Stupid arguments I've gotten into with Russian women

[cameraguymn]

1. I was trying to pay this woman a compliment and said she looked like Natali Portman. She said she hated being compared to anyone and that I was belittling her by doing that. Thinking to myself: Natalie Portman, universally, one of the most beautiful and talented actresses. Offended. Okay.
2. Talking to a Russian in Istanbul but I only had time to see her while on a trip to Thailand and told her I could get her a ticket to Thailand to which she got angry and said, "You did not ask me what I want!" She worked remote and she said she wanted to see me - I figured since I was Thailand we could see each other. My fault.
3. I suggested this woman could be more positive and say things differently so we both don't get in a bad mood. She told me I don't have the right to change her. #3 is the same as #1. She was pretty but there is a reason why she only gets along with cats and not humans.

I'd love to hear other silly stories. I have more and will try to remember some more deep disagreements hahaha.

[Boethius]

No offence, but you sound pretty moronic for each of those comments. It’s not surprising to me that you pursue twentysomething aged women.

#3 was more about presentation. She’s right though, that you shouldn’t try to change her, and vice versa.

[krimster2]

russian/ukrainian women, by their nature, are very emotional and unruly creatures (and this is something you THINK you understand, but in reality you DON'T! It's MUCH WORSE than you think it is!)
and life with them, is as Richard Burton said of Elizabeth Taylor, "like living on the edge of a volcano"

as a consequence, russian women all need to be "tamed" just like any other animal species you wish to domesticate
you want a dawg and not a wolf, n'est pas? a pussycat and not a roaring tiger!!
you can't just go and "ride" a wild horse, it HAS to be tamed

why do you think it would be ANY different with a woman?
especially a barely civilized (by your cultural standards) RUSSIAN or UKRAINIAN woman, and if you think THEY are "wild and crazy", try an Uzbek and see REAL wild and crazy!!!,
but learn to sleep with one eye open, or just paint your eyelids that way  to confuse her into thinking they're open

OK, listen up...
you never REACT at all to a russian woman's misbehavior, you simply ignore it!

but you only reward her for consistant  positive behavior and never use it as a 'bribe' to end negative behavior, or "guess what"? THAT'S RIGHT!!! MORE NEGATIVE BEHAVIOR!!
do it the smart way, and over time, the positive behavior inreases, and the negative decreases
use her brain's reward center to steer her in the direction you want

YOU need to control YOURSELF as much as her...
discipline yourself to NOT get angry at her outbursts, which only magnifies them

by not responding to her mood swings, you eliminate fighting completely, and when she ends up being the only one angry and upset, it won't last as long as arguing about it would
then, give her some kinda simple 'treat' as a distraction
in the case of wife, girlfriend, giving a bi-polar russian woman head
is a sure-fire way to get an agreeable vrs disagreeable woman
literally, the most effective therapy, beats shopping
you want to give them "a release'
and you want to look her in the face, up close, eye-to-eye when she comes
do this, and she'll give ya a kidney, if ya ever need a transplant
slovo!


I've raised a russian wife and two russian daughters
and have a large Russian social network filled with young women (coincidence, I swear)
as a result of DECADES of EXPERIENCE (something you young whipper snappers can only dream of)
I am without peer when it comes to managing Russian women (I'm WAY better at it than ANY Russian men as well, it's how I seduced their daughters, (touches finger to lips)!)

I ALWAYS end up with them "eating out of my hand" like they're my pet
I was in my youth, a Russian woman whisperer
and could pretty much sleep with any Russian woman I wanted to
but now, I kinda like gardening more...
I know, sad, right?
in the end, even the Marquis DeSade preferred solitude
ironic, non?


