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How did you meet your wife or fiancee or serious girlfriend?

Group Tour of the FSU
3 (4.5%)
Agency or Agency Listing or Bought name from Agency
29 (43.9%)
Personals,  Free Sites, ICQ, AOL, chatrooms, etc.
20 (30.3%)
Introduction by Friends
5 (7.6%)
Just "bumped" into Her
4 (6.1%)
Other (if selected, please post how below)
5 (7.6%)

Total Members Voted: 63

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Darth Vader

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How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« on: October 20, 2006, 09:29:22 PM »
Wild Orchid posted the question
"How did you meet your girl?"in the "What country is your girl from" poll.

She added that she thought the majority of girls were met via some sort of agency connection. 

This poll is a little mushy--for example--a girl might have an agency listing and you might be in an FSU city visiting girls and just encounter her on the street.  So yes, she is agency listed, but that is not how you met her.

And on a Group Tour most girls at socials are from agencies.  But you met her because you were at the tour social.

So for the purpose of this poll, vote the actual way you met.
« Last Edit: October 20, 2006, 09:31:39 PM by Darth Vader »

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #1 on: October 20, 2006, 09:47:13 PM »
1st one was from a profile on the Internet. I wrote a snail mail letter, she snailed one back with a phone number. One month later she flew to meet me in Seattle. That relationship lasted for almost 3 years. We are still friends to this day.

2nd one came to me via a referral from one of the ladies on the forum, I forget the name of it, where the FSU go to gossip, bitch, moan, share, or whatever else they do there. I used to lurk there, try to read the Russian but eventually got accepted by the group and one of the women told me that I should meet her friend, so I did. I dated her for about 2 years. She will occasionally email me to see how I am getting along.

The latest one contacted me because of my profile on Elena's Models. I received a number of emails but she stood out. We met in Egypt and we seem to be getting along very well for the past 8 months or so. Interesting that I did get an email during this time from lady number 2 who spotted my profile on Elena's. She had almost married, but called if off at the last minute. We reestablished communication and as I said, we occasionally email one another.

Three different meetings that all bore fruit in some way.

Peewee

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #2 on: October 20, 2006, 11:47:35 PM »
*other*  ;)
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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #3 on: October 21, 2006, 12:45:04 AM »

Three different meetings that all bore fruit in some way.


hmm.. apple, peach and pear come to mind...

 :o ;D

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #4 on: October 21, 2006, 03:50:26 AM »
Free site... not freepersonals  ;D
No it is not a dog. Its really how I look.  ;)

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #5 on: October 21, 2006, 07:21:53 AM »
Free site... not freepersonals  ;D
Thanks, Jet and Shadow.  I edited the poll to reflect your suggestions.  And for those guys who have already voted, I made the poll so it allows you to change your vote  :)

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #6 on: October 21, 2006, 05:30:10 PM »
I voted "other" .   I met her on a personals site,but it wasn't free,at least not for me. Cost me $19.95 per month. Cost my wife nothing.

                                                      ...Larry

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #7 on: October 21, 2006, 06:51:06 PM »
hmm.. apple, peach and pear come to mind...

 :o ;D

Yep. The sweetest of fruits. Much better than sour grapes and lemons.

Peewee

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #8 on: October 22, 2006, 09:48:17 AM »
I met Julia on this site:  http://freepersonals.ru/

It is a great site if you know what your looking for, but full of scammers as well

Darth Vader

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #9 on: October 22, 2006, 10:08:18 AM »
If you select "Other" please elaborate here.  THANKS.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #10 on: October 22, 2006, 12:07:13 PM »
If you select "Other" please elaborate here.  THANKS.

DV, I'm an otherer. I met my girl via ICQ. I guess the closest category is "bumped into her," but still not quite accurate.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #11 on: October 22, 2006, 12:20:12 PM »
And for those guys who have already voted, I made the poll so it allows you to change your vote  :)

How ? I wish to change for "other" but i don't see how ! I have meet my actual girlfriend on Forum...

