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« Reply #250 on: May 23, 2005, 06:46:29 AM »
I wonder  how long  does one man need to go without getting laid before  he would start seeing something "deep" behind a piece of pretty a..s? :cool:  Anyone of you ever thought of anything "deep" behind the pictures in  "Playboy"? 

 

Dont be sorry, JB. If you post PROVOCATIVE pictures, do not complain that they PROVOKE!!! You can not post a picture where you look like a cheap hooker and complain  that nobody wants to see your pure soul behind it. Which leads to another conclusion - a woman who does something like this is (to put it mildly) not very smart.
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« Reply #251 on: May 23, 2005, 06:54:22 AM »
Donna,

You are quite right, remember, I didn't post those pictures.

I never said she was smart, I just said nothing leads me to believe she's a scammer.  She is, by any strech, desperate.  She's also very young.  But I wouldn't hold that against her.

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« Reply #252 on: May 23, 2005, 09:50:44 AM »
Look she might be a dear woman but what chance does a marriage have with such a huge age difference? I mean like a 33 - 34 years age difference with Snowball? Imagine them 10 years from now. Her at 33 and Snowball at 67. Can Snowball keep up with her? He will have to watch her young  friends (especially if they are Russian) constantly. She is going to have a target placed on her by every young buck who sees her. Will she hide her beauty and look like an Amish woman once she gets here? I somehow doubt it.

The provocative photos, the provocative name 'Sensuality' and the choice of the word "gold" in her e-mail account name. So many men here and elsewhere worry about gold diggers so why put the word "gold" into an e-mail account name? She seems to be a risk taker.

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« Reply #253 on: May 23, 2005, 10:16:02 AM »
Maxx,

I doubt if she knows the significance of the word "gold", in this context.

And if snow ball's going after her bothers you, at his age, you are younger, go after her yourself.

In other words, squat, or get off the pot, continuing to crucify this young lady serves no purpose.

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« Reply #254 on: May 23, 2005, 10:43:36 AM »
jb, I am currently pursuing a RW in her 40's. I thought you would approve and say this is good common sense. Yes there is "only" a 29 year age difference between Me and Marina "M&M" but I know what happened when I was with the last one with half the age difference. Never again.

As far as the use of the word "gold" perhaps Howard's (remember him?) right when he said she may be advertising that she is a natural blonde. He had more to say about that but I will leave it at that...

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« Reply #255 on: May 23, 2005, 11:58:42 AM »
My god... what a topic... perfect scenario for a film... and a long one...

Maybe she don't really wish marry a western man but make some study about the psychologie of men...

Now, we have a stoomball ready to make all for her... but she don't show real interest in him for marriage... and she is always searching men...

When i read all this, i think that my own nightware are nothing compare to this...

Thank guys... these topic have help me to have again a good moral... now, i know that my situation is not the more bad who can exist... i have again some hope...

Be carefull snowball, more high you flight, more hard is the fall...

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« Reply #256 on: May 23, 2005, 12:36:16 PM »
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 i have again some hope...


 

Bruno, you always should have hope....Congratulations:D
When in doubt, run!!!!!!!

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« Reply #257 on: May 23, 2005, 12:45:14 PM »
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Be carefull snowball, more high you flight, more hard is the fall...
This is so true. It is agony when a marriage to a beautiful young Russian woman fails. The man suddenly feels like an old fool to his friends, family and co-workers. He feels every bit his age and then some. He looks around and sees other women the same as age as his missing wife and these women are with young men their own age.  Then the realization hits him that he will not find another woman like her here. "If only I had made a more appropiate choice I wouldn't be alone right now...." are in his thoughts. He looks back at all the money spent on clothes and jewelry and wonders if she is wearing these for other men. He wonders who she is with now. He looks back with new awareness no longer blinded by love and recognises all the Red flags, the trips to see family that were probably to entertain other men etc. He wonders how he could have been so blind. The worst for him is the the realization of all the lost time usually at least a few years. He wonders if that was his last chance. All of this puts him into a world of pain and loneliness that can't be described.

