So IT IS the youth (and the beauty)

[jj]

It seems like alot of posts seem to be hung up on the age issue instead of individual needs of 2 compatible people.  It is almost like those that have a 10 or 20 or more age difference should feel guilty.  I agree with those that post it is an individual thing for both the woman and the man.  My own opinion is that many (not all)FSU woman seem to more open and more mature for their age(and beauty).  There are those that no matter how successful the foreign man is,  they want someone more their age. Then there are those that look at the man for who he is and they are  comfortable with that.  Will he supply their emotional,physical, basic, financial needs and love them?  The same goes for the man. We all have needs, and if that opposite sex is compatible to fullfill those needs ,whether younger or older, in good and bad times, then age is not the primary concern for that couple. In other words, do you feel comfortable with each other?   Are you willing to deal with those who would judge your relationship because they have nothing better to do?  Or maybe they don't have a life, and can't motivate themselves to go for it.
What makes this board so great tho, is the diversity of comments, and we don't have to expect each one to agree.     I hope this stayed a little bit within the primary subject of the post.  jj

[Mir]

Prince

Can I ask what is the reason you believe you can find a woman with more refined taste in FSU c/w where you live?
Is this expectation based on your visits to FSU where you interacted with several young ladies?

[Makkin]

Hello,

  Age is an interesting way to descibe a person and the age does come into play for most people. Does the experience of the woman have a bearing in regards to age?

  When I was 20 my girlfriend was 41. When I was 29 my girlfriend was 18 and then my next girlfriend was 53. Of these three women the 18 year old was not the person who came onto me but rather I pursued her. The older women found me.

  The best experience of the three women listed was the 41 year old but we had an age difference of 21 years..lol

  I look for what is natural and also what feels right.

Makkin

 

[Mir]

jj

I am sorry if at times you feel that couples with large age gaps are being made guilty.I agree this is possible but not the intention.
The intention is to try and find out what makes successful WM-FSU women marriages?
How do the partners in such relationships think and is that any different from the thinking of those who failed?
What are the right reasons to look for a wife there (if there are any right reasons)?
Certainly there are lessons to learn for those who are corresponding with several women of different ages.

[Mir]

Makkin

Perhaps the 41 year old was your first experience and that is always special 

[Makkin]

Hello,

  She was not my first experience but she was a French woman who was keen on understanding me at such a young age. She had problems with her situations but she was indeed a woman of substance.

  My first experience was .....ermm...Much earlier...but all in natural ways.

Makkin

[mspanky]

Yeah.
Examples:
Little reward wife – Legal’s Olga. Huge reward wife – JB’s wife. Both women are clever, beautiful and so on. Both women love their husbands. BUT, if you compared possibilities of these women, what they can do for their husbands you would see why one of them is little reward and other is huge reward.

 If a young wife is huge rewards for a man,what = huge rewards for a beautiful young woman?

[jj]

Mir
I do not feel that way.  I just was commenting that some will run across people who would like for couples to feel that way.  Age is always a good subject , and there can be many good great input posts in reponse.  You asked a good question. jj

[Mir]

mspanky

A 99 year old husband with $100 million in the bank who dies on the wedding night leaving everything in her name 

[prince_alfie]

Prince

Can I ask what is the reason you believe you can find a woman with more refined taste in FSU c/w where you live?
Is this expectation based on your visits to FSU where you interacted with several young ladies?

Well, from personal experience but also it's looking at it from a probability stance. At least, I have a better shot at finding someone who isn't obsessed with the 42" plasma TV 

Again, not generalizing here but playing my cards with folded hands here.

[LEGAL]

  I look for what is natural and also what feels right.

Makkin

 

William Shakespeare said that we should live according to our age. Our age is our life  experience, feelings,  thoughts, attitude to ourself and to the World,  knowledge and  understanding of ourself - what we want to get in our life and what we can give in our life.

Olga

[Makkin]

Hello,

  Very much agree with that last post Olga.

Thanks,

Makkin

[joty]

vwrw i believe you owe olga an apolgy.  that comment was uncalled for olga i am sure is great rewards for her husband she seems like a a very classy lady.  Just because she is not 25+ years younger than her husband does not make her any less off a great catch for legal. 

[Mir]

Well after reading legals post about Olga she is a treasure, and her value is authenticated.

vrvw

What do you consider yourself for TG?

Big reward or small reward

[jb]

Just read some of this tripe...

My wife is a treasure to me, Olga is a treasure to Legal,,, There is no reward/risk ratio to discuss here.

I'm amazed this has come up...

[Kuna]

Olga,

Those who reads your posts and have to come to know your intelligence and insight know that Legal is a very lucky man... Insults like the one you've just had are disgraceful and totally unjustifiable!


vwrw, 

I should hope something was lost in translation because that comment would be a terrible indictment on your character.


Kuna wonders what causes women to be bitchy when they claim to be "sisters"...

[Erwin]

After reading posts on RWD I have conclusions - those men who are older 40 y.o. contemplate:
1.   Wife who is the same age = risk is low but reward is little also.
2.   Wife who is much younger = risk is high but reward is huge.
Some men (I call them “rescuers”) choose low risk.
Some men (I call them “businessmen”) choose huge reward.
BUT there is one exception - JB who took low risk but received huge reward. I call him - Lucky guy! 