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #12 on: October 22, 2006, 12:20:33 PM »
To me, ICQ is in the "Personals" category, since it is used for dating and meeting girl in a big way. I will modify description...thanks

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #13 on: October 22, 2006, 12:29:35 PM »
To me, ICQ is in the "Personals" category, since it is used for dating and meeting girl in a big way. I will modify description...thanks

I would disagree, as I have friends on ICQ but my fiancee is the only one that I became romantically involved with, but it's your call. My fiancee is of the opinion that dating websites are "bad" and agencies are even worse. I don't agree with her and I've given up trying to convince her. However, after she arrives I hope to meet other couples from RWD who met via agencies as I'm sure seeing a few happy couples will make her change her mind.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #14 on: October 22, 2006, 01:30:36 PM »
I would disagree, as I have friends on ICQ but my fiancee is the only one that I became romantically involved with, but it's your call.
I have been meeting american girls on ICQ for years. Seems to me it's one of its major uses.  Are you sure you didn't use ICQ with the idea you wanted to meet a Russian girl? 

Hey, it's your call.  Place your vote there are use other.  It's not a life or death decision :-)

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #15 on: October 22, 2006, 02:23:33 PM »
 Met my girlfriend on Lucky Lover's, it's a dating, friends website with one on one chat feature. Most of the girl's on there are from the FSU, it's free for the women to join, but scammer's are removed pretty fast, many nice, normal, pretty girls.

 Nataly and I started as friends on LL, then she moved to the U.S. on visa lottery, we met, hit it off great, and have been together over a year now. We are currently living together. - David

p.s. Darth, it was Turbo, not Wild Orchid that suggested this topic, which proves my theory that you don't really pay attention, and have reading comprehension problems  :)

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #16 on: October 22, 2006, 02:42:00 PM »

Darth, it was Turbo, not Wild Orchid that suggested this topic, which proves my theory that you don't really pay attention, and have reading comprehension problems  :)
There you go again Jinx, throwing insults. 

And as before, you are wrong.

Wild Orchid did provide me the idea to create this poll when she said:
I believe that majority posters met their wives/girlfriends via agencies. Will I be wrong if I say that every UW placed herself with one of them?

Dan answered "not all" and shared how he met his wife.  But Wild Orchid had written UW and I think Dan is married to a RW.

A few hours later (at 10:03) Turbo followed by saying her idea was good and would make a good poll.  I had already thought the same thing.  But it was Wild Orchid who I give credit for the idea that I implemented....she was first with the question of how men meet FSU women.
« Last Edit: October 22, 2006, 03:09:45 PM by Darth Vader »

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #17 on: October 22, 2006, 02:55:13 PM »
And Jinx, speaking of reading comperhension, you need to reread the first few lines of my thread:

Wild Orchid posted the question
"How did you meet your girl?"in the "What country is your girl from" poll.

Yes, she did. She was the poster who asked the question and why I created this poll.  You read Turbo's later comment and got it out of sequence. 

And jumped at the opportunity to say something ugly again.  Guess you forgot the 4 or 5 RWD posters who warned you about being negative on the other strand.

If you have something positive or accurate to say, say it.  But leave off the negative and inaccurate posts.
« Last Edit: October 22, 2006, 03:02:47 PM by Darth Vader »

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #18 on: October 22, 2006, 03:01:37 PM »
. . . . you don't really pay attention, and have reading comprehension problems  :)

Y'know, on the forum I admin, putting a smiley after a cheap shot changes nothing, and excuses nothing.

I always tell folks to take their personal differences to PM, but it seems what most of 'em want is an audience.

Just saying.  :-*

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #19 on: October 25, 2006, 07:28:45 PM »
Meet her with confidential connections ... (yes I know ...). I used dioritz, freepersonals and LL too. And the woman I date now is the first one I have written too and the first one I have met ...
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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #20 on: October 29, 2006, 04:38:40 PM »
Elena's models here. 

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #21 on: October 31, 2006, 10:59:48 AM »
I met her via the Cindy Agency.  Cost me 20 bucks total money to the agency--4 letters to her.

Once we met, with her near perfect English and knowledge of the city, we no longer needed the agency.
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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #22 on: October 31, 2006, 09:22:26 PM »
chat room at Thai Love Links for my current love. . . ..

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #23 on: October 31, 2006, 09:34:16 PM »
I have been meeting american girls on ICQ for years. Seems to me it's one of its major uses.  Are you sure you didn't use ICQ with the idea you wanted to meet a Russian girl? 

Hmmmmm.....247 contacts in my ICQ list and only two of them are women, my daughter and my wife. Go figure, I've been doing it wrong all these years  :-\
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Re: How Did You Meet Your Lady?
« Reply #24 on: November 01, 2006, 03:44:56 AM »
What's ICQ?

 

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