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« Reply #258 on: May 23, 2005, 01:30:23 PM »
Maxx,

I think these kinds of feelings are common in all relationships.  These feelings make one feel very sick.  That is why one needs to use due diligence in finding a woman of good character, as well as being of good character oneself.  Sometimes, things just happen to good people and the bad things cannot be seen coming.  What ever the case, that is why I think it is prudent to stay clear of the questionable situations and take lots of time to know someone.  That isn't always enough but seems to help some.

 

Bruno,

We all learn from our difficulties in life.  If we are wise, we will use these hard times to make us better persons.  Don't ever give up hope for love in your life.  You seem to be a good person:) 
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« Reply #259 on: May 23, 2005, 01:44:42 PM »
Well I guess it is time to get back on track with you guys.

I have been back for 3 weeks, so what is up here any way?

Bruno I see that you are going forward very good

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« Reply #260 on: May 23, 2005, 02:28:38 PM »
Bruno, I didn't realize you had a crash. Hang in there as the best is coming to you. 

Frank, those feelings are more acute in these situations because ordinary older guys who desire a fresh start with their lives with a fresh younger women can accomplish this by going to the FSU for a wife. That can't be accomplished here in normal circumstances. You make some real good points.
 
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« Reply #261 on: May 23, 2005, 08:15:04 PM »
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jb, I am currently pursuing a RW in her 40's. I thought you would approve and say this is good common sense. Yes there is "only" a 29 year age difference between Me and Marina "M&M" but I know what happened when I was with the last one with half the age difference. Never again.
 

If things don't work out, and I need to look elsewhere, I would date women in their 40's. Women of that age group were beautiful, in the city of Kyiv. Is that also true elsewhere in the FSU?    Doug

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« Reply #262 on: May 23, 2005, 08:21:57 PM »
Doug, my wife is mid/late 40's, and there isn't a more beautiful woman in the world.  I thought the babushka factor would kick in years ago, but it hasn't.  She's still the lovely girl I met years ago.

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« Reply #263 on: May 23, 2005, 10:02:11 PM »
i've seen her pic and have to agree.

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« Reply #264 on: May 23, 2005, 10:38:52 PM »
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i've seen her pic and have to agree.

 

I have also and I also agree.

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« Reply #265 on: May 24, 2005, 04:09:28 AM »
Thanks guys, but I didn't send the nude photos....:cool:

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« Reply #266 on: May 24, 2005, 04:14:43 AM »
holding out on us as usual...:?

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« Reply #267 on: May 24, 2005, 06:02:06 AM »
Robert,

I just sent a semi-nude photo of my wife.  Enjoy...

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« Reply #268 on: May 24, 2005, 06:11:27 AM »
Now before everyone goes nuts and thinks I'm a really bad man, it's a photo of her when she was about 4 years old, summertime at the dacha, clad only in shorts, standing with her little buddy, also semi-nude.

I forgot, there are some here who don't have a sense of humor.

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« Reply #269 on: May 24, 2005, 06:52:26 AM »
Warning!!!!!

It is advisable to proceed cautiously when responding to the above post. Do so at your own risk!

Note to M&M: This is the kind of ' humor' that usually gets me in allot of trouble

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« Reply #270 on: May 24, 2005, 07:09:21 AM »
lol..this is getting funny..nice pic jb, i see nothing "wrong" with it although john ashcrofts bent mind might ;-) she's topless!

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« Reply #271 on: May 24, 2005, 07:15:32 AM »
I would say, if you don't have baby photos of your mate, you still don't have a real relationship.

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« Reply #272 on: May 24, 2005, 09:24:43 AM »
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Warning!!!!!

It is advisable to proceed cautiously when responding to the above post. Do so at your own risk!

Note to M&M: This is the kind of ' humor' that usually gets me in allot of trouble

Maxx :cool:

 
Maxx,

I am not completely humorless - I love laughing at other people! :D

Those who take themselves too seriously get offended quickly. I don't. Doesn't matter what people might think about me - I am the one who knows the truth! What is the point of trying to prove it to everybody else? I've got a life to live! :D

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« Reply #273 on: May 24, 2005, 10:39:41 AM »
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I am not completely humorless - I love laughing at other people! :D

priceless.....

 

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« Reply #274 on: May 24, 2005, 10:41:17 AM »
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Doesn't matter what people might think about me - I am the one who knows the truth! What is the point of trying to prove it to everybody else? I've got a life to live

i might tape this to my refrigerator

 

 

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