Pretty Woman
Hopefully, you would not mind me using the title, "Pretty Woman" as a lead into my personal preferences regarding women.
My Pretty Woman is a Real Person...
Being pretty begins in the heart and works its way out. There is much to be said about character, integrity, and being a real person. If I were to prioritise those characteristics that would be most important to me, this one would be at the top of the list.
My Pretty Woman is Genuine...
Rather than telling a man what one might think he wants to hear, being truthful is much more important. I firmly believe that the reason most new relationships do not survive the first three months is because someone was not honest from the very beginning.
Truth has a way of working itself to the surface no matter what we do to keep it submerged.
My Pretty Woman is Attractive & Feminine...
No woman will ever change the fact that men are visual creatures. It simply will never happen. However, men are varied in their preferences regarding whatever mental image they have of a visually attractive female.
As for me, I prefer women who enjoy their femininity. A lady who enjoys dressing up in a nice dress to go out for dinner but can just as easily throw on a pair of jeans for a day at the seaside or an amusement park will get my attention every time.
My Pretty Woman is a Communicator...
Any marriage counselor will tell you that one of the main reasons why couples break up is their inability to communicate well with each other. Regardless of whether or not a conversation might be about shared personal issues, what's happening at work, mutual interests, or the state of world affairs, couples need to find time to talk with each other.
If that means sitting down to cuddle on the sofa and just sharing whatever is on our mind, then so be it. It's called "communication" and it is indeed the glue that keeps the "relate" in relationships.
My Pretty Woman Enjoys Intimacy...
Am I supposed to play down the fact that I am a sexual being?
I fully realise that anyone can have sex but true intimacy is the shared experience of two people who genuinely care about each other. One night stands are acceptable in certain circumstances but not as a norm.
"Romance is all the little kisses in between."
My Pretty Woman Walks With Me...
With half of our generation's marriages ending up in divorce, as did mine, it becomes essential for two people to grasp tightly onto each other's hand and never let go.
Working through each day knowing that her greatest joy is to find me afterwards to continue our walk together is my idea of a Pretty Woman.
So what is your preference?