In Conclusion
I learned through years of experience not to have these kinda problems with Russian women
by ignoring it and manipulating their emotions with positive things
and I learned how to control my own emotions to not respond to someone else's bi-polarism
and now I'm sharing it with you young whipper snappers, cuz I feel sorry for ya'll

so that's how "I rolled" with Russian women
but you younger, less experienced fellers, YOUR mileage may vary depending on how observant and disciplined you are

chasing pooty tang in Ukraine is NOT a cheap hobby
this factor will eliminate 90% of would be players

of the remaining few, 1% of the players will get 90% of the total pooty tang given to foreigners in Ukraine
and most will return home with a sad face that looks kinda like this

c'est la vie

I reckon it was like that with the 49ers lookin for gold
only a few struck it rich, some didn't get a thing and so they gave up and quit

does it come down to luck, or something else?
how does fortune choose who to shine upon and who not?

or maybe fortune favors geologists

[cameraguymn]

no offense but you don't have a good sense of humor dude. 

actually the 20something women are not as loopy as the 30 year olds.

No offence, but you sound pretty moronic for each of those comments. It’s not surprising to me that you pursue twentysomething aged women.

#3 was more about presentation. She’s right though, that you shouldn’t try to change her, and vice versa.

[Boethius]

no offense but you don't have a good sense of humor dude. 

I find nothing amusing in denigrating women, however trivially.

actually the 20something women are not as loopy as the 30 year olds.

You missed my point (or observation).

[krimster2]

In case you ain't firgued it out yet...
Boethius ain't a dewd, but a ukrainian/canadian zhenshchina
so...
all that stuff about ill-humoured ukrainian women
guess who that applies to...

ummm hmmmm

this is why you young-uns need us geezers
cuz ya'll are "too green" to be left on your own for very long, without getting yourself into trouble

BO, he's just a boy...

but I, OTOH.....

[cameraguymn]

I rest my case. 

[krimster2]

haha, in Soviet Russia, case (ar)rests YOU!!!
cuz BO is also one of the moderators of RWD

oops!!!
i'd stick to the ground floor of RWD if I were you and stay away from the windows to, just in case...

the rest of you lurking noobs, pay attention, and learn
ya can't expect some 'random boomer' to bail ya outta trouble all the time
OK???

and don't ANY of y'all even think about walking in my yard
I don't care if you lost a ball, or your best friend...
next time ya better have a warrent
or ya goona meet my good friends SMITH and WESSON
and I got a cheap untraceable gun I'll shove into your hand
AFTER I splatter you over the front lawn
yes sir officer...a clear case of self defense, as you can see...

[cameraguymn]

this board is pretty much dead. Just trying to stir some light humor and whimsical chatter. If I were a moderator of any forum I wouldn't resort to calling the patrons morons. We leave the name calling to the all knowing masses.

all these silly amateur arm chair political analysis is difficult to read through.

kick me out for being a moron - at least the other forum admins don't call me names. and many of the same posters in here are there too.

[krimster2]

it is the thin skinned fruit that is most easily bruised, no?

if, we kick out 'the morons'
who will be left...
to read my brilliant posts?

so, I view the concept of 'moron removal' in an unfavorable light
thus, I would like to argue on behalf of their inclusion

can't we all "just get along"

however, please be aware that BO once "shadow=banned me" for thinking I was an advocate for human trafficing
cuz, I said that if covid led to a civilizational collapse
I'd trap cars on the road by my house and sell the occupants in the slave market....

geez, make just one little 'poor judgement' in some kinda 'hypothetical' and look at whatcha get yurself into
ya gotta be like teflon
and don't let it stick

[Boethius]

Nope. I have never banned anyone, directly or indirectly, though everyone banned for any period always assumes it was me.

I don’t have the buttons to ban anyone.

[krimster2]

someone's gonna trust a woman with 'the button'
haha, what really?

how many femminists does it take to police RWD?
THAT'S NOT FUNNY, NOW IS IT???

oh wait, what's that I hear, laughter?
truth like beauty is always in the eye of the beholder

Christians always view themselves as superior morally to non-Christians
and so think of themselves as being right

but as they judge, so to, are THEY judged...
christians succum to their own vices
and the rest of us to different ones
but we are ALL sinners baby
all of us....

so you know what, ya'll can just quit throwin stones
hmmm hmmmm, I know you hear me

