So IT IS the youth (and the beauty)

[Mir]

TB wrote
Isn't happiness a huge reward?

For noe lets avoid tyring to define happiness.
I just want to ask: Does a man only get happiness with a much younger woman?
Or more important:
Is it not possible for a man to find happiness with a woman who is much nearer to his age?

[Bruce]

"Does a man only get happiness with a much younger woman?"  Of course not.  It is however, man dependent.

"Is it not possible for a man to find happiness with a woman who is much nearer to his age?"  Of course it is possible for a man to find happiness with a woman who is much closer to his age.  Again, it is man dependent.

[LEGAL]

After reading posts on RWD I have conclusions - those men who are older 40 y.o. contemplate:
1.   Wife who is the same age = risk is low but reward is little also.
2.   Wife who is much younger = risk is high but reward is huge.
Some men (I call them “rescuers”) choose low risk.
Some men (I call them “businessmen”) choose huge reward.
BUT there is one exception - JB who took low risk but received huge reward. I call him - Lucky guy!  

Yeah.
Examples:
Little reward wife – Legal’s Olga. Huge reward wife – JB’s wife. Both women are clever, beautiful and so on. Both women love their husbands. BUT, if you compared possibilities of these women, what they can do for their husbands you would see why one of them is little reward and other is huge reward.

According to these statements I just can guess that some people - women and men make their relationship not on the basis of the spiritual demands but on the basis of reward - what, when and how much I can get from my partner.
If both partners have same thoughts about relationship I just wish them a "very very rewarding" life.

We both, LEGAL and I, build our loving relationship  and family happiness based  upon love and spiritual principles. I'm a happy women I thank God that He let us meet in this big World and my husband does not look at me like a reward but he look at me like a person!!!  

Olga.

[Elen]

OFF TOPIC

Just out of curiousuty

Why do you Legal and Olga use the same login Is not it easy to have a personal one for each of you? 

[LEGAL]

ELEN WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM? I AM SURE YOU CAN READ? FIND THE TOPIC WHERE WE HAVE ALREADY ANSWERED THIS QUESTION FOR PERSONS LIKE YOU.....................

LEGAL

[Elen]

ELEN WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM? I AM SURE YOU CAN READ? FIND THE TOPIC WHERE WE HAVE ALREADY ANSWERED THIS QUESTION FOR PERSONS LIKE YOU.....................

LEGAL

 My "problem" is that I could not guess there was such a topic and also my problem is that I counted at an answer at simple question.

So what's your problem with giving that answer instead of shouting such laudly ? 

[BC]

I'm gonna run for cover...

[LEGAL]

My "problem" is that I could not guess

I will try to explain (but I think it is  difficult for you to understand) - We are one family we are two parts of one heart  

PS You are second or maybe third person who ask about it.  

Olga  

Sorry, RWD

[Elen]

Yes You are right it's hard for me to understand why members of one family can't have such soimple individual thing like a nick name at internet board Using one in my eyes just  выпендрёж    acting on a public ( so to say)

[Bruce]

Legal, I can plainly see the problem for people, especially for those who are not native English speakers, is the difficulty understanding who wrote the Legal post ie.  is husband or wife?  If you are a native English speaker it is much easier to know if it is Olga or husband.  Why not make it easy for everybody and change your names to LegalH and LegalW?  That way everyone will know whom they are communicating with and your posts will command more respect.

[LEGAL]

Elen,
I think your problem is you try to show your personal negative attitude to our family in every one of your posts and   in the way you put poor comments  in the topics.

Mir and other members and viewers of RWD ,
Sorry please for  

We cannot tolerate Elena's comments any more.

Olga and LEGAL.

[LEGAL]

Legal, I can plainly see the problem for people, especially for those who are not native English speakers, is the difficulty understanding who wrote the Legal post ie.  is husband or wife?  If you are a native English speaker it is much easier to know if it is Olga or husband.  Why not make it easy for everybody and change your names to LegalH and LegalW?  That way everyone will know whom they are communicating with and your posts will command more respect.

Hi Bruce! I post as LEGAL and Olga post's as Olga. Most people understand this sorry for any confusion, I hope this clears this up.

If I can be of any further assistance please don't hesitate to contact me.

