Declaration of love

[Haseki Hurem]

Hello, Guys, I've read some of the comments here and really wondered how highly you value the emotional side of women.

Comments were short and not numerous. But helpful.

Thank you all.

[Haseki Hurem]

Life is as beautiful as we make it...

[Bruno]

I wish I could know, what you would think about this declaration of love, if you ever read it

Already send my comments via e-mails to you...

For these who wonder  ??? , i am the "man" from these "declaration of love"... Haseki Hurem is my girlfriend...

[viking]

Bruno

I was beginning to wonder what this was all about. Your lady writes some very nice words, and with a good heart behind them. Lucky guy.

[Sohkay]

Haseki writes, "I don't just take your warmth, I give you a piece of my heart in return.
Only one question disturbs me: do you really need them - these pieces of my heart? Obviously, the broken bits will never replace the whole." She doesn't give you all of her heart?

And then she writes, "You are so good in saying sweet little things to me when you are in the mood, and I always feel my heart melting in the rays of these verbal caress, yet - when I look for it, you are often busy with computer, browsing some site, chatting somewhere outa there online...
I wait... I know, I can never replace the world for you, and I wait... when time comes for me in turn... but do you know, how painful this waiting is sometimes?" Do you pay too much attention to your computer and online activities instead of her?

And then she writes this, "You are so good in saying some little spoiling compliments to me, finding a new expression of love and fondness every time, but at the same time when you've made me a proposal you forgot about the ring - and didn't remember about it at all...
Yes, I know, I am special, but some things I would rather be the traditional way - or I start feeling that I am not a woman (painfully - in your eyes, first of all).
And what is really making me nervous: you like to talk about other women, their virtues and mistakes... When you start talking about them, I hurriedly try to dig through the last days: what and when I did wrong, that you talk now about this..." You proposed but gave her no ring? You compare her to other women?

Bruno?

[Bruno]

She doesn't give you all of her heart?

Hmmm, i think that actually, she give too much now... and it is why these separation periode is so much heavy for her... i will be different when we will be together, side by side...

Do you pay too much attention to your computer and online activities instead of her?
You proposed but gave her no ring? You compare her to other women?

For these two points, i have reply to her personaly via e-mail... I don't wish give more public explanation for now, but if she agree that i post about these, i will make a reply here too...

Really, i was surprised by her post... it was a agrement between us to never post something related to our relation and keep personal thing outside the public world... but it don't really disturb me since i have nothing to hide...

[Sohkay]

OK. Good luck.

[Haseki Hurem]

Really, i was surprised by her post... it was a agrement between us to never post something related to our relation and keep personal thing outside the public world... but it don't really disturb me since i have nothing to hide...

Dear Bruno, I never mentioned your name.

I never mentioned anything that could give an idea all that was said about you.

Obviously, male logic and female logic never meet.

And thank you, I hope that private details will remain private from your side too.

[Haseki Hurem]

Now Bruno, take that same attention to detail, that same resourcefulness, and turn that towards your girlfriend,

Dear Sokhay,
I shall highly appreciate, if you no more make diagnosis of my feelings and condition.
If you think that you can judge from one post only - may God help you in your life.
Thanks for understanding.

[Admin]

Let's all please leave Haseki and Bruno to their lives with no further public comment.

Thanks,

- Dan

[Sohkay]

Dear Haseki,
If you do not want comment on your feelings, then do not post your feelings on a public forum. If you should choose to do this again, you are now, and will continue to be, subject to public comment.

I see now, from your removal of the original post, that you have learned this lesson and hopefully you will not repeat this error.

The best of luck to you.

Sohkay

[Haseki Hurem]

Dear Sokhay,
I am deeply grateful to everybody who made a post (or a PM ) in reply to my topic, and even more greatful to you for your concern about my happiness and satisfaction.

I should admit however, that the original post was meant for the forum, and not for Bruno (I don't feel shy to tell him anything and everything I feel and think about our relationship).

The purpose of this post was to see the reaction of others on such emotion.
I've noticed more than once, that male members of the RWD often mention, that they want a proof of love from a woman, before they begin to trust in her interest. And more accurately, as you mentioned it yourself: you want to have all of her heart as a proof of the serious feelings.

However limited was the reaction to the post, I feel that now I can make a justified question to all of you: what are you going to do with "the whole of the heart" of your woman?

Special note for Sokhay: you cannot get it, put on the shelf and show to your friends on the occasion.

How will you deal with it?

Even a little attention from the side of a woman can be tiresome, if you do not participate and enjoy it... So, how shall you handle to be the centre of someone's life, to be the centre of someone's world?

I guess, you'll need some time (and experience), Sokhay, before you can answer this question.

From my side, I can also make a note, that I think that post showed an example of good manipulation with torn out facts and feelings, partially based on emotion, only too easy to mistake for sheer loyalty.

But you may feel different.

Again, specially for those, who are so much concerned with my happiness: I thank you heartily for your participation and attention, yet your efforts are not neccessary, and you may invest them in other things.

As for me, I will invest my time in something other, than spending it on the forum, not to let some of you reasons to say, that I stay here too much myself

Wish you all the best,

Haseki