[Trenchcoat]

russian/ukrainian women, by their nature, are very emotional and unruly creatures (and this is something you THINK you understand, but in reality you DON'T! It's MUCH WORSE than you think it is!)
and life with them, is as Richard Burton said of Elizabeth Taylor, "like living on the edge of a volcano"

as a consequence, russian women all need to be "tamed" just like any other animal species you wish to domesticate
you want a dawg and not a wolf, n'est pas? a pussycat and not a roaring tiger!!
you can't just go and "ride" a wild horse, it HAS to be tamed

why do you think it would be ANY different with a woman?
especially a barely civilized (by your cultural standards) RUSSIAN or UKRAINIAN woman, and if you think THEY are "wild and crazy", try an Uzbek and see REAL wild and crazy!!!,
but learn to sleep with one eye open, or just paint your eyelids that way  to confuse her into thinking they're open

OK, listen up...
you never REACT at all to a russian woman's misbehavior, you simply ignore it!

but you only reward her for consistant  positive behavior and never use it as a 'bribe' to end negative behavior, or "guess what"? THAT'S RIGHT!!! MORE NEGATIVE BEHAVIOR!!
do it the smart way, and over time, the positive behavior inreases, and the negative decreases
use her brain's reward center to steer her in the direction you want

YOU need to control YOURSELF as much as her...
discipline yourself to NOT get angry at her outbursts, which only magnifies them

by not responding to her mood swings, you eliminate fighting completely, and when she ends up being the only one angry and upset, it won't last as long as arguing about it would
then, give her some kinda simple 'treat' as a distraction
in the case of wife, girlfriend, giving a bi-polar russian woman head
is a sure-fire way to get an agreeable vrs disagreeable woman
literally, the most effective therapy, beats shopping
you want to give them "a release'
and you want to look her in the face, up close, eye-to-eye when she comes
do this, and she'll give ya a kidney, if ya ever need a transplant
slovo!


I've raised a russian wife and two russian daughters
and have a large Russian social network filled with young women (coincidence, I swear)
as a result of DECADES of EXPERIENCE (something you young whipper snappers can only dream of)
I am without peer when it comes to managing Russian women (I'm WAY better at it than ANY Russian men as well, it's how I seduced their daughters, (touches finger to lips)!)

I ALWAYS end up with them "eating out of my hand" like they're my pet
I was in my youth, a Russian woman whisperer
and could pretty much sleep with any Russian woman I wanted to
but now, I kinda like gardening more...
I know, sad, right?
in the end, even the Marquis DeSade preferred solitude
ironic, non?


In Conclusion
I learned through years of experience not to have these kinda problems with Russian women
by ignoring it and manipulating their emotions with positive things
and I learned how to control my own emotions to not respond to someone else's bi-polarism
and now I'm sharing it with you young whipper snappers, cuz I feel sorry for ya'll

so that's how "I rolled" with Russian women
but you younger, less experienced fellers, YOUR mileage may vary depending on how observant and disciplined you are

chasing pooty tang in Ukraine is NOT a cheap hobby
this factor will eliminate 90% of would be players

of the remaining few, 1% of the players will get 90% of the total pooty tang given to foreigners in Ukraine
and most will return home with a sad face that looks kinda like this

c'est la vie

I reckon it was like that with the 49ers lookin for gold
only a few struck it rich, some didn't get a thing and so they gave up and quit

does it come down to luck, or something else?
how does fortune choose who to shine upon and who not?

or maybe fortune favors geologists

Thanks very much for your insight Krim. I've wondered for a while about this so now it is finally good to know fir sure. I noticed ML did well in his relationship usually as he said he gets stressed out badly by arguments so evades them at all cost, so it coming naturally to him to shut down and change the subject.

I reckon that's why so many marriages to FSW fail, about 90 percent I think is the rough level, that's huge. We often used to hear on here of guys starting relationships, the relationship going wonderfully and looking like a happy ever after then all of a sudden the mood suddenly changing and it going all downhill fast.

I know from FSW I've met that argument is not a good thing to the relationship. It tends to be a downward spiral and once gotten into more difficult to get out and it can end up sucking you in and wreaking the relationship. So division on anything is best to be avoided/wary off if at all possible.

