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Offline Elen

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« on: March 21, 2005, 11:13:43 PM »
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/americas/4370617.stm

Wonder why do such events constanly happen in such rich and such democratic country:?

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« Reply #1 on: March 22, 2005, 12:01:29 AM »
Elen,

Many reasons that also exist elsewhere in the world.. alcoholism, drugs, mental problems, etc etc

But I guess the biggest cause is probably poor parenting.

Like I said the same causes exist all over the globe, but very easy access to dangerous weapons makes the end results so much more deadly and devestating.

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« Reply #2 on: March 22, 2005, 12:19:42 AM »
Have you seen , a film "Bowling for Colombie" (thank Bruno for help with right spelling of the name):? - right about the same "reasons" and different end results in America and other countries

 
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« Reply #3 on: March 22, 2005, 12:39:14 AM »
Yep, BC have right... parental problem... our modern society need the wife and husband work for confortable income... result, young child stay in children garden... same during basic school,  several child stay after school hour because parent are no back from work... our modern life don't allow us enough free time for educate our children...

It is why i have stop with a good earning work and choice a average work who allow me more time with family... of course, i cannot more give to my family all i wish but by experience, i have see that a simple walk in forest with children make these last very happy... don't need expensive pleasure for children... and now, i have more time for help children after school, for game with them... it is my life pleasure :D... sorry, it was :(
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« Reply #4 on: March 22, 2005, 01:00:44 AM »
Americans,espeically the children, have too much free time on their hands. We have everything, but we are never satisfied. We trivialize life on televison, the movies, and of course the violent video games. Children don't play normal games much anymore. Go to the parks, and you will see them empty. Mainly just the very young kids and their parents. When the children get older, parents just give them what they want materially, but rarely give them much of their time.  It's sad, kids see the violence, and to them it's normal. It's becoming an epidemic of poor parenting skills. The parents want to make lots of money to buy the big houses, fancy cars and be able to socailize with their friends all of the time.  That means nobody's home to parent the children.  
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« Reply #5 on: March 22, 2005, 03:42:16 AM »
Was *fire water* involved?

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« Reply #6 on: March 22, 2005, 05:24:04 AM »
Yes, Elen, these events in the world are sickening. And these type events can happen in any country, as I recall the many school children who were also killed by terrorist in your own country last year.

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« Reply #7 on: March 22, 2005, 06:27:58 AM »
I'm about your school children with guns and you are about terrorist in our schools. Cirtainly it's the same things:?

Have YOU seen the film I'd mentioned?

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« Reply #8 on: March 22, 2005, 06:50:14 AM »
Yep elena... Do you know why terrorist don't attack US school ?

Because they have metal detector at the main door... and for the school without one, the children are too much dangerous for terrorist :D:D:D

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« Reply #9 on: March 22, 2005, 07:01:20 AM »
Btw a question to Americans - What guns do you keep in your home arsenals?

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« Reply #10 on: March 22, 2005, 07:25:31 AM »
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7259823/

Elen - read the link above and it will tell you alot about the mental state of the kid who did the shooting.
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« Reply #11 on: March 22, 2005, 09:00:38 AM »
So? no problems with americans teenagers? Because if somebody comes to school and begin to shoot to the left and to the right his school mates it's only a problem of mental ill people, dosen't?
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« Reply #12 on: March 22, 2005, 09:33:26 AM »
Elen, some other links :

"...his son must have taken the weapons from a gun rack that hung on the wall in the basement of the family's town house while his wife was getting ready for school..."

http://www.potomacnews.com/servlet/Satellite?pagename=WPN%2FMGArticle%2FWPN_BasicArticle&c=MGArticle&cid=1031779340952&path=&tacodalogin=no

Interesting discussion between young people from all the world about violence at school :

http://www.worldinfozone.com/features.php?section=PartnersDiscussion2

Policies from one US school :

"Persons over 18 years of age and persons between 14-18 years of age with written parental or guardian permission may possess personal protection spray devices on school property. No one may deliver a spray device to anyone under 14 or to anyone between 14-18 years of age who does not have parental permission. Spray devices may not be used other than in self-defense as defined by State law."

http://schools.shorelineschools.org/shorecrest/front_office/policies.php

Spray are not a gun... but 14 yo is a little young for give so type of weapon :?

"In February of 2002, a six-year-old boy brought a .32 caliber handgun to Buell Elementary School in Mount Morris Township, Mich. and killed fellow student, six-year-old Kayla Rolland."

http://www.usavanguard.com/vnews/display.v/ART/2005/03/01/4224cb3685672

Zero Tolerance Policy's ... what BS ... how the child find weapon ? ... generaly at home by his parents... weapon have nothing to make in a house with children... like always, the problem is the parents... not the child...

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« Reply #13 on: March 22, 2005, 10:34:03 AM »
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Btw a question to Americans - What guns do you keep in your home arsenals?

At last count 32 long guns and 28 hand guns of various types, plus reloading equipment, supplies and ammo.

 

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« Reply #14 on: March 22, 2005, 10:59:44 AM »
Who would doubt you will be the first with the answer:D

So what for do your keep such arsenal in your home?

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« Reply #15 on: March 22, 2005, 11:04:07 AM »
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Who would doubt you will be the first with the answer:D

So what for do your keep such arsenal in your home?

