:29:57 PM »
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=5714.msg102178#msg102178
Ken C was one of the RWD pioneers. His thread above was one of the extensive ones.
Now I believe he had broken up with his Russian wife and re-married with an Asian lady.
Try the search format for other threads....
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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #6 on: August 12, 2019, 08:41:42 PM »
Well if you go by the age of the girls I was marrying before and after my wife. But let's just consider the ones since my wife which were 18/21 24 + 30.  I am. sixty and my stepmother is 2 years older and married to my dad for over 30 years.
age difference is 27 years.  I asked my dad if having sex what some of the strenuousif not dangerous ,  he said " Wel if she dies she dies!"  Lol
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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #7 on: August 12, 2019, 11:19:39 PM »
Well if you go by the age of the girls I was marrying before and after my wife. But let's just consider the ones since my wife which were 18/21 24 + 30.  I am. sixty and my stepmother is 2 years older and married to my dad for over 30 years.
age difference is 27 years.  I asked my dad if having sex what some of the strenuousif not dangerous ,  he said " Wel if she dies she dies!"  Lol

Reminds me of this joke that my uncle used to tell:

This rich old guy marries an Anna Nicole Smith type.   You get the imagery.   She thinks to herself that all she has to do is show up on her wedding night and he'll keel over from all of the excitement and she winds up with all of his money.

On the wedding night she carefully arranges herself to give maximum visual and sensual impact.  A couple of minutes later, he walks in, stark naked, with the exception of a rubber, ear plugs and a nose plug.

She looks at him and blurts out, 'what would cause you to wear ear plugs and a nose plug on our wedding night.   He says, 'My Dear:   I can't stand the smell of burning rubber or the sound of a woman screaming.'
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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #8 on: August 13, 2019, 06:52:19 AM »
.... my stepmother is 2 years older and married to my dad for over 30 years.
age difference is 27 years.  I asked my dad if having sex what some of the strenuousif not dangerous ,  he said " Wel if she dies she dies!"  Lol

 :ROFL:

Your Dad reminds me of Ronald Reagan. 


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been inactive for years. 

I checked your posts and see that you have bounced in and out since June.  Splendid that CaptB and you have been in touch. 

 
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  Well if you go by the age of the girls I was marrying before and after my wife. But let's just consider the ones since my wife which were 18/21 24 + 30.   

I am confused.  Three wives?!   No, four.....?   Maybe these are not your wives, but the wives of men who used your agency? 



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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #9 on: August 14, 2019, 07:35:36 AM »
Greeting all,

I hope this finds you guys well. I'm back after a hiatus from this endeavor. I was just dating some women locally, nothing serious just having fun. I have been talking with a few women for a little now and we are at that point of either I need to visit or walk away. One of them is a lot younger than me. My question to the group is does anyone have experience dating someone that's 15 years younger over a long period of time? If so what were some of the challenges? I've never perused or excepted advances from a woman that was 10 younger than me in the past. I've always felt it was too much of an age difference and that we would not be compatible in the long run.

I little back story, She got a notification that I viewed her profile and she sent me a message saying hi. I let her know that I was not in her age demographic, that she posted on her page. She responded saying ohh.. you're not but I don't mind because you look very good looking. We get along very well and talk very day.  I do have some trepidation though and have raised these concerns with her. But she wants to meet and see if we have chemistry.

I'm 44 and she is 29.

I'm married now but when I was 39 I met two Kyiv area girls ~17yrs old and blew them off thinking it can't work.  Still in touch and we chat every now an then, they both would have been fine.  The one I married is great (9yrs under) but I feel like she is socially older than me, I want to hit the clubs and she wants romantic evenings at home.

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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #10 on: August 14, 2019, 08:15:18 AM »
Greeting all,

I hope this finds you guys well. I'm back after a hiatus from this endeavor.

Dell, didn't you marry Tootsie who used to participate on these discussion boards ?
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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #11 on: August 14, 2019, 11:16:27 AM »
I'm married now but when I was 39 I met two Kyiv area girls ~17yrs old and blew them off thinking it can't work.  Still in touch and we chat every now an then, they both would have been fine.  The one I married is great (9yrs under) but I feel like she is socially older than me, I want to hit the clubs and she wants romantic evenings at home.

Hmm, sorry...

but what right -minded parent would be happy / agree to a union with a 39 year old guy ? ..

FAR too young 


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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #12 on: August 14, 2019, 02:02:17 PM »
Witchdoctor,


I sent you a PM.


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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #13 on: August 14, 2019, 06:33:12 PM »
dell

get on a plane  ;)

at this  time in your life [44] the 15 years age gap  liky wont make a big difference , at 29 she may well be very mature and can settle into a solid relationship , and children  are  a bond between you especially when you both desire them

you wont know if you dont go  ;) and she seems to be ok so far with investigating the possibility of more

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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #14 on: August 14, 2019, 11:27:46 PM »
Thanks for the replies everyone it's greatly appreciated!


Dell, didn't you marry Tootsie who used to participate on these discussion boards ?

That's not me.

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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #15 on: August 14, 2019, 11:31:01 PM »
dell

get on a plane  ;)

at this  time in your life [44] the 15 years age gap  liky wont make a big difference , at 29 she may well be very mature and can settle into a solid relationship , and children  are  a bond between you especially when you both desire them

you wont know if you dont go  ;) and she seems to be ok so far with investigating the possibility of more

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She seems more mature than me in some aspects. 😂 We have made arrangements to meet. I will keep you guys posted to how the meeting goes.

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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #16 on: August 15, 2019, 07:14:33 AM »
Dell, didn't you marry Tootsie who used to participate on these discussion boards ?
Strange..I remember Tootsie but in a member search, there are no posts listed.

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Re: Age Difference
« Reply #17 on: August 19, 2019, 07:35:39 AM »
Hey everyone, both those who are oldtimers (and I mean REAL old timers) and Newbies.  I see things both haven't changed and changed a lot!  I kind of think Eastern European countries opening their borders has made it easy, to easy, and more complicated. More scammers, and not just Boris and Yuri but REAL women whose occupation is fleecing Westerners.  Made it easier on the tours too since without having to get a visa, someone from England could pay 47 dollars for a cheap flight to Kiev and attend a social that night. (it costs 4 or 500 dollars to just attend the social, so you do not have to sign up for a full tour etc.  Kiev is the hottest sex tourist destination currently due to the above and continued poor economy.  There were sharks in the water 15 years ago ,but now it is feeding frenzy and Westerners are the harpooned whale!
With all the changes however the same rules still apply and it is not age difference...didn't we have a list like the ten commandments of searching for a foreign bride?  Lets dredge up the standard commandments because the men searching today need it even more...not that they will listen BUT?
I have beenv contributing to another board called Ukrainefusion.com ; I saw it on youtube and couldn't resist.  May have some agency trolls but no one on the board is even close to marrying!  Not one of them has gone anywhere but Ukraine.  I have tried to give advice but am kind of a lone voice in the wilderness.  It is run by a guy with the nom de plume of Styker from New Zealand..he has not succeeded either and he is on youtube under "I'm with Cupid".  I have no association with them and in fact have never been to Ukraine, can legitimately extrapolate.
Worth a look , if for no other reason than laughs and shaking your head in confusion.  I think I am the only one who has travelled the road! If I were in the market I don't think it would be in Ukraine, but with experience I could probably navigate the mine field.
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