For me I might struggle a little and not getting sucked into an argument. Being able to not pick up in the first place is something I will have to focus on, just to ignore it. That and letting go of something. In the end most arguments are pointless even if there seems to be a lot riding on it at the time so yeah focusing on ignoring them is no doubt best.

A great piece Krim and a great response

[JohnDearGreen]

this board is pretty much dead.

The board became boring when all the FSU women left (except 2 or 3).
Many posts since do little or nothing to bring the women back.
Perhaps men should read the RWD Code of Conduct:

"Don't discuss your sexual relationships on any public web site. Any discussion of sexual engagements on a public website will be seen as abhorrent, not only to the lady involved but to many known and anonymous people on the internet. If the temptation ever arises a man should refer to earlier clauses in this Code of Conduct relating to gentlemanly behavior and the obligations of every man who seeks a long term relationship in FSU."

Those kinds of posts will attract 12 year old junior high boys, but not likely the FSU ladies.

[krimster2]

 Look Kids!
A Bible Thumper is exercising his age old right of being the morality police for EVERYBODY

oh my, somone is CLUTCHING THEIR PEARLS in distress
so, I guess we know who "isn't gettin any"
and as a result, yearns to make the world a better place for elderly christian gentlemen well practiced in abstinance
(one where sex is NEVER mentioned, OHHHH! the horror)
what a 'holiday season' moment, suitable for the whole family
none of that woke gay Disney stuff - right? maybe some Lawrence Welk music for ambiance and some old Matlock episodes?

if you don't like this place or the folks who post
allow me take the liberty of posting my own suggestion
the door is to your left
don't let it hit your ass on the way out
and don't forget your walker

you misunderstand what being JUVENILE means
and how it differs from being an ADULT
thus, you have it backward
YOU are the one being Juvenile
in the disguise of an old man yelling at people to keep off "his board"
you want the morality police, check out Iran or Florida, all run by gray haired folks like yourself

The words of the prophets are written on the subway walls. And tenement halls
they can appear ANYWHERE
even here

but this is an "R" rated show meester
I hear the Huckabees are doin christian themed puppet shows, maybe you oughta check that out
you will likely find it more to your taste, certainly more so than here

bottom line:
take the world as it exists
you think the world's gonna change cuz you're unhappy
why would you expect that?

YOU are the one that must adapt to the world
and not the REST OF THE WORLD to adapt to you
only a juvenile would expect that

and if I wanna walk on your yard, I freakin will
whadda ya think YOU'RE gonna do about it

you want a duel with the devil, go ahead and draw cowpoke
i'm your huckleberry

[JohnDearGreen]

The "Code of Conduct" was developed by these individuals, not be me (but I agree with them).

Development of GuidelinesA committee was formed to develop a proposed set of guidelines for presentation to RWD at large. The committee members are as follows:[/color]

• Gator (Committee Lead)

• BillyB

• Daveman

• KenC

• Kuna

• Kvinna

• Lily

• SANDRO43

• ScottinCrimea

[krimster2]

I'm sorry sir, but you were found wandering down a busy street
babbling about a "Guidelines Committee"
and as a result, someone brought you here

Guidelines Committee?

what kinda "marxist central committe" nonsense is this? 
I thought Trump voters all liked "FREE DUMB"
and not having the "Committee of Public Safety" manning the check points, searchng for "undesireables"

if those people you listed were on the central committee or the Guidelines Commitee, or any other Committee you may wish to name, then where are their badges, eh?
they don't have any badges!
you think they don't need no stinkin badges?

come back to us when you solve the "badges" conundrum....
and then we can talk about abridging our freedom of speech, into some level that pleases you...
OK? FINE!

you can make a future appointment on your way out...
HAVE A NICE DAY!!!

NEXT IN-PATIANT PLEASE!
Hi! Can I see your insurance card please?
THANK YOU!!!
and for Gawd's sake, take your meds
crazy people in Africa would LOVE to have your meds



 

[Trenchcoat]

this board is pretty much dead. Just trying to stir some light humor and whimsical chatter. If I were a moderator of any forum I wouldn't resort to calling the patrons morons. We leave the name calling to the all knowing masses.

all these silly amateur arm chair political analysis is difficult to read through.

kick me out for being a moron - at least the other forum admins don't call me names. and many of the same posters in here are there too.