Guys after his wife think 60 times before starting to flirt.. :shock:

 

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« Reply #16 on: March 22, 2005, 11:10:11 AM »
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Now:cool: 

And what would your wife get according to your pre-nut if you "accidentally" shoot yourself to death with one of those guns?

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« Reply #17 on: March 22, 2005, 02:06:25 PM »
I have no guns, but am not opposed to them. Just don't want to own one. I have several friends who own guns, who are very responsible. It's not the guns in the house that scare me. It's some parents who are irresponsible because they have poor parenting skills. Only a bad parent would leave a loaded gun lying around the house where a child good get their hands on it. It's a poor parent who does not keep the guns locked away from the children. It's a poor parent who does not teach their children that they are not toys. It's a poor parent who does not teach their children about the value of life.  Most important, it's a poor parent who does not take a proactive roll in their childrens lives. Yes, guns are the weapon of choice in killings, but the problem was there long before the gun ever showed up in the house. Guns may be the weapons of choice, but poor parenting skills is the main reason. The child who killed in Minnesota lost his father to suicide 4 years ago, his mother is in a nursing home 200 miles away and has brain damage from a car accident. He was kicked out of school because he caused trouble in school. He was a member of an Internet Nazi group and his online name was Native nazi. There is a lifetime of issues that led up to this. 
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« Reply #18 on: March 22, 2005, 03:52:59 PM »
Quote from: Elen
Btw a question to Americans - What guns do you keep in your home arsenals?
 

I have two handguns and one M4 (the rifle you see U.S soldiers using).  One of the handguns and the M4 is issued to me by my department and the second handgun I purchased myself to carry when off work.
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« Reply #19 on: March 22, 2005, 04:07:02 PM »
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Who would doubt you will be the first with the answer:D

So what for do your keep such arsenal in your home?

Yes!

 

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« Reply #20 on: March 22, 2005, 04:13:15 PM »
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Now:cool: 

And what would your wife get according to your pre-nut if you "accidentally" shoot yourself to death with one of those guns?


 

 In the event of my untimely demise either by accidental or natural causes my wife would receive a generous high 8 figure income each year for the remainder of her life, our daughter would receive a similar sum after her 25th birthday or upon graduateing with honors from an accredited university.

 

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« Reply #21 on: March 22, 2005, 07:14:34 PM »
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Now:cool: 

And what would your wife get according to your pre-nut if you "accidentally" shoot yourself to death with one of those guns?

 

 In the event of my untimely demise either by accidental or natural causes my wife would receive a generous high 8 figure income each year for the remainder of her life, our daughter would receive a similar sum after her 25th birthday or upon graduateing with honors from an accredited university.

 
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You didn't start to teach her yet how to shoot did you?

And what's that accredited university. and graduateing with honors (What is it -graduated without honor:shock:?)


And what for SUCH thing for female who's supposed to be a GOOD woman and find her happinest as submissive wife? Just look at me what University have done to females:?:D

Or do you see another future for your own daughter and dream she become (OH I can't sound such indecent words) American independent woman:shock:?

 

 

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« Reply #22 on: March 23, 2005, 04:35:18 AM »
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You didn't start to teach her yet how to shoot did you?

And what's that accredited university. and graduateing with honors (What is it -graduated without honor:shock:?)


And what for SUCH thing for female who's supposed to be a GOOD woman and find her happinest as submissive wife? Just look at me what University have done to females:?:D

Or do you see another future for your own daughter and dream she become (OH I can't sound such indecent words) American independent woman:shock:?
 

Elen,

 My daughter is still to young to learn to shoot yet (she is only 21/2) but when she is old enough she will learn when the time is right as did my son.

 Education in America is vastly different than in Russia, we have many different kinds and types of collages and universities both public (state run) and privately owned and operated. Not all meet the educational requirements set forth by the various professions, An accredited university is one which has proven to the various professional groups that they meet the educational requirements set forth by the professional group.

  Graduateing with honors generally means that when you receive your degree you are in the top 2% of your gradueating class.

 

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« Reply #23 on: March 23, 2005, 05:20:15 AM »
Well I understood all (almost) about edicational system in the USA. But what about your plans for your daughter future? Do you see her as "good" woman (i  your meaning of that word)?

  If so then why to talk about accredited University and graduation with honor? Do you realize a woman with such education never would be a speachless home wife?

Beside with such your money?;)

So what your father's ambiciouse plans? 

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 My daughter is still to young to learn to shoot yet (she is only 21/2) but when she is old enough she will learn when the time is right as did my son

I meant your wife (who would have her benefits from such "acciedent" with you;) Such odd  idea that you are going to teach your daughter how to shoot didn't even cross my mind)

 
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« Reply #24 on: March 23, 2005, 06:44:17 AM »
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I meant your wife (who would have her benefits from such "acciedent" with you;) Such odd  idea that you are going to teach your daughter how to shoot didn't even cross my mind) My wife has become an excellent marksman and often competes along side of me in practical pistol combat matches, she dose not enjoy the high powered extreme range shooting (in excess of 1500 meters) because the rifles are too powerful for her to shoot comfortably but she dose enjoy skeet shooting.

 

 

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