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In search for a woman.
« on: March 28, 2007, 01:17:33 PM »
I was writing letters to a woman on anastasiaweb and we talked for a long time.
But she had to move to take care of her grandmother.
I have her address in Nikolaev but i wonder if there is a way to find her???

I have a photo to if it helps.
Please help me find this girl.

Here name:
Ekaterina Bondar
Nikolaev.
If someone can help me i can pm the address.

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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #1 on: March 28, 2007, 02:29:08 PM »
Sort,

She will contact you when (and if) it is time.

I would think you gave her your contact info so it's up to her.

Till then take it easy...

Sounds like you are a bit obsessed..

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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #2 on: March 28, 2007, 03:45:43 PM »
Post  some  photos of her .
Maybe we can help

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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #3 on: March 28, 2007, 04:01:32 PM »
Sort, glad to meet you! I have to agree with BC....you are coming across as a little strong ;) I am not you, nor will I ever be! I do not know where you have been or where you are going? I can only tell you that....some people come across as a little bit harsh.... for you to get along with women from the FSU, you may want to leave out demands for your future? and chill a little and if you are genuine in your search? then you will find in time, that respect for the opposite sex....can gain you the same respect as you desire? Untill then....if a woman is not bowing at your knee's....maybe you are searching in the wrong country? For FSU Women will go to the end....making sure that your life is ....well not a happy memory.....if you have no respect!!!

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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #4 on: March 28, 2007, 04:21:18 PM »
Sort,

I believe a man pays AnastasiaWeb (AW) something for each letter.  If that is the case and considering AW's reputation, it is possible that the AW staff fabricated letters and the woman never knew you wrote her.   And as you came closer to demanding a meeting (sounds like you had the hots for this woman), the staff had to make this woman disappear.

I hope this did not happen; however, if you are not corresponding directly with a woman, you have no guarantee as to whom you are writing.  It is important to obtain a woman's mailing address, email addy, and telephone number.

If you feel this woman is sincere, you can speak to reputable agencies with an office in Nikolaev and ask them if they can find anything for you using their contacts, telephone directories, etc.  One such agency is Kherson Girls.

Based on this and your other thread, you need to read the archives here and the 10 Commandments (look upper left under main menu).

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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #5 on: March 28, 2007, 04:22:05 PM »
Googling for "Ekaterina Bondar" turned up a couple of good-looking references, including a model ;):
http://www.tvr.by/eng/miss2006i.asp
http://www.topmodelsagency.org/index.php?runpage=view&id=2222&lang_name=ENG

And a document whose title you might understand (I don't):
Eesti meistrivőistlused (www.vehklemisliit.ee/voistlused/KI_naised_2006.doc -)
Milan's "Duomo"

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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #6 on: March 28, 2007, 04:47:10 PM »
Sort,

I agree with all of the comments above and unfortuantely Gator might be closest to the truth.

If this woman had a high degree of interest she will find a way to contact you.

Kuna


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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #7 on: March 28, 2007, 06:06:03 PM »

I was writing letters to a woman on anastasiaweb and we talked for a long time.


Sort, What do you mean by talked with her a long time? On the phone and for how long? She might have thought you are not serious waiting so long and if she valued your friendship, she would give you the number to her grandmother's home or find another way for you to stay in contact. Good luck on the next one. Finding love doesn't have to be this challenging.

AnastasiaWeb has one of the worst reputations in the industry. You may not know if you're writing to the woman in the photo or Igor, the employee of the month. Did you say something different right before "she" had to go away forever to take care of her grandmother such as if you mentioned you wanted to visit her soon?
Fund the audits, spread the word and educate people, write your politicians and other elected officials. Stay active in the fight to save our country. Over 220 generals and admirals say we are in a fight for our survival like no other time since 1776.

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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #8 on: March 29, 2007, 12:33:04 PM »
Hey all.
I'm sorry if i seem obsessed but the idea just came up yesterday when i was reading the  forum.


I was away on work when she wrote me that she had to move.
I did get her address and sent a postcard from Odessa when i was down there.
Her mother died and she had to go and help her grandmother but thats the last i know from this girl.
I'll add a photo in this post.
She deleted her profile on anastasiaweb before i got home and was able to send a reply to her.
I wish that i had called her but i didn't have the time.
A new misstake to learn from...he he
I have goggled here name to and didn't find any.
Therefore i thought you could help me...


I haven't been home for a few weeks and don't know if i have a postcard from here or not.
If there is there is, if not.....

I relay do appreciate this board and will search and read all the stuff when i get back home to Sweden over eastern.
I work in Oslo in Norway as a sheet metal worker.

It's very interesting things i have read so far and will read all i can when i have some free time.



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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #9 on: March 29, 2007, 12:39:25 PM »
Don't get anxious on the postcard, it takes up to 6 weeks for a letter to get anywhere in this part of the world, & sometimes longer. You can also try Dema at Russian Scam Check, they might be able to track her down. He has contacts everywhere over here.
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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #10 on: March 29, 2007, 01:10:25 PM »
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Rw's who experience a tragic family loss need a long time to recover, as would any one else. And you are nothing more, sorry to say, then a penpal of sorts at this point in time. If this is true, she would want to be with friends and family. When she is ready, and wants to see you again, she will reappear. But do not hold your breath. Also, I have been through this twice. Once for real, and it meant the end of a relationship and once more which was a total scam. She she has not asked for money, you are safe on that score. But as others have poionted out, AWeb is a bad site and who knows who you were actually talking to. Also, a woman as beautiful as her, may have more than one admirer and this was her way of moving on.

Did one of the links posted by Sandro say she was in Belarus, or did I misread that?
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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #11 on: March 29, 2007, 01:22:00 PM »
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Rw's who experience a tragic family loss need a long time to recover, as would any one else. And you are nothing more, sorry to say, then a penpal of sorts at this point in time. If this is true, she would want to be with friends and family. When she is ready, and wants to see you again, she will reappear.
DANG am I stupid!!!
I should have remembered that as I went through it when my wife & I first met & her Dad passed away. She disappeared without so much as a by your leave. I finally got a message telling me what happened & she turned up back in my life 3 months later.
I can't believe I forgot that, sheeesh, must be K.R.A.F.T.desease!!!! ;)
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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #12 on: March 29, 2007, 02:10:06 PM »
Yeah i know that i'm just a pen pal.
If she get the postcard and send one in reply it's a good thing.

She never asked for anything other then for me to write letters.
And as far as Anastasiaweb goes i will not return to that site again.

I am on 2 sites now.
Rbrides and Army of brides.
I know that they are well known for scams but the only reason i got on AOB is the fact that you can get an address to the woman you are writing to.
On Rbrides i write emails to one girl and i get them to my usual email and don't have to visit the site.
I sent one postcard to a girl in Kiev last week.
When she gets it i hope to get a sms from here.
I rather pay my phone company then a site on the internet.

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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #13 on: March 29, 2007, 03:52:31 PM »
You need to get hooked up with  http://www.elenasmodels.com/
There are more positive  things stated about them than any other site .
That is where I met my Valeri .
Many here met their lady at http://www.elenasmodels.com/

Good Luck

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Re: In search for a woman.
« Reply #14 on: March 30, 2007, 07:14:32 AM »
Don't get anxious on the postcard, it takes up to 6 weeks for a letter to get anywhere in this part of the world, & sometimes longer. You can also try Dema at Russian Scam Check, they might be able to track her down. He has contacts everywhere over here.

I think i will have a go with that m8.
gonna have a look at it when I'm home next week.
Thanx for the tip...... :clapping:

 

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