Hi

[Mir]

Hello everyone

I know it is kind of late for an introduction since I have posted here for a few weeks and already been in a few arguments. Nevertheless as they say better late then never.
Well I am a 36 year old man from UK. I am a dermatologist by profession working for the National Health Service.
Now about FSU women, well I have met a few. When I started dating them within the first year I met two girls who in hindsight would have made excellent wives. At that time I thought, well maybe I can get something better and also I was unable to decide between them. So I never took the final step and eventually lost both of them.
Since then, I have not found anyone who I could consider spending the rest of my life with.
I read comments here like: ‘Go for the fence etc’. Which is good, after all why should one settle for second best. But the problem is that who decides where the fence is? In this game you can keep swinging forever hoping to send the ball further. Eventually ones arms get tired and they decide: Well this last hit was a homer so end of game, lets go home.

[Turboguy]

Don't feel bad about taking so long to do an introduction.  I have been here for nearly 2 years and have not done mine yet.

I can relate to a lot of what you have said and I think the biggest mistake people make is to rush into something too fast and not find the really special girl who is out there looking for you.   I think you are showing wisdom with your approach.   The right one will come along and often when you least exect it.  Good luck and thanks for posting the intro.

[Bruce]

Mir, you'll ultimately succeed in reaching your goals if you know what you want, know yourself and are patient.  Have no fear because you are now in the sweet spot of meeting the most eligible women from the FSU as far as I am concerned according to your age ie. 35 - 45.  Best of luck and welcome on board.....though you've already been here a while  .

[Jack]

Well Bruce, just a guess on my part but I wouldn't bet on Mir finding a Russian lady between 35 and 45.  My bet is he'll find some one between 24 and 30.

As Bruce stated Mir, and doesn't get much simpler put than just that, to know yourself and to be patient. A few other  major considerations would be education, experience and being realistic with your expectations.

When a man, any man, get's to the point where he tires of looking, decides to take the next best thing to come along, he has reached a point where he needs to stop, take a step back and evaluate things.

What I am about to tell you next Mir I can only tell this to a man with some  experience. I cannot say this to a man who is new to the pursuit but to a man who has had the opportunity to have been able to meet, be involved with some Russian women I can say "When you meet her, you will know it".  And you keep looking until you find this person. She's out there, no doubt about it.

[Bruce]

Jack, agreed.  My point was that a man between 35 - 45, and preferably less than 40 is in the sweet spot of his life for finding a quality FSU girl, lets just say for arguments sake, between 23 to 29 without children unless he desires a woman with children as well.  Either way, he is in the drivers seat at that age if he has his ducks in a row.

[Jack]

Yes, I see now Bruce. Men from 35 to 45 are in a sweet spot.

da da da, how right you are.  Men from 35 to 40 are in an age range of so many fine young women.

Getting off the subject a little, there are also an awful lot of fine ladies from about 36 to 45 that are readily available all over the FSU.