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Offline CobraVmax

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Re: A newbie's journey
« Reply #25 on: April 08, 2007, 06:50:52 PM »
Hi Guys..
a little update as I haven't had much time to spend on the board for a while..

Miss A and I continue to talk and email every day and things seem to be going very well.
I told her that I might visit as you advised... her response?  "Why didn't you just surprise me!"
Well.. we can't get everything right! :)

My business affairs have prevented me from going to St Pete for a while but we still intend to meet in Portugal in June and I will visit St Pete when possible. Miss A again insists on financing her own flights..

I saw a comment in one of the other threads about something I had said in my story... about being in love before we met.
Perhaps this may have been a foolhardy statement.. Although Miss A says she felt the same..
Think of it this way... we have probably communicated 100 times more than the average couple who met in a bar or club..
Assuming that we have been honest with each other, I know I have been and believe she has been too, then we probably know more about each other than most engaged couples.
And no.. we are not engaged :)
How do you fall in love?... dunno... but finding out the other person's attitudes, interests  and feelings... goes a long way.
I have now known Miss A since mid December.. a little less than four months.. Is it love? Infatuation? Holiday romance?
The jury is still out :)
I do know that I seem to have found a girl who has the same attitudes to love & life that I have..

Keep the faith  :)

Cobra










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Re: A newbie's journey
« Reply #26 on: April 08, 2007, 10:15:49 PM »
Dear Cobra  ( ....strange name for a 46 y.o. guy , why not Python:P)


welcome:)  cookies are ready , tea is waiting becoming cold already.......:)))))


Reading your story I found like 2 things which I felt not comfortable with:

This .........


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       My flight to Paris Charles De Gaul airport took was uneventful except that I was sat next to a very large woman, in her thirties, who did not seem to understand the concept of 
anti-perspirant deodorant. No wedding ring on her finger... not surprised really...
And English women sometimes question why we guys go on our search for FSU women
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      Was this because I am 16yrs older than Miss A or maybe the Russian guys she had known were no good in bed? - I didn't push the question but I will ask her to explain when she feels ready.        

These are your mistakes to ever think like that , one should never humiliate the women of his  own country and  plus the guys of other nation whom he never knew at all.....

About love before meeting, as being hopeless romantic person I can understand that and can feel why people are obsessed with those dreams and illusions for me it is normal but I know it is not right to love someone before meeting , someone said in the other topic that  we maybe  are mistaken calling it love, cos there are the other words for this feeling, some warm , kind great feeling towards the person I think it is a real big affection or a great will to Love it is like the first step before jumping into love

It is very nice to hear that your meeting went well and romantic and so wonderful , you were lucky.... I am sure if you had such a virtual great friendship connection it should lead to something quite more serious, though sometimes it happens other way around and  all these illusions and will to love disappear with time when we get to know more the person , I am sure and I hope that wont happen in your case:)

and can I ask you a question for my personal research why the woman who is 16 years old younger ? why not the woman of your age, close to your age like 41-44 for example?
Why is that so tempting and attractive to have young person as one's partner?

Most of the guys claim here-" Oh I never searched in particularly for a younger girl it  just happend so that she met my requirements and was so extremely understanding and not annoying as the other women  it is just she is my fate , but I never actually searched for a young woman , I swear........."

Never makes sense to me anymore , i can hardly believe such guys who say the above words as an example I cited to you.......

Just am interested in this  thing, I actually already know what will you answer, something , approximately the same but in the other words....

Anyway I am sure things should be nice and good with your lady and maybe you will be brave and surprise her in her hometown :))) and then maybe a wedding would come along:)



« Last Edit: April 08, 2007, 10:17:37 PM by Jazzyclassy »

Offline CobraVmax

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Re: A newbie's journey
« Reply #27 on: April 13, 2007, 06:02:51 AM »
Jazzy
Cobra is a nickname I have had for over 20yrs! it kind of stuck a long time ago :)

I am perhaps more honest than the previous guys who you asked the age question to.. :)
I had every intention to find a lady quite a lot younger than me!
It was not a mistake.. or Just happened really :)
Ok... I´m 46yrs.. most people tell me I look 36yrs.. and I FEEL that I´m in my 30´s
I´m fit, active and have an attitude the same as I was when I was 30yrs.
Why would I want someone in their 40´s when perhaps they feel in their 40´s.
I must admit that I would be happy to be with someone around 40 if they still had young attitudes.. I just have never come across this
I´m not out to upset anyone or cause anyone to feel uncomfortable.. this is just the answer to your question and my personal opinion.


Cobra


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Re: A newbie's journey
« Reply #28 on: April 13, 2007, 06:25:38 AM »
Dear Cobra  (These are your mistakes to ever think like that , one should never humiliate the women of his  own country and  plus the guys of other nation whom he never knew at all.....

Sincerely I don't think this is humiliating to the women. In my country is happening the same...we have been adopting the American way of living based in Coke, Burgers and no exercise ???

Women in their thirties goes goes to the same Gym as I and just look to us running on the treadmill and think...how is possible those thirty something year old guys are in so good shape?

Well because you are not sited in front of the TV watching stupid soap opera shows 8)

Why is difficult to accept that a guy wants a good looking and feminine lady with good character and personality?

Because only a good personality is not enough :P

 

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