Something other than the Princess

[Trenchcoat]

I'm writing this post as I think this is an important topic for FSU Dating and Dating in general. A lot of guys, myself included often like the idea of beautiful looking women and while beauty may be in the eye of the beholder I think usually there are women that look beautiful to most people on the outside.

Most guys in general often cone in here stating that they want a beautiful women and quite often they tend to be looking at how beautiful a woman is on the outside.

However, it was only the other day that my Ukrainian girlfriend was cooking me a bang up breakfast did I feel that she really cared about me and while she is attractive looking in her own way the fact that I felt that she cared about me to want to cook me a meal that she needn't have done seemed to matter more. I or she could have passed on that meal as I had only so long and could have gotten the usual junk food takeaway along the way but her cooking was way better.

Anyway, it dawned on me in life that often people back in the day decades ago probably looked for something else in their other half other than looks. I've noticed a lot of Beautiful women are very often but not always very nice, I met one in the past as is known on here where while the looks were there the caring wasn't. She did cook me one breakfast or two but I knid of felt it was out of procedure or perhaps she tried but we just wasn't meant for each other.

So I guess what I am trying to say to readers here is just get out there and meet FSW of all kinds. Perhaps not try looking for an immediate 'girl' to get with but just go out and meet FSW on a social meet up and see what one clicks with you however she looks.

[krimster2]

good lord....
are you FINALLY starting to "wise up"

well...carry on then....
now look at yourself
do you desrve this CARE from her?

in electrical engineering, the power of electrical feedback is freakin AMAZING
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Regenerative_circuit

as a hobbyist I've built superregenerative radio receivers with a gain of close to 80,000X by just using feedback like this without ANY direct amplification

when ever she does for you, you must do for her
that's what the feedback is in a relationship
and you wanna keep the feedback loop always feeding back, and that's how you get this MASSIVE gain

my analogy probably only makes sense if yur high

so solly

[Trenchcoat]

good lord....
are you FINALLY starting to "wise up"

well...carry on then....
now look at yourself
do you desrve this CARE from her?

in electrical engineering, the power of electrical feedback is freakin AMAZING
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Regenerative_circuit

as a hobbyist I've built superregenerative radio receivers with a gain of close to 80,000X by just using feedback like this without ANY direct amplification

when ever she does for you, you must do for her
that's what the feedback is in a relationship
and you wanna keep the feedback loop always feeding back, and that's how you get this MASSIVE gain

my analogy probably only makes sense if yur high

so solly

Thanks Krim, I can see what you are getting at, it's a reciprocal thing. Well I try and do what I can I guess but may need to think more in that.

Thx princess girls are real pretty so are difficult for any straight guy to ignore but they are usually a big headache. Possibly for guys that are rated highly less so, maybe, maybe not.

[Trenchcoat]

Further thought on this, I think probably pretty girls & pretty boys are probably happiest with each other, no one really would feel happy if they felt they were settling for less or putting up with someone because they had some upside. Potentially very materialistic pretty girls might be happy with an everyday looking rich guy, however whether the rich guy would be happy being with a pretty girl that only cared about his money who knows, perhaps she might come to care about 🤷

More important is to have someone to share time with who you get along with and are of compatible personality I think. Better to go through life happy than be with the wrong person. Funny how so many of us men are so hard wired into being turned on at the sight of a pretty girl without thinking or even knowing if we are at all of compatible personality.

[krimster2]

tis better to have an "educated eye" and look for a diamond in the "rough"
Cecil Rhodes could look at a large uncut diamond, and tell ya exactly the cleavage lines to cut and how many carets you'd get for each piece

get a rough stone from the FSU
facet and polish it
and you got a bargain GEMSTONE
worth WAY NORE than the price you paid to get it

what you get from the world is related to yur own "worth"
the transaction's gotta balance, measure for measure
if ya got nothin' then ya get nothin in return

most of ya'll ain't worth nothin a'tall
and ya'll can't even figure out why that is
so ya become resentful incels
devoid of any virtue but yur own self-loathing

PS
to succeed there are things you must learn as well as things you must "un-learn"

take risks
work hard
learn to endure life's suffering while moving forward