LEGAL

[Bruce]

Ah, my error.  Now I see where one can make a mistake.  If they do not read your whole post and look for the name at the bottom they can get mixed up, and that is their problem.  The reality is that one of you always signs the bottom of your posts.  Sorry.

[Elen]

Elen,
I think your problem is you try to show your personal negative attitude to our family in every one of your posts and   in the way you put poor comments  in the topics.

Mir and other members and viewers of RWD ,
Sorry please for 

We cannot tolerate Elena's comments any more.

Olga and LEGAL.

 No dear    I care little about your family and didn't mention anything about it at all. Sorry but not everything in this world is rolling over your personas It's exactly YOUR problem that you take almost each post such personaly ( I recall it's not for the first time that people say you they didn;t mean your personaly So relax and ignore me if you wish  I will survive that )

[LEGAL]

Ah, my error.  Now I see where one can make a mistake.  If they do not read your whole post and look for the name at the bottom they can get mixed up, and that is their problem.  The reality is that one of you always signs the bottom of your posts.  Sorry.

Thank you Bruce. Exactly my point some people do not read the entire post.


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[LEGAL]

Once again Elen you have derailed a good thread with your infantile behavior.


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[catzenmouse]

Just an observation. Take is as you will.

Many threads lately have spent more time focused on the person posting and much less time on the topic. I am as guilty of this as anyone in my recent dealings with a member here. As a whole we all get more out of it when we stick to the topic and keep our personalities out of it.

Ken

[Elen]

Once again Elen you have derailed a good thread with your infantile behavior.
LEGAL LEGAL LEGAL....

I admitted myself  my question was off topic If you just answered it there would be no need for you to go in that off topic so far  Also I offered you to ignore me instead of showing your short temper
Well as I got my answer I leave you in a peace You may continue to tell your tales here

[prince_alfie]

One of the posters has admitted that the main reason he went looking for a bride in the FSU was because he believed that he could find a woman much younger then himself (and much younger then he could get in his own country).
Perhaps that is the only reason for people to enter this quest?
Any comments?

Uh, no, that's hardly my reason for entering this quest honestly. I believed that I could find someone with more refined tastes than I have. You know, I just so pedestrian listening to the complete Cellar Door recordings of the Miles Davis Quintet every single nite

[LEGAL]

Ken I agree with you whole heartedly. I will never stand by and tolerate these types of comments. As Elen posts and I quote ''
No dear    I care little about your family and didn't mention anything about it at all'.  It is my experience if a person doesn't care why even post at all? I come here with I think over three years of experience , that I have received because of members like You, Jet,Dan, PhilD, and to many other members to list from  here and RMP. I may not agree with everyones opinions. I feel we are a family and I would do everything in my power to defend and help another member both here and in Russia. I see some people talk out of there popkas maybe it is a lack of life experience or education on exactly what it takes being involved with a Russian woman .
SORRY FOR  

LEGAL

[LEGAL]

I admitted myself  my question was off topic If you just answered it there would be no need for you to go in that off topic so far  Also I offered you to ignore me instead of showing your short temper
Well as I got my answer I leave you in a peace You may continue to tell your tales here

ELEN you most defiantly are like a spoiled little brat. You try to blame someone else for what you started. MAYBE if read more closely this topic again wouldn't have been derailed. Olga had asked me not to respond or give so much attention to your post. I don't tolerate things as easily as Olga. I feel what we all do here is very important and ultimately affects peoples lives.

LEGAL

[Elen]

Yes  you don't take things easy as I said you have too short temper  for sure Will you follow advices of your wife and ignore me 

[LEGAL]

Again Elen you haven't read properly I will never stand by and tolerate you BS. You comment about my temper not knowing me at all. Your comments speak volumes about you! 


LEGAL LEGAL

[William3rd]

Children please!!!!

This pointless bickering gets us nowhere. . . . .

While you both have good points to make, constantly bashing each other undermines your credibility and really hurts the good things that you have to say.

You keep this up and you will not be getting any graham crackers before naptime!!!!!

[LEGAL]

Willaim do I get milk with my grahm crackers. I do get your point we had a really good thread going.  It is fact and the evidence is before all of you. Sometimes I just cant sit idly by.

LEGAL LEGAL