I agree CG, I for one am pleased you come on here and ask about dating in the FSU stuff and related content. I think it does indeed breathe some fresh air into this forum.

I myself have never minded who says what to me I accept people are different and I can find it a bit of a laugh in a way. Back when Mobers & John Gaunt were knocking around the forum they used to come out with some cutting remarks at times but I never took it seriously. All part of the knock around and fun of being part of a forum really.

A lot of this kind of falls into a question asked a year so back on here as to why there doesn't seem to be much uptake as there used to be on FSU forum such as this or perhaps in going out to date FSW in the FSU (aside from the war). Guys still go of course and guts are still in need possibly more than ever if looking abroad for a other half. Many answers can be put forward of course. Though I think Krim has probably allured to the answer above that due to the high failure rate of marriages of WM to FSW word has probably spread and many men may decide they can do without that as a result. Its not easy sometimes to avoid arguing about something that seems to mean a lot at the time and like we've seen FSW seem to go nuclear when that happens.

I think a lot of guys still hold onto the notion of dating at home even if they don't get no luck and try and do stuff to improve their chances if they can. I think many guys who struggle to date at home can be kind of lazy and not want to accept that they should go any further than what's in front of them. I think potentially the younger generation are moreso like that, less adventurous and more thinking everything should be in reach around them and not to go and have to walk and reach out for it. As in if they don't get it fall into their lap they don't want to bother, millennials hey

[krimster2]

"Any discussion of sexual engagements on a public website will be seen as abhorrent" 

ok, first of all, you're not pronouncing "abhorrent" correctly
it's gotta be higher pitched and the syllables in the middle stretched out, like a shriek
you just saw a mouse, it's ABHORRRRRRENT!!!! EWWWWWWW!

and secondly,

not even Disney has this outdated 17th century puitanical viewpoint
and they make movies for 12 yr olds
so what age group are you advocating for?  tele-tubbie level?

well, I WAS gonna post some tasteful nudes I took of young Ukrainian village women swimming nude in the Black Sea vrs Russian college students in a river
(my daughters were the keys that opened both those doors!)
these pics are no worse than several historic art pieces of women bathing naturally, such sweet innocent young women, like flowers in full-bloom, frolicing in the water...

but, I forgot, ya'll were offended over Michelangelo's David as well
so this is why we CAN'T HAVE NICE THINGS
but these pics woulda been famous, and brought thousands here

personally, I don't wanna see somone who is repulsed by the beauty of the naked human form as the arbiter of MY morality
I object!

j'accuse you of being nothing more than a TRUMP VOTER spewing manure
about how the world should be more like "Leave It To Beaver" and "Mayberry"
after "BAD PEOPLE" changed the channel to something less boring (AND you probably think it was "THE JEWS" who are resposible!)

you better hurry and send $100 to DeSantis (but don't tell Trump!)
otherwise it's Biden for four more years meester

we should make a betting pool for how many indictments Trump will have by the end of next month
will it be over 100?

what an astute decision that was to vote for Trump
it only cost the lives of a couple of hundred thousand people like you
and a couple xtra trillion

so yeah, someone with your views "influencing" things to "make them better"
will end the same way Trump's presidency did

I'm just tellin it like IT IS, BRO
sooner or later, you're gonna have to let go of the past
it's the only way to embrace the future
and only by embracing it, will you survive

my brother, your philosophy of clinging to the past, is SELF DEFEATING
don't believe me?
then watch what happens to Trump this year and next, and all the FALL-OUT from the FALL OF TRUMP...
then you will...

all you "white folks" need to start distancing yourselves, "Trump who?"
www.findanewfascist.org

I never met a Conceptual Metaphor in person..
I only read about 'em

[Boethius]

cameraguy-I didn't state you are a moron, nor do I think you are.  I stated I thought your post was moronic.


John- I don't think the FSUW stopped posting here because of "spicy" posts.  I do think some stopped posting because of krimster, though.

