"Kickem to the curb" is the most compassionate policy

[2tallbill]

I have often said that if a girl doesn't have "it",
if she's not the "one" then the nicest, wisest and
most compassionate thing is that you dump her immediately.

That way the girl can get over it sooner and the sooner she
and you will be able to find a mate who is a good fit. There
is no positive purpose of dragging it out. Dump them, kick
them to the curb, end it don't mend it. 


There are professionals who agrees with me, but they can't
say so without writing a few hundred words. 

Ah, The Marvels Of Modern Mating
When rejection is the kindest thing a person can do
http://www.jewishworldreview.com/0220/dating_rejection.php3


9 Subtle Signs You’re Avoiding An Inevitable Breakup
http://www.bustle.com/p/9-subtle-signs-youre-avoiding-inevitable-breakup-73050


Stop Delaying Your Inevitable Breakup
http://www.nicknotas.com/blog/stop-delaying-your-inevitable-breakup/

[2tallbill]

If you want to seek, find, seduce, and win the heart
of a FSUW you have to be able to make a decision.

I see some people who put off making a decision between
Sally and Betty and as a result get neither Sally nor Betty.
Sally was interested and Betty was interested but they quickly
become NOT interested because they dallied.

ESPECIALLY if you decide to visit many then you need to be able
to decide which girl is better. MANY men just pick the hottest one
which is often a mistake.

There are several things which make it difficult to pick one girl over
another. I've listed several of them below and will try to write
something about each one.

Please feel free to pick any one of these bolded comments and give
your opinions/theories about it. Did I miss something? Please feel
free to comment on that as well.

Uncertainty: Obviously you've only met this girl for a short time
and there are a million unknowns. It would take years to know
all about a girl or group of girls yet you don't have that much
time. You have to commit to pursue one girl over the others
or she will make the decision for you. 

Complexity: Choosing a mate has one million variables.
There are many, many, many interrelated factors to consider.
   
High-risk consequences: Making a bad decision can
cause significantgrief, angst, time and resources and lost
opportunity.

There are literally millions of alternatives: Boy, meet
candy shop. You can't sample every one of the options out
there.