Da stochte gavarish????

[funkola]

What does popka mean?

[catzenmouse]

What does popka mean?

Butt, @ss, etc.

[Turboguy]

Olga,

Those who reads your posts and have to come to know your intelligence and insight know that Legal is a very lucky man... Insults like the one you've just had are disgraceful and totally unjustifiable!

vwrw, 

I should hope something was lost in translation because that comment would be a terrible indictment on your character.

Kuna wonders what causes women to be bitchy when they claim to be "sisters"...

I don't think VWRW meant it as in insult or that anything she said reflects negatively on her.   I think she was talking in general principals. 

I am sure she knows that the person whose love we find rewarding can be of any age.  Finding the right person is important.  What ever their age or the age difference is a personal thing.

Some people seem to take objection to her use of the word "reward".  She was not talking in monetary terms.  If monetary "rewards" was what she was after she would not have picked me.   I am sure there were guys who were very rich who would have been quite happy to find her.   Substitute the word treasure or happiness and I think you will have more of the meaning she intended.   Actually don't most of us make a search just like you would for a treasure?   If you find the right person, isn't she a treasure to you and doesn't she make your life more rewarding? 

Is a younger woman more of  a reward in general terms than one closer to our age?   On first thought most would say no, yet if you look at the poll results larger age differences seem to be quite common  (Look how many votes there are for under 11 years difference). It seems to me the poll would tend to say that VWRW is right.   The cold, hard reality is that many men find a younger woman desirable.   VWRW just spoke the truth.  I think we all know RW tend to say things like they are.   That is all she did and if you think she was wrong in saying that then you are being a little naive.   That of course does not mean that those decisions are wise or that you can not find happiness with a woman closer to your age and I don't think she meant that at all.  It was not an insult for someone whose preferences are someone who is in a relationship with little age difference.   

Mir, I am sure VWRW considers herself a big reward for me and she is.  It has nothing to do with her age though.  I never find myself thinking about her age or the age difference.  I feel very comfortable with her and like we belong together.  I never get the feeling we are at different stages in our life and are age discussions are more related to the realities of it than the compatability issues of it. 

Joty, I agree with what you say totally except for the part about VWRW owing Olga an apology.  Her comment was not directed at Olga.  Her statement was not incorrect.  Olga and Legal are an exception just as I believe VWRW and I will be in another way.  I think we all look for the right person for us.   What that may be will be different for everyone. 

[LEGAL]

Tuboguy Please don't get me started ! I think we all can read. I would not have responded but you trying to justify what was said is BS and you both know it. I think both of your words speak volumes on you both. Maybe you need to refresh both of your memories on exactly what VWRW said.

Yeah.
Examples:
Little reward wife – Legal’s Olga. Huge reward wife – JB’s wife. Both women are clever, beautiful and so on. Both women love their husbands. BUT, if you compared possibilities of these women, what they can do for their husbands you would see why one of them is little reward and other is huge reward.


LEGAL

[Turboguy]

There is enough flaming going on in some of these posts already with a fair share of it involving you,  that I would just as soon not get you started in another flame war.  Think what you want.   

I am sure you two have a wonderful relationship and are a reward and treasure for each other.  You two sound like you really compliment each other well and have found the perfect person for each other.  That is the important thing and it is more than many will ever achieve.   I am sure both VWRW and I wish you nothing but a lifetime of happiness.

[LEGAL]

I have no problem dealing with the truth. Think of what I want? Think of what you both have said. I think you both underestimate me! I find it very interesting you try to diffuse this subject after you both have started it.

I love Olga very much more than you will ever know

LEGAL

[Turboguy]

Legal,

Personally I don't see any benefit to flame wars and personal attacks.  I have no interest in starting one with you and I have no doubts that you love Olga very much and that she loves you very much and the real bonus is that you not only have a good relationship but your lives blend well together in your business which is great.  I don't understand why you think I underestimate you or what you meant by that.  I think you are very intelligent and as far as I can tell very successful and that you have a terrific relationship with Olga.  I like that you both post here.  I think it is interesting to get both side of things and to get both viewpoints and unlike someones comment earlier I have no difficulty understanding which of you is posting.

I posted because I thought people were misunderstanding what VWRW was saying.   Her English is amazing to me in that she just started to learn it a couple of years ago and is self taught.   Some seemed to feel that she was talking in terms of money which she certainly was not.  As far as her statement about younger women being more of a reward, I think she is not the only one that feels that way but I think it is something like the statement that RW are family oriented.  For the most part it is true but it is not an absolute truth.   One way or the other I don't think she meant anything negative towards you or the fact that Olga is your reward or treasure.  I don't want to repeat again what I said before but if someone wants to take offence to what she said or what I said that is their choice but I just don't like to see it blown into something that it should not be and don't want it to erupt into something that benefits no one.   

It is very obvious that you love Olga and I feel the same about VWRW.  I am a very lucky guy, just as you are.

[LEGAL]

Turboguy,

I really appreciate your post. It is very nice when you, man, try to protect your woman and find a justification for her improper action and awkward situation. You act like true friend and man.
I'm sure VWRW appreciates your deed.

I wish you and VWRW a lifetime of happiness

Olga.