[krimster2]

Fact Check!
more people stopped posting on RWD and more posts were deleted on RWD by being banned by "by so called moderators"
compared to the number of those who were given a coup de grâce, to end their misery, as well as ours administered directly by your humble narrator!
I am a Volunteer Vigilante, who defends Truth and Justice
go ahead and make me a martyr, I have no FEAR!

if you dumb phuques REALLY don't like me kicking your ass and you're NOT a masochist
then just don't pick a fight with me
how hard is that to understand?

it's people who attack me, who also don't like it when I fight back and I end up totally kicking their ass (in a conceptual mataphorical kinda way ONLY)

and because I'm a Biden votin, Soros lovin liberal, not some "conservative dumb phuque" stuck in some kinda weird warped make believe reality, of course conservatives are gonna 'hate on me'
as FDR said, "I welcome their hatred"
it's completely mutual

just "Don't Tread On Me" people...
and I won't bite your ankle
that's the deal I make you

but the tiniest mis-step and I will pump you full of vebal venom
until you keel over

as the only Jew-Boy on this board
you think I don't feel the Christians breathing down my neck here?
what kinda 'blood libel' will it be, I wonder?

at least tell me the offense, before you pass sentence
and allow me to argue on my own behalf, before you condemn me

or is fairness, an unreasonable request here on RWD
of course, you think you've got a "clean conscience, right?"

pe?
ya dumisch eta grozny!


Pow
  der
    milk
      Buis
        cuits

[Boethius]

You’re not really Jewish as your mother is not Jewish. My mother is as Jewish as you are.

There have been Jewish posters here in the past. But I am not certain how it’s at all relevant.

[krimster2]

you say I'm not a jew
I say, I'm not a goy

maya mama don't matter at all

i'm enough part of the tribe, to be trusted with doing it's dirty work
and been doin so for years and years...


I went to a chabad run Harvard prepatory yeshiva in Brooklyn that had about 25 gifted students
and lived there with my uncle

does that at least earn me a few points more than eating a bagel in the "is he a jew contest"?
just curious what kinda new nuremburg law you goyim trying to lay down this time....
I mean if Ivanka Trump is Jewish

just to clarify the FACTS
nuremburg law said if you have one jewish grandparent, well surprise, you're a JEW
I had 2
Deutchland Uber Alles

good thing I look so damned Aryan
also enormous help being a "blondie" in Israel vrs dark hair/skin/eyes dewds
you are the top of the dating hierarchy there

I liked the Russian Jewish girls who came over as kids the most
man they were nice
Mila Kunis look alikes - very "down to earth" and relatable
and they really like having a GOOD TIME!

but you can't get those 15 or 20+ year age gaps with them like you can in Ukraine/Moldova/etc
maybe 5+ tops

[BC]

Fact Check!
more people stopped posting on RWD and more posts were deleted on RWD by being banned by "by so called moderators"
compared to the number of those who were given a coup de grâce, to end their misery, as well as ours administered directly by your humble narrator!
I am a Volunteer Vigilante, who defends Truth and Justice
go ahead and make me a martyr, I have no FEAR!

No, krim.

Posting on FSU-related forums has dwindled over the years for a variety of reasons.  The downward trend started years ago.  Other discussion forums have turned to other topics instead, mostly political.  Many members, long married, simply moved on to live their lives, dedicating their time to other things. Some relationships ended along with further interest. A few, unfortunately, passed on.  If an interesting topic comes up, I'm happy to contribute. There haven't been many lately.  Maybe the allure of international relationships has worn off.

Very few members have been banned for a variety of reasons listed in the TOS.  Some left because for whatever reason they did not enjoy posting here anymore.  I used to find your posting style interesting, but most of what you post nowadays is boorish.  Posts I have seen deleted did not add any value, were insulting, or did not follow established forum posting rules.  All normalna.

[Trenchcoat]

Christianity is an offshoot of the Jewish Religion as evidenced by the dead sea scrolls, etc. So all Christians are Jews really Meanwhile Islam is a take on the Christian religion so they will be happy to know that they are really Jewish also as well

I'm surprised Krim describes himself as Jewish though as he has often said he doesn't believe in gawd.